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~Teddybear~
08-26-2003, 08:42 PM
HELP!!!! HERE IS THE DEAL..MY BEST FRIEND HAS A BOYFRIEND AND I DONT. THEY HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 7 MONTHS STRAIGHT SO OF COURSE SHE THINKS SHE LOVES HIM. SHE IS ALWAYS TELLING ME HOW GOOD HE IS TO HER AND THEY SPEND ALOT OF TIME TOGETHER. THEY ARE ALWAYS DOUBLE OR TRIPLE DATING AND I CAN NEVER BE INCLUDED IN THE FUN BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE A DATE. LAST TIME I WENT TO THE MOVIES WITH 6 FRIENDS AND EVERYONE WAS PAIRED UP BUT ME. I DIDN'T HAVE ANY FUN. MY FRIENDS ARE IN THE PROCESS OF FINDING ME A BOYFRIEND, BUT NO ONE SEEMS RIGHT. I JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. IM A TEENAGER AND I DON'T GO OUT ANYMORE BECAUSE I DONT HAVE A BF. WHAT CAN I DO??

Titania
08-26-2003, 09:13 PM
thats a lot of capital letters.... :lol:

I have some friends who are those disgustingly cute couples...not being able to see them alone or go places together w/out feeling like the odd one out gets really old fast

couple ideas....

grab a guy friend (and someone who isnt looking for a relationship) and go along w/ the group- then you wont feel so left out but wont be rushing into a relationship just for the sake of being in one

next time your best friend is out w/ her bf, gather up some other single friends and go somewhere on your own or gather up some single friends and go to a club (not sure on your age so maybe skip that one... ;) ) or to a dance (check out local prep schools and military schools for mixers)

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
08-26-2003, 10:15 PM
I felt the same way when my friend(s) got a boyfriend, it hurts. I recommend though NOT going out with them because it is not fun and why put yourself through the torture everytime?

~Teddybear~
08-28-2003, 04:11 PM
Thanx, but the problem is, I don't have any single friends, they all have bf's and gf's. And the ones who are single aren't exactly my closest friends..I only hang with my closest ones.