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Rhiannon · 07-20-2005, 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Time After Time

I haven't been there yet. Lucky. pissed: I'm predicting Fuddrucker's or Denny's for my first date.

Mine was some local BBQ place. How lame.

swedeace · 07-20-2005, 07:54 PM

Well, it's much like sitting and talking with a person and letting conversations flow. It'll feel natural. Start off by complimenting him on something and then ask questions. It'll then feel more natural because it'll keep the convo and attention span going. I did that with this guy I was so afraid to approach. It wasn't a date, but it was kinda like a pre-date thing just to see how I liked talking with him. It was working because we were so natural. And to think that he is SO shy, too, so I was sooo nervous upon approaching him. I was intimidated by his shyness. I find if you just talk and let things flow freely, the other person will be more receptive. Be yourself.

TripperFan · 07-20-2005, 09:09 PM

Take TJL's advice - don't talk about other guys (unless specifically asked, which you won't be).

Ask questions about HIM - be interested. Just make sure you don't talk TOO much - sometimes out of nervousness people can - ask him his interests - if he mentions a sport, even if it bores you silly, ask more questions about it and seem interested.

Other than that, yeah, let the conversation just flow easily. If you hit it off, it just naturally will. Don't overdo it on fragrance either.

dawsongirl · 07-21-2005, 03:18 AM

Date??? What the heck is a date??? I know it's edible...

Hollow · 07-21-2005, 03:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Date??? What the heck is a date??? I know it's edible...

date1 ( P ) Pronunciation Key (dt)
n.

Time stated in terms of the day, month, and year.
A statement of calendar time, as on a document.
A specified day of a month.

Superstar · 07-21-2005, 07:08 AM

Be yourself, and have fun.

*MIBabe03* · 07-21-2005, 08:56 AM

Also don't tell guys about your monthly friend, and other stuff like that.

Courtnee · 07-21-2005, 12:33 PM

Thank you so much! I am so excited!!!!!!!!

Courtnee · 07-22-2005, 10:24 PM

TripperFan · 07-22-2005, 10:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rock Princess

One date and now he's your BOYFRIEND???

I take it that it went rather well.

K - so - lets hear the details!!

Courtnee · 07-22-2005, 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TripperFan

One date and now he's your BOYFRIEND???

I take it that it went rather well.

K - so - lets hear the details!!

Hey Cathie,

He was my boyfriend before. It's just he lives a hour away and I don't see him that much.

We went to Applebee's. He kept cracking me up through the entire meal

(BTW I had Chicken Parmasan ((sp?))) Then we came back to my house while our parents talked and He stole a few kisses from me. It was really nice.*sigh*

I'm going to bed now.

Courtnee · 07-23-2005, 12:03 AM

TripperFan · 07-23-2005, 12:06 AM

Thx for bumping - I lost it!!

Ahhhh - young love - so sweet!!! I remember dates like that and you lie there falling asleep reliving it!

Well sweet dreams!!

So when do you see each other again?

Karen* · 07-23-2005, 02:19 AM

Aw, that's so cute! I'm happy for you!

Courtnee · 07-23-2005, 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TripperFan

So when do you see each other again?

Today,actually.Today is his birthday party. I may not go. It's a swimming party and I really don't like the idea of being half naked in front of alot of people. Plus I will be the only girl.

07-20-2005, 09:09 PM	#18
TripperFan In God's Arms Now Forum Star Join Date: Sep 14, 2003 Location: Heartbreak Ridge Posts: 12,086	Take TJL's advice - don't talk about other guys (unless specifically asked, which you won't be). Ask questions about HIM - be interested. Just make sure you don't talk TOO much - sometimes out of nervousness people can - ask him his interests - if he mentions a sport, even if it bores you silly, ask more questions about it and seem interested. Other than that, yeah, let the conversation just flow easily. If you hit it off, it just naturally will. Don't overdo it on fragrance either.
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07-21-2005, 12:33 PM	#23
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	Thank you so much! I am so excited!!!!!!!!
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07-22-2005, 10:24 PM	#24
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	I just got back from my date with my boyfriend!!

07-23-2005, 02:19 AM	#29
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07-20-2005, 07:54 PM	#17
swedeace Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 22, 2003 Posts: 9,009	Well, it's much like sitting and talking with a person and letting conversations flow. It'll feel natural. Start off by complimenting him on something and then ask questions. It'll then feel more natural because it'll keep the convo and attention span going. I did that with this guy I was so afraid to approach. It wasn't a date, but it was kinda like a pre-date thing just to see how I liked talking with him. It was working because we were so natural. And to think that he is SO shy, too, so I was sooo nervous upon approaching him. I was intimidated by his shyness. I find if you just talk and let things flow freely, the other person will be more receptive. Be yourself.

07-21-2005, 03:18 AM	#19
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	Date??? What the heck is a date??? I know it's edible...

07-21-2005, 07:08 AM	#21
Superstar Member Forum Icon Join Date: Dec 08, 2003 Posts: 63,316	Be yourself, and have fun.

07-23-2005, 12:03 AM	#27
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413

07-23-2005, 12:06 AM	#28
TripperFan In God's Arms Now Forum Star Join Date: Sep 14, 2003 Location: Heartbreak Ridge Posts: 12,086	Thx for bumping - I lost it!! Ahhhh - young love - so sweet!!! I remember dates like that and you lie there falling asleep reliving it! Well sweet dreams!! So when do you see each other again?