I'm not looking for anything serious or nothing sexual. The last time I checked, a male and female go out on a date to eventally led up to something intimate or a serious relationship or BOTH. My friends has heard that statement by females and I hear it on TV. I just want to know is it easy for a guy to think a female is looking for a free OUTING when she makes a statement like that? Please no attacks toward me I'm just asking a question.

Can you please quit making these stupids post? They are so annoying and they all say the same things. You need to find a girlfriend and get lost for a while.

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6
Can you please quit making these stupids post? They are so annoying and they all say the same things. You need to find a girlfriend and get lost for a while.


DIDN"T I JUST SAY NO ATTACKS? CAN U READ? JUST ANSWER THE DAMM QUESTION

Originally posted by SOLOMON



DIDN"T I JUST SAY NO ATTACKS? CAN U READ? JUST ANSWER THE DAMM QUESTION

excuse you. What can you expect when people have saw a total of about 10 posts exactly like this in the past week. And I can say anything I wanna say, and yes I can read Idiot.

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6


excuse you. What can you expect when people have saw a total of about 10 posts exactly like this in the past week. And I can say anything I wanna say, and yes I can read Idiot.

ok i agree with you but we should not attack him...just ignore him...:)

Originally posted by TheFonzIsCool


ok i agree with you but we should not attack him...just ignore him...:)

ok, I am sorry. I will try not and attack him again.:)

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6


excuse you. What can you expect when people have saw a total of about 10 posts exactly like this in the past week. And I can say anything I wanna say, and yes I can read Idiot.


For your information, this is a completely different topic. I just want you females to explain the things that come out of yall mouth. I was just curious to know what does i'm not looking for sex or a relationship mean? if you never said that then this POST DOES APPLY TO YOU!-

Originally posted by SOLOMON



For your information, this is a completely different topic. I just want you females to explain the things that come out of yall mouth. I was just curious to know what does i'm not looking for sex or a relationship mean? if you never said that then this POST DOES APPLY TO YOU!-

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Maybe she is just looking to have a good time. Kind of like when you go to the mall without any intentions of buying anything. You just go because you have nothing better to do.

Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~
Maybe she is just looking to have a good time. Kind of like when you go to the mall without any intentions of buying anything. You just go because you have nothing better to do.


So what is your definition of a good time? what does i just want to go out and have a good time mean?

Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~
Maybe she is just looking to have a good time. Kind of like when you go to the mall without any intentions of buying anything. You just go because you have nothing better to do. exactly

Originally posted by SOLOMON



So what is your definition of a good time? what does i just want to go out and have a good time mean?
To hang out and perhaps make a new friend. It doesnt always have to be sex.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

To hang out and perhaps make a new friend. It doesnt always have to be sex.


How come you can't just HANG OUT with a female? Not too many guys just want to be PLATONIC FRIENDS.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I just want you females to explain the things that come out of yall mouth

Every man has wanted this since the dawn of the human race, if not back even earlier when we were apes. I don't think it's going to happen.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

To hang out and perhaps make a new friend. It doesnt always have to be sex.

Yeah, that's exactly my answer. I want to know different people and hang around different people. I hang around chicks, but I want to hang around guys too. I'm not looking to participate in a screw fest, I just want to know different people.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Not too many guys just want to be PLATONIC FRIENDS.
And thats what often causes a lot of lost friendships. When the lil man down the pants starts speaking for the brain.

Originally posted by Jenny


Yeah, that's exactly my answer. I want to know different people and hang around different people. I hang around chicks, but I want to hang around guys too. I'm not looking to participate in a screw fest, I just want to know different people.


Well that sounds fine, but most females want the guy to foot the bill for everything while they just want to hang out. Now if a female was paying for herself then hanging out and meeting new people would be fine. IMO, a female can't blurt out she is not looking for anything intimate or a relationship and still expect a guy to pay for everything. Do u agree Jenny?

Originally posted by SOLOMON



How come you can't just HANG OUT with a female? Not too many guys just want to be PLATONIC FRIENDS.

A guy who is really worth a girl's time is interested in a girl for a whole lot more than sex or other physical stuff.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

And thats what often causes a lot of lost friendships. When the lil man down the pants starts speaking for the brain.

So do u think a guy should pay for dinner if u are just looking to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE? Meaning that if you want a Platonic friend, should you and the guy go dutch?

Originally posted by SOLOMON


So do u think a guy should pay for dinner if u are just looking to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE?

If he asks her to go out with him, then yes he should pay.

Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~


A guy who is really worth a girl's time is interested in a girl for a whole lot more than sex or other physical stuff.


Well not just about sex, i'm saying if a female is not looking to eventually get into a relationship or something intimate then she is wasting a guy time. That's the purpose of being out on a date, TO SEE IF U WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR INTIMATE. Agree?

some people are just so stupid that they need to be hit to knock some sense into them. you're one of them.

Grrrr. You make me angry.

Originally posted by YearbookLoser
some people are just so stupid that they need to be hit to knock some sense into them. you're one of them.


GROW UP and learn to have mature discussions and stop being ********.

Originally posted by MaRtInA_GuRL
Grrrr. You make me angry.


You make yourself angry-LOL

Originally posted by SOLOMON



You make yourself angry-LOL

Huh? What the hell?

Originally posted by MaRtInA_GuRL


Huh? What the hell?
:lol:

Originally posted by SOLOMON



Well that sounds fine, but most females want the guy to foot the bill for everything while they just want to hang out. Now if a female was paying for herself then hanging out and meeting new people would be fine. IMO, a female can't blurt out she is not looking for anything intimate or a relationship and still expect a guy to pay for everything. Do u agree Jenny?

I'd prob. pay for myself, either way. Some people do expect the boyfriend to pick up the tab if you are in the relationship with him, but I would still pay my own way whether I was deep in a relationship with him or if I just wanted to hang out with him as a new friend. I know it sounds crazy to some, but I'd rather just pay my own ways and avoid the bitching.

Edit: When I say some people that isn't everybody in the world. A person might think it's rare for someone to pay their own way, even when someone offers to pay for you, but I'm sure quite a few people might feel the same way as I do. Hope this post makes sense.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



GROW UP and learn to have mature discussions and stop being ********.

lykE oMigAh iF sHe uh LYke Um asKs mEh aBoUt mAh jOb oN dA fIrs DatE dEn sHe Iz UmMmM lYkE rUde!

Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~

:lol:

Why's that funny?

It's guys like you SOLOMON that give men a bad name.

Originally posted by YearbookLoser


lykE oMigAh iF sHe uh LYke Um asKs mEh aBoUt mAh jOb oN dA fIrs DatE dEn sHe Iz UmMmM lYkE rUde!
:rotflmao:


You people are cracking me up!

Originally posted by Jenny:
I'd rather just pay my own ways and avoid the bitching
It's sad that you've had to put up with bitching about it. I am being really truthful now when I say that I get a charge out of paying for my date and have always felt that way - and it's not because I've always had a surplus of money, either.

Originally posted by YearbookLoser


lykE oMigAh iF sHe uh LYke Um asKs mEh aBoUt mAh jOb oN dA fIrs DatE dEn sHe Iz UmMmM lYkE rUde!


You are a weirdo

Originally posted by Original Prankster
It's guys like you SOLOMON that give men a bad name.


What in the world are u talking about?

Here's the other side of the situation:

The guy asks the gal out; they go to a movie or dinner or both.

He pays.

Then he expects the gal to "put out" with her body, as if dinner and a movie has the same value as her body and her dignity and her self-respect.

Surprise! Her body and her dignity and her self-respect are invaluable. No dinner or movie or even scintillating conversation can equal the value of the individual that is this human being.

I'd rather pay for my own entertainment. I'll give the guy currency before I'll willingly give him what he expects.

Another possibility is that "I'm not looking for an intimate relationship right now" sounds a lot kinder than "God help me, this is the worst date ever." Not saying that's the case here, just a possibility. Many people see it okay to lie if it's done to spare someone's feelings.

Ugh you are ignorant! One date doesn't mean anything serious will happen, sometimes people go on a date to have FUN. :rolleyes:

Translation:

BOYOIYOIYOIYOIYOING!!!!

;) :lol:

I guess they don't call 'em boys for nothing...

Originally posted by SOLOMON


So do u think a guy should pay for dinner if u are just looking to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE? Meaning that if you want a Platonic friend, should you and the guy go dutch?

I have a platonic male friend, We go dutch. It works out great. Yes, going dutch would be fair if you're platonic friends.

Because believe it or not, a lot of women don't like to go out and boink the first guy they meet. Women like to get to know people first before they lead into anything serious. Maybe they are looking to just have fun... but fun doesn't mean sex most of the time. Maybe they don't want to say they're looking for a deep relationship because they don't want to lead the guy on. If the guy shows them a good time in other ways, then maybe it will lead to a deep relationship. Remember, women are the ones that have to carry the possible result of your definition of a relationship for 9 months.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I'm not looking for anything serious or nothing sexual. The last time I checked, a male and female go out on a date to eventally led up to something intimate or a serious relationship or BOTH. My friends has heard that statement by females and I hear it on TV. I just want to know is it easy for a guy to think a female is looking for a free OUTING when she makes a statement like that? Please no attacks toward me I'm just asking a question.

There probably would be no point in actually dating. Maybe she just wants to just be friends and not be involved in a relationship.

Solomon before you find out the hard way... :lol: I think you should speak to the lady in question and find out if she's really interested in you. If you feel she is than take her out. Woman give out strong signals when they're really interest in you.

If a man asked me out and I didn't think he was "all that" I wouldn't take his offer. I would tell him no thank you.

Just speak up! Tell them what it is that you're looking for from the get go. If you want a steady gal then "Tell them I'm looking for a girl friend and wink ;)". Or I want a relationship with you. If it's a BAM session you're interested in than try to be upfront about it but, most gals are not into that not unless she wants the same thing you do, And there are some who are this way too. I'd rather have an honest guy who's upfront with me!

Originally posted by Mysty Eyes
Here's the other side of the situation:

The guy asks the gal out; they go to a movie or dinner or both.

He pays.

Then he expects the gal to "put out" with her body, as if dinner and a movie has the same value as her body and her dignity and her self-respect.

Surprise! Her body and her dignity and her self-respect are invaluable. No dinner or movie or even scintillating conversation can equal the value of the individual that is this human being.

I'd rather pay for my own entertainment. I'll give the guy currency before I'll willingly give him what he expects.

yes! couldnt have said it any better... its sick how so many guys think that way.

and SOLOMON- if a girls not looking for a serious relationship do you expect her to never leave the house or something?

and hate to break it to you but the old "im not looking for a relationship" line could just be because she doesnt like you.

Originally posted by Titania



and hate to break it to you but the old "im not looking for a relationship" line could just be because she doesnt like you.



WOW, I dont know how THAT would be possible :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Nanny Fine




WOW, I dont know how THAT would be possible :rolleyes:

It can happen if you're systematically told throughout the date that all your opinions are wrong ;)

Originally posted by Jenny


Yeah, that's exactly my answer. I want to know different people and hang around different people. I hang around chicks, but I want to hang around guys too. I'm not looking to participate in a screw fest, I just want to know different people.

Well said!!

Ok, so that's like saying every time you go out with anyone on a date, it should always lead to sex. That's messed up.

Originally posted by YearbookLoser
some people are just so stupid that they need to be hit to knock some sense into them. you're one of them.


:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

There can be relationships without sex. It is possible.

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
Ugh you are ignorant! One date doesn't mean anything serious will happen, sometimes people go on a date to have FUN. :rolleyes:

Oh really

Originally posted by SOLOMON



How come you can't just HANG OUT with a female? Not too many guys just want to be PLATONIC FRIENDS.

what are you on? a man and a women can't be JUST friends? dude you are missing out if you think that way

Originally posted by brownsocks

a man and a women can't be JUST friends?

seriously, solomon, if that were true i would have barely any friends...

Originally posted by Titania


seriously, solomon, if that were true i would have barely any friends...

What I'm saying is, most men don't NEED A lot of Platonic friends. If they want to HANG ou with a someoe they can hang out with the guys.

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6
Can you please quit making these stupids posts? They are so annoying and they all say the same things. You need to find a girlfriend and get lost for a while.

ditto.

Originally posted by SOLOMON


What I'm saying is, most men don't NEED A lot of Platonic friends. If they want to HANG ou with a someoe they can hang out with the guys.

so why do they have to just hang out w/ "the guys"??

Originally posted by Titania


so why do they have to just hang out w/ "the guys"??


Because I'm not into being around a female constantly who is not a girlfriend or a you know what. It has to be one or the other. Now i will talk on the phone to a female as FRIENDS? but not go out with her. Sorry that's just not me.

I'm not trying to be rude, Solomon, but why do you feel that way? Most guys just accept women no matter what.

if you dont want attacks then stop asking these stupid questions.

Originally posted by *~PinkLady59~*
I'm not trying to be rude, Solomon, but why do you feel that way? Most guys just accept women no matter what.


I do accept women but let's say i'm interested in a female for a possible relationship but she doesn't feel the same way, what would be the point in remaining Friends with her if i'm really attracted to this female? I would just be toturing myself. So it would be best to go our seperate ways.

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover
if you dont want attacks then stop asking these stupid questions.


And if you want me to stop calling you ******** then stop posting ******** messages.

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover
if you dont want attacks then stop asking these stupid questions.

Exactly!!

Originally posted by SOLOMON

And if you want me to stop calling you ******** then stop posting ******** messages.

how am i ******** and how are my messages ******** and ive never seen you call me that before

Solomon I'm sure that you do not care BUT do you realize what a derogatory and mean name it is to continually call people "******" and "********". Do you have absolutely NO social skills whatsoever?

I try so hard to teach my daughter not to call someone a name that you wouldn't want to be called yourself. Too bad no one ever taught you that. :mad:

Solomon,instead of posting these stupid messages,why don't you try and figure some of these things out for yourself?Geez :rolleyes:

Originally posted by MaRtInA_GuRL


Why's that funny?

Oh I was laughing because I was thinking the same exact thing you were. His comment made no sense at all. "You make yourself angry." What that crap does that mean??

Originally posted by Nanny Fine
Solomon I'm sure that you do not care BUT do you realize what a derogatory and mean name it is to continually call people "******" and "********". Do you have absolutely NO social skills whatsoever?

I try so hard to teach my daughter not to call someone a name that you wouldn't want to be called yourself. Too bad no one ever taught you that. :mad:

I clearly said in my post that i didn't want any attacks toward me and i'm just asking a question. So if someone attacks me for my opinion then i'm attacking back. UNDERSTAND??????

Originally posted by vintagetvgirl
Solomon,instead of posting these stupid messages,why don't you try and figure some of these things out for yourself?Geez :rolleyes:

IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY QUESTIONS THEN GO TO THE NEXT THREAD!! HOW HARD IS THAT???

Originally posted by SOLOMON



I was just curious to know what does i'm not looking for sex or a relationship mean?

you dumbass, "i'm not looking for sex or a relatinoship" means.... THERE NOT LOOKING FOR SEX OR A RELATIONSHIP! Damn.. it's called being friends. i've been best friends w/ Brian for 3 years now... we've been roomates for nearly 5 months.. you don't see us clawing off each others clothes. Next time you go out w/ a girl, go dutch treat if you are that worried about loosing your money.

Oh, and if your worried about the money... get a prostitue, you'll get sex then.

Originally posted by SOLOMON


I clearly said in my post that i didn't want any attacks toward me and i'm just asking a question. So if someone attacks me for my opinion then i'm attacking back. UNDERSTAND??????


Calling someone ******** as a "defense" doesn't show you much intelligence. It's a derogatory hurtful word and your continual use of it in the manner you use it just shows how ignorant you really are.

You and your posts, your ignorance never cease to amaze me. Just when I think you can't say anything more stupid than the post before, you DO.

Spend a day in a hospital working with physical and mentally challenged people. See how fast you get smacked up side the head for using that word you continue to use here.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I was just curious to know what does i'm not looking for sex or a relationship mean?
if a girl says that she means she means she doesnt want sex or a relationship. make sense?

Originally posted by SOLOMON


I clearly said in my post that i didn't want any attacks toward me and i'm just asking a question. So if someone attacks me for my opinion then i'm attacking back. UNDERSTAND??????

i didnt even freakin attack you

Originally posted by JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo


you dumbass, "i'm not looking for sex or a relatinoship" means.... THERE NOT LOOKING FOR SEX OR A RELATIONSHIP! Damn.. it's called being friends. i've been best friends w/ Brian for 3 years now... we've been roomates for nearly 5 months.. you don't see us clawing off each others clothes. Next time you go out w/ a girl, go dutch treat if you are that worried about loosing your money.

Oh, and if your worried about the money... get a prostitue, you'll get sex then.


You can answer the question without name-calling

Originally posted by SOLOMON



You can answer the question without name-calling

what do you expect? dumbass.

Originally posted by Nanny Fine



Calling someone ******** as a "defense" doesn't show you much intelligence. It's a derogatory hurtful word and your continual use of it in the manner you use it just shows how ignorant you really are.

You and your posts, your ignorance never cease to amaze me. Just when I think you can't say anything more stupid than the post before, you DO.

Spend a day in a hospital working with physical and mentally challenged people. See how fast you get smacked up side the head for using that word you continue to use here.


Can i ask u something, what is wrong my question that i'm asking in this post? I just want to know what females mean when they say they aRE not looking for anything sexual or serious.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



You can answer the question without name-calling

i dont believe you have any right to talk about name calling.

Solomon, you've posted a number of similar threads, and all of them have made people mad at you. Unless you like having the other members mad at you, why keep doing it?

Originally posted by BrandonS
Solomon, you've posted a number of similar threads, and all of them have made people mad at you. Unless you like having the other members mad at you, why keep doing it?


I can care less who gets mad, i'm trying to get number of resposes to a certain question. What is wrong with that?

Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~


Oh I was laughing because I was thinking the same exact thing you were. His comment made no sense at all. "You make yourself angry." What that crap does that mean??

OoO ok. :lol:

Originally posted by SOLOMON:
I can care less who gets mad, i'm trying to get number of resposes to a certain question. What is wrong with that?
It's kind of unusual not to care if a lot of people are mad at you. Actually, most people would rather have other people like them than be mad at them.

As to your question, "What's wrong with that?" you don't seem to be getting what you're after here. Why keep doing something that isn't working

Originally posted by BrandonS

It's kind of unusual not to care if a lot of people are mad at you. Actually, most people would rather have other people like them than be mad at them.

As to your question, "What's wrong with that?" you don't seem to be getting what you're after here. Why keep doing something that isn't working


The purpose of the post was to find out the definition of "I just want to go out and have fun". Females are know for making that statement and won't tell u what exactly what they mean. So i just want to see what other females from different areas had to say in regards to that statement. I really didn't understand what all the name-calling was about.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I really didn't understand what all the name-calling was about.

yeah i know i dont understand why you had to go and call me ********. :rolleyes: i didnt call you any names.

What's the point of posting a thread when you say "no attacks" but you know everyone is going to attack you?

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover


yeah i know i dont understand why you had to go and call me ********. :rolleyes: i didnt call you any names.


You called my question stupid. And i'm not really trying to go back and forth with anyone on these boards. I'm just looking to have a mature discussion

so you think calling someone ******** is mature.

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover
so you think calling someone ******** is mature.


You're right, I apologize but in the future just don't criticize my post.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



You're right, I apologize but in the future just don't criticize my post.


And in the future don't call people names..

EDITED: Nevermind. I had a long drawn out post. You wouldn't be interested. :wave:

Originally posted by SOLOMON



You can answer the question without name-calling


Wait, wait let me get this straight. It's okay for YOU to call people ******** and losers BUT no one can call you names in posts?

I'm sorry, doesn't sound fair to me at all.

You get what you give Solomon. It all comes full circle. You better duck when your circle is ready to close cause methinks your gonna get your butt kicked.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



Can i ask u something, what is wrong my question that i'm asking in this post? I just want to know what females mean when they say they aRE not looking for anything sexual or serious.


Why can't you address how cruel it is to continually call someone ********?


Here is the code to what females mean when they say they are not looking for anything sexual or serious...



Ready?


It means they do not want to be doing anything involving any type of Sexual act NOR do they want to be with someone on a long term exclusive only basis.

I hope that was clear enough. Cracking the code sometimes is rough.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



You called my question stupid. And i'm not really trying to go back and forth with anyone on these boards. I'm just looking to have a mature discussion


You sure dont know how to go about having a mature discussion.

Originally posted by Nanny Fine



Wait, wait let me get this straight. It's okay for YOU to call people ******** and losers BUT no one can call you names in posts?

I'm sorry, doesn't sound fair to me at all.

You get what you give Solomon. It all comes full circle. You better duck when your circle is ready to close cause methinks your gonna get your butt kicked.



I have decided to eliminate the name-calling

Originally posted by SOLOMON




I have decided to eliminate the name-calling



omg. :eek:


I'm going back to bed.

Originally posted by Nanny Fine




omg. :eek:


I'm going back to bed.


What is that supposed to mean

Originally posted by TheFonzIsCool


ok i agree with you but we should not attack him...just ignore him...:)

TheFonzIsCool has the best idea yet. What do you all really hope to achieve by posting off-topic here? If you don't like this topic and want nothing to do with answering the original question, then ignore it completely. Some of you may have a beef with SOLOMON from previous posts, but he did start out here being polite so why did you all insist on making it ugly? SOLOMON didn't start the name calling. Okay, so he ended up contributing to it. I understand why people get mad about that. Then don't egg people on if you don't expect them to come back at you with your style. Nanny Fine (who by the way, I thought you had SOLOMON on ignore) said "You get what you give." Exactly. People called SOLOMON names, so he did it back. That's where the "get what you give" comes in. People really shouldn't turn around and blame SOLOMON for this thread. What SOLMON GAVE was a polite question, but SOME did not GIVE it back to him. And don't think I'm condoning what he ended up doing, but he at least didn't start it.

On a final damn note, if you don't like these posts ignore them! This thread has been cluttered with a lot of off topic nonsense that is solving nothing. SOLOMON will not stop these threads because of some angry posters telling him he's stupid, he needs to stop, blah blah blah blah blah.

Originally posted by Cashodeen


TheFonzIsCool has the best idea yet. What do you all really hope to achieve by posting off-topic here? If you don't like this topic and want nothing to do with answering the original question, then ignore it completely. Some of you may have a beef with SOLOMON from previous posts, but he did start out here being polite so why did you all insist on making it ugly? SOLOMON didn't start the name calling. Okay, so he ended up contributing to it. I understand why people get mad about that. Then don't egg people on if you don't expect them to come back at you with your style. Nanny Fine (who by the way, I thought you had SOLOMON on ignore) said "You get what you give." Exactly. People called SOLOMON names, so he did it back. That's where the "get what you give" comes in. People really shouldn't turn around and blame SOLOMON for this thread. What SOLMON GAVE was a polite question, but SOME did not GIVE it back to him. And don't think I'm condoning what he ended up doing, but he at least didn't start it.

On a final damn note, if you don't like these posts ignore them! This thread has been cluttered with a lot of off topic nonsense that is solving nothing. SOLOMON will not stop these threads because of some angry posters telling him he's stupid, he needs to stop, blah blah blah blah blah.


Exactly, i thought Nanny Fine had me on her ignore list but for some reason keeps responding to my posts.

Okay, sorry if this sounds stupid. It will prob. sound stupid, but what the hell, I'll say it anyway. Let's just say I'm a chick that loves to put out. I'm not the putting out type, I want to find the right man before I do anything. Anyway, for this post I'm a putter outer. I go out with different guys and it leads to a sexual experience. I put out like this for 5 years. I get knocked up 5 different times and with 5 different men. What does this say about me? God, I need to get on the pill, don't I? What if I end up with some sort of disease and I continue to put out because I don't know if I have a disease. I just passed the disease down the line. I am the whore of the town for putting out so much. I have 5 babies running around screaming for their father. You have to give me credit because I at least take down names and faces, so I do know who the babies daddies are. (P.S. For any future references, don't get me started on these chicks that put out so damn much and get knocked up and have NO idea who the daddy is. Just don't steer me down that path.) What if all the fathers run out on me. That ain't my kid, I ain't paying for the thing. blah blah blah My future is shot. How am I gonna pay for each and everything these kids are gonna need? Am I gonna have to get 3 or 4 jobs to clothe them, feed them, etc. I'm not gonna be around them at all if I do work 3-4 jobs. They'll prob. grow up hating my guts because I never get to see them. I just shot my life down the toilet and I can't take it all back. I'm diseased, I'm working my ass off working so much, and my kids hate my guts. Boy, life is just so joyous at times.

I guess I'm trying to say that sometimes it's best for two people to really get to know each other before doing anything. If I know the guy for a year, maybe more and I trust him, love him, it might lead to marriage. I'm sorry, I'm just not the type of person to put out until I'm married. I'm just that way. I know it sounds weird for anybody to think that way in today's times, but I just feel that way. Maybe the chicks you date are the same way, Solomon. Maybe they want to find the right person. Finding the right person is just a beautiful thing once you find that person. It's a special time if you find the person and it's your first time. The first time (with my true soulmate) would mean nothing at all for me if I've already done it 4 or 5 times with guys that didn't mean a thing to me.

Solomon, just wait for it. One day you're gonna meet the chick of your dreams and one day you two might get married. Don't rush her into anything. If she just wants to hang around you and get to know you, do that. Once you two know each other for awhile, maybe it will happen. Maybe she'll wait til marriage before it'll happen. Just don't rush her or get upset with her because she would rather hang out then screw.

Again, sorry if this whole post sounds stupid.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Exactly, i thought Nanny Fine had me on her ignore list but for some reason keeps responding to my posts.

I really don't see why anyone rags on you in the first place. If someone dislikes someone's opinions SO greatly that they are willing to get ticked off even when there is no reason to be currently ticked off (IE, this thread which started out decent but because of the past, people voice off-topic DRIVLE), then why don't they just STAY AWAY? I don't care if people argue about anything as long as its with the topic. It's almost like people are looking for a fight when they turn a civil thread into chaos.

Originally posted by Jenny
Okay, sorry if this sounds stupid. It will prob. sound stupid, but what the hell, I'll say it anyway. Let's just say I'm a chick that loves to put out. I'm not the putting out type, I want to find the right man before I do anything. Anyway, for this post I'm a putter outer. I go out with different guys and it leads to a sexual experience. I put out like this for 5 years. I get knocked up 5 different times and with 5 different men. What does this say about me? God, I need to get on the pill, don't I? What if I end up with some sort of disease and I continue to put out because I don't know if I have a disease. I just passed the disease down the line. I am the whore of the town for putting out so much. I have 5 babies running around screaming for their father. You have to give me credit because I at least take down names and faces, so I do know who the babies daddies are. (P.S. For any future references, don't get me started on these chicks that put out so damn much and get knocked up and have NO idea who the daddy is. Just don't steer me down that path.) What if all the fathers run out on me. That ain't my kid, I ain't paying for the thing. blah blah blah My future is shot. How am I gonna pay for each and everything these kids are gonna need? Am I gonna have to get 3 or 4 jobs to clothe them, feed them, etc. I'm not gonna be around them at all if I do work 3-4 jobs. They'll prob. grow up hating my guts because I never get to see them. I just shot my life down the toilet and I can't take it all back. I'm diseased, I'm working my ass off working so much, and my kids hate my guts. Boy, life is just so joyous at times.

I guess I'm trying to say that sometimes it's best for two people to really get to know each other before doing anything. If I know the guy for a year, maybe more and I trust him, love him, it might lead to marriage. I'm sorry, I'm just not the type of person to put out until I'm married. I'm just that way. I know it sounds weird for anybody to think that way in today's times, but I just feel that way. Maybe the chicks you date are the same way, Solomon. Maybe they want to find the right person. Finding the right person is just a beautiful thing once you find that person. It's a special time if you find the person and it's your first time. The first time (with my true soulmate) would mean nothing at all for me if I've already done it 4 or 5 times with guys that didn't mean a thing to me.

Solomon, just wait for it. One day you're gonna meet the chick of your dreams and one day you two might get married. Don't rush her into anything. If she just wants to hang around you and get to know you, do that. Once you two know each other for awhile, maybe it will happen. Maybe she'll want til marriage before it'll happen. Just don't rush her or get upset with her because she would rather hang out then screw.

Again, sorry if this whole post sounds stupid.



Well it's not really about sex, most females who live here in philadelphia looks for a FREE OUTING. And i just like to make sure a female is interested before i start spending money.

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Well it's not really about sex, most females who live here in philadelphia looks for a FREE OUTING. And i just like to make sure a female is interested before i start spending money.[Quote]

Oops, I did kind of talk about sex during that whole last post. Well, you have to admit I did have it covered with the 'It might sound stupid' part. I kind of veered away from the topic. Oops. :blush:

(sigh, I'm going to practice what I preach and post on topic now.)


The girl is, yes, looking for a free outing. I don't have a problem with guys and girls being just friends--kicking it with eachother like the rest of their pals. Sure, go for it. (although as I get older, I find more and more I don't want NEW male friends.) Well, if that's the case (where the girl just wants to be friends)then she should not be going out with the guy like it is a date, with him paying for it. Yes, I understand that if he asks her out, he is expected to pay. Well, then this uninterested chic should be expected to tell him before he is about to foot the bill, that she is not interested. How convenient that the lady waits until the date to say she's not looking for blah blah blah. And she may be looking for it all right--just not in her date. Bottom line, she was a bored, hungry, selfish girl stringing the guy on like that. She knew before accepting the date that her and the guy would be NOTHING.

Originally posted by Cashodeen
(sigh, I'm going to practice what I preach and post on topic now.)


The girl is, yes, looking for a free outing. I don't have a problem with guys and girls being just friends--kicking it with eachother like the rest of their pals. Sure, go for it. (although as I get older, I find more and more I don't want NEW male friends.) Well, if that's the case (where the girl just wants to be friends)then she should not be going out with the guy like it is a date, with him paying for it. Yes, I understand that if he asks her out, he is expected to pay. Well, then this uninterested chic should be expected to tell him before he is about to foot the bill, that she is not interested. How convenient that the lady waits until the date to say she's not looking for blah blah blah. And she may be looking for it all right--just not in her date. Bottom line, she was a bored, hungry, selfish girl stringing the guy on like that. She knew before accepting the date that her and the guy would be NOTHING.



I have a female friend who says sometimes when she gets hungry, she will flip through her phone book so a guy can take her to dinner. Guys have to watch out for females ike that.LOL

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I have a female friend who says sometimes when she gets hungry, she will flip through her phone book so a guy can take her to dinner. Guys have to watch out for females ike that.LOL

Oh my gosh! See? Girls like that are definitely out there. It's really easy for girls, in fact. They can eat real well many days of the week if they want to, and not have to spend any of their own money. It's really not fair for the guys. The least a girl could do is tell the guy before he asks her out that she isn't interested in being with him (or she can say "isn't interested in being with anybody" if she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.) I just hope guys then will have the sense to look for another girl to ask out and forget about spending their money on someone who has no interest. Unless of course, he is looking for "just a friend." Although, not likely.

On such a highly populated board, it's very possible that there is somebody who has a relative or friend who is mentally challenged and finds the careless flinging of the word "******" quite hurtful. A little more respect and consideration might be in order but, unfortunately, that may be wishful thinking.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



Exactly, i thought Nanny Fine had me on her ignore list but for some reason keeps responding to my posts.

Because even thought I DONT READ YOUR RESPONSES THEY SHOW UP IN THE OTHER PARTS OF THE THREAD SO I HAVE NO CHOICE but to see the ridiculous things that you say!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by Cashodeen


I really don't see why anyone rags on you in the first place. If someone dislikes someone's opinions SO greatly that they are willing to get ticked off even when there is no reason to be currently ticked off (IE, this thread which started out decent but because of the past, people voice off-topic DRIVLE), then why don't they just STAY AWAY? I don't care if people argue about anything as long as its with the topic. It's almost like people are looking for a fight when they turn a civil thread into chaos.


After he calls YOU an uneducated loser because he ASSUMES you've not gone to college or had some of the other luxuries he expects people to have, and CONSTANTLY tells you that your opinon has no worth OR calls a good friend of yours a National ******** then perhaps you might see why I cannot stand the man or his posts. The man carelessly throws around the word ****** like it's a noun and it's highly offensive.

I'm not looking for a fight but this man has no common sense, no sense of common decency and it drives me insane. I have him on ignore and I STILL have to read his posts because they are quoted through an entire thread. I can still see what he writes and I can't help but respond.

Originally posted by Nanny Fine



After he calls YOU an uneducated loser because he ASSUMES you've not gone to college or had some of the other luxuries he expects people to have, and CONSTANTLY tells you that your opinon has no worth OR calls a good friend of yours a National ******** then perhaps you might see why I cannot stand the man or his posts. The man carelessly throws around the word ****** like it's a noun and it's highly offensive.

I'm not looking for a fight but this man has no common sense, no sense of common decency and it drives me insane. I have him on ignore and I STILL have to read his posts because they are quoted through an entire thread. I can still see what he writes and I can't help but respond.



Well whoever your friend is probably said something mean to me in order for me to act in that way.

Originally posted by Nanny Fine
After he calls YOU an uneducated loser because he ASSUMES you've not gone to college or had some of the other luxuries he expects people to have, and CONSTANTLY tells you that your opinon has no worth OR calls a good friend of yours a National ******** then perhaps you might see why I cannot stand the man or his posts. The man carelessly throws around the word ****** like it's a noun and it's highly offensive.

I'm not looking for a fight but this man has no common sense, no sense of common decency and it drives me insane. I have him on ignore and I STILL have to read his posts because they are quoted through an entire thread. I can still see what he writes and I can't help but respond.

If you dislike SOLOMON that much than why not do the ultimate expression of hated--IGNORE. I know you have him on ignore. Go the next step and ignore completely. You know what I'm saying? It wastes your time. Unless you get enjoyment out of arguing with him with that "ignore button barrier" between you two--that's your business. I just never see a reason to argue with someone you'll never care for.

I can't speak about the college stuff. I stayed out of that one and heard only a little about it. But in all fairness, he starts threads out politely, but because of his opinions from the past some people want to turn everything he starts into negativity. If people want to turn new threads that start out fine into negative biz because of the past, then maybe they'd serve everyone best by just staying out of any of his stuff all together. Nothing changes by them doing it. Unless of course, they get some sort of enjoyment out of it lke I said before. Then that's their problem. It's pointless to me.