One time Trina had to get her wisdom teeth removed or something but she gets a text from somebody by instead of focusing on her daughter, she abandons her. And there was one episode where she didn't make Trina and Tori breakfast and only for herself, they call her out on it but she acted like nothing was wrong. It seems like in a lot of Dan Schneider shows, the adults were written as idiots, who basically let their children do whatever they wanted.