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sami dg
12-19-2002, 02:32 PM
I remember the first girl I had eyes for it was in tenth grade. Her name was Kelly and she was a cheerleader and I was crazy about her, I had crushes before but this was the first girl I ever truly felt I had fell in love with. Of course things didnt work out but I still will always remember it!

dawsongirl
12-19-2002, 02:35 PM
I've never fallen "in love," just had crushes on guys. Sad.

1strunfan
12-19-2002, 02:43 PM
I absolutely remember my first true love. I married him. I met him at a Halloween Party his sister-in-law had and he took me home from it. Then, we started dating. I was 15, a Sophmore in HS. But, I knew after like a month of "going" with him that he was the one. We "went together" for almost 4 1/2 years before we got married. We've been married almost 9 years now (in March) and we are still TOTALLY in-love.

Stormtracker TF
12-19-2002, 02:54 PM
Originally posted by 1strunfan
I absolutely remember my first true love. I married him. I met him at a Halloween Party his sister-in-law had and he took me home from it. Then, we started dating. I was 15, a Sophmore in HS. But, I knew after like a month of "going" with him that he was the one. We "went together" for almost 4 1/2 years before we got married. We've been married almost 9 years now (in March) and we are still TOTALLY in-love.
AW! What a sweet love-story!:D :D :D

AnaheimPMWitch
12-19-2002, 03:04 PM
My First TRUE LOVE??? okay dont laugh :) it was 7th grade and his name was Chris Taylor

Mossopp
12-19-2002, 03:30 PM
Her name was Carmen. I met her at school when I was 15. I'd noticed her around school and I thought she was pretty cool and then she ended up being put into my music class and my philosophy class.........needless to say I was very pleased at this turn of events! :D
She was a year younger than me. We never got past the 'friendship' stage but, looking back now, I really did have a chance with her. I was young and inexperienced at the time and I didn't really know how to read signals (if you know what I mean) so I missed my chance. We could've had something but everytime I saw her I just lost the ability to even think - she was that beautiful!
She was wonderful - there's no other way to describe her.

TJL
12-19-2002, 03:35 PM
I'm dating her right now...

:love:

Man, all this mushy stuff is killing me...
Anyone want to go hunting?

;)

laceyinthesky
12-19-2002, 03:35 PM
Originally posted by CaitlinMoore2002
My First TRUE LOVE??? okay dont laugh :) it was 7th grade and his name was Chris Taylor

Well, if you don't still love this person, then I don't think it was ever actually "true" love. I hate how casually people throw around the words "true" or "real" love. There's a big difference between being attracted to someone for a short time and planning on spending you life with one person and actually doing just that because you love them and don't want to ever be apart from them. The second I consider love, the first merely a crush.

laceyinthesky
12-19-2002, 03:38 PM
Originally posted by Mossopp
Her name was Carmen. I met her at school when I was 15. I'd noticed her around school and I thought she was pretty cool and then she ended up being put into my music class and my philosophy class.........needless to say I was very pleased at this turn of events! :D
She was a year younger than me. We never got past the 'friendship' stage but, looking back now, I really did have a chance with her. I was young and inexperienced at the time and I didn't really know how to read signals (if you know what I mean) so I missed my chance. We could've had something but everytime I saw her I just lost the ability to even think - she was that beautiful!
She was wonderful - there's no other way to describe her.

How do you know if she was a lesbian too?

la10424
12-19-2002, 04:24 PM
i've never fallen in love and i pray to God that i never do

Ian
12-19-2002, 04:24 PM
Originally posted by laceyinthesky


Well, if you don't still love this person, then I don't think it was ever actually "true" love. I hate how casually people throw around the words "true" or "real" love. There's a big difference between being attracted to someone for a short time and planning on spending you life with one person and actually doing just that because you love them and don't want to ever be apart from them. The second I consider love, the first merely a crush.

I agree with you 100%! The woman I love right now, is the only woman I've ever truely loved! You have infatuations and crushes, but there is only ever one TRUE LOVE!

1strunfan
12-19-2002, 04:31 PM
la0919 i've never fallen in love and i pray to God that i never do
Oh, don't say that. Being in Love is AWESOME.

laceyinthesky
12-19-2002, 04:42 PM
Originally posted by 1strunfan

Oh, don't say that. Being in Love is AWESOME.

I agree... sure, it has it's rough times, but the good outways any little bad thing by far.

Lil g 05
12-19-2002, 05:00 PM
3rd-8th grade I was with this kid J, even when we werent together people still think we are going to get married, its crazy, man people thought we were young and but the connection is totally there and still is, although we have moved on for the past couple of years, I wouldnt be surprised if we ever got back together, I am going out with a kid named Mike now, but I doubt its love

Brian Damage
12-19-2002, 05:53 PM
My wife Jennifer.:blush:

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
12-19-2002, 05:56 PM
David. It was in 8th grade. Sure, I had BIG crushes on guys before.. but it just felt different. To me, personally, I think it was love. I didnt have a single class with him after freshman year, but was still crazy about him up until the day I graduated.*sigh*

la10424
12-19-2002, 07:09 PM
Originally posted by 1strunfan

Oh, don't say that. Being in Love is AWESOME.

well, i wouldnt know.
all i know is how things are here, with my mom and dad.
sometimes they do act like they really are in love but other times they are pissed off at each other and yelling over stupid stuff. and my dad has a way of belittling everyone who voices their own opinion to him.

AND IF THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS THEN I DON'T WANT ANY PART OF IT

White_Daisy
12-19-2002, 07:15 PM
When I was in the 6th grade, I met this sweet boy named Josh. Josh and I became friends and we always played together in school.

In eighth grade, Josh asked me out....I was scared because he was my first date...hee hee. Well, we sort of "went out" that year. We only went out that first year because we thought it was so cool to tell people that I have a boyfriend/girlfriend. Yeah, we were kids, hee hee.

I'm still going out with Josh. We broke up and our relationship had sort of calmed down when we were freshman, but he asked me out again. And I don't really think we officially broke up and neither does he. I love him, I've told him that and he's told me that he loves me. I'd never consider breaking up with him except I'm scared with us becoming seniors next year and college coming. See, I want to go to a college in the Northeast, I want to stay near home. Josh doesn't like his family and wants to go to UCLA. I don't want to think about college and being put on opposite sides of the country and frankly, I don't think I'd be able to take it. He's my first and only boyfriend, and I don't know what I'd do without him

Maybe you can't call it love since we're both so young, but next week is our anniversary. We've been together for three years. We've sort of settled down. Freshman year, we were so hyper and happy because we were the only ones with a steady relationship. Now, we're juniors and everything is still sweet. He still walks me to all my classes, we still go to the movies every friday night. He still needs me to come with him to scary movies and he still cries at the end of sad ones (quietly though). He still hates spicy food and wonders how I can pour half a bottle of tabasco sauce onto my food and he's still trying to get my grandmother to like him.

We've had our fights. When I told him what colleges I liked, we had our biggest fight. I still remember how furious he was. I was so upset because I couldn't understand why he wanted me to go to a school out west. Then I found out from his guidance advisor that he's looking at schools out west. I knew then that he didn't want to break up. I know I sound sappy and stupid, just like a love sick teenager, but I can't help it. If it's puppy love, it's lasted for a long time.

Titania
12-19-2002, 07:22 PM
well, my first crush was this guy named robbie in 4th grade..he was so cute and he liked me and we sat on the swings and read comic books every day during recess... :: sigh ::

but that wasnt love. and ive gone out w/ a lot of guys and its never been love. either they were a jerk or i wasnt ready or it just didnt work. so im still waiting to fall in love for real.

and with my selectivity i may be waiting a very very long time. but its ok cause itll be worth it.

mark55
12-19-2002, 07:33 PM
Originally posted by la0919


well, i wouldnt know.
all i know is how things are here, with my mom and dad.
sometimes they do act like they really are in love but other times they are pissed off at each other and yelling over stupid stuff. and my dad has a way of belittling everyone who voices their own opinion to him.

AND IF THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS THEN I DON'T WANT ANY PART OF IT

you shouldn't let someone elses experiances ruin your own. give love a chance. i read your AOL profile...one of your quotes was
"the most important thing you'll ever learn is to love, and be loved in return." try listening to that again and hear how you need to try and live up to that. Here's wishing you happiness:kiss:

JDS84
12-19-2002, 08:34 PM
The first guy I fell in love with was Micahel. We first meet at church when I was 13. I remember thinking god he is so hot!!!!!!!! I fell in love with him from the first moment I saw him. I liked him for five years then this summer I asked him out again and he finally said yes. Oh god I love him so much. I hope we get married. If he would asked me today to marry me I would.

laceyinthesky
12-19-2002, 09:11 PM
Originally posted by la0919


well, i wouldnt know.
all i know is how things are here, with my mom and dad.
sometimes they do act like they really are in love but other times they are pissed off at each other and yelling over stupid stuff. and my dad has a way of belittling everyone who voices their own opinion to him.

AND IF THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS THEN I DON'T WANT ANY PART OF IT

Come on.. enough with the sob story. Be glad your parents are still together. They're in the better half of the marriage population already.

bandito
12-19-2002, 09:26 PM
my wife lisa the love of my life:)

AnaheimPMWitch
12-19-2002, 10:27 PM
Originally posted by laceyinthesky


Well, if you don't still love this person, then I don't think it was ever actually "true" love. I hate how casually people throw around the words "true" or "real" love. There's a big difference between being attracted to someone for a short time and planning on spending you life with one person and actually doing just that because you love them and don't want to ever be apart from them. The second I consider love, the first merely a crush. come to think of it YOu're right :):lol: I mean I was young and STUPID back then I think the true Love I have now is my TRUE LOVE problem is HE doesnt know I exsist yet :) and well being as i'm 30 and hes 26 CLOCKSATICKIN

dawsongirl
12-19-2002, 10:27 PM
Originally posted by Titania
and with my selectivity i may be waiting a very very long time.

I hear that. My aunt told me tonight that I'll never find anyone because I'm too picky.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
12-19-2002, 10:36 PM
Originally posted by dawsongirl


I hear that. My aunt told me tonight that I'll never find anyone because I'm too picky.
Meangya. Im not picky, my options are open! Like Ive said before..If I aint married or in a relationship by the time Im 24... Im putting myself on EbAy.:D

White_Daisy
12-19-2002, 10:36 PM
I'm gone for a few days next week because Josh wants to teach me how to ski for our 3rd anniversary. I'm in love, it's been three years and i get to go on a mini-break with him! Except it will prb turn out like last year when he took me ice skating. He found some of his friends there and they all played hockey. He got off the ice and got very scared. I was quite a site. I was furious, I was standing there with his shoes and I still remember how angry I was! I didn't talk to him for a week. And every single day that week, he got me a little present trying to apologize. I finally forgave him after he found a little puppy for me. I named it Pooka because I watched Anastasia 50 times that week. He's a sweet cocker spaniel and barks hello!

Titania
12-19-2002, 10:46 PM
Originally posted by dawsongirl


I hear that. My aunt told me tonight that I'll never find anyone because I'm too picky.

boy have i heard that from family, friends, etc etc... but picky isnt a bad thing.

i do have some pretty weird standards though.

Mysty Eyes
12-20-2002, 02:42 AM
I can't really say that I have ever really fallen in love. I'm not sure just what to expect.

But my first crush was on a boy named Danny. This was in the first grade. He was one of the "bad boys" and he was soooooo cute! :lol:

Interestingly, my current "crush," which I think just might be turning into something deeper is a man named Dan. :eyes:

I seem to be coming around full circle.

:D

Faith
12-20-2002, 04:59 AM
Well my first "true love" has definately got to be my ex b/f Marc, we still love eachother and are the best of friends... We were just both alittle to young at the time.

Barnabas1
12-20-2002, 11:13 AM
I've never really had one! LOL!

1strunfan
12-20-2002, 11:14 AM
White_Daisy, I think your story is so sweet. I completely know where you are coming from. Like I said earlier, my husband and I met when I was a Soph. Being that young and in a serious relationship takes alot of maturity on both parts. Alot of people act like because you are young, you don't really feel love like it truly is, but that is just not true. I hope everything works out with you and Josh and the whole College thing. And, a word of advice, watch yourself, at this stage in the game you don't really need any extra complications. (if you know what I mean. I'm sorry, I'm trying really hard to not act like a typical adult. But, I've been where you are, and I know how it is.)

Rockapella722
12-21-2002, 12:11 AM
Scott Leonard is my one true love. He doesn't know I'm alive, but it's love to me. I like it that he doesn't know me, I can't POSSIBLY get hurt in any way. He's 37, married and has kids, but that doesn't stop me any. I know it's different than any celebrity crush I've ever had before because I get this weird feeling whenever I think about him. It's this odd rush that goes through my whole body. And sometimes, when I think about him, my heart feels all funny and my stomach feels weird. He's beautiful, nice, down-to-earth, hilarious, got a killer smile, got an AWESOME singing voice, smart, and talented as hell. He's absolutely wonderful and I love NO ONE more. And I never will. Scott will always hold a special place in my heart. <3

I know I sound dumb, but it's hard to explain.

Mr. Shy Guy
12-21-2002, 12:28 AM
Well I'm not exactly sure if it is love but I have a had crush on a girl for about 5 years now. We were really good friends and all but I started doing some...odd stuff which I'd rather not get into and we just didn't talk to each other anymore. I still have feelings for her but they're certainly not as strong.

Mossopp
12-21-2002, 10:43 AM
Originally posted by laceyinthesky

How do you know if she was a lesbian too?

Like I said - there are 'signals'.

Originally posted by la0919
well, i wouldnt know.
all i know is how things are here, with my mom and dad.
sometimes they do act like they really are in love but other times they are pissed off at each other and yelling over stupid stuff. and my dad has a way of belittling everyone who voices their own opinion to him.

That's not "love" - that's marriage. They are 2 completely different things!

AnaheimPMWitch
12-21-2002, 03:00 PM
Originally posted by Rockapella722
Scott Leonard is my one true love. He doesn't know I'm alive, but it's love to me. I like it that he doesn't know me, I can't POSSIBLY get hurt in any way. He's 37, married and has kids, but that doesn't stop me any. I know it's different than any celebrity crush I've ever had before because I get this weird feeling whenever I think about him. It's this odd rush that goes through my whole body. And sometimes, when I think about him, my heart feels all funny and my stomach feels weird. He's beautiful, nice, down-to-earth, hilarious, got a killer smile, got an AWESOME singing voice, smart, and talented as hell. He's absolutely wonderful and I love NO ONE more. And I never will. Scott will always hold a special place in my heart. <3

I know I sound dumb, but it's hard to explain. I COMPLETELY understand where your coming from :) Idont really wanna DISCUSS mine in here because people USUALLY laugh at me :) but if you want you can e-mail me at TerryLeeNicmPM@aol.com by the way SCOTT IS A HOTTIE :)

CheersChild4life
12-21-2002, 04:38 PM
6th grade don laugh Nate Stickle

Unwanted Angel
12-21-2002, 09:19 PM
I was 13 years old and i fell so in love with my History Teacher Mr. Farris but he was married

Sitcomwriter
12-21-2002, 09:30 PM
Well my 1st SERIOUS crush was on Amanda (look down a few pages LOL) but My 1st crush was in kindergarten to a girl named Danielle.The teacher called everybody to put our backpacks in our cubbies but when she called Caitlin Danielle went up so I thought Danielle was Caitlin so I pretended to have a crush on Caitlin (Who was OK but not as pretty as Danielle) until she moved the following year.I've had crushes on girls since then (A different one every year actually LOL) but Danielle will always be my first.I still keep in touch with her but she doesn't know that I have a crush on her which is a good thing since it ruined my relationship with Jackie Mennie,A girl I was in love with in 4th grade and was good friends with until I told her I loved her.

Sitcomwriter
12-21-2002, 10:05 PM
Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

If I aint married or in a relationship by the time Im 24... Im putting myself on EbAy.:D

LOL.Yeah I agree.I want to be married by like 20 .If I'm not in a relationship by then I'm going to go to stoop to the lowest of the low and go on an internet dating site LOL but I HOPE to be in a relationship by then!

Montclave
12-22-2002, 12:53 AM
My wonderful husband Frank:happyface

vienna waits
12-22-2002, 08:51 PM
Originally posted by Gregorio
Well I'm not exactly sure if it is love but I have a had crush on a girl for about 5 years now. We were really good friends and all but I started doing some...odd stuff which I'd rather not get into and we just didn't talk to each other anymore. I still have feelings for her but they're certainly not as strong.

what did you start doing? sorry im curious.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
12-23-2002, 03:38 AM
Originally posted by Sitcomwriter


LOL.Yeah I agree.I want to be married by like 20 .If I'm not in a relationship by then I'm going to go to stoop to the lowest of the low and go on an internet dating site LOL but I HOPE to be in a relationship by then!
Yea. Thats what me and Amanda said we were gonna do. I mean, we dont go to college, nor do we plan on it. I plan on going to beauty school, and though some guys do go there..its not a whole lot. I mean, how else the hell am I supposed to meet guys?!

1strunfan
12-23-2002, 02:07 PM
There is a saying around here about being single. "You don't want to be a Christmas Cake" Because, no one wants you after the 25th (b-day).

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
12-23-2002, 03:44 PM
Originally posted by 1strunfan
There is a saying around here about being single. "You don't want to be a Christmas Cake" Because, no one wants you after the 25th (b-day).
:eek: I better move fast! Im not gonna be no old maid! LOl

james_baby87
12-23-2002, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by la0919


well, i wouldnt know.
all i know is how things are here, with my mom and dad.
sometimes they do act like they really are in love but other times they are pissed off at each other and yelling over stupid stuff. and my dad has a way of belittling everyone who voices their own opinion to him.

AND IF THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS THEN I DON'T WANT ANY PART OF IT
You have an excelent point thats the same way it is at my house

AnaheimPMWitch
12-24-2002, 12:30 AM
:lol: I'm in trobule then cause i'm 30