I got a HUGE problem. There's this guy that I have been seeing for a couple of months, well anyways he is in trouble with the police for a DUI, so he is planning on running, and wants me to go with him. AND i am actually considering it, what should i do?

You should run--as far away from him as possible. You can't uproot your entire life for a guy you've been seeing a few months. If he's going on the lam for a DUI, then I suspect it's not his first one, and he's facing time. If that's the case, then you've got an alcoholic on your hands.
Run for your life. :seeya:

Big mistake. Don't risk your safety over some guy.

Besides. where would you go?

No Clue, he wants to go to NY, and i was happy with that cause i could see Conan.. lol.. but i dunno, i guess i am torn

NO! Don't! Bad idea!:eek: :eek: :eek:


If he drives while drunk you may not ever get to New York! Wait until you grow up. For all you know you could get to New York and he will dump you!Then you could live on the street! Doesn't that sound wonderful?!:rolleyes:

Originally posted by JanLady617
You should run--as far away from him as possible. You can't uproot your entire life for a guy you've been seeing a few months. If he's going on the lam for a DUI, then I suspect it's not his first one, and he's facing time. If that's the case, then you've got an alcoholic on your hands.
Run for your life. :seeya:

I agree w/ this. He's no good for especially if he wants you to run away w/ him. He'll be running away from stuff the rest of his life & you don't need that. What if you guys stay together & 5 years & 2 kids later he decides to run away from you. I'm not saying it will happen, but people do that b/c they can't face their responsibilities. he should never be driving drunk anyway!!! he'll probably keep doing it like my brother did and now he's gone :(
That's just my opinion, but be careful & take care. I'm sure you'll get to see Conan someday ;)

thanks everyone.....

You've got some great advice so far. Anything I said would prob. repeat the other advice, so I'll just say I agree with every piece of advice so far.

Yea I'm with jenny on that one...just dont go

Originally posted by Willow4ever1981
No Clue, he wants to go to NY, and i was happy with that cause i could see Conan.. lol.. but i dunno, i guess i am torn
Conan? Now wait a minute lemme think about this one...........LOl

Seriously though NO, Im not gonna preach or anything, but if you run YOURE gonna get into trouble too and did you even DO anything?? If not, why risk yourself? Just tell him NO. He can take care of his own actions.


Although, Im up for a lil running off to NYC with you! Lets go!!:p

Originally posted by Penny Lane
NO! Don't! Bad idea!:eek: :eek: :eek:


If he drives while drunk you may not ever get to New York! Wait until you grow up. For all you know you could get to New York and he will dump you!Then you could live on the street! Doesn't that sound wonderful?!:rolleyes:

I hafta agree! Do not do it, it could be A BIG mistake. You shouldn't go.

Thank you everyone for the great advice, I knew all a long i shouldn't go, but i was sorta torn i guess, I don't know. But I decided around 7:30 this morning I wasn't going to go. Once again, thanks :D


Although, Im up for a lil running off to NYC with you! Lets go!!


I'm ready LOL

Originally posted by Willow4ever1981
Thank you everyone for the great advice, I knew all a long i shouldn't go, but i was sorta torn i guess, I don't know. But I decided around 7:30 this morning I wasn't going to go. Once again, thanks :D





I'm ready LOL
Thats good. I hope he didnt get mad- he had no reason to. He should understand that you dont want to get involved.



LETS GO!:seeya:

Originally posted by Willow4ever1981
Thank you everyone for the great advice, I knew all a long i shouldn't go, but i was sorta torn i guess, I don't know. But I decided around 7:30 this morning I wasn't going to go. Once again, thanks :D





I'm ready LOL

You don't need to thank us! And MCOB AKA MilKnPepSi, Is Right!

The next thing you should do is dump him. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

I took your advice briandamage... I was planning on doing it anyways because long distance relationships and me never work out.