Me and Jonathan.

Dating 6 Months.

I love him to death.

Ok, now that you're caught up...

I love Jonathan to death. But it's like lately I have had this doubtful, knawing feeling in my stomach that I just can't put my finger on... I had this once before just a couple of weeks ago, and we talked about it, and I thought we had it worked out, but it's like it came back. It's almost like I feel I need a break, not a break up, just like a week off, just i guess to let myself see what I've got and have a chance to miss him? You know? I just don't know how to tell him that w/ out crushing him.. when we talked about it before he broke down and cried and it scared him to death that I was breaking up with him. I just don't knwo what to do. Any advice?

Thank ya...

My advice would be explain it to him- you love him and don't want to break up- you just need some time for yourself. He sounds like a great guy and I'd hope he'd understand that.
Sometimes you need that time to figure out things solo and if your instinct is telling you that, its probably a good idea.

I remember, Amanda, that you said you had this problem with every guy you dated after a few months.. so Im assuming this is kind of like the same thing? Just tell him you need some 'me' time and want to be able to enjoy time by yourself and other friends because you dont want to get too deep too fast. Just because you're taking a 'break' doesnt mean you cant talk to him at all.