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Sex and the City’s Samantha Jones and Charlotte York were set up to be complete opposites: Samantha the free-loving, up for anything hottie and Charlotte the romantic, repressed Park Ave princess. But when we take a deeper look at their stories, we actually start to see that surprisingly… they’re a lot alike. While they don’t always see eye to eye on the ‘right’ way to live one’s life, they do share some important similarities in the ways they go about getting what they want (and in how they grow over the course of the show.) The pair actually provide some really interesting insight into how – regardless of the boxes that society might try to put us in – we’re not actually that different from people we think are nothing like us, and how having those people in our lives can actually help us form a more accepting, multifaceted view of ourselves.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Intro
00:58 They both know exactly what they want
02:01 Their initial 'rules' about love & life
03:01 Thanks to CookUnity!
04:20 They're *also* open to growth & change
07:53 They love themselves
09:38 They're not willing to settle in life
11:34 Why opposites-attract friendships are so key