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10-14-2020, 05:32 PM
Lisa Whelchel "Cried for Almost 3 Straight Days" after Playing "Survivor"
by Dalton Ross
October 14, 2020
Throughout our Survivor Quarantine Questionnaires, we have heard from lots of players who struggled once the cameras were turned off. And those struggles even extend to someone who has lived almost her entire life on camera.
Lisa Whelchel grew up a star on "The New Mickey Mouse Club" and then rose to fame playing Blair Warner on "The Facts of Life". But even someone who was used to the scrutiny and insecurity that comes with fame was unprepared for what happened after making it all 39 days on "Survivor: Philippines".
“For starters, I cried for almost three straight days from the moment I walked away from Tribal Council,” says Whelchel, who tied for second place.
“As a player, I think I just tried to hold everything in to play the game (with the exception of #SurvivorMeltdown, of course!) and the moment I was free to let down, it was like a flood. Thankfully, when I was still leaking tears months later, the Survivor therapist helped me not feel so foolish by explaining that it is not uncommon to experience a kind of grief reaction.”
Indeed, Whelchel’s reaction upon reentering society mirrors those of many of her peers. And the worst was yet to come.
“Unfortunately, I wasn’t prepared for a whole new round of PTSD when the season aired,” says Whelchel. “That was, in some ways, even more traumatic. When I was on television in the eighties, it was before the Internet and social media so, although, I got my fair share of public judgment and even shaming, this was so much more. It didn’t help that I was more raw and open and undefended than ever before.”
While Whelchel won the fan-favorite Sprint Player of the Season award (and the $100,000 that came with it), even beloved players can feel the social media sting, where no one is safe. But ultimately, going through that trial by ire made the runner up even stronger.
“This many years on the other side of it, I’m grateful. It was the equivalent of giving hundreds of people sledge-hammers and submitting myself to a fairly painful ego-annihilation. Ultimately, freedom to just be is on the other side of that, but it sure hurts getting there.”
Now, the sitcom and reality star is helping others overcome their obstacles as a life coach. She is also raiding some of the coolest treasure troves in the world as the host of MeTv’s "Collector’s Call". But even with that busy schedule, Whelchel took some time to look back on her island adventure and everything surrounding it.
Full Interview Here: https://ew.com/tv/survivor-lisa-whelchel-philippines-quarantine-questionnaire/
by Dalton Ross
October 14, 2020
Throughout our Survivor Quarantine Questionnaires, we have heard from lots of players who struggled once the cameras were turned off. And those struggles even extend to someone who has lived almost her entire life on camera.
Lisa Whelchel grew up a star on "The New Mickey Mouse Club" and then rose to fame playing Blair Warner on "The Facts of Life". But even someone who was used to the scrutiny and insecurity that comes with fame was unprepared for what happened after making it all 39 days on "Survivor: Philippines".
“For starters, I cried for almost three straight days from the moment I walked away from Tribal Council,” says Whelchel, who tied for second place.
“As a player, I think I just tried to hold everything in to play the game (with the exception of #SurvivorMeltdown, of course!) and the moment I was free to let down, it was like a flood. Thankfully, when I was still leaking tears months later, the Survivor therapist helped me not feel so foolish by explaining that it is not uncommon to experience a kind of grief reaction.”
Indeed, Whelchel’s reaction upon reentering society mirrors those of many of her peers. And the worst was yet to come.
“Unfortunately, I wasn’t prepared for a whole new round of PTSD when the season aired,” says Whelchel. “That was, in some ways, even more traumatic. When I was on television in the eighties, it was before the Internet and social media so, although, I got my fair share of public judgment and even shaming, this was so much more. It didn’t help that I was more raw and open and undefended than ever before.”
While Whelchel won the fan-favorite Sprint Player of the Season award (and the $100,000 that came with it), even beloved players can feel the social media sting, where no one is safe. But ultimately, going through that trial by ire made the runner up even stronger.
“This many years on the other side of it, I’m grateful. It was the equivalent of giving hundreds of people sledge-hammers and submitting myself to a fairly painful ego-annihilation. Ultimately, freedom to just be is on the other side of that, but it sure hurts getting there.”
Now, the sitcom and reality star is helping others overcome their obstacles as a life coach. She is also raiding some of the coolest treasure troves in the world as the host of MeTv’s "Collector’s Call". But even with that busy schedule, Whelchel took some time to look back on her island adventure and everything surrounding it.
Full Interview Here: https://ew.com/tv/survivor-lisa-whelchel-philippines-quarantine-questionnaire/