I have a friend who complains all the time. It has gotten so bad that i have to make up things so she won't call me. Everytime she calls she says I"M BORED. or "IT"S NOTHING ON TV. Anf I guess I'm bothered by it because she is 23 and i thought that 23 years old would know how to occupy theirself. When I see her number on the caller if i don't answer the phone-LOL I ony talk to her when she is at work because when she is home it's aggravating. So I feel she needs the internet or a boyfriend.

I don't have this problem, but I do have people who call with dumb questions that I just answered the day before or in a previous call the same day. It's like they don't pay attention the first time. LOL Oh well!
Maybe your friend needs a pet and a hobby.

Originally posted by mcgwirefan
I don't have this problem, but I do have people who call with dumb questions that I just answered the day before or in a previous call the same day. It's like they don't pay attention the first time. LOL Oh well!
Maybe your friend needs a pet and a hobby.

Yes a Hobby is what she needs. But i don't think she has one. She likes to shop but you need money to do that and i think of nothing else she likes to do.

No... I dont really have that problem. I dont really complain about things.. I bitch about them!:lol: I dont mind people whining for a bit- we all have those days, but after a while its like bring out the bib and eat some CBS. I dont want to be brought down!

Yes. People tell me all their problems and I could honestly care less about them.

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
Yes. People tell me all their problems and I could honestly care less about them. Exactly. If it doesnt concern me, I dont want to hear the sob stories. Thats why we have Dear Abby.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Exactly. If it doesnt concern me, I dont want to hear the sob stories. Thats why we have Dear Abby.


Exactly, which is why her calls are avoided. But i think it has a lot to do with me being her only friend. It's no one else for her to call so i win the ticket to hear the sob stories-LOL. My hobby is tape trading and one week i was backed up with trades, so i didn't call her in 3 days and she thought I was mad at her-LOL I was like what am I going to do with her.LOL

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Exactly, which is why her calls are avoided. But i think it has a lot to do with me being her only friend. It's no one else for her to call so i win the ticket to hear the sob stories-LOL. My hobby is tape trading and one week i was backed up with trades, so i didn't call her in 3 days and she thought I was mad at her-LOL I was like what am I going to do with her.LOL I cant stand it when people think youre mad at them just because you havent spoken to them in a while. Meangya, it goes both ways.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
I cant stand it when people think youre mad at them just because you havent spoken to them in a while. Meangya, it goes both ways.


So i called her back and ask "ARE WE BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND? She had to laugh at that. I was like i didn't know i had to check in everyday-LOL

Yeah I used to have a friend that complained about her life all the time, it got to the point that she became so annoying and self-centered, that I ended the friendship..we all have problems and it is okay to complain about certain things or people in our life, but we change those things..but she never did and contuined to complain and moan and it became overly monotonous....She was 32 years old and acted like she was still in her teens..I wish her the best but after awhile, and forgive me if I sound callous, became a royal pain and it was not fun or enjoyable to hang out with her or have a conversation with her:(

Originally posted by foxyhonky1975
Yeah I used to have a friend that complained about her life all the time, it got to the point that she became so annoying and self-centered, that I ended the friendship..we all have problems and it is okay to complain about certain things or people in our life, but we change those things..but she never did and contuined to complain and moan and it became overly monotonous....She was 32 years old and acted like she was still in her teens..I wish her the best but after awhile, and forgive me if I sound callous, became a royal pain and it was not fun or enjoyable to hang out with her or have a conversation with her:(


I'm slowly getting to that point-LOL

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
I'm slowly getting to that point-LOL Be honest with her..tell her to get a grip on life..this individual wouldnt even listen to me or others..so I finally had enough; I have problems too, but I am not going to air them to the world:)

Well...you're not exactly my friend. More like an aquaintance.

Originally posted by foxyhonky1975
Yeah I used to have a friend that complained about her life all the time, it got to the point that she became so annoying and self-centered, that I ended the friendship..we all have problems and it is okay to complain about certain things or people in our life, but we change those things..but she never did and contuined to complain and moan and it became overly monotonous....She was 32 years old and acted like she was still in her teens..I wish her the best but after awhile, and forgive me if I sound callous, became a royal pain and it was not fun or enjoyable to hang out with her or have a conversation with her:(I think poeple who complain all the time realise the world has gone to crap amd they are tired of it.....

Its hard for me getting thru each day!!!!! -- I mi$$ my friends and its left a hole I cant seem to get out of.... (They mean that much to me)