I forget the exact episode this was or the names involved, but have there been any updates?

I believe the missing woman's parents were blaming the husband and possibly his parents in her disappearance, and the young daughter supposedly said she fears dark garbage bags because "she saw Mommy put into one".

I forget the exact episode this was or the names involved, but have there been any updates?

I believe the missing woman's parents were blaming the husband and possibly his parents in her disappearance, and the young daughter supposedly said she fears dark garbage bags because "she saw Mommy put into one".

Charlotte Pollis...per the Unsolved Wiki..

Results: Unsolved. According to the police, Paul remains the only suspect in Charlotte's disappearance. Interestingly, in 1998, their daughter, Layla, was allegedly abducted by Charlotte's mother. It is believed that she was done so in order to keep her away from Paul. Several years later, she and her grandmother were located alive. However, Charlotte has never been found.
In the years since Charlotte's disappearance, Paul has been in trouble with the law several times. In 2005, he was put on probation for carrying a concealed weapon. In 2009, he was sentenced to eighteen months in jail after testing positive for cocaine and failing to report to his probation officer. In 2014, he was arrested and charged with felony drug possession. However, he has never been charged in her disappearance.
In March of 2019, Charlotte's friends and family held a "memorial celebration" for her.

Here's a good thread devoted to this case:

https://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=159581&page=25