My friend has the meanest and rudest boyfriend ever, and she seems like she doesnt even care. See he treats every one of her friends like crap (including myself) and smacks ppl around and she thinks it's charming. She has their kids named and everything, SHES ONLY 14! She wants to marry him. She sits right there while he calls me a bi&^% and whore and doesnt care. Ugh... srry I guess I am on rant.. I dont know if I should dump her as a friend or not... She just doesnt seem worth the time any more I am just really frustrated

The relationship wont last long. She's only 14. Just wait it out, she's going to need you later.

I agree with Kayla. I understand how you feel though.

They've been going out for an entire YEAR AND A HALF. I do agree though that it probably will end. Thanx ppl :;):

Have you tried talking to her? Tell her how it makes you feel when the jerk puts you down!

He sounds like a real winner.
Maybe you should lay back for a while, if your girlfriend sees that this guy is scaring her friends away, she may think twice about keeping him around.
Your friend will probably come to her senses and give this guy the heave ho.

it will be over soon once she realizes that she is dating a real jerk!! (similar thing happened with my friend)

Originally posted by TJL
He sounds like a real winner.
Maybe you should lay back for a while, if your girlfriend sees that this guy is scaring her friends away, she may think twice about keeping him around.
Your friend will probably come to her senses and give this guy the heave ho.

I agree. Hang out with other friends and try to avoid her and maybe she'll get the message.

Originally posted by Midnight LaCE
They've been going out for an entire YEAR AND A HALF. I do agree though that it probably will end. Thanx ppl :;):

How old is HE? THats a long time!

I hate to say this but... There is a danger that your friend has developed a pattern. Even if she falls out of this current relatiionship she might climb into another one quite similar. A year and a half of that sort of relationship is something to be concened about. You might as well be as honest with her as you can. Tell her how much you not only dislike being mistreated by him, but tell her how much you dislike seeing him mistreat her also. If things change for the better, that would be nice, but I'm afraid that you'd best not get your hopes up.

If I were you I would tell my friend that if this guy was going to be around me, that he would either be nice to me, or she would be having to find another friend.

if she loves him and he at least repects her let em keep goin out.