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Janice
09-07-2003, 02:00 AM
Anyone been bullied....anyone ever a bully?


WASHINGTON (Sept. 4) - Bullying shouldn't be dismissed as a harmless schoolyard rite of passage, according to a report that found bullies and their victims often develop behavioral and emotional problems later in life.

The study by Fight Crime: Invest in Kids, a national advocacy group, documents how bullying spawns loneliness, depression and suicidal tendencies among its victims and foreshadows crime and violence by perpetrators.

Still, not much has been done to prevent bullying in U.S. schools, the report said.

The group's supporters include this year's Miss America, Erika Harold, who was bullied in ninth grade and has been speaking about that experience during her reign.

``It started out with people calling me names, and then it got worse,'' Harold said. ``They threw things at me, they vandalized my house, and they sang nasty songs about me in school hallways and classrooms. It got so bad that I felt like I was in danger physically.''

A news conference with Harold and all 51 contestants in the 2004 Miss America pageant was scheduled for Thursday to release the report.

Bullying is defined as aggressive behavior by one person or group carried out repeatedly and over time and targeted at someone less powerful.

The report said for children in grades six through 10, nearly one in six, or 3.2 million, were victims of bullying each year and 3.7 million were bullies.

Nearly 60 percent of boys who researchers classified as bullies in grades six though nine were convicted of at least one crime by the age of 24; 40 percent of them had three or more convictions by 24, the report said.

``We can't afford to squander the early warning that bullying gives that a kid may be headed for trouble,'' said Sanford Newman, president of Fight Crime.

Those who are bullied are five times more likely to be depressed and far more likely to be suicidal, said the report, citing U.S. and European studies.

Bullying prevention programs are relatively inexpensive, the report said. For example, it costs about $4,000 to train someone to administer an anti-bullying program in a large school district, but $100,000 to put a child with emotional problems in special education for 12 years, the report said.

There are additional personnel costs but the report said federal money for safe and drug-free schools often will cover those expenses.

A 1998 study by Vanderbilt University estimated that each high-risk juvenile prevented from adopting a life of crime could save the country between $1.7 and $2.3 million.

Fight Crime: Invest in Kids is a group of over 2,000 law enforcement officers and victims of violence.

09/04/03 12:31 EDT

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Brian
09-07-2003, 02:05 AM
This person I graduated with got made fun of every day until graduation. It was mostly behind-the-back making fun. I never took part in it.
In 6th grade kids would say that there was something on my back and that they should slap it off and they would hit me endlessly every lunch until something was done by my friend.
Wasn't there an incident several years back in which this group of teenagers murdered a bully? There was a movie made in 2001 about it, I think.

fr00ti
09-07-2003, 02:07 AM
There's a girl that bullies me at school all the time. I told the assistant principal but she never did anything about it. But I've been bullied all my life. Always for the same reason.

Truth
09-07-2003, 02:08 AM
Originally posted by Brian
This person I graduated with got made fun of every day until graduation. It was mostly behind-the-back making fun. I never took part in it.
In 6th grade kids would say that there was something on my back and that they should slap it off and they would hit me endlessly every lunch until something was done by my friend.
Wasn't there an incident several years back in which this group of teenagers murdered a bully? There was a movie made in 2001 about it, I think.



Ah yea, ive seen part of that movie, yet to see it all, Not that im too eager to see it since its usually shown at night right before bed lol...

Brian
09-07-2003, 02:09 AM
Originally posted by AAOT
Ah yea, ive seen part of that movie, yet to see it all, Not that im too eager to see it since its usually shown at night right before bed lol...


Not to get off topic but that movie is pure garbage. I turned it off halfway since it was so bad.

Hollow
09-07-2003, 02:13 AM
Originally posted by Brian
Not to get off topic but that movie is pure garbage. I turned it off halfway since it was so bad.
Is it "pay it forward"?

Brian
09-07-2003, 02:13 AM
Originally posted by ~°Sarah°~
Is it "pay it forward"?


No. It's "Bully."

Truth
09-07-2003, 02:18 AM
Originally posted by Brian
Not to get off topic but that movie is pure garbage. I turned it off halfway since it was so bad.



ive seen the part from where they pretty much go from planning it to the actual crime scene... lotta swearing lol... ok back on topic...

dandelion wine
09-07-2003, 03:07 AM
Originally posted by Brian
No. It's "Bully."

That's one of the most disturbing movies I've ever seen.

Janice
09-07-2003, 03:12 AM
Originally posted by little insomniac
That's one of the most disturbing movies I've ever seen.
I agree. The scene where they kill him is awful.

Hollow
09-07-2003, 03:14 AM
Originally posted by Janice
I agree. The scene where they kill him is awful.
how do they kill him?

Janice
09-07-2003, 03:17 AM
Originally posted by ~°Sarah°~
how do they kill him?
Stab him, beat him. They all gang up on him in an open field. Throw his body in a lake.

dandelion wine
09-07-2003, 04:32 AM
Originally posted by Janice
I agree. The scene where they kill him is awful.

The first time I ran across the movie, that was the scene I landed on. I could not believe what I was seeing, so I decided to watch it again, find out why they felt he deserved to be murdered like that. The entire movie, much less that one particular scene, is something I will never forget.

Polniaczek033
09-07-2003, 10:05 AM
i have been bullied for my weight, and my beliefs


now I am the bully...haha...they suck..

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-07-2003, 11:42 AM
I've never been bullied...and I would never EVER bully someone else.

Kristina
09-07-2003, 12:14 PM
Yeah, mostly in elementary school. I hated being there, those kids used to make me come home crying everyday and when I'd tell the principal and teachers they never did anything about it. I missed alot of days because of how mean kids were.

I don't get bullied anymore, not that I'm popular or anything I mean I only hang out with a couple people. :lol: It's like I'm not even noticed anymore.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
09-07-2003, 12:50 PM
I've been teased before throughout school.. but it wasnt an everyday thing, but it did piss me off.

BrandonS
09-07-2003, 01:18 PM
Once in high school, I took a summer school class. One day, I was walking home from class when I heard two bicycles coming up behind me on the sidewalk. I moved over to the side to let them by. Apparently one of the kids, neither of whom I knew, thought this was funny, because they tried to run me down, and then came back for a few more passes at me. Very brave, huh? I was on foot. One of the kids was clearly the ring leader, and the other just sort of along for the fun. This happened every day for about a week. I didn't really know who they were. Then, one day, I ran into the kid who was just the follower in the school library. I told him that he was dead unless he answered my questions about the ring leader kid. The next morning I waited for the really bad one before class. He fought back, but never bothered me again for the rest of high school.

Moonlight Lady
09-07-2003, 02:19 PM
I've was the victim of bullies from 5th grade to the end of 8th.
Some years were worse than others. That ended once when moved. The school and the neighborhood was alot nicer. I still got teased but I just brushed it off and it stopped. The rest of High School was pretty uneventful.

The Modfather
09-07-2003, 02:34 PM
I have been teased cause I STINK at Basketball but I never ever Bully any one Else.

brownsocks
09-07-2003, 02:45 PM
i am have been bullied. A few years a go i wanted to fit in, I don't know why and when i look back it has caused so many problems. I am the smart guy so naturaly people think I am timid and won't stand up for myself, they are wrong. I have my morals and i won't be broken by people who i am amazed can tie their shoes. All the ***** i've put up with has made me who i am today. No one understands where i got my princepals because no one in my family and my friends has them.

ur sit'N on my penny
09-07-2003, 02:54 PM
i've never been bullied...but i bully other ppl like this one gothic girl april i bullied her in lunch or something and she poured iced tea on my head lmao.........i think everones scared of my group of friends cause i beat everyone up and my friends make funna them real bad

Max Whittaker
09-07-2003, 03:19 PM
My highschool was really bad. The only way you'd survive is if you were part of a groop(swim team, band etc). I've seen kids almost completely black and blue from beatings. The unreported crime rate is very high. It's why I took up martial arts. Good friends, I've found, are also imortant. God am I glad to be out of there!