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Camillian
02-09-2003, 11:49 PM
don't u just get sick of them at timz i mean they're always telling u to do something and then don't they know u have a personal life other than staying home with them. But sometimes they're right I guess u need parents, right!

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
02-09-2003, 11:54 PM
Oh meangya mine bug me half the time. I went to see Chicago tonight with Amanda and later on @ home my mothers like, I wouldve liked to have seen it too. Yah, well too bad. Im sorry, but theres a time for friend time and a time for her to tagalong. I dont see her inviting me with HER friends.

Swimfan85
02-09-2003, 11:57 PM
mine are okay...im a daddys girl heh

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
02-10-2003, 12:02 AM
Originally posted by Ringwald 20
im a daddys girl heh
Me too.:D

BlazinSnowbGurl
02-10-2003, 12:03 AM
my parents don't understand that i need to grow up! i'm 15 years old and they treat me like a baby... it bugs me! mayb someday they'll learn to lt go of their youngest child. but yeah parents do bug me at times but they're just here to help us and to support us!:p

JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo
02-10-2003, 12:08 AM
.. yea.. my parents are dead.

Three'sCompanyrules
02-10-2003, 12:15 AM
My parents are ok,we get along real well.

fr00ti
02-10-2003, 12:35 AM
parents... blah.

Blair85
02-10-2003, 12:37 AM
It's just "parent" for me. I love my mom, she is a good person. She's put up w/ a lot of crap in her life & still keeps on truckin'. Yeah, I'd like to get away sometimes though b/c I guess people can't get along all of the time & my mom can be bitchy, but then I have to calm down & realize that she doesn't feel good. Now as for my dad, I hate him! I know people shouldn't hate each other but I used to say I didn't but I really do. I've tried not to hate him. He lives about 20 minutes away & I haven't seen him since I was 13. He never supported me, he treated my mom badly, & he would tease me thinking it was the funniest thing. Til this day I can't stand to be teased or joked with. I never could stand the cheapskate *******! Damned deadbeat, he owes me a lot of money. I can't stand people who don't take care of their kids! Well, I've complained enough, sorry.

Georgia's on my Mind
02-10-2003, 12:46 AM
dad-dont have one
mom-bitch 84% of the time

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
02-10-2003, 01:04 AM
Originally posted by Blair85
Til this day I can't stand to be teased or joked with.
Meangya me neither. Depends on who the person is, but seriously not everything is funny.

Nanny Fine
02-10-2003, 01:19 AM
All of the things you don't understand and hate about your parents now will all make sense when you BECOME a parent.

Janice
02-10-2003, 01:24 AM
Unless your parents have abandoned or really mistreated you, cherish every day you have with them. Once they're gone, nobody can ever take their place.
The unconditional love of a parent is one of the purest and strongest loves you'll ever have in your life.
Your parents will love you and stand by you when some (but not all) spouses and friends don't.
If you gain 300 pounds, if you're paralyzed from the neck down, if you're incarcerated for the remainder of your life, horribly disfigured in a fire....it's your parents who will be there for you.
No one will ever love you the way your parents love you.
If you have two loving and healthy parents, you are blessed beyond words.

AnaheimPMWitch
02-10-2003, 01:28 AM
well I LOVE My Parents its my older siblings that bug me mainly because they are SOOOOO much older then me they TREAT ME like one of thier kids sometimes its cool and sometimes i'm just UGH I call my Older sister Cindy "Mom" and My Brother in law Bob "Dad" and thier kids are my Little sister and Brother that I never had

Czas na Zywiec
02-10-2003, 01:29 AM
Once you have kids, you'll totally understand where they're coming from. It will literally just hit you one day that you've turned into your parents, and you'll be greatful that you do. I don't have any kids yet, but I've grown up with my cousin (She's 8 years younger than me) and know why they get so frustated at her, lol.

DarleneIllyria
02-10-2003, 01:33 AM
I get along okay with my parents. We have a pretty good relationship. Yeah, we do have our arguments. I don't want to sound like Ms. Perfect over here, because I'm def. not.

I swear when I was about 13 years old, we had so many arguments. I would argue with my parents because they were forcing me to do something I didn't want to do, or preventing me from something that I really wanted to do. I'm older now and things have settled down quite a lot. Like I said before, we do have some arguments now. For the most part, I get along pretty well with them.

*PinkLady*
02-10-2003, 05:05 PM
My parents bother me. They're always around and we're always fighting...arrrgh. Of course, I have no life, so that is probably a contributing factor.

Kay Scarpetta
02-10-2003, 06:03 PM
Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
dad-dont have one
mom-bitch 84% of the time

Ya.....I technically live with both of my parents, as in the same household, but my mother is actually a single parent, believe it or not. She has been the one raising me the past 13 years. My dad doesn't do anything. At all. He leaves EVERYTHING up to my mom. All he does is contribute his bitching and moaning every minute of the day. Granted my mother has raised me, I'm not too happy with her right now either.

Babes_Cat
02-10-2003, 06:06 PM
Originally posted by Jenny
I get along okay with my parents. We have a pretty good relationship. Yeah, we do have our arguments. For the most part that's me too. My parents are, well my mom is anyways, understanding about what I'm going through so they know that when the blow up occurr, they know to get out of the way. Honestly.... we rarely fight and if there is any screaming... its on my part. I scream she just talks... *shrugs* And my dad, I don't realy talk to him, like in depth, so.... yeah, we never fight.... *shrugs* Its hard to explain I guess....

pandora_spocks
02-10-2003, 06:11 PM
My parents don't even notice me for the fact that they're always fighting. And they wonder why I don't talk to them half the time I can never get a word in. I don't really care though. I just wanna find someplace far from NJ and them.

Titania
02-10-2003, 06:26 PM
my dad and i get along pretty well. we dont have the real father-daughter relationship because of his brain injury- we have more of a friend relationship which is cool by me.
my mother and i- our personalities just clash, and badly. Little things that would normally not mean anything start screaming arguments with us. every so often we get along and then its great- but the rest of the time...aghhh i cant stand her.

°Bubbly Blonde°
02-10-2003, 06:36 PM
My mom is soo great! If Im late for school she'll come and excuse me saying I was sick even if it's not true lol.....and she's just great, she's like a teen she likes pop and hip hop music and even tho she can be embarrassing b/c she's really loud especially if she's mad at someone, she'll yell at them in the grocery line or whatever, she'll yell at ppl in their cars like 'dont make me get out and beat your ___ bitch!" if they honk at her on the freeway.... but for the most part she's totally cool.....

my dad on the other hand is pretty much overprotective and a prude.....it's amazning how diff. they are....

~LadyJess~
02-10-2003, 06:41 PM
I get along with my parents pretty well. If I want to go out they usually let me, rarely have they made me stya home for stupid reasons. Sure they get on my nerves and we yell at each other but for the most part we are pretty close.

AnaheimPMWitch
02-11-2003, 03:58 AM
Originally posted by Original Prankster
Once you have kids, you'll totally understand where they're coming from. It will literally just hit you one day that you've turned into your parents, and you'll be greatful that you do. I don't have any kids yet, but I've grown up with my cousin (She's 8 years younger than me) and know why they get so frustated at her, lol. Thats pretty much How I am to only for me its because I work with kids (teaching 4 year olds is NOT an easy job) and My 13 year old Niece and 11 year old Nephew are over here ALL the time or I'm over there (in there case though I"m more like thier sister then I am thier mom) but being a "Mom" to ooh about 38 kids everyday NOT an easy task BELIEVE ME by the time I get home all I wanna do is just veg

ShakiraRox
02-11-2003, 05:49 PM
I live with my mom. She is nice but she is strict too! :rolleyes:

XoVanillaRain90oX
02-11-2003, 05:53 PM
Poo.

Mossopp
02-11-2003, 06:10 PM
I don't get along all that well with my parents. The only reason I still live with them is cos I don't have the money to get a place of my own just yet. We fight constantly - particularly my mum and I. I don't fight with my dad so much, primarily cos I hardly ever speak to him.
I think lack of respect is the problem. My dad is a lazy drunk. He sits around on his arse all day watching MTV - what kind of man does that?? And how can I respect a man who does that?? My mother treats me like I'm 12 (I'm nearly 21), doesn't respect my privacy and shoots me down at every opportunity she gets! I work my arse off every day - I work more hours than she does - yet she still calls me lazy!! She told me that she's disappointed in me cos she wanted a "nice girly girl" for a daughter - not a dyke like me!!
I would like to be close to my parents. I was actually pleasently surprised cos I had quite a meaningful conversation with my mother last night which is something I haven't done in a long time. And in a way my dad isn't so bad - I think he sees me more as a son than a daughter. He and I have had some good chats sometimes too.
Occasionally.
Most of the time we're at each other throats. We make the Osbournes look functional! My parents have never said that they love me. I grew up thinking that families weren't meant to say that to each other. Do your parents tell you that they love you and that they're proud of you? I'd love to hear my mum and dad say that.

Babes_Cat
02-11-2003, 06:13 PM
Originally posted by Mossopp
Do your parents tell you that they love you and that they're proud of you? I'd love to hear my mum and dad say that.

*nods* I have cards on my board that they gave me that are like, "Congrats!" and "I'm Impressed" stuff like that and whenever Joc comes over she looks at them and goes, "Wow, my family would never give me anything like that."

*shrugs* Its not normal if it isnt said in my household.

Moonlight Lady
02-11-2003, 08:01 PM
I love my parents. :) They love me too. They love to tease though. Nothing mean or nasty. It's all in fun. They took me on alot of trips and did cool stuff with me. They still do.

The older I get, the more I appreciate them. I wasn't an easy child to raise. I was a brat. :lol:

Mossopp
02-11-2003, 08:04 PM
Originally posted by Babes_Cat


*nods* I have cards on my board that they gave me that are like, "Congrats!" and "I'm Impressed" stuff like that and whenever Joc comes over she looks at them and goes, "Wow, my family would never give me anything like that."

*shrugs* Its not normal if it isnt said in my household.

Then you're really lucky and I hope you appreciate it.

Babes_Cat
02-11-2003, 08:13 PM
Originally posted by Mossopp


Then you're really lucky and I hope you appreciate it. I do.

Babes_Cat
02-11-2003, 08:14 PM
Originally posted by Katie_NY
I love my parents. :) They love me too. They love to tease though. Nothing mean or nasty. It's all in fun.

Oh man, my dad does that aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time. He even teases my friends sometimes. :p

Chocoholic
02-11-2003, 08:18 PM
Originally posted by Miss Karly


Ya.....I technically live with both of my parents, as in the same household, but my mother is actually a single parent, believe it or not. She has been the one raising me the past 13 years. My dad doesn't do anything. At all. He leaves EVERYTHING up to my mom. All he does is contribute his bitching and moaning every minute of the day.

That sounds like my parents. My mom is kind, caring, loving, warm, and understanding. My dad is cold, over-critical, rude, arrogant, self-centered, selfish, angry, and pessimistic. Nothing ever pleases him. He is constantly criticizing me and putting me down. He obviously favors my little sister too, probably because her personality matches his. I love my mom, but I wish I could get far away from my dad and little sister.

JDS84
02-11-2003, 08:20 PM
I get along great with my parents. They are pretty cool parents or at least I think they are.

brownsocks
02-11-2003, 08:22 PM
i live with my mother and don't see my dad much anymore but i am really close to telling off ether one of them. they don't care where i go or what i do. they are to concerned about being with their friends drinking to care when i try and talk to them about anything. most people wouldn't know i have a bad house by looking at me because im smart and stuff but that is the total opposite of my parents. i never hear any words of encouragement and the only reason i make good marks is to spite them. i guess it's all i can do till i graduate and can move far far away