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Sgt. Saunders 08-22-2023, 07:20 AM On LHOTP, we often see Charles Ingalls, the loving father, refer to his middle child, Laura, as “half-pint.” I suppose that sobriquet is supposed to be a heartfelt term of affection on Charles’s part.
Yet, I think that particular nickname has a negative connotation, as if Laura were somehow smaller and less significant than the other children.
It’s like when some insensitive adult or teenager refers to a very young boy or girl, who is extremely thin, as “spider.” I mean, it’s bad enough for an underweight boy or girl to be taunted by their “friends,” but for an older person to “good-naturedly” tease an ectomorphic boy or girl is especially cruel.
Of course, it’s just as terrible to “good-naturedly” tease an overweight boy or girl about their weight problems. In fact, on LHOTP, there were two episodes that dealt with the “body shaming” of two overweight adults, Mr. Olesen’s endomorphic sister, who was the “fat lady” in a traveling circus and the endomorphic father of one of Laura’s classmates.
I’m sure that Charles Ingalls meant well, when he referred to Laura as “half-pint,” but today, in more enlightened times, I don’t think that “Pa” Ingalls could get away with that maladroit attempt at a term of “affection” for his daughter.
BestTVever 08-23-2023, 05:33 AM I think you are reading too much into it. If she was a midget then yes a nickname halfpint could be insulting. However she was a child and was only small for a short time. Everything seems to offend people today and going back to Little House and over thinking a nickname is a bit extreme IMHO.
Surviving on the prairie on those days was hard enough. A nickname full of love was not going to hurt anyone.
No offense to the OP. I am just strongly disagreeing them. People have went nuts being anti-woke. But things like this just feed that anti-woke narrative. Parents still today proudly call their children "mini me's" or half pints all the time. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Being called that does not mean they are smaller or less significant than other children.
Sgt. Saunders 08-23-2023, 09:16 AM I believe that adults, and especially parents, should always instill confidence in their children. Any nickname, however well-intentioned, may cause self-doubt and a feeling of a lack of self-worth and self-confidence in that child. Referring to an underweight child as “spider” or an overweight child as “tubby” is not acceptable. Just call the boy or girl by their given name.
And, as far as being “woke,” I’m actually “slightly” to the right of both Patrick Buchanan and Sitcom Online’s own Babalu.
biffbronson 08-23-2023, 12:41 PM I've seen all of the episodes over time, but I can't recall if there were ever any nicknames for Mary, Carrie, or Albert...? There may have been one briefly for Carrie, she was so young.
Of course when Mary first began wearing glasses she was susceptible to thoughtless "four eyes" remarks from other children, but if that happened it was very short-lived and certainly not something adults would say.
Also I don't think the Olesons ever revealed any nicknames for Nellie and Willie.
rusty spike 08-23-2023, 02:05 PM I'm not the biggest fan of LHOTP by any means, but how many episodes focused on Carrie?
I always thought she was the invisible child of the series because the storylines were mostly about Laura or Mary.
dee2364 08-23-2023, 02:52 PM I'm not the biggest fan of LHOTP by any means, but how many episodes focused on Carrie?
I always thought she was the invisible child of the series because the storylines were mostly about Laura or Mary.
I think there was only one episode. Outside of that, there were next to no episodes because unlike the Olsen twins, the Greenbush twins couldn't act if their lives depended on it.
BestTVever 08-24-2023, 03:38 PM I believe that adults, and especially parents, should always instill confidence in their children. Any nickname, however well-intentioned, may cause self-doubt and a feeling of a lack of self-worth and self-confidence in that child. Referring to an underweight child as “spider” or an overweight child as “tubby” is not acceptable. Just call the boy or girl by their given name.
And, as far as being “woke,” I’m actually “slightly” to the right of both Patrick Buchanan and Sitcom Online’s own Babalu.
Many parents have nicknames for their kids and its a term of endearment between them. Laura was never called half pint at school or anything. Its the same thing as calling your child a "mini me." So many parents call their kids that.
You are searching too hard to be offended.
Sgt. Saunders 08-24-2023, 05:05 PM The late Sonny Fox, host of several kids’ shows in NYC, said that he liked the honesty of your children in expressing themselves to others. Mr. Fox was quite right in saying that children are very open and frank in expressing themselves; children can also be very callous and even cruel in what they say to another child, who is different in some way.
Remember how the obnoxious Clarence Rutherford once referred to young Beaver Cleaver as “Freckles,” causing the young Cleaver boy to develop anxiety and a lack of self-confidence?
I don’t know, I just expect more from adults to possess both the maturity and wisdom
NOT to burden a child with a problematic nickname, that can often be very personally hurtful for that still highly impressionable youngster.
Sgt. Saunders 11-23-2023, 06:37 PM Come to think of it, Pa Ingalls was hardly a prospective member of the Los Angeles Lakers himself. At only 5’9”” Michael Landon would hardly be mistaken for Tom Selleck or Liam Neeson. “Pa Ingalls” was more in the height category (or lack of it) of the late Alan Ladd or the diminutive Daniel Radcliffe.
In fact, most of the other male actors on LHOTP towered over Michael Landon. So, I guess that Michael Landon (a/k/a “Pa Ingalls”) wasn’t the only “half-pint” in the Ingalls family?
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