My friend and I are writing an article for the school newspaper on how to impress your crush, and we need ideas... so, if you're a girl, how do you impress guys? And if you're a guy...how do you impress girls? We can use anything we can get, so I appreciate this. Thaaaaaanks. :)

a guy could leave a note in her locker or give her some flowers

Be yourself. That's like the number one rule. Don't try and act like your someone else.

Oh. Responses. Thank god. I was starting to get worried there, lol. Thanks you guys...those are great. We'll use em. ;)

Um...if you need another one...

I say that you should TALK to them. Dont just send your friend over and be like, "So and so really likes you, but doesnt want to say anything about it." That's childish, and the relationship is always kinda built on that communication thing. ;)

First thing is communication. You have to be able to talk. (Preferably in the same language) And I always like a girl with a good sense of humor. I like a girl that can laugh with me. And I like a girl who likes to talks about the same interests as me. Makes me feel better. Also smile. Smiling is a good thing.

Originally posted by Kay Scarpetta
Be yourself. That's like the number one rule. Don't try and act like your someone else.

Ditto-

I was kind of stupid a few years ago. I really liked this guy, but I didn't act like myself- so that really messed everything up. Don't play games with whoever you like either. I think I was playing some kind of cat and mouse game with the guy I liked, and that was pretty stupid too. If you like someone just come right out and say "Hey, I like you." The person can either tell you to drop dead or say that he likes you back. It would be better to be rejected than to never come out and say it, and drive yourself crazy in the long run. Believe me, I drive myself crazy sometimes thinking what could've happened.

Originally posted by Kay Scarpetta
Be yourself. That's like the number one rule. Don't try and act like your someone else.

Good answer Karli! I'm impressed! (Not that I'm surprised ,you know!):lol:

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Originally posted by ~°~RockAngel89~°~
Ya dont show off or nething cuz that makes u look like a moron.

Crap!
Is that what I've been doing wrong?

This explains a whole lot...

;)

Originally posted by TJL


Crap!
Is that what I've been doing wrong?

This explains a whole lot...

;)

:rotflmao:

Originally posted by TJL


Crap!
Is that what I've been doing wrong?

This explains a whole lot...

;)
LOL, TJL, I'm glad this post is helping people other than me. :lol:

Originally posted by TJL


Crap!
Is that what I've been doing wrong?

This explains a whole lot...

;)

LOL

Originally posted by Penny Lane
Good answer Karli! I'm impressed! (Not that I'm surprised ,you know!):lol:

LOL! Thanks Marlene! Btw, I read a book today that was written in the 60's. What word did they use in every other sentence?

Groovy! It was driving me up a tree....

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Kay Scarpetta


LOL! Thanks Marlene! Btw, I read a book today that was written in the 60's. What word did they use in every other sentence?

Groovy! It was driving me up a tree.... [/QUOTE


FAR OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:lol:

As stated earlier, be yourself--that's very important.
To get the person's attention, make sure you look nice. Nobody has to be Hollywood gorgeous, just neat and stylish.
When talking to the person, do a lot of listening. Most people enjoy talking about themselves, so ask questions about their lives, school, job, family etc. Don't be a chatterbox--that's such a turnoff. Keep your conversation light in the beginning. Don't use the first few dates as therapy sessions.
Make eye contact to build trust. Be pleasant and smile a lot.
To show the person you're interested, give off body language that indicates that, such as touching their hand or arm, laugh at their jokes. They'll get the message soon enough.
And....don't give it up on the first date. :eek:
Good luck on your article.