View Full Version : FOR THE GIRLS/GAYS: The Advantages and Disadvantages . . .


LucyFan
04-09-2003, 08:10 PM
. . . of:

1) having a BOYfriend
2) not having a BOYfriend

Chocoholic
04-09-2003, 08:44 PM
I think some advantages are: having someone who really loves you and cares for you and pampers you and does nice things and stuff.

As long as a boyfriend loves and respects you, I can't think of any disadvantages.

Titania
04-09-2003, 10:17 PM
advantages to having a bf:
-knowing someones always there
-feeling like it'll last forever
-getting home late on fri/sat nights
-the little moments that make it special
-attention (i thrive on it...;) )
-just that "being in love" feeling

disadvantages to having a bf:
-time commitments- sometimes not as much time for other friends
-not being tied down/can flirt w/out feeling bad
-the fear that something will happen (or you'll eventually get bored of it)
-that underlying pressure to go farther than you want to


(just flip them for the second question)

dawsongirl
04-09-2003, 11:39 PM
Let me just say this- I don't know because I've never had one. :bash: It would all be pure speculation.

*PinkLady*
04-10-2003, 07:29 PM
LucyFan, I think you've beat these topics to death.

Anyway...
1. Don't know, never had one. Improves your status, I guess.
2. None that I can think of.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
04-10-2003, 07:48 PM
1) I wouldn't know...shy, ugly kids don't know
2) still don't know...

Hollow
04-10-2003, 07:50 PM
u must have some obsession w/ genders

JDS84
04-10-2003, 09:28 PM
Advantage: Having someone there for you
Having someone who loves you

Disatvantage: No being able to flirt with other guys