My landlady called me that someone complained that my house smelled. I told her that October is my last month at the place where I'm at.

I may even tell my dad that I can't hang-out with him on Sundays since that is my clean the house day.

I dunno who ratted on me, but I feel it's my cat lady neighbor!

Why does your house smell?

Why does your house smell?

I have guinea pigs, I'm not a good maintenance guy since I clean at work, and Sundays are my clean house days, but since I've been spending time with my dad on most Sundays, I get back home in the evening and by then I'm tired-out.

I may need to change tactics, but this year has been stressful that I may talk to a psychological doctor and if I need to be in commitment...let it be...

It looks like I'll be living with my dad. I really don't want to, but it looks like I have no other options.

I can't find a $400 apartment or house for rent in a decent area, my brother may want to live in Fairview Park and if I live there I'll have to transfer buses which I hate doing...

Looks like I can't win...I'm like the Cleveland Clowns...

I have guinea pigs, I'm not a good maintenance guy since I clean at work, and Sundays are my clean house days, but since I've been spending time with my dad on most Sundays, I get back home in the evening and by then I'm tired-out.

I may need to change tactics, but this year has been stressful that I may talk to a psychological doctor and if I need to be in commitment...let it be...

That's probably why your landlady complained I'm assuming. Because of that.

That's probably why your landlady complained I'm assuming. Because of that.

One of my tenants was the one who complained, I think it was someone that I call the cat lady... she would always complains about everything...

Also... since my dad calls me almost everyday... I might as well move back with him...

If my landlady calls me, I'll tell her I won't be living where I'm at by the end of this year!

I've overheard the cat lady bitching and calling me an idiot behind my back... I was pissed, but then I explained on a few things... I can't live with someone that bitches about everything!

I'm planning on getting a house between now and the end of the year...how difficult will it be to get a house in two months alongside with my brother?

Any luck yet?

Any luck yet?

I may get something with my brother...he wants to buy a house, I'll either rent or buy. If we rent...I'd like it to be rent-to-own or a house rental with my name first. My brother hates to rent again, but sometimes it's the only way.

I hope we can get something under $50K or $100K...

I may get something with my brother...he wants to buy a house, I'll either rent or buy. If we rent...I'd like it to be rent-to-own or a house rental with my name first. My brother hates to rent again, but sometimes it's the only way.

I hope we can get something under $50K or $100K...

Good luck.

My brother's suspension is "Suspension Without Pay". He has a 401K, but if he can talk to my ex-pastor's son since he's doing yardwork there tomorrow...maybe the two of us can move there.

I may have to donate things...my clothes is probably the first thing to go and I have a wooden shelf that is a tad shabby, so...

2018 isn't doing too well...I'm just nervous that my landlady will kick me out.

My brother's suspension is "Suspension Without Pay". He has a 401K, but if he can talk to my ex-pastor's son since he's doing yardwork there tomorrow...maybe the two of us can move there.

I may have to donate things...my clothes is probably the first thing to go and I have a wooden shelf that is a tad shabby, so...

2018 isn't doing too well...I'm just nervous that my landlady will kick me out.

Move to where?

Move to where?

Either to my friend's house or still my dad's...

But since I heard nothing, I'll still be where I'm at in both house and work.

Either to my friend's house or still my dad's...

But since I heard nothing, I'll still be where I'm at in both house and work.

Where do you work?

Where do you work?

At my church. That place has changed dramatically...whatever the pastor wants, the pastor gets. It's the pastor's way or the highway...sounds like a modern-day Oliver Cromwell.

Our old pastor had to resign, but he kept most of the older relics...now the relics of yesteryear are Gone With the Wind. I feel the new pastor Destalinized my church that I went to for 22 years!

At my church. That place has changed dramatically...whatever the pastor wants, the pastor gets. It's the pastor's way or the highway...sounds like a modern-day Oliver Cromwell.

Our old pastor had to resign, but he kept most of the older relics...now the relics of yesteryear are Gone With the Wind. I feel the new pastor Destalinized my church that I went to for 22 years!

Do you volunteer?

Do you volunteer?

It's a paid job...but since it's non-for-profit, I don't get minimum wage.

I feel they'll make my business manager retire since he's gonna be 70 and his wife was a teacher.

It's a paid job...but since it's non-for-profit, I don't get minimum wage.

I feel they'll make my business manager retire since he's gonna be 70 and his wife was a teacher.

Wish I could get a job myself...

He wants me over almost every weekend, now he wants me to move-back home his **** is FAR more important than my ****!

This means I HAVE to be there as he dies...I don't wanna see him die, but I have no other choice...and he acts like an ******* when he DOES this!

He wants me over almost every weekend, now he wants me to move-back home his **** is FAR more important than my ****!

This means I HAVE to be there as he dies...I don't wanna see him die, but I have no other choice...and he acts like an ******* when he DOES this!

You should just move back home.

You should just move back home.

Looks like I'll HAVE to make him happy...all I wanted to do was to be independent and not be another Gen-Y victim who winds-up being the boomerang.

Moving-back home means that I might as well give-up....

Looks like I'll HAVE to make him happy...all I wanted to do was to be independent and not be another Gen-Y victim who winds-up being the boomerang.

Moving-back home means that I might as well give-up....

You shouldn't give up. When you move back home, you'll make your dad happy.

You shouldn't give up. When you move back home, you'll make your dad happy.

Well...I fell that if I do that...then I might as well do what Robin Williams did...make everyone happy but myself...and if I see him dead...I may be more miserable than when I was before....

Well...I fell that if I do that...then I might as well do what Robin Williams did...make everyone happy but myself...and if I see him dead...I may be more miserable than when I was before....

I'm sorry to hear that. :( ohno:

I made an agreement that if my dad sees a doctor, then I would move-back home.

But I dunno if it's gonna work...I move a part of his blanket from a small space heater and then he jumps all over me by saying "why do you have to be so ****ing paranoid"?

Me and my old man have butted heads many times...and I doubt that living with him will work-out. I'll be there for a week or two and then I'll be having a fight with him and then run away!

I made an agreement that if my dad sees a doctor, then I would move-back home.

But I dunno if it's gonna work...I move a part of his blanket from a small space heater and then he jumps all over me by saying "why do you have to be so ****ing paranoid"?

Me and my old man have butted heads many times...and I doubt that living with him will work-out. I'll be there for a week or two and then I'll be having a fight with him and then run away!

Why don't you go & live with your mom?

Why don't you go & live with your mom?

Mr. Cleveland's Mother has already passed away !:(

Mr. Cleveland's Mother has already passed away !:(

My mother has been gone for three years.

My dad has been a widower since...It's hard to be a widow, but I think It's harder to be a widower....

My mother has been gone for three years.

My dad has been a widower since...It's hard to be a widow, but I think It's harder to be a widower....

Oh wow, so sorry to hear that. :(

You are obviously young so, if you don't mind, how did your mom pass so young?? :confused:

Oh wow, so sorry to hear that. :(

You are obviously young so, if you don't mind, how did your mom pass so young?? :confused:

She was 60 and had a sudden heart attack.

I lost a teacher about a month ago in a similar concept.

Last Saturday...my old man wanted me to go over to his house and make him something to eat! I was busy and I didn't have the money to get on two more buses!

Then on Sunday, he HAD to put me on a guilt trip...looks like I HAVE to go to his house when my brother is working!

I might as well give-up and say "Okay Dad...You Win! I'll Move-Back Home And Watch You Die"!

My Old Man controls my life...and this is one of the reasons why This Hasn't Been My Year!

Last Saturday...my old man wanted me to go over to his house and make him something to eat! I was busy and I didn't have the money to get on two more buses!

Then on Sunday, he HAD to put me on a guilt trip...looks like I HAVE to go to his house when my brother is working!

I might as well give-up and say "Okay Dad...You Win! I'll Move-Back Home And Watch You Die"!

My Old Man controls my life...and this is one of the reasons why This Hasn't Been My Year!

Sorry to hear about all of this.

My Old Man controls my life...and this is one of the reasons why This Hasn't Been My Year!

:violin:

You say that about every year, so what's different now?

:violin:

You say that about every year, so what's different now?

The Coronavirus...

I had an okay 2018, okay? So I'm in a VERY depressed mood...and my old man isn't helping anything...he's a VERY demanding father, just leave me alone!

The Coronavirus...

I had an okay 2018, okay? So I'm in a VERY depressed mood...and my old man isn't helping anything...he's a VERY demanding father, just leave me alone!

You are controlled because you allow yourself to be. Your father cannot make you do anything. Simply don’t answer the phone or hang up.

You are controlled because you allow yourself to be. Your father cannot make you do anything. Simply don’t answer the phone or hang up.

I'm sorry...I try to...I have to find a way to say "no" in front of him...but I'm afraid to do so because he's sooooo demanding and he's got a bad temper.

Sometimes when I say "no", others will say "but I say "yes""...what part of "no" didn't they understand? Am I that gullible?

I'm sorry...I try to...I have to find a way to say "no" in front of him...but I'm afraid to do so because he's sooooo demanding and he's got a bad temper.

Sometimes when I say "no", others will say "but I say "yes""...what part of "no" didn't they understand? Am I that gullible?

Not gullible, more like no backbone.

Not gullible, more like no backbone.

So...I'm afraid of my dad?

If that's the case...I'll talk to my brother or sister and ask how to stand-up for myself...all I know is that he gets mad when I defend myself....

So...I'm afraid of my dad?

If that's the case...I'll talk to my brother or sister and ask how to stand-up for myself...all I know is that he gets mad when I defend myself....

You’re asking me? If you give in so easily then I would say so. Being assertive isn’t easy and I think your dad knows that.

So...I'm afraid of my dad?

If that's the case...I'll talk to my brother or sister and ask how to stand-up for myself...all I know is that he gets mad when I defend myself....

Why don't you ask your brother or sister for help in dealing with your dad? Or maybe you could stay with one of them?

Why don't you ask your brother or sister for help in dealing with your dad? Or maybe you could stay with one of them?

The way things are...I may stop by tomorrow to the house and house-sit.

My brother just called an ambulance and my dad is in there now.

I'll give you more updates about this....

I'll be seeing my father tomorrow...

It may be the last time I see him.

I weep every time I hear this song because this IS one of his faves...

2ViJn-FFJaA

If he sees God tonight...I want these to be his funeral cards...

I don't know what I'm searching for,
I never have opened the door.
Tomorrow may find me at last,
Turning my back on the past.
But time will tell of stars that fell,
A million years ago.
Memories can never take you back,
Home, sweet, home.
You can never go home any more.

I'm so sorry about your father. :(

I'm so sorry about your father. :(

Thanks...right now, I can't even visit my dad...this Coronavirus will put us in a new Dark Ages...just with TV and internet.

Thanks...right now, I can't even visit my dad...this Coronavirus will put us in a new Dark Ages...just with TV and internet.

You’re welcome. I hope that you can still manage to see him.

Mr.Cleveland , what happened to your Dad? Did he get sick or hurt? Why was he taken by ambulance to the hospital? I don't think you specified in your posts what happened exactly ? Or maybe I didn't read your posts correctly ? :confused:

I hope it isn't Corona virus related ? :confused:


Prayers that your Dad will be well soon !;)

You’re welcome. I hope that you can still manage to see him.

I'm afraid I won't see him again until I leave earth...

Mr.Cleveland , what happened to your Dad? Did he get sick or hurt? Why was he taken by ambulance to the hospital? I don't think you specified in your posts what happened exactly ? Or maybe I didn't read your posts correctly ? :confused:

I hope it isn't Corona virus related ? :confused:


Prayers that your Dad will be well soon !;)

From what I heard...his injuries came from a series of strokes. My brother called me yesterday about it and I saw him today so he can help me with my taxes. This **** is VERY complicated...I can't even see him now because of this ****ing Coronavirus!

I'm afraid I won't see him again until I leave earth...

That's terrible. :(

My father is now in rehab...he'll be there until Easter.

What happens if someone dies or gets seriously ill in rehab?

My father is now in rehab...he'll be there until Easter.

What happens if someone dies or gets seriously ill in rehab?

Let's just pray he doesn't and he recovers from the stroke and this Coronavirus gets under control and all turns out well for your Dad and you! ;)

I will say some prayers ! :)

My father is now in rehab...he'll be there until Easter.

What happens if someone dies or gets seriously ill in rehab?

I'm praying for you.

Every time I get a phone call from my dad...he doesn't sound too hot.

I postponed my Easter plans because of this Coronavirus as well as NOT seeing my father that day.

How the **** SHOULD I feel? I'm just VERY Depressed...and on top of it...it's mandatory that I go to work!

I'm so sorry. I hope your dad gets better and that you get to see him soon.

My father returned to the Emergency Room...I dunno what happened, but...I doubt he's gonna make it.

I can't celebrate Easter this year...it's gonna be a Sad Easter...and not because of the Coronavirus!

My dad went in the Emergency Room because he had pneumonia.

For someone who smoked and had a mini-stroke...will pneumonia be fatal?

My father returned to the Emergency Room...I dunno what happened, but...I doubt he's gonna make it.

I can't celebrate Easter this year...it's gonna be a Sad Easter...and not because of the Coronavirus!

My dad went in the Emergency Room because he had pneumonia.

For someone who smoked and had a mini-stroke...will pneumonia be fatal?

Sorry to hear about your father. :(

My father is back in rehab...I dunno how long he'll be there....

My father is back in rehab...I dunno how long he'll be there....

I'm sorry.

My father may be going home...but he isn't 100%...

My sister suggests that we take him to a skilled nursing facility.

My father may be going home...but he isn't 100%...

My sister suggests that we take him to a nursing facility.

It’s a shame to hear about that, but taking him to a nursing facility is a good idea.

It’s a shame to hear about that, but taking him to a nursing facility is a good idea.

I dunno how long he'll be there...I doubt my dad is gonna be fully recovered...I usually don't wish death, but...that might be better for him since won't deal with anymore pain and he's with my mom and his parents again....

I dunno how long he'll be there...I doubt my dad is gonna be fully recovered...I usually don't wish death, but...that might be better for him since won't deal with anymore pain and he's with my mom and his parents again....

Sad to hear that he’s suffering. ohno:

Keep us posted on how he's doing.

Well...my father caught influenza and he has an ulcer...in one month, his health has collapsed.

I dunno if I'll get to see him again on earth...this coronavirus isn't helping any either!

Me, my siblings, and my nieces got to see my dad...we had to see him through the window of his room since we couldn't go in because of the Coronavirus.

It upsets me that at the age of 63...my father might as well be 93! ohno: ohno: ohno:

That’s good you got to see your father though.

When I saw him, we only talked for 1/4 of an hour...but he got a cut on his arm, but he didn't feel it...is that a sign of diabetes, stroke, Parkinson's, or all of the above?