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TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Zoneboy

This sounds like one of those automated responses people use when they go on vacation.

Unless they've changed their rules, Paypal won't do anything until 30 days have passed and even then they won't take any kind of action based on what you've mentioned here. Paypal will only intervene if you don't receive the magazine and it's up to the seller to prove you got it by providing a tracking #.

If you have a confirmed address and the seller can prove it was shipped there then you might as well forget it. If the seller hasn't left you a negative comment then I suggest that you just be patient and let him ship the magazine when he returns. He waited on you to make payment so extend him the same courtesy.

The point I'm trying to make is I DON"T KNOW WHEN THEY ARE RETURNING. So i feel like i was robbed because I have no info on when my item will be mailed

Ireneparalegal · 10-17-2007, 02:51 PM

And that is YOUR FAULT. Had you rendered payment ASAP, they would have mailed you the item quickly. But, you decided to forget abt paying them and now you are upset because they went on vacation.
Considering they are on vacation, you are damn lucky you even got a response. So, you deserve to feel the way you do because frankly, anyone else might not even bothered giving you notice they are on vacation.

You better hope they are not traveling Europe. That can take a LONG TIME.

Zoneboy · 10-17-2007, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by KingofTVResearch

The point I'm trying to make is I DON"T KNOW WHEN THEY ARE RETURNING. So i feel like i was robbed because I have no info on when my item will be mailed

I understand what you're saying but the seller doesn't owe you a timeline on his return. You should allow him sufficent time to return and ship your magazine. After all as most of us have stated, You are at fault here.

You should also consider the fact that there's probably other buyers who are also waiting for him to return & I just wonder how many of them are as impatient as you. All things considered, I wouldn't blame the guy if he added you to his blocked bidder list.

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

And that is YOUR FAULT. Had you rendered payment ASAP, they would have mailed you the item quickly. But, you decided to forget abt paying them and now you are upset because they went on vacation.
Considering they are on vacation, you are damn lucky you even got a response. So, you deserve to feel the way you do because frankly, anyone else might not even bothered giving you notice they are on vacation.

You better hope they are not traveling Europe. That can take a LONG TIME.

It don't matter because i will have my money back by this time next week

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Zoneboy

I understand what you're saying but the seller doesn't owe you a timeline on his return. You should allow him sufficent time to return and ship your magazine. After all as most of us have stated, You are at fault here.

You should also consider the fact that there's probably other buyers who are also waiting for him to return & I just wonder how many of them are as impatient as you. All things considered, I wouldn't blame the guy if he added you to his blocked bidder list.

well that's why i decided to end of all and just asked for a refund so I can move on

Zoneboy · 10-17-2007, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by KingofTVResearch

well that's why i decided to end of all and just asked for a refund so I can move on

Are you asking the seller for a refund or are you filing a complaint with Paypal?

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Zoneboy

Are you asking the seller for a refund or are you filing a complaint with Paypal?

I'm asking for a refund through paypal since I was told-"I DON't KNOW" when asking when my item would be mailed. I don;t accept I don't know when you have recieved my money, i need a time frame

Zoneboy · 10-17-2007, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by KingofTVResearch

I'm asking for a refund through paypal since I was told-"I DON't KNOW" when asking when my item would be mailed. I don;t accept I don't know when you have recieved my money, i need a time frame

Wait a minute, You can't accept his answer after you took 2 weeks to send payment and only did so after a non-paying bidder alert was filed? It's not his fault that you didn't pay on time and he has stated that he will ship it upon his return. You're extremely lucky that he didn't give you negative feedback and relist the magazine. So far I think the seller has been very patient with you.

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Zoneboy

Wait a minute, You can't accept his answer after you took 2 weeks to send payment and only did so after a non-paying bidder alert was filed? It's not his fault that you didn't pay on time and he has stated that he will ship it upon his return. You're extremely lucky that he didn't give you negative feedback and relist the magazine. So far I think the seller has been very patient with you.

I just felt the email was very nasty. I didn't like the tone at all and I lost interest in the item

Zoneboy · 10-17-2007, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by KingofTVResearch

I just felt the email was very nasty. I didn't like the tone at all and I lost interest in the item

Is this the entire E-mail?

"WE ARE OUT OF TOWN AND WILL MAIL YOUR ITEM wHEN WE RETURN.

If it is, Did the seller use all caps or did you do that? Surely you don't consider this nasty.

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Zoneboy

Is this the entire E-mail?

"WE ARE OUT OF TOWN AND WILL MAIL YOUR ITEM wHEN WE RETURN.

If it is, Did the seller use all caps or did you do that? Surely you don't consider this nasty.

Yes that was the email in all caps and no return date was mentioned which basically saying-"I REALLY DON"T KNOW WHEN I"M GOING TO MAIL YOUR ITEM"

Zoneboy · 10-17-2007, 03:56 PM

One other thing, Since this is a magazine, I'll bet that the seller will ship media rate unless you paid for priority. If that's the case then you're looking at anywhere from 7-10 dayd before you get it and possibly longer.

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Zoneboy

One other thing, Since this is a magazine, I'll bet that the seller will ship media rate unless you paid for priority. If that's the case then you're looking at anywhere from 7-10 dayd before you get it and possibly longer.

he won;t have to ship anything because i already requested a refund and don;t want the magazine

Ireneparalegal · 10-17-2007, 04:22 PM

You may with that nasty attitude cause the seller to post a negative feedback abt you. Refund or not. I am sure ebay will look into this matter since you asked for a refund. They will want to know the details and as far as they will be concerned, the seller will have ebay in their corner since they did nothing wrong.

You are asking for a refund. Good. But that doesn't mean the seller didn't hold up their end of the bargain. You goofed on this one. You want $$$$ back IMMEDIATELY, but you didn't have the courtesy to pay for the item IMMEDIATELY when it was required. The seller took your flimsy excuse (I forgot) why can't you just be nice abt it and wait? I don't think you want a negative feedback attached to your name do you?

TVFactFan · 10-17-2007, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

You may with that nasty attitude cause the seller to post a negative feedback abt you. Refund or not. I am sure ebay will look into this matter since you asked for a refund. They will want to know the details and as far as they will be concerned, the seller will have ebay in their corner since they did nothing wrong.

You are asking for a refund. Good. But that doesn't mean the seller didn't hold up their end of the bargain. You goofed on this one. You want $$$$ back IMMEDIATELY, but you didn't have the courtesy to pay for the item IMMEDIATELY when it was required. The seller took your flimsy excuse (I forgot) why can't you just be nice abt it and wait? I don't think you want a negative feedback attached to your name do you?

It doesn't have to be immediately, I just have no interest in doing business with him and want my money back before November.

10-17-2007, 02:51 PM	#17
Ireneparalegal LEGAL SPICE ;) Forum Legend Join Date: Jul 25, 2005 Location: OXNARD, CA - WHERE THE DALLAS COWBOYS TRAIN & PRACTICE Posts: 38,691	And that is YOUR FAULT. Had you rendered payment ASAP, they would have mailed you the item quickly. But, you decided to forget abt paying them and now you are upset because they went on vacation. Considering they are on vacation, you are damn lucky you even got a response. So, you deserve to feel the way you do because frankly, anyone else might not even bothered giving you notice they are on vacation. You better hope they are not traveling Europe. That can take a LONG TIME.
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10-17-2007, 03:56 PM	#27
Zoneboy RIP, I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU :( Moderator Forum Superstar Join Date: Jul 13, 2003 Location: AT HOME WISHING ALL THIS WAS JUST A DREAM AND THAT I'LL WAKE UP FROM THIS NIGHTMARE. Posts: 34,458	One other thing, Since this is a magazine, I'll bet that the seller will ship media rate unless you paid for priority. If that's the case then you're looking at anywhere from 7-10 dayd before you get it and possibly longer.

10-17-2007, 04:22 PM	#29
Ireneparalegal LEGAL SPICE ;) Forum Legend Join Date: Jul 25, 2005 Location: OXNARD, CA - WHERE THE DALLAS COWBOYS TRAIN & PRACTICE Posts: 38,691	You may with that nasty attitude cause the seller to post a negative feedback abt you. Refund or not. I am sure ebay will look into this matter since you asked for a refund. They will want to know the details and as far as they will be concerned, the seller will have ebay in their corner since they did nothing wrong. You are asking for a refund. Good. But that doesn't mean the seller didn't hold up their end of the bargain. You goofed on this one. You want $$$$ back IMMEDIATELY, but you didn't have the courtesy to pay for the item IMMEDIATELY when it was required. The seller took your flimsy excuse (I forgot) why can't you just be nice abt it and wait? I don't think you want a negative feedback attached to your name do you?