hey.. . last night me and my friends were at applebees and this waitor was hitting on me pretty strong.. i'll save you all the details.. but he ended up sitting down and talking to us for like 2 hours... well, when i went to the bathroom, my friend gave him my phone numbers.... heres the part that sucks:

The guy is 36 (i'm 18)
He has 2 kids (i hate kids)
He smokes crack (i don't smoke anything)
He's already called me twice today.. and i can't change my phone number

How am I suppose to get rid of him ? I mean, yea, he could just wanna be friends and all, but still... 36 VS 18.. not good.. you'd think he take the hint when i told him i was born the same year he graduted from high school.

My friend asked him what year he graduted, he geos "84" iw as like "what a coicidence i was BORN that year"

why can't i get guy smy age? ugg!!!

When he calls just hang up on him.. he should get the hint then, but if he doesn't you'll probably just have to tell him straight out.

If he calls tell him straight out that your friends were jerks to give him your number and that you aren't interested in him. Hopefully he'll understand and the both of you can get on with your seperate lives. And, what kind of friends do you have anyway if they give your number out to 36 year old guys? Friends should look out for one another. They shouldn't be giving out your number to 36 year old guys who you don't even know.

Just say something like, "Hey, buddy. I know that my friends gave you my #, but they didnt tell you that I'm a lesbian? Geez!" That always works! ;)

OR

You could tell him that you just want to try being friends first. Who knows...maybe the age thing wont be so big later?

Originally posted by *Marilyn Monroe*
Just say something like, "Hey, buddy. I know that my friends gave you my #, but they didnt tell you that I'm a lesbian? Geez!" That always works! ;)

OR

You could tell him that you just want to try being friends first. Who knows...maybe the age thing wont be so big later?

yea, maybe later. . . but not now.. i'm only 18, and he's 36... the mans old enough to be my dad..

and as far as the person who asked what kind of friends I have... i was flirting back, and he was cute.. they were only joking, none of us had any IDEA he would actually call!

The age thing should be your least concern, if a concern at all. The guy smokes crack and he has two childen. You want to take care of his kids and his crack habit? He's called you twice and said what? If you don't want to see him just convince yourself of that first and then convince him of it, in no uncertain terms, the next time he calls. You don't owe him more than a simple "Please Don't call anymore. Goodbye." Click!

Originally posted by kittflynn
He's called you twice and said what?

well, he just asekd "wahts' up? '' and asked what i was doing this weekend... then he called the second time to give me his cell number

No, i don't wanna take care of his kids or his crack habit.. but he seems like an awesome guy, very talkative and pretty cool to hang out w/ .. but i mean, yea, i could never persue it.

Okay, well, best of luck to you. I'm sure you'll get it worked out soon enough.

This guy in my language arts class hits on me, its reeeally annoying. He always talks to me and he tries to copy me on EVERYTHING...a few days ago i was writing a story about me and kelly fightin w/ avril and xtina and he did the same thing! And like several months ago i was like I WANNA GO TO HAWYEE YAY! and so he thot i was obsessed w/ hawaii [i was just imitating special ed from crank yankers] and to this very day he wont shut the **** up about hawaii. At the end of his lil story he said "then sarah and kelly lived happily ever after in hawaii." Damnit!

Originally posted by *Marilyn Monroe*
Just say something like, "Hey, buddy. I know that my friends gave you my #, but they didnt tell you that I'm a lesbian? Geez!" That always works! ;)


:rotflmao:
If that doesn't work, nothing will!

Tell him you'll call the cops on his sorry arse if he ever bothers you again!
End of story.

Originally posted by Mossopp
Tell him you'll call the cops on his sorry arse if he ever bothers you again!
End of story.

lol

very true

well, he didn't call me tonight like he said he would.. so i suppose that was short lived... i guess i'm releved. in a way, i'm disappointed.. i mean, goa, i couldn't even get a 36 year old?!?!?!?! lol jk

2 words-

Restraining order.


:D

Originally posted by Miss Karly
2 words-

Restraining order.


:D He didn't bite her. He just talked to her and then called her. Jeez!

Originally posted by *Marilyn Monroe*
Just say something like, "Hey, buddy. I know that my friends gave you my #, but they didnt tell you that I'm a lesbian? Geez!" That always works! ;)

what if he asks for a 3 way.. then you're in trouble.

Originally posted by kittflynn
He didn't bite her. He just talked to her and then called her. Jeez!

....I was only kidding.... trying to put a little humor into it...

Originally posted by Miss Karly


....I was only kidding.... trying to put a little humor into it... Well darn it Karly, you're not funny! :lol:

Originally posted by kittflynn
Well darn it Karly, you're not funny! :lol:

Um okay....thanks I guess...meh.

Originally posted by JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo


well, he just asekd "wahts' up? '' and asked what i was doing this weekend... then he called the second time to give me his cell number

No, i don't wanna take care of his kids or his crack habit.. but he seems like an awesome guy, very talkative and pretty cool to hang out w/ .. but i mean, yea, i could never persue it. how awesome could he be? anyone who smokes crack is a LOSER BIG TIME.

Originally posted by laceyinthesky


what if he asks for a 3 way.. then you're in trouble.

Yeah...I guess that could be a problem.

Originally posted by bandito
how awesome could he be? anyone who smokes crack is a LOSER BIG TIME.
not necessarily... he was pretty awesome, as far as his personality, yea, the stuff he fessed up to doing wasn't awesome, but he was.

anywayz, hopefully it's over! lol.. i'm hoping he gave me his phone number.. and if i called, he would take it as the "go ahead" and if i didn't he would take it as the "blow off".. so i didn't call him, so hopefully, he'll get the "blow off" lol

Originally posted by Miss Karly


Um okay....thanks I guess...meh. Just jokin' with ya kid. Come on, lighten up. Don't go poutin' on me now. :)

:lol: well You can always do what I use to do in highschool and college when guys I Didnt like hit on me I"d do the old stand by "I have a boyfriend and hes big enough to KICK YOUR ... *Insert bad word here* If YOU dont leave me alone"

Oh meangya. Well, I personally MIGHT date a 36 year old.. but not if hes on crack with 2 kids! I am not a babysitter! Meangya tell him to go play in oncoming traffic.

If you wanna let him down nicely, just tell him that your friend set you up with her old pal and you think it could work out..
If you wanna just get him to leave you the hell alone, then meangya, tell him you told your big Uncle Frank and hes coming after him.:eek: