View Full Version : Rachel Bloom was "kind of devastated" by Neil Patrick Harris' diss, says "fame does


TMC
06-15-2018, 07:50 PM
...that to you"

https://www.gq.com/story/rachel-bloom-has-a-lot-to-say

"No, no, no. It wasn’t a joke," the Crazy Ex-Girlfriend star tells GQ when asked if her Tony Awards Twitter spat (https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/neil-patrick-harris-rachel-bloom-tony-awards_us_5b1e395de4b0bbb7a0df0b2c) with Harris was for real. "Basically… I saw that tweet And I was kind of devastated. I was actually going to tweet, 'This makes me sad.' But then I was like, 'Ehhhhhhhhhh… I don’t want to give him that, necessarily.' Look. I’ve met him a couple times. Very recently, backstage in the dressing room of a Broadway show. And we hung out for a solid 15 minutes with the star of this Broadway show. It was just bizarre to me that it wouldn’t ring a bell. And also, that he wouldn’t Google it." Bloom adds that Harris' fame and Twitter popularity may have resulted in his diss: "But look, he’s not a writer, so his version of a Twitter joke is to just kind of… live-comment to Twitter followers with kind of random, unformed thoughts," says Bloom. "And fame does that to you—where you think every kind of random, unformed thought is a gem, because you get 10,000 likes from it. He has, like, 27 million Twitter followers (https://twitter.com/ActuallyNPH). And that makes me scared about fame in general. The yes-men. Even if what you’re saying is, I don’t know, kind of weird or unoriginal, you’re still getting a lot of approval and dopamine surges for saying it." Bloom points out that his response to her response (https://twitter.com/ActuallyNPH/status/1006015911550160896) "wasn't really an apology," so she's hoping that Harris makes amends by urging his 27.7 million followers to watch Crazy Ex-Girlfriend. UPDATE: Harris apologized today to Bloom following her GQ comments, and she has accepted his apology (https://twitter.com/ActuallyNPH/status/1006964833403711489): "Sincere apologies to @Racheldoesstuff for my Tony tweet," Harris tweeted. "I failed to research her before pressing ‘send’, and what I thought was a funny comment in our living room must have been far from funny to read, backstage, mid show. As a performer and a parent, I should have know better." Bloom responded (https://twitter.com/Racheldoesstuff/status/1006967339449896961): "Hi, thank you for this! Apology accepted."

Here's the lesson Neil Patrick Harris should learned from his Rachel Bloom Tonys diss: Don't punch down! (https://slate.com/culture/2018/06/neil-patrick-harris-rachel-bloom-tweet-and-the-perils-of-being-too-famous.html)
"Whether it’s fair or not, Harris is simply Too Famous to take a potshot at Bloom in that way without facing a backlash," says Marissa Martinelli. "It can be easy to forget that even among celebrities there are tiers of fame, but Harris has been in the public eye for almost 30 years; Bloom is a comparatively recent breakout whose show (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend), while excellent, is consistently one of the least-watched on television...There’s a hierarchy even among celebrities, and Harris was punching down. Going forward, he’s better off leaving the 'I don’t know her's to Mariah Carey."