View Full Version : My dad got fired for sexual harassment


IllinoisTVFan
04-23-2018, 03:46 PM
My dad has been lonely since my mom died last January and has been seeking a girlfriend. He was working at a food pantry and this woman would come in and she started asking for money because she claimed she was needy. My dad being a kind person kept giving her money and she told him she was interested in dating him. He called her house and turns out she was married! She reported him to his boss and he got fired. My dad has a new job so he didn't care.

Before this I hadn't given sexual harassment a thought and assumed the woman was usually telling the truth. Now though I realize some are liars. I warned my dad about this woman, I found out she was living with a guy through some sleuthing and assumed it was a husband.

tlc38tlc38
04-23-2018, 03:58 PM
Every story has 2 sides and half the time I don't believe either side.

IllinoisTVFan
04-23-2018, 04:00 PM
It has made me question other times I believed the "victim" who wasn't actually a victim. I do know a guy accused of rape who I believe didn't rape. It really hurts the real victims when people make accusations.

Steve_uk
04-23-2018, 04:03 PM
He should seek legal advice.

MrCleveland
04-24-2018, 07:51 AM
It has made me question other times I believed the "victim" who wasn't actually a victim. I do know a guy accused of rape who I believe didn't rape. It really hurts the real victims when people make accusations.

That's how I feel about my brother's ex...even if I hear that *****'s name, I just wanna spit! Today there's TOO much of this "he said, she said" bull****!

And because of that *****. my brother has to go to AA meetings, a class for domestic disturbance, and is on probation...and she gets the PS4!

IllinoisTVFan
04-24-2018, 03:01 PM
Yeah there have been several times where I was the victim of someone but got punished. In grade school I got severely bullied so I punched one of them after the teacher did nothing (and knew things were going on). I punched my bully and I was the one who got in trouble.

Babalu
04-24-2018, 08:38 PM
This is what happens when the loony liberals are in charge.

The politically incorrect groups have no rights.

IllinoisTVFan
04-25-2018, 01:17 AM
Babalu, I actually agree with you. I know some think I'm a flaming liberal but I'm not and I despise the SJW. The SJW always blame the white guys even if they aren't guilty. My dad is far from a racist or a sexist but the loony tunes have thought that just because he is a 71 year old white guy. Let's not forget that men have been raped and sexually assaulted too yet they don't get help because it is assumed only women experience it.

MrCleveland
04-25-2018, 09:55 PM
Babalu, I actually agree with you. I know some think I'm a flaming liberal but I'm not and I despise the SJW. The SJW always blame the white guys even if they aren't guilty. My dad is far from a racist or a sexist but the loony tunes have thought that just because he is a 71 year old white guy. Let's not forget that men have been raped and sexually assaulted too yet they don't get help because it is assumed only women experience it.

I'm afraid that SJW will end civilization...man will anger a woman, but I don't want that...I'd rather have a woman who'd see eye-to-eye with me 80% of the time...we don't have to like the same thing, but we can respect what we like.

I feel that woman might as well as a man out, back then it was the man asking a woman.

IllinoisTVFan
04-26-2018, 01:53 AM
I'm afraid that SJW will end civilization...man will anger a woman, but I don't want that...I'd rather have a woman who'd see eye-to-eye with me 80% of the time...we don't have to like the same thing, but we can respect what we like.

I feel that woman might as well as a man out, back then it was the man asking a woman.

I think we as a society need to do more so these things don't happen. Part of it is we all need to get rid of all assumptions. We're all different and need to respect people but we also shouldn't make concessions towards others that we don't make towards others.

WilliamHBonney
04-26-2018, 05:37 AM
If all he did was call her and politely ask for a date he would easily be able to prove it in court since phone records are kept by mobile companies. Not saying he is lying just that,in a he said-she said scenario like this it can usually be proven which is the liar.

IllinoisTVFan
04-26-2018, 01:05 PM
I told him he should fight it but he said he has a new job so not a big deal.