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Sam Malone · 02-08-2003, 08:07 PM

Dawsongirl:

Sorry... I know how you must feel. I sympathize with you very much. I know how people can just do that; my own father said about the same thing when I was six. I always loved my father though, especially since I found out he's dying of cancer. He's almost 6' 5" right now, yet weighs 147#. I am 6' 3" and weigh 155#, and I'm a sack of bones...

Right now, I can see how you must be angry, but you'll realize, one day, that all that was said out of anger for him, and not said by YOU, but by your ANGER. Follow me?

Again, I'm truly, deeply sorry.

DarleneIllyria · 02-08-2003, 09:12 PM

Cathy, I'm so sorry.

If you ever need to talk, just PM me.

*PinkLady* · 02-08-2003, 09:23 PM

I thought my dad was bad...but he's never said that to me or my mom. I'm really sorry, Cathy.

Nanny Fine · 02-08-2003, 10:07 PM

I'm sorry

I grew up with a father who was emotionally and verbally abusive. I'm 33 years old now and I have 0 self esteem and I can't maintain a relationship with a man because I have absolutely no trust in them. My daughter is almost 8 and her father has never been in her life. We have to have courts threaten jail time to get child support (and even then we are lucky to get paid) and she says a lot now that she wishes she had a dad. I know how he is and I know how I grew up and quite frankly she's much better off. I dont want her to grow up like I did. I wish I could go back to when I was young and not let myself be affected the way I was and am still today. You have to rise above it and become a better person from it. I hope I can do that someday. I have a long way to go.

Good luck to you.

Camillian · 02-08-2003, 10:08 PM

Sorry to hear that

Halex · 02-08-2003, 10:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Titania
my dad and i get along pretty well- its my mother and i who seriously hate each other a lot of the time.

Same here. My mother is going through menopause or something right now, actually seems to have been going through it for almost three years now. It's not just me, either. Even her friend wonders what her problem is. She has these mood swings almost every day. My dad and I get along very well. It's been like that for as long as I can remember, which would be since I was three years old. I can actually remember having only one fight with my dad once. Whereas having fights with my mom? Countless times.

And, I hope things get better for you, dawsongirl. It's rough having parents that fight.

dawsongirl · 02-08-2003, 10:49 PM

Thanks so much guys. It's nice to know there are nice people in this world.

Cactus Jack · 02-08-2003, 10:56 PM

Im sorry too

RollerGirl · 02-08-2003, 11:04 PM

I'm really sorry to hear that *webbie-hug* Sometimes your family members can be the most toxic people in your life

AnaheimPMWitch · 02-09-2003, 03:55 AM

i'm sorry to hear that dawsons girl

I hope he didnt mean it
I love my Parents HECK I love most of my family members its my sister in law I CAN NOT STAND but I have my reasons for that

Kay Scarpetta · 02-09-2003, 10:51 AM

I'm sorry, dawsongirl. I hope everything works out for you

Barnabas1 · 02-09-2003, 11:31 AM

I'm sorry, Dawson's Diva. I hope he didn't mean that.

02-08-2003, 08:07 PM	#16
Sam Malone Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Jun 14, 2002 Location: Alabama, home of 9 electoral votes for President George W. Bush... TWICE! Posts: 355	Dawsongirl: Sorry... I know how you must feel. I sympathize with you very much. I know how people can just do that; my own father said about the same thing when I was six. I always loved my father though, especially since I found out he's dying of cancer. He's almost 6' 5" right now, yet weighs 147#. I am 6' 3" and weigh 155#, and I'm a sack of bones... Right now, I can see how you must be angry, but you'll realize, one day, that all that was said out of anger for him, and not said by YOU, but by your ANGER. Follow me? Again, I'm truly, deeply sorry.
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02-08-2003, 10:07 PM	#19
Nanny Fine Justine and Holden.. Senior Member Join Date: Jan 01, 2003 Location: Watching The Ellen Degeneres Show and luvin' it Posts: 2,852	I'm sorry I grew up with a father who was emotionally and verbally abusive. I'm 33 years old now and I have 0 self esteem and I can't maintain a relationship with a man because I have absolutely no trust in them. My daughter is almost 8 and her father has never been in her life. We have to have courts threaten jail time to get child support (and even then we are lucky to get paid) and she says a lot now that she wishes she had a dad. I know how he is and I know how I grew up and quite frankly she's much better off. I dont want her to grow up like I did. I wish I could go back to when I was young and not let myself be affected the way I was and am still today. You have to rise above it and become a better person from it. I hope I can do that someday. I have a long way to go. Good luck to you.
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02-08-2003, 10:08 PM	#20
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02-08-2003, 10:56 PM	#23
Cactus Jack RonFingSwanson Forum Idol Join Date: Dec 09, 2001 Location: Santa Rosa Beach,FL Posts: 103,099	Im sorry too
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02-09-2003, 03:55 AM	#25
AnaheimPMWitch AKA CaitlinMoore2002 Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 08, 2002 Location: in the Las Vegas Crime Lab hangin with Nick and Sara Posts: 4,973	i'm sorry to hear that dawsons girl I hope he didnt mean it I love my Parents HECK I love most of my family members its my sister in law I CAN NOT STAND but I have my reasons for that
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02-08-2003, 09:12 PM	#17
DarleneIllyria Gone Forum Star Join Date: Oct 15, 2000 Posts: 19,086	Cathy, I'm so sorry. If you ever need to talk, just PM me.

02-08-2003, 09:23 PM	#18
PinkLady Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Jun 04, 2002 Posts: 7,457	I thought my dad was bad...but he's never said that to me or my mom. I'm really sorry, Cathy.

02-08-2003, 10:49 PM	#22
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	Thanks so much guys. It's nice to know there are nice people in this world.

02-08-2003, 11:04 PM	#24
RollerGirl ~Just Joaquin~ Senior Member Join Date: Feb 05, 2003 Posts: 1,101	I'm really sorry to hear that webbie-hug Sometimes your family members can be the most toxic people in your life

02-09-2003, 10:51 AM	#26
Kay Scarpetta Defy Gravity 8.26.05 Forum Superstar Join Date: Jul 04, 2001 Location: La Vie Boheme Posts: 28,013	I'm sorry, dawsongirl. I hope everything works out for you
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02-09-2003, 11:31 AM	#27
Barnabas1 Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 01, 2001 Posts: 4,598	I'm sorry, Dawson's Diva. I hope he didn't mean that.
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