I'm writing an article for First magazine that uses TV characters as examples of different personality types. I am trying to come up with the best example of Pheobe's flakiness. What was the situation in which she most displayed her tendency to flee a stressful situation, to just ignore a mess and not deal with it by either physically leaving or mentally zoning out?

If you think you remember the perfect "Phoebe moment," please email me a brief description of it at mansfis@ixpres.com. I may include the example in the article. Thanks!

I'm also looking for examples for Debra on "Everybody Loves Raymond" and Grace on "Will and Grace" ... see those sitcom boards for more detail.