There is a boy in our school who has no friends and everyone thinks he is a jerk. He has always tormented me and my two best friends, and we are absolutely sick of this crap from him! The other girl I know (mentioned in post "How to Deal with a Bigot") and this boy are the only people who ever bother me and my friends.

Today, at recess, my friends Scott, Josh, and I were at recess, minding our own business, and this boy Dan came up to us and said "The three of you took turns having sex with each other last night. You all win gay and sex awards!":o Scott said he would tell on Dan, so Dan punched Scott in the stomach. We reported to a teacher, and the three of us had to talk to the counselor. He has lost recess for a long time and will get a big punishment.

Why do some miserable people take out their anger on others who are well liked people? It is an outrage. From now on we will try harder to ignore him. People like that aren't worth existing. :lol:

So Dan says something mean to Scott and Scott threatens to go and cry to an adult about it? Then Dan punches Scott and the three of you proceed to go and tell a teacher. How old are you, five? I can't believe you went and cried to a teacher about it. Tattle much?

Congratulations, you're a nark.

Scott should be careful now because Dan may be after him for being a little nark and he may be after you and that other kid as well. If someone narked on me I would kick their ass. Because that's what happens to narks: They get their asses beat.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
So Dan says something mean to Scott and Scott threatens to go and cry to an adult about it? Then Dan punches Scott and the three of you proceed to go and tell a teacher. How old are you, five? I can't believe you went and cried to a teacher about it. Tattle much?

Congratulations, you're a nark.

Scott should be careful now because Dan may be after him for being a little nark and he may be after you and that other kid as well. If someone narked on me I would kick their ass. Because that's what happens to narks: They get their asses beat.

:rolleyes: you should be so proud. I think he did the right thing.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Why do some miserable people take out their anger on others
You just answered your own question. They are miserable with themselves and their lives, so they take their anger out on others.

You can find this behavior in all walks of life -- at school, in the workplace, on the road, in public places such as restaurants or stores....the nasty clerk or customer ahead of you in line. These types go home and boot the dog and scream at their spouse.

It's found on the internet too. People have issues which make them miserable and bitter, so they turn into bully machines, picking apart everything people say, swearing like they have Tourette's Syndrome...being combative and disagreeable at every turn. It's even worse on the web because these types feel real tough from the safety of their keyboards.

The ironic thing is, the decent people know who the mean ones are, and either laugh at them or feel sorry for them. Everyone knows the deal with bullies.

As for bully Dan, of course you did the right thing. What was the alternative? Continue taking his verbal tormenting and violent behavior? Fight back...with the possibility of someone getting hurt?

Dan doesn't seem like the type of person who responds to reason, so let the school deal with him. You say he has no friends. Now there's a shocker, lol, so I wouldn't worry about retaliation.

It sounds as if Dan needs a team of psychiatrists to help him determine why he feels so inadequate, which causes him to inflict pain (both emotional and physical) on others in order to make himself feel superior.

I actually pity these type of people. It's tough enough having to deal with them....even tougher, I would think, actually being them.

are you all in 2nd grade or something?

Why do some miserable people take out their anger on others who are well liked people?

You'll find though that quite a lot of the time- it's the opposite, where well liked people root out the miserable, and 'kick 'em while they're down' so to speak.

nm

Oh my gosh! Kids sure are different than when I was a kid in the 50's!omg:



Holy Moly!:lol:

Originally posted by Penny Lane
Oh my gosh! Kids sure are different than when I was a kid in the 50's!omg:

Yeah...But we dont have The Fonz To Help us Out Like Your Generation Did. :rolleyes: :lol:

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Yeah...But we dont have The Fonz To Help us Out Like Your Generation Did. :rolleyes: :lol:

:lol:

Originally posted by Sourbabie
So Dan says something mean to Scott and Scott threatens to go and cry to an adult about it? Then Dan punches Scott and the three of you proceed to go and tell a teacher. How old are you, five? I can't believe you went and cried to a teacher about it. Tattle much?

Congratulations, you're a nark.

Scott should be careful now because Dan may be after him for being a little nark and he may be after you and that other kid as well. If someone narked on me I would kick their ass. Because that's what happens to narks: They get their asses beat.

nevermind

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
:rolleyes: Pathetic! Now may I ask you, Sourbabie, what you would do in our place? Two wrongs won't make a right. You should know that by now!
it's her damn opinion.

how old are you

Originally posted by safety pin
it's her damn opinion.

who the hell ask you to defend everyone?

I think we did the right thing! He can't go through life mistreating people and unless he stops now, he will be bad news! MandieR1980, you are right.

Originally posted by MandieR1980
who the hell ask you to defend everyone?
i don't need my thoughts or comments to be requested, like you apparently think. :rolleyes: you're probably just stilled pissed off about that stupid M&M thread.

hey, who asked you to ask me why i'm defending someone?:confused:

Because you are apparently defending what is wrong.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Because you are apparently defending what is wrong.
... I didn't ask anything regarding that.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Because you are apparently defending what is wrong.

it's not just that I wouldn't want someone else defending me I can defend myself like I'm sure everyone else does.

Originally posted by MandieR1980
it's not just that I wouldn't want someone else defending me I can defend myself like I'm sure everyone else does.
It's none of your goddamn business if i defend someone so don't snap at me when i do. Mo has defended me before and i have every right to defend her.

I'm sorry if this thread caused a fight. I didn't mean it in that way.:(

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
I'm sorry if this thread caused a fight. I didn't mean it in that way.:(

don't be, her ignorance will cause a fight no matter what thread it's on.

She is defending someone who is wrong, that is my problem. She is failing to see what is really going on here. I don't care what they call me or my friends, I'll always know who did the right thing.

Originally posted by MandieR1980
don't be, her ignorance will cause a fight no matter what thread it's on.
Oh, shut up! I'm not causing fights, YOU are. Am i the one going to other threads and talking **** about you? No. Am i the one going off at you for something that is none of my business what-so-ever? No. YOU ARE. AND THAT STARTS FIGHTS.

Originally posted by safety pin
Oh shut up you wench! I'm not causing fights, YOU are. Am i the one going to other threads and talking **** about you? No. YOU ARE. AND THAT STARTS FIGHTS.

You are the one acting 5 years old!

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
You are the one acting 5 years old!
This is between me and her, don't try to get into it.

Originally posted by safety pin
This is between me and her, don't try to get into it.

that sounds funny coming from someone who's just been doing the same thing to everyone else.

I'll stay out of it

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
I'll stay out of it

Why should you? This was your thread she's the one who ruined it for you with her insulting comments.

Stop fighting please.

Originally posted by MandieR1980
Why should you? This was your thread she's the one who ruined it for you with her insulting comments.

You're right. Why should I let her control me?

Originally posted by MandieR1980
that sounds funny coming from someone who's just been doing the same thing to everyone else.
I stated that something was her opinion. i wasn't trying to get involved in a conflict between 2 people.


I'll stay out of it

Thanks.

Originally posted by MandieR1980
Why should you? This was your thread she's the one who ruined it for you with her insulting comments.
YOU STARTED THIS. YOU WENT OFF AT ME FOR SOMETHING THAT WAS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, AND YOU HAVE YET TO ADMIT THAT.

Originally posted by safety pin
YOU STARTED THIS. YOU WENT OFF AT ME FOR SOMETHING THAT WAS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

I went off on you because of this comment which was totally uncalled for.


Originally posted by safety pin
are you all in 2nd grade or something?

Stop fighting and get back on topic or I'll lock this thread.

I went off on you because of this comment which was totally uncalled for.
Hahahahaaaaaaaa, don't try that. You didn't even reply to that post. You replied to mine in where i stated that it was her opinion, so don't try to change the story.

Originally posted by Janice
Stop fighting and get back on topic or I'll lock this thread.
ahh ok i'll try to stop.

Sorry Janice

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
There is a boy in our school who has no friends and everyone thinks he is a jerk. He has always tormented me and my two best friends, and we are absolutely sick of this crap from him! The other girl I know (mentioned in post "How to Deal with a Bigot") and this boy are the only people who ever bother me and my friends.

Today, at recess, my friends Scott, Josh, and I were at recess, minding our own business, and this boy Dan came up to us and said "The three of you took turns having sex with each other last night. You all win gay and sex awards!":o Scott said he would tell on Dan, so Dan punched Scott in the stomach. We reported to a teacher, and the three of us had to talk to the counselor. He has lost recess for a long time and will get a big punishment.

Why do some miserable people take out their anger on others who are well liked people? It is an outrage. From now on we will try harder to ignore him. People like that aren't worth existing. :lol:

What a lovely lad that Dan is. :rolleyes:

One reason kids are like that: Bad Parenting. Second: Other stupid kids.

His mother is totally oblivious to the way Dan mistreats people. She thinks he is a perfect little angel. The good thing is that Scott, Josh, and I helped each other to get out of the mess and give Dan what he deserves, serious punishment. He lost recess priviledges for a week.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
So Dan says something mean to Scott and Scott threatens to go and cry to an adult about it? Then Dan punches Scott and the three of you proceed to go and tell a teacher. How old are you, five? I can't believe you went and cried to a teacher about it. Tattle much?

Congratulations, you're a nark.

Scott should be careful now because Dan may be after him for being a little nark and he may be after you and that other kid as well. If someone narked on me I would kick their ass. Because that's what happens to narks: They get their asses beat.

AMEN!!!!!! :notworthy

Originally posted by BeaverFan5

Why do some miserable people take out their anger on others

Probably because they hate their own lives so much, they have to bring everyone else around them down. I think the best thing to do is to try and not let them get you down. Show them that just because they are miserable doesn't mean other people have to be.

i think you did the right thing. just because you told does not mean you are a nark. i would have done the same thing, because fighting does not solve anything it only causes trouble and there is no point in getting in trouble for something you didn't start.

i think people who are angry and misreable take their anger out on others is because they are not happy with themselves and the are jelious of the person they are bullying.

you did the right thing. :)

:rofl: I'm sorry but this story is funny.
Dan needs a spanking.:whip

Originally posted by x Rogue x
i think you did the right thing. just because you told does not mean you are a nark. i would have done the same thing, because fighting does not solve anything it only causes trouble and there is no point in getting in trouble for something you didn't start.

i think people who are angry and misreable take their anger out on others is because they are not happy with themselves and the are jelious of the person they are bullying.

you did the right thing. :)

I agree. :nod:

Originally posted by julian bozo
:rofl: I'm sorry but this story is funny.
Dan needs a spanking.:whip

I agree with you there. But Dan also needs some serious help. The sad part is that the only person who can choose to change Dan is Dan and he doesn't sound like he wants to change.

I can't believe some of you people are saying he did the right thing.

Your friend Scott is an idiot. When he told Dan that he was going to tell on him, that first punch was a warning which let Scott know what happens to narks. But no, Scott didn't realize that and he went and told anyway. He dug his own grave. How stupid is that kid? He should've known better than to tell. The first punch is a warning. If you don't pay attention to it, what happens after that is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Little Scott needs to learn a lesson, and that lesson is what happens to little rats... snitches.

Some of you people who are saying that he did the right thing obviously don't know how lame and stupid and babyish narking is and how much trouble it can cause. Jimmy comes home from school, crying because that mean old Bobby stole his pencil again and kicked him. Mommy says, "Oh don't worry, hunny. Next time he hurts you you need to tell the teacher. If you tell an authority figure than Bobby will be punished and he will learn his lesson and never do anything bad to you again." Yeah, well Mommy is a dumbass. Nine times out of ten, when you snitch on someone for being mean to you, they are going to be pissed off that you went and cried like a three year old and they're going to lay the smackdown on your bitch ass for narking.

People, take my advice. If someone is hassling you, FIGHT BACK. It can be five knuckles or five fingers. If you punch them, make sure you get them in the mouth or the nose so they bleed. If you slap them, do it open-handedly because it stings very badly and leaves a mark. Or if you don't want to use your body as a weapon, get an object. Wooden baseball bats work. So do various sharp objects, such as pencils and envelope openers. Don't listen to people who whine, "Waaah! Violence doesn't solve anything." Yes it does. Causing someone pain and making them bleed will make them think twice the next they decide to hassle you... that is, if they even have the courage to do it again. Lay your ground. Smack that bitch down and say, "Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass." Don't be a coward. Don't just stand there and take it. Now, don't hurt them too badly. The injury must be minor. A bloody nose or lip, a black eye, a swollen cheek... all small injuries that can heal. There is no need to beat someone half to death, but you do have to cause a little bit of pain.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
I can't believe some of you people are saying he did the right thing.

Your friend Scott is an idiot. When he told Dan that he was going to tell on him, that first punch was a warning which let Scott know what happens to narks. But no, Scott didn't realize that and he went and told anyway. He dug his own grave. How stupid is that kid? He should've known better than to tell. The first punch is a warning. If you don't pay attention to it, what happens after that is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Little Scott needs to learn a lesson, and that lesson is what happens to little rats... snitches.

Some of you people who are saying that he did the right thing obviously don't know how lame and stupid and babyish narking is and how much trouble it can cause. Jimmy comes home from school, crying because that mean old Bobby stole his pencil again and kicked him. Mommy says, "Oh don't worry, hunny. Next time he hurts you you need to tell the teacher. If you tell an authority figure than Bobby will be punished and he will learn his lesson and never do anything bad to you again." Yeah, well Mommy is a dumbass. Nine times out of ten, when you snitch on someone for being mean to you, they are going to be pissed off that you went and cried like a three year old and they're going to lay the smackdown on your bitch ass for narking.

People, take my advice. If someone is hassling you, FIGHT BACK. It can be five knuckles or five fingers. If you punch them, make sure you get them in the mouth or the nose so they bleed. If you slap them, do it open-handedly because it stings very badly and leaves a mark. Or if you don't want to use your body as a weapon, get an object. Wooden baseball bats work. So do various sharp objects, such as pencils and envelope openers. Don't listen to people who whine, "Waaah! Violence doesn't solve anything." Yes it does. Causing someone pain and making them bleed will make them think twice the next they decide to hassle you... that is, if they even have the courage to do it again. Lay your ground. Smack that bitch down and say, "Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass." Don't be a coward. Don't just stand there and take it. Now, don't hurt them too badly. The injury must be minor. A bloody nose or lip, a black eye, a swollen cheek... all small injuries that can heal. There is no need to beat someone half to death, but you do have to cause a little bit of pain.

You must be bully yourself cuz you sound ridiculous! I hope you don't go raising your children like that because they will be bullies too.

Originally posted by MandieR1980
You must be bully yourself cuz you sound ridiculous! I hope you don't go raising your children like that because they will be bullies too.
No, I am not a bully. Why does my saying that a person should defend themself against a bully make me sound "ridiculous"? And I'm not having children, but if I did, I would teach them to defend themselves. They wouldn't grow up to be bullies. They grow up to know how to protect themselves FROM bullies.

Sorry to hear that you're being harrassed by this jerk.
Bullies suck. You did the right thing.

There's too much violence in the world today,
why add to it. ohno:

Originally posted by Sourbabie
I can't believe some of you people are saying he did the right thing.

Your friend Scott is an idiot. When he told Dan that he was going to tell on him, that first punch was a warning which let Scott know what happens to narks. But no, Scott didn't realize that and he went and told anyway. He dug his own grave. How stupid is that kid? He should've known better than to tell. The first punch is a warning. If you don't pay attention to it, what happens after that is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Little Scott needs to learn a lesson, and that lesson is what happens to little rats... snitches.

Some of you people who are saying that he did the right thing obviously don't know how lame and stupid and babyish narking is and how much trouble it can cause. Jimmy comes home from school, crying because that mean old Bobby stole his pencil again and kicked him. Mommy says, "Oh don't worry, hunny. Next time he hurts you you need to tell the teacher. If you tell an authority figure than Bobby will be punished and he will learn his lesson and never do anything bad to you again." Yeah, well Mommy is a dumbass. Nine times out of ten, when you snitch on someone for being mean to you, they are going to be pissed off that you went and cried like a three year old and they're going to lay the smackdown on your bitch ass for narking.

People, take my advice. If someone is hassling you, FIGHT BACK. It can be five knuckles or five fingers. If you punch them, make sure you get them in the mouth or the nose so they bleed. If you slap them, do it open-handedly because it stings very badly and leaves a mark. Or if you don't want to use your body as a weapon, get an object. Wooden baseball bats work. So do various sharp objects, such as pencils and envelope openers. Don't listen to people who whine, "Waaah! Violence doesn't solve anything." Yes it does. Causing someone pain and making them bleed will make them think twice the next they decide to hassle you... that is, if they even have the courage to do it again. Lay your ground. Smack that bitch down and say, "Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass." Don't be a coward. Don't just stand there and take it. Now, don't hurt them too badly. The injury must be minor. A bloody nose or lip, a black eye, a swollen cheek... all small injuries that can heal. There is no need to beat someone half to death, but you do have to cause a little bit of pain.

thats why this world sucks, because of people like you. this is why we have so many wars because what you are saying is it's okay to fight. you're saying instead of telling you should kill or be killed. and violence does not solve anything, it only cause more violence. this world was created to be perfect, but because people like you think fighting is okay, it's not.

sorry, but thats how i feel.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
I can't believe some of you people are saying he did the right thing.

Your friend Scott is an idiot. When he told Dan that he was going to tell on him, that first punch was a warning which let Scott know what happens to narks. But no, Scott didn't realize that and he went and told anyway. He dug his own grave. How stupid is that kid? He should've known better than to tell. The first punch is a warning. If you don't pay attention to it, what happens after that is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Little Scott needs to learn a lesson, and that lesson is what happens to little rats... snitches.

Some of you people who are saying that he did the right thing obviously don't know how lame and stupid and babyish narking is and how much trouble it can cause. Jimmy comes home from school, crying because that mean old Bobby stole his pencil again and kicked him. Mommy says, "Oh don't worry, hunny. Next time he hurts you you need to tell the teacher. If you tell an authority figure than Bobby will be punished and he will learn his lesson and never do anything bad to you again." Yeah, well Mommy is a dumbass. Nine times out of ten, when you snitch on someone for being mean to you, they are going to be pissed off that you went and cried like a three year old and they're going to lay the smackdown on your bitch ass for narking.

People, take my advice. If someone is hassling you, FIGHT BACK. It can be five knuckles or five fingers. If you punch them, make sure you get them in the mouth or the nose so they bleed. If you slap them, do it open-handedly because it stings very badly and leaves a mark. Or if you don't want to use your body as a weapon, get an object. Wooden baseball bats work. So do various sharp objects, such as pencils and envelope openers. Don't listen to people who whine, "Waaah! Violence doesn't solve anything." Yes it does. Causing someone pain and making them bleed will make them think twice the next they decide to hassle you... that is, if they even have the courage to do it again. Lay your ground. Smack that bitch down and say, "Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass." Don't be a coward. Don't just stand there and take it. Now, don't hurt them too badly. The injury must be minor. A bloody nose or lip, a black eye, a swollen cheek... all small injuries that can heal. There is no need to beat someone half to death, but you do have to cause a little bit of pain.

Holy **** :rotflmao: *backs away*

Originally posted by Sourbabie
I can't believe some of you people are saying he did the right thing.

Your friend Scott is an idiot. When he told Dan that he was going to tell on him, that first punch was a warning which let Scott know what happens to narks. But no, Scott didn't realize that and he went and told anyway. He dug his own grave. How stupid is that kid? He should've known better than to tell. The first punch is a warning. If you don't pay attention to it, what happens after that is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Little Scott needs to learn a lesson, and that lesson is what happens to little rats... snitches.

Some of you people who are saying that he did the right thing obviously don't know how lame and stupid and babyish narking is and how much trouble it can cause. Jimmy comes home from school, crying because that mean old Bobby stole his pencil again and kicked him. Mommy says, "Oh don't worry, hunny. Next time he hurts you you need to tell the teacher. If you tell an authority figure than Bobby will be punished and he will learn his lesson and never do anything bad to you again." Yeah, well Mommy is a dumbass. Nine times out of ten, when you snitch on someone for being mean to you, they are going to be pissed off that you went and cried like a three year old and they're going to lay the smackdown on your bitch ass for narking.

People, take my advice. If someone is hassling you, FIGHT BACK. It can be five knuckles or five fingers. If you punch them, make sure you get them in the mouth or the nose so they bleed. If you slap them, do it open-handedly because it stings very badly and leaves a mark. Or if you don't want to use your body as a weapon, get an object. Wooden baseball bats work. So do various sharp objects, such as pencils and envelope openers. Don't listen to people who whine, "Waaah! Violence doesn't solve anything." Yes it does. Causing someone pain and making them bleed will make them think twice the next they decide to hassle you... that is, if they even have the courage to do it again. Lay your ground. Smack that bitch down and say, "Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass." Don't be a coward. Don't just stand there and take it. Now, don't hurt them too badly. The injury must be minor. A bloody nose or lip, a black eye, a swollen cheek... all small injuries that can heal. There is no need to beat someone half to death, but you do have to cause a little bit of pain.

Hey, don't call Scott an idiot!:mad: :mad: We did do the right thing. If we started fighting him, it would just make him more mad and then he might do something worse. You know, you sound just like Dan. Fighting back is very uncivilized and childish. May I ask how old are you? You are acting like an immature 5 year old. Violence is not the answer. It will never make anything better, only worse. You may think fighting makes someone seem adultlike and strong, but really, it isn't. I sure as hell don't want to fight with you. If you have some sort of problem that makes you see things differently than they are, there is no way I can help. I'm sorry to say this, but you are a loser.:mad: :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Sourbabie
I can't believe some of you people are saying he did the right thing.

Your friend Scott is an idiot. When he told Dan that he was going to tell on him, that first punch was a warning which let Scott know what happens to narks. But no, Scott didn't realize that and he went and told anyway. He dug his own grave. How stupid is that kid? He should've known better than to tell. The first punch is a warning. If you don't pay attention to it, what happens after that is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Little Scott needs to learn a lesson, and that lesson is what happens to little rats... snitches.

Some of you people who are saying that he did the right thing obviously don't know how lame and stupid and babyish narking is and how much trouble it can cause. Jimmy comes home from school, crying because that mean old Bobby stole his pencil again and kicked him. Mommy says, "Oh don't worry, hunny. Next time he hurts you you need to tell the teacher. If you tell an authority figure than Bobby will be punished and he will learn his lesson and never do anything bad to you again." Yeah, well Mommy is a dumbass. Nine times out of ten, when you snitch on someone for being mean to you, they are going to be pissed off that you went and cried like a three year old and they're going to lay the smackdown on your bitch ass for narking.

People, take my advice. If someone is hassling you, FIGHT BACK. It can be five knuckles or five fingers. If you punch them, make sure you get them in the mouth or the nose so they bleed. If you slap them, do it open-handedly because it stings very badly and leaves a mark. Or if you don't want to use your body as a weapon, get an object. Wooden baseball bats work. So do various sharp objects, such as pencils and envelope openers. Don't listen to people who whine, "Waaah! Violence doesn't solve anything." Yes it does. Causing someone pain and making them bleed will make them think twice the next they decide to hassle you... that is, if they even have the courage to do it again. Lay your ground. Smack that bitch down and say, "Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass." Don't be a coward. Don't just stand there and take it. Now, don't hurt them too badly. The injury must be minor. A bloody nose or lip, a black eye, a swollen cheek... all small injuries that can heal. There is no need to beat someone half to death, but you do have to cause a little bit of pain. I think he did the right thing by going to the teacher. He should try that first, then if the bullying doesn't stop then he should defend himself against it. I don't know about using baseball bats and sharp objects, that's assinine.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Hey, don't call Scott an idiot!:mad: :mad: We did do the right thing. If we started fighting him, it would just make him more mad and then he might do something worse. You know, you sound just like Dan. Fighting back is very uncivilized and childish. May I ask how old are you? You are acting like an immature 5 year old. Violence is not the answer. It will never make anything better, only worse. You may think fighting makes someone seem adultlike and strong, but really, it isn't. I sure as hell don't want to fight with you. If you have some sort of problem that makes you see things differently than they are, there is no way I can help. I'm sorry to say this, but you are a loser.:mad: :rolleyes:

No need to call anyone a loser...that goes for both of you. It's stupid.

Now, let me say...fighting is fun...but not when someone's getting the **** beaten out of them. If that kid starts big trouble with you guys, then you SHOULD tell...not to be a "nark" or whatever...but to get that kid some freaking help. People like that have probably gotten beaten up themselves or lead hard lives and so they take it out on the first weak person they see.

Originally posted by bandito
I think he did the right thing by going to the teacher. He should try that first, then if the bullying doesn't stop then he should defend himself against it. I don't know about using baseball bats and sharp objects, that's assinine.

You are absolutely right.

Originally posted by bandito
I think he did the right thing by going to the teacher. He should try that first, then if the bullying doesn't stop then he should defend himself against it. I don't know about using baseball bats and sharp objects, that's assinine.

not only that it leads to crimal behavior and jail. Beating someone with a baseball bat and using other objects is assault it's not just getting in a fight it's breaking a law

and another thing, what if it's a 4 year old or 5 year old that's getting beat up? should he/she fight back because if they tell they are a 'nark'? i don't think so. the point is fighting is not the answer to anything.

so beverfan, you and your friends did the right thing by telling a adult that you were being bullied.

Originally posted by *A TV People*
No need to call anyone a loser...that goes for both of you. It's stupid.

Now, let me say...fighting is fun...but not when someone's getting the **** beaten out of them. If that kid starts big trouble with you guys, then you SHOULD tell...not to be a "nark" or whatever...but to get that kid some freaking help. People like that have probably gotten beaten up themselves or lead hard lives and so they take it out on the first weak person they see.

Sorry, no need for calling someone mean names, I couldn't help it, but she called my friend stupid, and I will always stick up for him. This is my first time in this situation, so I am not used to it. He is the only one who ever bullied me. Scott got the worst of it, though. :(

Today in health class we learned that bullies usually are people with very little self confidence. It also said violence is not the answer to any problems. Talking with a trusted adult is the right thing to do, but never fight back, or you're guilty, too.

This code of silence--no narking--must have been invented by bullies and other social misfits to protect themselves. Fighting back is usually not an option, bullies usually make sure their victims are weaker--ever see a bully go after someone bigger than them? What do you have left to fight back with?

Originally posted by MandieR1980
not only that it leads to crimal behavior and jail. Beating someone with a baseball bat and using other objects is assault it's not just getting in a fight it's breaking a law

Mandie fan took the words out of my mouth.
Does Dan
_have many friends?
_Bully just you guys or others as well?
_Make sexual crude remarks repeatedly?
_weigh alot more than you?

Originally posted by julian bozo
Mandie fan took the words out of my mouth.
Does Dan
_have many friends?
_Bully just you guys or others as well?
_Make sexual crude remarks repeatedly?
_weigh alot more than you?

-No
-He bullies everyone, but especially us because the three of us are such good friends
-yes
-yes

Originally posted by Sourbabie
They wouldn't grow up to be bullies. They grow up to know how to protect themselves FROM bullies.
:nod: My mom told me that if anyone is mean to me i can cuss them out and do whatever but not to get violent unless they do first. my dad doesnt care either. about 6 months ago i was getting a drink from the water fountain and this girl who always called me a whore pushed me away from it, so i spat out the water into her hair, and my dad doesnt have a problem with that. he said that if we ever get into a fight, make sure that she gets the first hit. If someone constantly harms you, theyre just begging for a fight, and you have to defend yourself.

I still don't think violence helps. It just makes the person more mad and ready for revenge.

You people can think what you want to think. If you think being a little snitch is "right" than let me hand you a crowbar to get your heads out of your asses.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
You people can think what you want to think. If you think being a little snitch is "right" than let me hand you a crowbar to get your heads out of your asses.

No thanks, I think I can avoid that by not promoting violence. I could beat up Dan if I wanted to, but I don't.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
No thanks, I think I can avoid that by not promoting violence. I could beat up Dan if I wanted to, but I don't.
You sound like a public service announcement. "Arms are for hugging, not killing. Make love and peace, not violence." Care to roll out the big peace sign van and the love beads? Maybe we could all sit in a field of flowers and hold hands and braid eachothers hair. Because that would be so, you know, groovy.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
You sound like a public service announcement. "Arms are for hugging, not killing. Make love and peace, not violence." Care to roll out the big peace sign van and the love beads? Maybe we could all sit in a field of flowers and hold hands braid eachothers hair. Because that would be so, you know, groovy.

lol!:lol: peacesign:

nevermind

I think the idea of fighting back is wrong. First of all, some people aren't physically strong enough to fight back, I mean they're incapable, because they're weak. The teacher is SUPPOSED to step in, not just stand there and look on, like an idiot. You don't fight fire with fire. JMO.

I mean, what are recess teachers for?

Originally posted by Sourbabie
You people can think what you want to think. If you think being a little snitch is "right" than let me hand you a crowbar to get your heads out of your asses. If anyone needs to get their head out of their ass, it's you. How old are you anyway?

Originally posted by Sourbabie
You people can think what you want to think. If you think being a little snitch is "right" than let me hand you a crowbar to get your heads out of your asses.

How ever old you are, you are acting like an immature child. We were not being "little snitches". Fighting back doesn't make a person strong. It just makes them look ever so foolish. It's kids who fight back and use violence who end up in juvenile hall. If Dan hit me and I hit him back, I would be in trouble and lose recess. Even if he started it, I would get in trouble for fighting back. Here's what you think, it's okay to hurt anyone who says something or hurts you.

Originally posted by safety pin
:nod: My mom told me that if anyone is mean to me i can cuss them out and do whatever but not to get violent unless they do first. my dad doesnt care either. about 6 months ago i was getting a drink from the water fountain and this girl who always called me a whore pushed me away from it, so i spat out the water into her hair, and my dad doesnt have a problem with that. he said that if we ever get into a fight, make sure that she gets the first hit. If someone constantly harms you, theyre just begging for a fight, and you have to defend yourself.

My grandpa told the same thing to my aunt when some girl tried to beat the **** out of her.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
I mean, what are recess teachers for?

You know what they need to do? What they used to be able to do in the 50s and 60s...smack the kids on the ass or whatever. Not beat them to a pulp, but scare them straight. But not now...it's considered "abuse." And now kids have rights. :rolleyes: THAT is why there are so many bullies and criminals.

Nowadays, teachers think it is even wrong to PUNISH kids. They use psychology, and they say the hitting will just make kids too afraid to come to school. When kids got hit, it would make them too afraid to be bad. Teachers would take a ruler and whack the kid on the bottom.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
-No
-He bullies everyone, but especially us because the three of us are such good friends
-yes
-yes

So apparently Dan is
*overweight- right?
*has no friends
*picks on everybody though you 3 more
*makes crude sexual remarks

First of all I am No doctor or counselor but my observation is
Dan is an individual who has bad self esteem. Needs attention and is dying to belong to a group. He sounds very insecure.
He might be targeting you three more because he is jealous of your friendship with Scott and Jon. As for the crude remarks
they are immature. I 'm warning you at you age for the next 3 years you are going to be hearing alot of Crude sexual remarks.
As for Dan apparently he feels if he targets the three of you at least you will be paying him attention whether it is good or bad.
Because it sounds like he desperately wants friends and attention. Beaver fan this next step you might not really agree with, When Dan gets out of trouble and is allowed recess again you and Scott and Jon should invite Dan to be in your group let the past be the past. You might see a 100% better and new improved Dan. If he declines or gets worse with you guys. Then he needs professional help.

I agree 100%. When we invited him into the group a while back, he said "I don't want to be friends with you uppity people!" We said "Fine!", and he started criticizing us. He is overweight, has no friends, and has little confidence in himself. He really needs serious help. I don't know about inviting him into the group, but I might, I haven't decided yet.

Not that it matters at all. Just out of curiosity are you a boy or girl?
It doesn't change anything. I just wondered.

boy

I think you did the right thing. If he starts getting physical again, then you defend yourself. Also, when he starts to pick on you, just look at him and smile or laugh. Thatll make him all confused and he'll probably stop once he notices youre not hurt by it.


"Don't **** with me, pal. I'll wipe the floor with your piece of **** bitch ass."
:rofl:

I'm so glad I'm not in school anymore. I used to have to put up with that crap practically everyday of my life. At least when you get older it is easier to deal with someone making crude remarks but it is so much harder for a child.

Dan also said crude sexual remarks to my other friend because Dan hated his girlfriend.

Has Dan been allowed to come outside again for recess? Has he changed any?:confused:

Yes, he has, and so we don't get mistreated, we are pretending to be his friends. Josh can't because he needs to stay in and talk to our principal about yelling at someone.

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Yes, he has, and so we don't get mistreated, we are pretending to be his friends. Josh can't because he needs to stay in and talk to our principal about yelling at someone.

Well that's good that he changed and that you and your friends don't get mistreated now. That's a bummer about Josh having to stay inside though.

Originally posted by dawsongirl
You know what they need to do? What they used to be able to do in the 50s and 60s...smack the kids on the ass or whatever. Not beat them to a pulp, but scare them straight. But not now...it's considered "abuse." And now kids have rights. :rolleyes: THAT is why there are so many bullies and criminals.

I just don't agree with you. I don't think hitting someone ever solves anything. My parents NEVER slapped or spanked me as a child and I'm not a bully or a criminal.

Originally posted by dawsongirl
You know what they need to do? What they used to be able to do in the 50s and 60s...smack the kids on the ass or whatever. Not beat them to a pulp, but scare them straight. But not now...it's considered "abuse." And now kids have rights. :rolleyes: THAT is why there are so many bullies and criminals.

I couldn't agree more.

oh good ****ing god.

I have a question:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
Why was the more issues with Dan board closed?????
Nobody was fightning and there was nothing inappropiate about
it?
Also was it ever revealed what Dan said to make Scott cry?

I requested it because Scott is now a member under the name Beave and this may not make him comfortable. Please, mention none of this to him.