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Family Ties Forever! · 10-15-2012, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Lou's surgeon just called and told me that Lou has a completely new problem. A disc ruptured in his back, and it's close to his heart. They're prepping him for emergency surgery now which will take at least five hours. He said the surgery is very risky. I asked if he meant his life was at risk, and he said no, risky that he'll be paralyzed.

The doctor told me that although he's done this surgery enough, he's still calling in another surgeon who specializes in this surgery. He said that Lou has never had a surgery where they worked directly on his spine, until the one he's having today. He told me that Lou's recovery will take up to a year, and he doesn't even know if he'll walk again. This just keeps going from bad to worse.

Thank you all for being a sounding board for me. It really helps.

God bless

Wow, Janice, I'm so sorry. That is terrible news. I don't know what to think. I'm sorry that you and Lou are going through this nightmare. I hope the disc that ruptured wasn't a result of the surgery he had Friday. That's terrible that it's close to his heart.

I hope the surgery today goes well. I sincerely hope that Lou can recover and that things will go in the right direction. Please keep us updated.

Marvo301 · 10-15-2012, 01:33 PM

Thanks for keeping us up to date on Lou's condition. Both of you continue to be in my prayers.

Retro4Life · 10-15-2012, 02:08 PM

Winston Churchill once said, "When you are going through Hell, keep going."

You guys are doing just that, taking each problem as they arise and meeting them head on, with everything you have. I"m so very sorry you both have to suffer through all of these emergencies and frightening episodes. I wish and pray for both of you a return to happier, healthier times.

TJL · 10-15-2012, 04:29 PM

Sending positive thoughts to you and Lou. Hope his surgery goes well.

bandito · 10-15-2012, 05:30 PM

I just saw this. Sorry you and Lou have to go through this.. Sending prayers.

Mr. Television · 10-15-2012, 07:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janice

Lou's surgeon just called and told me that Lou has a completely new problem. A disc ruptured in his back, and it's close to his heart. They're prepping him for emergency surgery now which will take at least five hours. He said the surgery is very risky. I asked if he meant his life was at risk, and he said no, risky that he'll be paralyzed.

The doctor told me that although he's done this surgery enough, he's still calling in another surgeon who specializes in this surgery. He said that Lou has never had a surgery where they worked directly on his spine, until the one he's having today. He told me that Lou's recovery will take up to a year, and he doesn't even know if he'll walk again. This just keeps going from bad to worse.

Thank you all for being a sounding board for me. It really helps.

God bless

Oh no Janice.

I am so sorry this has happened to you both. It just isn't fair. You can sound off any time you want to. I'm always here for you my friend. You and Lou continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I can say more to make you feel better.

ThomasE · 10-15-2012, 08:18 PM

I prayed as well and speak healing for Lou. You guys be blessed.

AKA · 10-15-2012, 08:41 PM

We love you, Janice.

treky · 10-15-2012, 11:39 PM

oh wow, Janice; I'm so sorry to hear this. Rest assured that you two are in my thoughts and prayers.

OH Nuts! · 10-16-2012, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Brad

We love you, Janice.

We sure do. Know it's real hard for you right now Janice and wish I had some magic words of comfort. All I know how to do is to write from the heart. Praying for you and Lou and that the next turn of events proves to be a positive one.

Yooch · 10-16-2012, 12:06 AM

Thinking about you guys, dear friend.

Janice · 10-16-2012, 01:23 AM

Long day, with his six hour surgery. I wish I understood everything, but it's all so complicated. They fixed the ruptured disc. The surgeon said that it didn't have any support because it was surrounded by arthritis. They cleaned it up; with screws and other hardware.

He said that Lou will have to go to Spaulding Rehab for two months. He has his work cut out for him. They specialize in working with people who don't walk. The doctor gives him a 50/50 chance of walking and will take up to a year. He also said that he has a lot of faith in Lou and he thinks he'll improve; maybe not 100%, but close to it. It remains to be seen.

Our lives have changed, and the future is uncertain. I want Lou to walk again, but I married him in sickness and health, so whatever happens, I'll accept it. I'm lost here without him. Truly heartsick and lost.

With sincere appreciation and love to you all.

*ROGER* · 10-16-2012, 01:45 AM

Janice, I do hope you have some family support to help you through this frightening and difficult time. You'll need to be around loved ones for encouragement. That will make you stronger for Lou. I'm sure you're the most important person in his life, and he needs your strength, positive thoughts and encouragement more than anyone.

Please try to be strong.

Fleet · 10-16-2012, 03:20 AM

Well, what the doctor said was encouraging. Let's hope he's right.

I know of someone in a chat room I visit frequently. Haven't met him personally. He suffered a stroke while having some kind of dental procedure done. The dentist's insurance company rewarded him with a very large amount of money but he is partially paralyzed. I think the lower part of him; he can use his arms. He is usually in a wheelchair and has a full-time caregiver or caregivers. He is only about 42 years old.

Family Ties Forever! · 10-16-2012, 03:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janice

Long day, with his six hour surgery. I wish I understood everything, but it's all so complicated. They fixed the ruptured disc. The surgeon said that it didn't have any support because it was surrounded by arthritis. They cleaned it up; with screws and other hardware.

He said that Lou will have to go to Spaulding Rehab for two months. He has his work cut out for him. They specialize in working with people who don't walk. The doctor gives him a 50/50 chance of walking and will take up to a year. He also said that he has a lot of faith in Lou and he thinks he'll improve; maybe not 100%, but close to it. It remains to be seen.

Our lives have changed, and the future is uncertain. I want Lou to walk again, but I married him in sickness and health, so whatever happens, I'll accept it. I'm lost here without him. Truly heartsick and lost.

With sincere appreciation and love to you all.

Janice, I'm glad the surgery went well. I'm sorry this has been so rough on you and Lou. I hope that Lou is one of the 50% that regains the ability to walk. I know you will miss him while he's at the rehab center for two months. I know you already miss him. How far away is Spaulding from you? I hope it's not too far. Love to you.

10-15-2012, 01:33 PM	#92
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10-15-2012, 02:08 PM	#93
Retro4Life Accept No Substitutes Forum Veteran Join Date: Feb 04, 2009 Location: IL Posts: 6,708	Winston Churchill once said, "When you are going through Hell, keep going." You guys are doing just that, taking each problem as they arise and meeting them head on, with everything you have. I"m so very sorry you both have to suffer through all of these emergencies and frightening episodes. I wish and pray for both of you a return to happier, healthier times.
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10-15-2012, 04:29 PM	#94
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10-15-2012, 05:30 PM	#95
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10-15-2012, 08:18 PM	#97
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10-15-2012, 08:41 PM	#98
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10-15-2012, 11:39 PM	#99
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10-16-2012, 12:06 AM	#101
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10-16-2012, 01:23 AM	#102
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	Long day, with his six hour surgery. I wish I understood everything, but it's all so complicated. They fixed the ruptured disc. The surgeon said that it didn't have any support because it was surrounded by arthritis. They cleaned it up; with screws and other hardware. He said that Lou will have to go to Spaulding Rehab for two months. He has his work cut out for him. They specialize in working with people who don't walk. The doctor gives him a 50/50 chance of walking and will take up to a year. He also said that he has a lot of faith in Lou and he thinks he'll improve; maybe not 100%, but close to it. It remains to be seen. Our lives have changed, and the future is uncertain. I want Lou to walk again, but I married him in sickness and health, so whatever happens, I'll accept it. I'm lost here without him. Truly heartsick and lost. With sincere appreciation and love to you all.

10-16-2012, 01:45 AM	#103
ROGER Member Senior Member Join Date: Apr 05, 2007 Location: United States Posts: 2,776	Janice, I do hope you have some family support to help you through this frightening and difficult time. You'll need to be around loved ones for encouragement. That will make you stronger for Lou. I'm sure you're the most important person in his life, and he needs your strength, positive thoughts and encouragement more than anyone. Please try to be strong.

10-16-2012, 03:20 AM	#104
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