What do you do when someone really hurts you? Like when someone you trust and love really hurts you deep down inside how do you handle it?

For me, I just kinda deal with it day by day trying to figure out what the hell I did wrong or trying to figure out if it was actually me that caused the problem...

How 'bout you guys?

I do pretty much the same thing you do. I will also feel sick to my stomach and not want to eat anything. The only good thing that comes out of it is that I might lose a few pounds.

Well.... I only have two people in my life at the moment that I explicitly love and trust, and well, I'm currently mad at one of them because they said something to me that was like a slap in the face, but we won't go there.... I usually have a good cry for 3 or 4 hours then be a bitch for the rest of the week..

But yeah, the other one... well if she ever hurt me (which I'm fortunate enough to say that she hasn't) I'd probably die. I mean.... my God, she's probably, at the moment, the person I love most in life, who can just cheer me up out of any situation. I don't exactly know, because she's never hurt me.... but yeah. This woman is so important to me. And no, she's not related to me... just to clarify..

I go on with life..Yeah it hurts, But hey, Sh!!t happens.

I just try to go on with my normal life. It doesn't always work, though.

Originally posted by Miss Karly

But yeah, the other one... well if she ever hurt me (which I'm fortunate enough to say that she hasn't) I'd probably die. I mean.... my God, she's probably, at the moment, the person I love most in life, who can just cheer me up out of any situation. I don't exactly know, because she's never hurt me.... but yeah. This woman is so important to me. And no, she's not related to me... just to clarify..

You know, I have someone like that too. I completely trust her and shes always been there for me and i know I can talk to her about anything but lately...I dunno. Maybe somethings bothering her or I did something but I dunno. Shes been kinda snotty lately. Like she'll make little comments that really arent a big deal and i know shes kidding around but I'm the kinda person that takes everything really personally and I'm very sensitive.but then again I could be taking it the wrong way. And we do have that kinda relationship where we kid around. Maybe its just me. I dunno. Okay now I'm rambling...

On to the next post....

I don't really do anything in particular,when that happens.I just try to go on,even though I hurt inside.I don't deal with hurt very well - never have. :(

the only ppl that i love and trust are my friends and my brother. my mom died just when we were getting really close and i was starting to really appreciate her. my dad hurts me alot and when he does i give him attitude. he tries to convince me that no1 likes me and i'm unpleasant to the world. in fact he's the reason why i have depression.

I write a song about it, and try not to think about it again.

Originally posted by consentida
You know, I have someone like that too. I completely trust her and shes always been there for me and i know I can talk to her about anything but lately...I dunno. Maybe somethings bothering her or I did something but I dunno. Shes been kinda snotty lately. Like she'll make little comments that really arent a big deal and i know shes kidding around but I'm the kinda person that takes everything really personally and I'm very sensitive.but then again I could be taking it the wrong way. And we do have that kinda relationship where we kid around. Maybe its just me. I dunno. Okay now I'm rambling...

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Hmm... it depends on how the person it, really. I mean my "person" is sometimes sarcastic- not crude sarcastic, but like a humerous sarcastic. But, she knows me well enough to know that I also take things to heart, and therefore she doesn't usually say anything to really get me upset. She's not the kind of person to do that to anyone, anyway.

If you think something is bothering her, than your senses are probably right. I know a lot more about my "person" than any other student in the school (that just gave it away- yeah, she's my principal. Odd, isn't it? :lol: But we're like mother/daughter we're so close) so I can usually sense when something's up, visa versa. I also know a lot about her and her life, so ya know... it makes sense.

But anyway- if it's something you think you've done, chances are, it's not. Don't beat yourself up over it. Maybe you should try talking with her? Just be simple and to the point- that it seems like something's been bothering her lately. Luckily my "person" trusts me enough, and she's told me stories about her life that you just wouldn't go and tell any other kid unless you were close to them. Just talk to her, and remember, keep your head up :)

well, i've got two people in my life who mean the world to me, Brian and Jonathan. Brian treats me like "one of the guys" so the chances of him ever hurting me are pretty rare, especially since everything he says is a joke, so when he makes a rude comment I know he doesn't mean it, and he knows I know he doesn't mean it, so that's how we've been able to live together w/ out one of us coming out in a body bag.

But now Jonathan, i love him to death, and if he were to ever really hurt me, like i'm talking stab-in-the-back-slap-in-the-face hurt, i don't know how i would handle it. i would probably get mad and bless him out for it. and i'd probably cry, cause I cry when i'm mad or sad.

just try and deal with it the best way i can.

I get very very mad. Most of my frustrations manifest themselves in anger.

I just sulk for about it. A few days later I get over it.

Originally posted by Miss Karly


Hmm... it depends on how the person it, really. I mean my "person" is sometimes sarcastic- not crude sarcastic, but like a humerous sarcastic. But, she knows me well enough to know that I also take things to heart, and therefore she doesn't usually say anything to really get me upset. She's not the kind of person to do that to anyone, anyway.

If you think something is bothering her, than your senses are probably right. I know a lot more about my "person" than any other student in the school (that just gave it away- yeah, she's my principal. Odd, isn't it? :lol: But we're like mother/daughter we're so close) so I can usually sense when something's up, visa versa. I also know a lot about her and her life, so ya know... it makes sense.

But anyway- if it's something you think you've done, chances are, it's not. Don't beat yourself up over it. Maybe you should try talking with her? Just be simple and to the point- that it seems like something's been bothering her lately. Luckily my "person" trusts me enough, and she's told me stories about her life that you just wouldn't go and tell any other kid unless you were close to them. Just talk to her, and remember, keep your head up :)


Thats funny because I have the same kinda relationship w. my "person" who happens to be one of my teachers. But Lately I guess I've been really emotional...I dunno. I've tried talking to her but the words just never leave my mouth cuz I'm scared of what shes gonna say. I mean, I dont wanna lose her as a friend y'know? So...I dunno. We'll see what happens.

I get all pissed and ram my head offa stuff and swear at my pillow and call up someone ( I know) and swear at them at let everythitng our, cry then listen to music for a while and cry more and swer and bang my head offa more stuff and then sleep after drink somekind of pop

Originally posted by consentida
What do you do when someone really hurts you? Like when someone you trust and love really hurts you deep down inside how do you handle it?

I do MEAN things. If it's a guy, I'll start fights. If it's a girl, I have one of my girl friends beat her up. I also play pranks on them, start rumours about them and what not. i'm terrible, yes i know.

my username is Harper my name is Chris.I'll say this don't expect anymore out of someone then you do yourself.Some people are loyal until they have to confront making choices that are unpopular with you to appease someone else.its called two faced friends and I don't have any of those.I have a select few people I love and trust and respect.All I can say is this I'd rather have 5 good friends instead of 20 that only need me when it fits there schedule.I'll will say don't lie to friends if they cannot here the truth then they aren't good friends.Friends are to be unconditionally there for you through the good and bad if there not then they used you because they take advantage of unconditional friendship by abusing it.its called I will **** on you anytime I need to because you will take it.That isn't a friend either.I can go months without talking to my best friend scott and he and I can go months and we can pick up.its that we have a understanding because he is a father of 3 and Iam a father of 1.To me that is friendship.My Scott is named after him.all I can say is surround yourself with the best people who accept you for who you are and treat you with respect and love as you do to them and you will be happy.Do away with head gamers and liers.people say what they think people want to hear.There called ass kissers.There passive because there afraid to stand for what they believe even if it's not the popular opinion or position to take with a friend.My wife is my best Friend.I'm extremely jaded because I was brought up in Show biz and they define what it is to be phony two faced.Your a friend until you aren't on top anymore.As soon as you don't have power to wield you are worthless to hollywood.To tell you the truth any business involved with money and power Iv'e learned to watch your back.keep your ears open and your mouth shut.Take care

If it hurts really really bad, I cry about it or I talk to my parents about it. That always helps. I sulk about it until i'm bored. Then I move on but I never really trust that person for a long time or perhaps, never again. Depends on how bad they hurt me.

when someone hurts me.. i get really quiet, and just kind of sulk, then i think about it.. then i get really really mad, then bitch for awhile.. then I just ramble on and on about it for awhile to other people until i can calm down. I guess it also depends on the situation though..

Originally posted by Unwanted Angel
I go on with life..Yeah it hurts, But hey, Sh!!t happens.Ya I try not to be mean to people no matter how mean they are to me... Like Janina on City-Data,she got my blocked 6 years afo snd I am still trying to fight my way back.........

Im not doing anything mean,I am just posting like everyone is and am hopefull they eventualky will stop his childish behaviour!!