How do you tell if you're a virgin or not??

Like....you? Like if you say "Gee I wonder if I'm a virgin?" well...you should know. duh. but if your talkin about someone else findin out...it's really not all that possible.

No no no...ok...my friend went over to her bf's house, and he had his thing in her, but it hurt too bad, so he took it out. Is she still a virgin?

Originally posted by AliciaKeysForever
No no no...ok...my friend went over to her bf's house, and he had his thing in her, but it hurt too bad, so he took it out. Is she still a virgin?

Um. No. Well....yea no.

If Da 'tHiNG" wAz HiZ **** dEN sHe AiNt A vIrGin No Mo'. dOn'T HeR FeEl 2 bAd I HaD sEX wItH My bF wHen i WAS 15 aNd He DuMpED mEeH aBoUt A wEek L8er.

Originally posted by Dr. Lu Delgado


Um. No. Well....yea no.

She is or isnt? Cuz he didnt come or anything, so...

Originally posted by AliciaKeysForever


She is or isnt? Cuz he didnt come or anything, so...

Weeeeeeeeeeelll.....I dunno. I suppose she isn't cuz it was actually...in there...but I really dont know.

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
If Da 'tHiNG" wAz HiZ **** dEN sHe AiNt A vIrGin No Mo'. dOn'T HeR FeEl 2 bAd I HaD sEX wItH My bF wHen i WAS 15 aNd He DuMpED mEeH aBoUt A wEek L8er.

That's how old we are now..so it wouldnt be too different.

Umm..how long did he have.. it in there? I mean, was it actual sex, like they TRIED it, or was it like.. he tried putting it in there like a tampon said OW and it was out?

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Umm..how long did he have.. it in there? I mean, was it actual sex, like they TRIED it, or was it like.. he tried putting it in there like a tampon said OW and it was out?

It was gonna be actual sex...he had a condom on, but since she's a virgin, shes small (you know what I mean) and she said OW and so he took it out.

Originally posted by AliciaKeysForever


It was gonna be actual sex...he had a condom on, but since she's a virgin, shes small (you know what I mean) and she said OW and so he took it out.
Well, it always hurts the first time (not thatd Id know...), but umm.. I wouldnt consider it losing her virginity. Id call it an attempt to have sex. I mean, just because you pop it in there for 5 seconds, doesnt remove your name of virgin. It has to be REAL sex or like, atleast you start to then you decide to stop. Umm.. as for anyone finding out shes tried it.. (as in a doctor) theres no way he can tell.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

Well, it always hurts the first time (not thatd Id know...), but umm.. I wouldnt consider it losing her virginity. Id call it an attempt to have sex. I mean, just because you pop it in there for 5 seconds, doesnt remove your name of virgin. It has to be REAL sex or like, atleast you start to then you decide to stop. Umm.. as for anyone finding out shes tried it.. (as in a doctor) theres no way he can tell.

Thanks...that helped a lot! (Really...I wasnt being sarcastic :) )

Originally posted by AliciaKeysForever


Thanks...that helped a lot! (Really...I wasnt being sarcastic :) )
Welcome!!:D

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Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
wUt A stUpID hO! oW aFtEr hAviNg iT iN foR 1 SeXoNd lolz, EyE'M a ReAL hO aNd I tAke It LyKE A wHorE. ViRGin? so ****IN WuT wHy dOes ShE cARE, sHe Made ThE dECISIoN!

Yeah, but it hurt, so she wanted to stop, then she wanted to know if she still was or not.

Originally posted by AliciaKeysForever


Yeah, but it hurt, so she wanted to stop, then she wanted to know if she still was or not.

wELL I TOoK iT HaRdCoRe bABay!

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne


wELL I TOoK iT HaRdCoRe bABay!

Well, congratulations. I'm sure you're proud.

i know your questions been answered. but, i think another way would be if she bled. you bleed the first time you do it, successfully. *shrugs*

Well, being a lesbian, I'm definately not an expert on having "a guy's thing" in me ( ;) ), but I would say that your friend is no longer a virgin. Although it is a difficult situation to define because they obviously didn't have full sex.
Oh, what the hell do I know?! All I know is it does hurt the first time and it's supposed to. Technically, she isn't a virgin anymore though - even thought they didn't do it properly.

Originally posted by InspectorExstead
i know your questions been answered. but, i think another way would be if she bled. you bleed the first time you do it, successfully. *shrugs*

You know what... I think everyone is different. It doesn't always hurt or bleed for that matter- depending on who you are. I think the 'hurt' it more of a pressure inside the first few times- or if you've gone awhile without it. (Also- Depend on who you are)

Technically once a man's 'thing' or penis to be correct, lol, is inside you, you're no longer a virgin- no matter if you did anything with it, came, or whatever. That's what doctors say- I read it in a medical thing once. So you're not 'techically' a virgin once it's been inside... Even if it wasn't real sex or anything. She still has her 'First Time' to wait for since she didn't have sex- but doctor's classify a 'virgin' as someone whom has never had a man's penis inside before- switched if you're a man- of course. haha

I'm not claiming to be a know it all or anything, but I'm going by what I read on this topic. Interesting question- and at least they was responsible enough to use protection even for a moment. Smart friend for that....

Originally posted by #1_Nancy_McKeon

came

cummed

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne


cummed

Yeah, you'd know - apparently.


Although I could care less how I spelt it- at least I gave more information than "took it hard core". Frankly, I don't care.

Originally posted by #1_Nancy_McKeon


You know what... I think everyone is different. It doesn't always hurt or bleed for that matter- depending on who you are. I think the 'hurt' it more of a pressure inside the first few times- or if you've gone awhile without it. (Also- Depend on who you are)

Technically once a man's 'thing' or penis to be correct, lol, is inside you, you're no longer a virgin- no matter if you did anything with it, came, or whatever. That's what doctors say- I read it in a medical thing once. So you're not 'techically' a virgin once it's been inside... Even if it wasn't real sex or anything. She still has her 'First Time' to wait for since she didn't have sex- but doctor's classify a 'virgin' as someone whom has never had a man's penis inside before- switched if you're a man- of course. haha

I'm not claiming to be a know it all or anything, but I'm going by what I read on this topic. Interesting question- and at least they was responsible enough to use protection even for a moment. Smart friend for that....

If I may....

To quote Mosby's Medical, Nursing, and Allied Health Dictionary (proper credit given where credit is due) we will define
Virgin as follows:
1) "a person who has never had intercourse," or....
2) "uncontaminated"

and to continue, we will define Coitus (or intercourse) as follows:
"(Latin, meaning to come together) the sexual union of two people of opposite sex in which the penis in introduced into the vagina."

I will leave you to ponder you own demise, but I believe the facts speak for themselves.... Ladies and gentlemen, I believe the jury has reached a verdict

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne


cummed

Actually, it is came, so...

Thanks for all the info, guys!

Unless the guy is big enough to fit in her ***** then he didn't come in it he cummed in it, you are an idiot.

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
Unless the guy is big enough to fit in her ***** then he didn't come in it he cummed in it, you are an idiot.

Seeing as how he didnt cum AT ALL, then that doesnt apply here.