View Full Version : God, I hate my sister
Ewan's My Man 12-04-2003, 06:27 PM No, this isn't some kinda, she broke my brush...I hate her. This is full-fledged...I just...HATE her. I swear, she's the biggest bitch in the entire world. She's 12! For the love of God, she's ****in 12! I'm 2 and a half years older then her and she is just so bitter, and mean, and obnoxious, I've never seen this kind of attitude in ANYONE.
I hardly ever START a fight w/ her. Today, I had been taping something, and she turned off my tape, and I was like, "Molly! Did you turn off the VCR?!?!?" and she completely blows up. She's so immature and she thinks she's a thousand times more mature then me. Yea...uh...right...I know the truth, my mom knows the truth. She's insulting, sneaky, irresponsible, obnoxious, always hasta get the last word in, and doesn't listen to you when you're explaining something. You try to say something to her. You shouldn't do this. Molly, you can't leave the house. Molly, stop fighting w/ Brenna. She thinks she rules the world. She never LISTENS. She was babysitting my lil sister. My lil sister was 8 at the time. For the love of God she was 8. It was for a few minutes when my mom went to pick me up. She walks out the door and goes to play w/ her friends even though my lil sister told her to stay. I don't understand her. She's like on 1000xPMS. God, nobody gets to me like she does. Seriously, nobody has ever made me want to cry before her. And the thing is, I'm nice to her. Sure, she can be ok to be around, but you tell her things she shoves it back in your face. I do such nice things for her, take her to movies, all that stuff and she just...ugh. I hate her. I mean, you'd haveta SEE it to fully understand how AWFUL she is. I've caught myself so many times from cussing her out. I seriously was ready to slap her today. I swear, she's gonna get to me so much, I'll end up attacking her in my sleep.
Does anyone have any suggestions b4 she makes me jump off the roof?
David 12-04-2003, 07:51 PM aww im sorry your sister is like that :( Maybe u could write her a letter
Ewan's My Man 12-04-2003, 07:53 PM I'd try, but it doesn't work. She doesn't LISTEN.
David 12-04-2003, 07:58 PM Originally posted by Ewan's My Man
I'd try, but it doesn't work. She doesn't LISTEN. if u tell your parents, would they do anything?
Ewan's My Man 12-04-2003, 08:00 PM My mom says I should tell her, but I never really feel like it after the fight. And when we are fighting my mom gets pissed at us both. I dunno, I'll prolly mention something to my mom eventually, but my sister, no matter how she's punished, doesn't care.
Hollow 12-04-2003, 08:22 PM be reasonable and tell her WHY she has no right to be doing that like not listening to you. i mean say something like "listen to me when im talking to you" instead of "youre a stupid bitch" cause that doesnt solve anything.
meh im glad me and my brother dont fight.. weve been like the best of friends our whole lives.
Mijada 12-04-2003, 08:33 PM That sucks but there has to be some reason why she acts that way. Has she always been like that or did this just start recently? Maybe she feels like no one listens to her or cares about her feelings. Maybe she has that Middle Child Syndrome thing I keep hearing about. Anyways I commend you for not beating her up yet. If it was me I would have slapped her a long time ago. I don't have patience when it comes to that stuff, perhaps that's why I live by myself. :)
Penny Lane 12-04-2003, 08:35 PM She's only 12! Remember when you were 12? Chill!:rolleyes:
KerriBerri687 12-04-2003, 08:57 PM hmm...well...im your sister and i make u stay in a box under the couch for all to see......
...ya just cant win;)
<33sista
dawsongirl 12-04-2003, 09:00 PM And for a last resort...kick her butt. That's the only thing unruley people understand...violence.
dawsongirl 12-04-2003, 09:01 PM Originally posted by Penny Lane
She's only 12! Remember when you were 12? Chill!:rolleyes:
I've never been that big of a brat. 6, 12, 18...never.
Penny Lane 12-04-2003, 09:18 PM Originally posted by dawsongirl
I've never been that big of a brat. 6, 12, 18...never.
Nor was I but I had a little sister who was! But after she grew up I really liked her! I still do!:D Have patience!:happyface ;)
PinkCutieK 12-04-2003, 09:26 PM Whoa that's super weird...Molly and Brenna...I've got a cousin Brenna who has a Molly come and live with her sometimes because my aunt takes care of molly on the weekends because her mom died...and brenna's not a very common name! that's a weird coincidence!
~Teddybear~ 12-04-2003, 09:36 PM LISTEN 2 ME!! ok, i have a little brother who is 3 years younger than me. all these years, he bugged the **** out of me, and i tried to be patient with him. Then one day, he pushed me to the last limit, and i kicked his ***, and i mean i tore him up! After that, he respected me more, and he doesn't bug me as much because he knows that i wasn't playing all those years i warned him that i was crazy! Sure you will get into trouble, no doubt, but it will be worth it in the future, and you will feel so much better, trust me!
Mijada 12-04-2003, 09:37 PM Originally posted by Penny Lane
She's only 12! Remember when you were 12? Chill!:rolleyes:
Aww Come on Marlene. I'm sure you'd get pretty mad if you were taping something about Paul McCartney and some little brat came in the room and turned it off. :)
*Pleasant Tomorrow* 12-04-2003, 09:46 PM I know what ya mean. My sister's 12, too, and I swear it's the most annoying age someone can be. She's constantly bothering the piss out of me and I can't stand it. Teasing's the biggy with her, all she does is tease me...and she'll find ANYTHING she can to tick me off. We always kinda beat each other up...ya know, you kind of have to...well, you don't HAVE to,but I have that bad temper...uh...yeah...Anyway, we're not killing each other, just a little hair pull here, a little slap there, and a little sit on each other over thataway. Hey, if nothing else works get her back somehow...let her know how it feels. It's the age, it has to be...she'll get over it.
Ewan's My Man 12-04-2003, 10:43 PM Originally posted by Penny Lane
She's only 12! Remember when you were 12? Chill!:rolleyes:
I was good when I was 12. I've always been really mature for my age and I've been really close w/ my parents. Well...I was intelorable w/ my dad till I was 11...ish...eh...we still had some bickers when I was 12. 13 was my best year...but NEwayz,
She is the middle child, and she DEFINITELY has middle child syndrome, but she's always had sorta a snottiness to her. And ya know, sometimes she can be cool to hang out w/. She's fine right now. But when you get on her bad side...you seriously want to shoot yourself.
And I SERIOUSLY hope it's not an "attention" issue b/c any child whose parents spend THOUSANDS of dollars on her to take modeling classes and lessons, and go to NEw York for a week w/ her while she takes part in modeling competitions, and spends tons of money on clothes for the modeling, and drove her to Kings Dominion and Virginia Beach the weekend before school started to model in an Aaron Carter concert, should not be dying to get "attention".
Ugh, and she gets things earlier then I ever did. Her and I got a phone in our room...at the SAME time...I havta share my cell phone w/ her...and lotsa other stuff. I swear, if she's trying to get attention, it makes me sick.
Ewan's My Man 12-04-2003, 10:44 PM Originally posted by KerriBerri687
hmm...well...im your sister and i make u stay in a box under the couch for all to see......
...ya just cant win;)
<33sista
*sniffle*
Hollow 12-05-2003, 12:43 AM Originally posted by Penny Lane
She's only 12! Remember when you were 12? Chill!:rolleyes:
I never acted like that when i was 12 or any age... ive never met anyone who was.
PZelda 12-05-2003, 01:50 AM Originally posted by sArAh123¼
I never acted like that when i was 12 or any age... ive never met anyone who was.
Same here. I was a good girl when I was 12. ;)
fr00ti 12-05-2003, 01:52 AM Madelyn is glad she is an only child. :nod: ;)
dawsongirl 12-05-2003, 02:19 AM Originally posted by .:mads:.
Madelyn is glad she is an only child. :nod: ;)
So is Cathy. :D
Bugiddle 12-05-2003, 02:55 AM And I SERIOUSLY hope it's not an "attention" issue b/c any child whose parents spend THOUSANDS of dollars on her to take modeling classes and lessons, and go to NEw York for a week w/ her while she takes part in modeling competitions, and spends tons of money on clothes for the modeling, and drove her to Kings Dominion and Virginia Beach the weekend before school started to model in an Aaron Carter concert, should not be dying to get "attention".
Good Grief! I think this is much of the problem. Little sis must have quite a swelled head by now!! Maybe your parents need to tie her behavior to her modeling classes/lessons/jobs. They should tell her if she doesn't stop acting like such a brat at home,
there will be no more of this modeling business! :mad:
Good luck! I remember when my older sister (also the middle sister) was in jr. high and she was a real brat to me at that age. We would really go at it sometimes, and drive my poor mom to tears. :( But when we were several years older, we became really close - so there IS hope!
Penny Lane 12-05-2003, 10:47 AM Originally posted by Mijada
Aww Come on Marlene. I'm sure you'd get pretty mad if you were taping something about Paul McCartney and some little brat came in the room and turned it off. :)
:lol: Yup you are right! Well, I was not feeling good last night when I wrote that! I hated my little sister too once!Believe me, things will change when both of you grow up! I love my little sister now!:lol: What I was trying to point out is that a12 year old is still a child and they do things like that! By the way, I threw my back out yesterday and I was /am feeling very testy!:eek:
Ewan's My Man 12-05-2003, 11:24 AM Originally posted by Bugiddle
Good Grief! I think this is much of the problem. Little sis must have quite a swelled head by now!! Maybe your parents need to tie her behavior to her modeling classes/lessons/jobs. They should tell her if she doesn't stop acting like such a brat at home,
there will be no more of this modeling business! :mad:
yea, i thought of that too. But she hasn't pursued any jobs in over a year, so it wouldn't make sense to tell her she can't model NEmore, if she hasn't had a job. Also, I doubt my parents would do that, b/c she'd keep on pushing and finally they'd take it away, and then they would have wasted too much money.
Mijada 12-05-2003, 01:18 PM Originally posted by Penny Lane
By the way, I threw my back out yesterday and I was /am feeling very testy!:eek:
I know how that feels. My lower back was hurting all last weekend. I could barely move and I couldn't figure out what caused it. I finally realized it was from sitting at the computer for so long. I think I need to get a different chair.
Crimson and Clover 12-05-2003, 02:19 PM I know how you feel. My sister bosses us all around, calls us names, hits us (I had to go to the ER because of her and get four stitches in my head.) She thrown picture frames, clocks basically anything she can get her hands on at me. She makes my mom buy her things and believe me you cannot tell her no. She blows up and trys to push you down the stairs. I hate her, I cant wait till I can get away from her.
Mrs. Ducky 12-05-2003, 04:55 PM I'm your sister's age and I never act like that but my six year old sister does. I'm the oldest so that must have matured me.
Well, my sister's alot worse. I asked her if I could use the computer and she jumped on top of me pulling my hair, punching me, Pinching me, and kicking me screaming "NO YOU POOPHEAD!". And my nine year old brother is punching her and trying to pull her saying "GET OFF OF HER, ******!" I DISPISE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Kay Scarpetta 12-05-2003, 06:17 PM Gee, sounds like someone I know :o She's sitting 8 feet from me.
Brad Russ 12-05-2003, 08:17 PM From the way you describe her, it kind of reminds me of myself at that age. It turned out I had a chemical imbalance which was causing me to react so harshly to things. Your parents might want to look into something like that if she gets much worse. On the other hand she may just have a severe case of bratiness. Whatever the situation, I hope things get better for you soon! :)
Beavis 12-07-2003, 03:21 AM There is a lot of discord in the family, and I would suggest family conseling...at best, at the very least, she needs to be seen by a child psychologist, since she has issues with discipline, rules and insubordination. You do NOT hate her, you;re upset with her, but you DON'T hate her...when you're angry we say things we later regret...and if it's heated it's still true. Sh eneeds help, attention and understanding... Kill her with Kindness! She knows she can push all your buttons by getting you upset... try to not get upset, surprise her, take her out for ice cream, shopping, buy her something nice, take her out...let her be your friend then yourt sister...
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