View Full Version : Why can't girls expose their chests, but guys can? Ever wonder?
Artist162002 01-06-2003, 11:21 PM That's a question I've been wondering for a long time. If a guy exposes his chest on TV (Like Soap Operas), then I guess there's no problem, but if a girl does, they would consider it inappropiate. Why do you think guys get to expose thier stuff, but girls can't? I have seen guys with pecs as big as women before. I see some of my male classmates take thier shirt off in the gym when playing basketball, but if it were a woman, then they would have to put it back on. What do you think? I mean they'er the same thing, but it is different sexes.
~LadyJess~ 01-06-2003, 11:28 PM I can see why it would be inapprpriate for girls to take off their shirts in public but I can't tell you how many times during the summer when it's really hot and I'm around guys who take off their shirts and I'm thinking, "It's not fair! I wouldn't be this hot if I could do that too!" Ahh, one of the many double standards that exists in society.
Czas na Zywiec 01-06-2003, 11:34 PM For the same reason that girls can shave their legs, but guys can't. ;)
:joke:
~LadyJess~ 01-06-2003, 11:37 PM Originally posted by Original Prankster
For the same reason that girls can shave their legs, but guys can't. ;)
:joke:
:lol: Guys can shave their legs if they want to, even though that wouldn't be a very masculine sight. But I'm sure no guys would complain if girls walked around topless.
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ 01-07-2003, 12:04 AM Because we dont call a guys chest boobs. Boobs are meant to be sexy, yet innapropriate in the flesh. You dont see the guys penis out on the town either.
Kristina 01-07-2003, 12:55 AM Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Because we dont call a guys chest boobs. Boobs are meant to be sexy, yet innapropriate in the flesh. You dont see the guys penis out on the town either.
lol true... girls have boobs, guys don't, I'd be like 'ummm what the heck' if I saw some girl skipping along on the streets in her boobs.
Chad22 01-07-2003, 01:02 AM Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
You dont see the guys penis out on the town either.
And Thank God For That! :lol:
~*Hannah_Lee*~ 01-07-2003, 01:03 AM Originally posted by Chad Doody
And Thank God For That! :lol:
You guys are cracking me up!!! :lol: :rotflmao:
ziggy4500 01-07-2003, 02:49 AM if there is an act or petition to get this double standard lifted..let me know where to sign :)
Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
You dont see the guys penis out on the town either.
You've never been to the East Village, have you?
;)
Eddie Haskell 01-07-2003, 07:14 AM This is a pretty funny thread. It wouldn't matter to me as long as it wasn't Barbara Billingsley. :o
Brian Damage 01-07-2003, 05:04 PM I'm a guy and I'm all for you ladies wanting equal rights on this issue. ;)
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ 01-07-2003, 05:06 PM Originally posted by Eddie Haskell
This is a pretty funny thread. It wouldn't matter to me as long as it wasn't Barbara Billingsley. :o
:eek: :lol:
Brian Damage 01-07-2003, 05:38 PM Originally posted by Eddie Haskell
This is a pretty funny thread. It wouldn't matter to me as long as it wasn't Barbara Billingsley. :o
eeeeeewwwwwwww!:barf:
dawsongirl 01-07-2003, 06:05 PM Originally posted by Brian Damage
I'm a guy and I'm all for you ladies wanting equal rights on this issue. ;)
:lol:
Some women are small enough that it wouldn't matter if they had a shirt on or not. Not me, but some women. ;)
FOLrocks1 01-07-2003, 06:13 PM I've always wondered that too....
Titania 01-07-2003, 06:51 PM i cant say ive ever thought about it as being unfair...its just a cultural standard of decency..
Originally posted by dawsongirl
Some women are small enough that it wouldn't matter if they had a shirt on or not.
:lookaroun well even if you're small it still matters..
Bonnie Raitt 01-08-2003, 09:41 PM :lol: This is the funniest topic I've read in a long time.
Brian 01-08-2003, 09:51 PM The answer is simple: men don't have breasts.
Originally posted by BJL
The answer is simple: men don't have breasts.
Well, most men don't have breasts.
Originally posted by dawsongirl
:lol:
Some women are small enough that it wouldn't matter if they had a shirt on or not. Not me, but some women. ;) :lol: I don't know about that, Dawsongirl. One man's opinion: I for one love small breasted women! So for all of you small breasted women out there, don't check into the plastic surgeon's office before getting a full assessment of popular preferances beyond what - as they say- you read in the newspaper. :)
Bootsy Whoosh 01-08-2003, 10:21 PM Long Answer: Because women's breasts are intimately tied to their sexuality, and while a man's chest may be pleasingly sexy, it is not as strongly tied to sex by social convention.
Short Answer: Double standard.
Simple Answer: Because if women took off their shirts in public on a regular basis there would be a 500% increase in motor vehicle accidents.
Pondersome Question: The outrage over Brandy Chastain tearing off her jersey to reveal her sports bra after kicking the tie-breaking goal in the Olympics was a bit overboard, don't you think?
Max Whittaker 01-08-2003, 10:26 PM Originally posted by kittflynn
:lol: I don't know about that, Dawsongirl. One man's opinion: I for one love small breasted women! So for all of you small breasted women out there, don't check into the plastic surgeon's office before getting a full assessment of popular preferances beyond what - as they say- you read in the newspaper. :)
I agree with you on that, Kitt!
I don't think I have ever really pondered the topic question. But you know, with the skirts getting smaller every year, I wouldn't be totally surprised if one day it becomes a fad to show full breasts! *shudders*
Bonnie Raitt 01-08-2003, 10:27 PM Originally posted by Bootsy Whoosh
Simple Answer: Because if women took off their shirts in public on a regular basis there would be a 500% increase in motor vehicle accidents.
:rotflmao:
Brian 01-08-2003, 10:32 PM Originally posted by AKA
Well, most men don't have breasts.
The men that do just have unwanted male breast tissue. I don't know if I would call it breasts.
Brian 01-08-2003, 10:34 PM Originally posted by Bootsy Whoosh
Simple Answer: Because if women took off their shirts in public on a regular basis there would be a 500% increase in motor vehicle accidents.
You've got that right!:rotflmao:
Originally posted by BJL
The men that do just have unwanted male breast tissue. I don't know if I would call it breasts. Not....particularly...attractive breasts. That's for sure!
dawsongirl 01-08-2003, 11:42 PM Originally posted by Max Whittaker
I don't think I have ever really pondered the topic question. But you know, with the skirts getting smaller every year, I wouldn't be totally surprised if one day it becomes a fad to show full breasts! *shudders*
I agree on that shudder. I don't want to see the male package and I don't want to see the female either.
And, c'mon, isn't it sexier to NOT see everything? Leaves more to the imagination.
RainMan 01-08-2003, 11:45 PM Originally posted by dawsongirl
:lol:
Some women are small enough that it wouldn't matter if they had a shirt on or not. Not me, but some women. ;)
See that is weird. Women's boobs are like men's boobs only girl's are round and guys's are flat.
When if a girls boobs were flat? Then it would be appropriate
Oh, and about the shaving legs thing, I don't shave my legs but I shave my stomach and chest (I can't stand the hair on my chest and stomach and nobody at my school seems to care when I change during PE.)
Nate
RainMan 01-08-2003, 11:47 PM Oh, you may think that this is TMI, but THIS IS ABOUT CHESTS!
When I change during PE, the guys say that my boobs look like girls since i'm chubby and then lost weight and now my boobs are like huge lol and yes they felt them just for fun but I wish i could touch theirs cause theirs was naturally hairless and mascular lol.
Nate
Max Whittaker 01-08-2003, 11:49 PM Originally posted by dawsongirl
And, c'mon, isn't it sexier to NOT see everything? Leaves more to the imagination.
That's what I've always thought!
dawsongirl 01-08-2003, 11:55 PM Originally posted by RainMan
Oh, you may think that this is TMI, but THIS IS ABOUT CHESTS!
When I change during PE, the guys say that my boobs look like girls since i'm chubby and then lost weight and now my boobs are like huge lol and yes they felt them just for fun but I wish i could touch theirs cause theirs was naturally hairless and mascular lol.
Umm...TMI is right. And I doubt your "boobs" are HUGE. You don't need a bra, do you?
RainMan 01-08-2003, 11:57 PM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Umm...TMI is right. And I doubt your "boobs" are HUGE. You don't need a bra, do you?
Everyone sez that lol
Nate
Brian 01-09-2003, 12:12 AM Originally posted by RainMan
Oh, you may think that this is TMI, but THIS IS ABOUT CHESTS!
When I change during PE, the guys say that my boobs look like girls since i'm chubby and then lost weight and now my boobs are like huge lol and yes they felt them just for fun but I wish i could touch theirs cause theirs was naturally hairless and mascular lol.
We did not need to know that. You're right, that is TMI. It's not just TMI but it's WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWTMI.
Georgia's on my Mind 01-09-2003, 12:15 AM Originally posted by RainMan
Oh, you may think that this is TMI, but THIS IS ABOUT CHESTS!
When I change during PE, the guys say that my boobs look like girls since i'm chubby and then lost weight and now my boobs are like huge lol and yes they felt them just for fun but I wish i could touch theirs cause theirs was naturally hairless and mascular lol.
Nate
I think I'm going to go back to my original question...
Are you on drugs?
Sicko.
dawsongirl 01-09-2003, 12:17 AM Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
I think I'm going to go back to my original question...
Are you on drugs?
Sicko.
Perhaps they're making some potent drugs out of corn these days.
Georgia's on my Mind 01-09-2003, 12:19 AM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Perhaps they're making some potent drugs out of corn these days.
LOL, Quite possibly... or maybe he's spending a little too much time in K Mart's paint thinner department
Czas na Zywiec 01-09-2003, 12:20 AM Originally posted by RainMan
Oh, you may think that this is TMI, but THIS IS ABOUT CHESTS!
When I change during PE, the guys say that my boobs look like girls since i'm chubby and then lost weight and now my boobs are like huge lol and yes they felt them just for fun but I wish i could touch theirs cause theirs was naturally hairless and mascular lol.
I could really care less about your boobs and who 'touches' it. Thanks for putting that image into my mind.
And what the hell does TMI mean?!
Czas na Zywiec 01-09-2003, 12:21 AM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Perhaps they're making some potent drugs out of corn these days.
I'm so sorry you live in Iowa. My deepest sympathy goes to you.
dawsongirl 01-09-2003, 12:21 AM Originally posted by Original Prankster
And what the hell does TMI mean?!
Too Much Info
dawsongirl 01-09-2003, 12:22 AM Originally posted by Original Prankster
I'm so sorry you live in Iowa. My deepest sympathy goes to you.
Thank you. :hug:
Czas na Zywiec 01-09-2003, 12:23 AM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Too Much Info
Thanks. I guess I'm just SQUARE, huh? :p
Originally posted by dawsongirl
Perhaps they're making some potent drugs out of corn these days. As any consumer of corn liquor 'll tell you, they've been makin' potent drugs out of corn for some time now.
dawsongirl 01-09-2003, 12:28 AM Originally posted by Original Prankster
Thanks. I guess I'm just SQUARE, huh? :p
Nah. I don't talk to squares. ;)
Sounds like something out of a 50's teen movie.
Czas na Zywiec 01-09-2003, 12:30 AM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Nah. I don't talk to squares. ;)
Sounds like something out of a 50's teen movie.
Far out.
We're moving on up to the 60's. :p
Brian 01-09-2003, 12:36 AM Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
LOL, Quite possibly... or maybe he's spending a little too much time in K Mart's paint thinner department
:rotflmao:
dawsongirl 01-09-2003, 12:40 AM Originally posted by Original Prankster
Far out.
We're moving on up to the 60's. :p
Psychadelic!! :lol:
DarleneIllyria 01-09-2003, 12:42 AM Originally posted by dawsongirl
And, c'mon, isn't it sexier to NOT see everything? Leaves more to the imagination.
That's how I always thought about it. I can't deny that if I was around a guy that I really liked and he took his shirt off, I wouldn't be exactly begging him to put his shirt back on. It does tend to leave more to the imagination if he kept the rest of his clothes on.
DarleneIllyria 01-09-2003, 12:45 AM Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
LOL, Quite possibly... or maybe he's spending a little too much time in K Mart's paint thinner department
:lol:
Nate, I don't mean to be bitchy or anything. Can you please post the sig once per post. Twice is cool, if you forget. It really does slow my computer down to have the big picture in your sig especially if you post many times in one topic. Thank you.
People, please, we're straying from the topic at hand. Should women be allowed to go topless like men can?
Let's take a vote.
Show of hands, who's for the topless women rule?
:wave:
JoPol_wannabe 01-09-2003, 12:07 PM when I was younger much younger I kind of wondered why girls couldn't take there shirts of and I thought it was unfair because it was really hot out and that would make me a little bit cooler so I went to ask my mom if I could take my shirt off and she was like no and then I was like but thats not fair we live in the country and my brother and father weren't home so I really could then my mom told me the reason why girls don't do that and I was like oh I see and so she was like here girls where tank tops to stay cooler.
Originally posted by JoPol_wannabe
when I was younger much younger I kind of wondered why girls couldn't take there shirts of and I thought it was unfair because it was really hot out and that would make me a little bit cooler so I went to ask my mom if I could take my shirt off and she was like no and then I was like but thats not fair we live in the country and my brother and father weren't home so I really could then my mom told me the reason why girls don't do that and I was like oh I see and so she was like here girls where tank tops to stay cooler. Periods, young miss, periods! Not the female cycle kind, but the kind used for ending a sentence. :crazy:
This article relates to the topic.
In a December New York Times dispatch from Jidda, Saudi Arabia, concerning the heavily religious-law-regulated Perdu lingerie shop, its female marketing director said that about 85 percent of Saudi women wear ill-fitting bras, perhaps because the law requires that sales clerks in public stores be men. According to the Times, "(W)hile women may be berated for showing a ... leg or an arm (in public), they must ask strange men for help in assessing their bra size." [New York Times, 12-3-02]
dawsongirl 01-10-2003, 03:33 PM I don't blame 'em. I'd wear the wrong size too. Just grab one and leave!!
Originally posted by dawsongirl
I don't blame 'em. I'd wear the wrong size too. Just grab one and leave!! Yep. :)
Czas na Zywiec 01-10-2003, 09:17 PM Originally posted by dawsongirl
I don't blame 'em. I'd wear the wrong size too. Just grab one and leave!!
Or you could sew your own at home. :p
Sitcomwriter 03-01-2003, 11:59 PM Well can a guy (I can't believe I'm saying this) whip out his penis on TV? Women's breasts are like a man's penis.
What the hell did I just say? :crazy: ;) :p
Warm & Fuzzy 03-02-2003, 12:00 AM Originally posted by Sitcomwriter
Well can I guy (I can't believe I'm saying this) whip out his penis on TV? Women's breasts are like a man's penis.
What the hell did I just say? :crazy: ;) :p :rotflmao: Makes perfect sense to me.
°Bubbly Blonde° 03-02-2003, 12:01 AM some girls are so flat that seeing theirs would just be like seeing a man's but Im defintely not one of them ;)
Brandon 03-02-2003, 12:02 AM Originally posted by Artist162002
That's a question I've been wondering for a long time. If a guy exposes his chest on TV (Like Soap Operas), then I guess there's no problem, but if a girl does, they would consider it inappropiate. Why do you think guys get to expose thier stuff, but girls can't? I have seen guys with pecs as big as women before. I see some of my male classmates take thier shirt off in the gym when playing basketball, but if it were a woman, then they would have to put it back on. What do you think? I mean they'er the same thing, but it is different sexes.
cuz there are too big bags of fat hanging from their chests, that makes guys horny.
-*Leah*- 03-02-2003, 12:05 AM Maybe some of ya'll that wanna walk around with your shirts off(girls) should move to Africa, and live in some of those villages where women never wear tops...*lol*:lol:
Sitcomwriter 03-02-2003, 12:20 AM Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
Are you on drugs?
Yes.He buys them behind his local K-Mart.
Tuesday Weld 03-02-2003, 12:23 AM :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
This topic is just TOO funny!
Unwanted Angel 03-02-2003, 01:20 AM If other girls wanna run around topless then thats ok but you would never see me do it (Not that i don't have the perfect boobs
to show it off) Thats just not me.
Oh and its almost like
How come a guy can date a younger woman but when a woman dates a younger man she is considered a cradlerobber? Men are higher then women...Thats why.
Brian 03-02-2003, 01:50 AM Originally posted by Sitcomwriter
Yes.He buys them behind his local K-Mart.
:rotflmao:
~Teddybear~ 03-02-2003, 10:20 PM Simple Answer: Because if women took off their shirts in public on a regular basis there would be a 500% increase in motor vehicle accidents.
You make a very good point. But I think that us women should at least be able to walk around in a sports bra, I mean, that's as close as you get the wearing a shirt but still feel comfortable!
Titania 03-02-2003, 10:28 PM Originally posted by ~Teddybear~
You make a very good point. But I think that us women should at least be able to walk around in a sports bra, I mean, that's as close as you get the wearing a shirt but still feel comfortable!
that brings up this point...its perfectly acceptable to go running or something and just wear a sports bra and no one thinks anything of it, but if you wore one normally people would get definite ideas.
Krystal Lake 03-03-2003, 08:01 PM I think it has something to do with the tits. I could be wrong, but I'm not.
fr00ti 03-03-2003, 08:20 PM Well, women have boobs, most guys dont. That's why. But I mean I can think of a woman I wouldn't mind running around topless *coughmartinacough* :D ;)
pandora_spocks 03-03-2003, 09:45 PM Well, if we girls did start going around topless we might as well turn the whole world into a nudest colony because you know the guys would be rippin'em out. ;) :lol:
LucyFan 03-03-2003, 09:45 PM In a way it is unfair to the guys. For instance, Girls have the easy opportunity to "check out" the guy's chest, back, ect. per say like at a swimming pool. But for guys to check out a girl's chest, back, ect. is a hard because they aren't topless at the swimming pool like the guys are.
fr00ti 03-03-2003, 10:00 PM Originally posted by pandora_spocks
Well, if we girls did start going around topless we might as well turn the whole world into a nudest colony because you know the guys would be rippin'em out. ;) :lol:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
pandora_spocks 03-03-2003, 10:06 PM Originally posted by MaRtInA_GuRL
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
:lol: ;)
White_Daisy 03-03-2003, 11:05 PM Well, we can't walk around topless because it's such an....searching for a benign, yet active word....inconvience. I mean....they're right there and without a bra, they're....not very helpful and....you guys get what I'm saying, if you don't and you're a girl, take off your shirt, no bra, and do some household activities. If you're a guy, attach two filled waterballoons and do the same.
:blush:
Here it is right here - over the last thousand (or more) years or so, the female breasts have become sexualized, probably due to them being covered by clothing most of the time. And because of that, women don't generally go topless in public. If they did, I'd never go to work... unless the women there were topless, too.
Insert "men are pigs" quip here.
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