View Full Version : question for GIRLS! What r you biggest turnoffs about boys?


~Teddybear~
11-14-2003, 07:26 PM
I just wanted to hear opinions from us girls since you guys got your say!

What is it about a males apperance, attitude, hygiene...etc..

Mines is when guys stink, their teeth r messed up, or they act really nerdy and arrogant...

Ewan's My Man
11-14-2003, 07:27 PM
When they're jerks!

~Teddybear~
11-14-2003, 07:27 PM
o yeah, and he can't be shorter than me!

MandieR1980
11-14-2003, 07:31 PM
If I see a guy and I'm attracted to him the second he pulls out a cigarette it's over for me. Smoking is so unattractive and nasty. I want to spend my life with someone who has pink lungs and who doesn't have a large chance of dying from lung cancer etc

He also has to smell good and have good hygiene

Kristina
11-14-2003, 07:34 PM
Personality, or split-personality might be a better way of saying it. Probably like 70-90% of guys cheat on their girlfriend/wife at least sometime in their relationship. ohno:

dawsongirl
11-14-2003, 07:35 PM
Huge...and I mean huge...egos.
Stupidity
Nasty dresser
Smoker
Heavy Drinker
Drug User
Bad Oral Hygeine
Doesn't know the meaning of the word shower
Stupid haircut
Lazy and no ambition

dawsongirl
11-14-2003, 07:36 PM
Originally posted by Kristina
Personality, or split-personality might be a better way of saying it. Probably like 70-90% of guys cheat on their girlfriend/wife at least sometime in their relationship. ohno:

Good point. I hate adultry.

Hollow
11-14-2003, 07:37 PM
when theyre ugly and theyre NOT loud and obnoxious. they have to be annoying and loud or **** them.

~Teddybear~
11-14-2003, 07:43 PM
when theyre ugly and theyre NOT loud and obnoxious. they have to be annoying and loud or **** them.


yea, i don't like quiet boys because then I would have to do all the talking...and they HAVE to have a sense of humor...they have to know exactly how to make me laugh.

AllIWantIsYourClutch
11-14-2003, 08:00 PM
When they act like immature pieces of crap.

MonarC
11-14-2003, 09:19 PM
The BIGGEST turnoff is when the guy thinks he is the hottest thing since sliced bread :rolleyes:

2nd cheaters....

guys who say "that's the womans job"

:schmack:

The Modfather
11-14-2003, 09:32 PM
Originally posted by TradingMooses
When they act like immature pieces of crap.

Nuts, guess I'm off your list! ;)

Moonlight Lady
11-14-2003, 09:35 PM
Guys who are conceited, abusive, have tattoos, slobs, bikers, drunks, druggies are turnoffs for me.

phoebe7165
11-14-2003, 10:11 PM
Smoking, from the get go.

Titania
11-14-2003, 10:17 PM
*hypocrites
*bad hygiene
*holier than thou attitude
*when they seem to think they're the most important thing in my life
*incapable of thinking for themselves
*one word: grammar
*another word: shower
*lack of ambition
*bad hair
*never ever let you pay for anything, open a door, or pull out your own chair. (come on now, i'm not helpless...drives me CRAZY)
*too suffocating

Elizabeth Smith
11-14-2003, 10:32 PM
I hate really short nails. Also I won't go out with a guy that doesn't keep a fresh hair cut. As far as personality, guys that curse too much, have bad table manners, who cheat, are bossy and don't leave good tips turn me off. And I NEVER want to hear how pretty another woman is if we're in a relationship!

TJL
11-14-2003, 10:43 PM
Originally posted by dawsongirl
Heavy Drinker


Define "Heavy."

;)

~*Hannah_Lee*~
11-14-2003, 11:04 PM
- Obnoxiousness
- Rudeness
- Bad Hygiene
- Smart elic know-it-alls
- Guys who just don't give any effort in anything they do
- Bad hair bothers me
- Guys who show no respect
- Arrogance
- Really messed up teeth bother me too
- Really bad sking bothers me too
- Guys who are too dressed up, ya know....I like the more laid back styles.
- Guys who drink a lot
- Guys who use drugs
- Guys who don't agree with my beliefs, or there is reason to believe differences cannot be worked out

°Bubbly Blonde°
11-14-2003, 11:47 PM
- Guys who dont take care of themselves (I actually like a guy who will attempt to out-dress me :D...in other words, a metrosexual)
- Gay bashers
- Guys who are unintelligent
- Ignorant guys in general
- Guys who brag too much
- Guys who like to always stay in-doors, but not do anything

..among other things..

Elizabeth Smith
11-14-2003, 11:49 PM
Originally posted by BubbleLuvGrl026
- Guys who dont take care of themselves (I actually like a guy who will attempt to out-dress me :D...in other words, a metrosexual)
- Gay bashers
- Guys who are unintelligent
- Ignorant guys in general
- Guys who brag too much
- Guys who like to always stay in-doors, but not do anything

..among other things..


metrosexual?huh?

Rebel Queen 1980
11-14-2003, 11:53 PM
When they make comments about your butt or legs.
''Nice buns,or ''Shake Them Mama!''I hate guys who do that!

I Dream of Jeannie
11-14-2003, 11:54 PM
Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~
- Obnoxiousness
- Rudeness
- Bad Hygiene
- Smart elic know-it-alls
- Guys who just don't give any effort in anything they do
- Bad hair bothers me
- Guys who show no respect
- Arrogance
- Really messed up teeth bother me too
- Really bad sking bothers me too
- Guys who are too dressed up, ya know....I like the more laid back styles.
- Guys who drink a lot
- Guys who use drugs
- Guys who don't agree with my beliefs, or there is reason to believe differences cannot be worked out

Ditto

°Bubbly Blonde°
11-15-2003, 12:02 AM
Originally posted by Elizabeth Smith
metrosexual?huh? ...yeah

http://www.salon.com/ent/feature/2002/07/22/metrosexual/

Elizabeth Smith
11-15-2003, 12:03 AM
Originally posted by BubbleLuvGrl026
...yeah


What's that?

°Bubbly Blonde°
11-15-2003, 12:08 AM
Originally posted by Elizabeth Smith
What's that? basically a guy who likes to take care of himself, likes working out, cares about hair products, can spend as much time in the bathroom as his girlfriend, etc :)

Elizabeth Smith
11-15-2003, 12:11 AM
Originally posted by BubbleLuvGrl026
basically a guy who likes to take care of himself, likes working out, cares about hair products, can spend as much time in the bathroom as his girlfriend, etc :)

OH!:lol: :lol: That's cute!

Crimson and Clover
11-15-2003, 12:12 AM
-rude
-obnoxious
-homophob
-arrogance
-close-minded/racist
-jesus freaks
-drug/alcohol abuser
-abusive (physical or mental)

pandora_spocks
11-15-2003, 12:16 AM
Everything about boys turns me off. :p

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
11-15-2003, 12:44 AM
Originally posted by MandieR1980
If I see a guy and I'm attracted to him the second he pulls out a cigarette it's over for me. Smoking is so unattractive and nasty. I want to spend my life with someone who has pink lungs and who doesn't have a large chance of dying from lung cancer etc


Yeah, smoking's definately a no-no...it's soo nasty puke: any drugs really...

Also, guys who think they're tough, hot sh*t, when they like you only for your looks (which wouldn't be the case for me anyway :lol: ) guys who yell a lot, bad attitude, boring, disrespectful, and bad hygiene

fr00ti
11-15-2003, 01:16 AM
that they exist. :o

Bad_Company
11-15-2003, 03:34 AM
Liars, cheaters, conceited guys, when they try to impress you with stupid stuff like what kinda car they have(who cares), :rolleyes: arrogant ,obnoxious .........

InspectorExstead
11-15-2003, 04:23 AM
I hate guys who are conceited. They need to get off their high horse. I hate guys who swear a lot too, becuase they tend to get angry the most, and that's also not fun. anyone who smokes (i cannot stand the smell) or does drugs (i don't care if you've tried it once-i think everyone will, but if you're hooked on it-then no.) anyone who is racist or homophobic.

EricIdlefan
11-15-2003, 03:55 PM
Racist, bigots, sexests, rude, crude, just plain mean, have no manners whatsoever, jerks, a*8holes!!

Lady T
11-18-2003, 01:57 AM
Men who smell of Body ordor
Men who cuss
Men who smoke
Men who drink too much
Men who dress sloppy
Men who do not respect women
Men who are prejudice
Men who are Republicans
Men who are yuppies
Men who cheat on their wives or girlfriends
Men who do not take care of their bodies
Men who have bad teeth
Men who have hair on their backs


Okay, I know that I am picky..Sorry

EricIdlefan
11-18-2003, 02:31 PM
Originally posted by Mrs. R.N.HARRIS
Men who smell of Body ordor
Men who cuss
Men who smoke
Men who drink too much
Men who dress sloppy
Men who do not respect women
Men who are prejudice
Men who are Republicans
Men Who are yuppies
Men who cheat on their wives or girlfriends
Men who do not take care of their bodies
Men who have bad teeth
Men who have hair on their backs


Okay, I know that I am picky..Sorry

:crazy: ;) :) :lol: :happyface :wave: A-Men that!!!

Blair85
11-18-2003, 05:03 PM
guys who are....
smug
too serious too fast
mushy
dope heads
smart butts
just talk about huntin' or cars:rolleyes:
smelly
old guys who flirt with you :eek:
guys who think they own you
guys that hurt other people or animals

Blair85
11-18-2003, 05:17 PM
I thought of another one and this goes for anyone-male or female. I CAN'T STAND when people don't do what they say they're gonna do!!! My last boyfriend would say he was gonna to do this or that and he never did do what he said. My friend said she was going to give me a computer. I never asked for it, I just walked by her one day at work and she said, "Hey, Emily, I'm going to give you my computer!" So I said ok, and she told me she'd bring it to my house on Tuesday. That was three weeks ago, I think, and she still hasn't brought it to me or even mentioned it.

EricIdlefan
11-19-2003, 01:12 PM
Originally posted by Blair85
I thought of another one and this goes for anyone-male or female. I CAN'T STAND when people don't do what they say they're gonna do!!! My last boyfriend would say he was gonna to do this or that and he never did do what he said. My friend said she was going to give me a computer. I never asked for it, I just walked by her one day at work and she said, "Hey, Emily, I'm going to give you my computer!" So I said ok, and she told me she'd bring it to my house on Tuesday. That was three weeks ago, I think, and she still hasn't brought it to me or even mentioned it.


I don't or never had a boyfriend but I hate making and breaking promises and/or the other way around. Hopefully, you will get that computer soon!! Very, very, soon!!