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Dude111
04-03-2015, 11:03 PM
I have alot of things bothering me lately... Im under alot of stress,etc..........

Well the other day it was added too even more.......

Another VBB site im on called CITY-DATA.com has some of the meanest/sadistic staff members I have ever seen there!!!

The other day I posted a reply to a message and called someone "BUDDY" as I always do (Im friendly,etc) A staff member "PONCHO_NM" deleted my reply and sent me a warning saying it was a RUDE MESSAGE,i need to call people by thier HANDLES.....

Then I sent him a PM back figuring he was in a bad mood trying to help him and he blocked me for 10 days!!!!!!

THIS SCUMBAG MUST BE IN A BAD MOOD AND HE IS TAKING IT OUT ON ME....

My friend FBJ on city-data has also been treated badly (He's also here) he has been blocked a couple times FOR NOTHING!!!!!!!!!! (Beretta I think blocked him (She also blocked me 14 days one time for posting a rant about food having no flavour -- STUPID AS HELL!!!!!!!! -- I didnt do anything))

PEOPLE ARE GETTING MEANER AND MEANER AS THEY SEE THIER WORLD CRUMBLE AROUND THEM!! (THEY HAVE TO FACE REALITY OF WHATS HAPPENING (Things getting worse,etc))

THE CO-ADMINS THERE DONT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT HOW THIER STAFF MEMBERS TREAT PEOPLE..... THEY WONT DO ANYTHING TO HELP ME......

DO I WANNA GO BACK TO A SCUMHOLE LIKE THAT???? -- Obvious they are just trying to get rid of me????


I did a search and PONCNO_NM has been running alot of ppl off city-data.. THEY DONT CARE!!!!!!!!!

www.topix.com/forum/who/TAPLTFRVVBHI5UKJF (http://www.topix.com/forum/who/TAPLTFRVVBHI5UKJF)

THATS THE REASON THE WORLD IS SO ME$$ED UP NOW BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!!!!

YAK AND MARKA (Both supposedly "co-admins" and ones to file complaints with... WHY??????? THEY DONT DO A BLASTED THING NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS!!)

THEY ARE WORTHLESS AND SHOULDNT BE IN CHARGE OF ANYTHING!!!!!!!!

Im very sad.......

tiredmike59
04-03-2015, 11:41 PM
Don't feel too bad, I also had a comment deleted by that character and all I did was agree with another poster whose comment wasn't deleted. I don't get on there much anymore. f him

Bonniegirl
04-04-2015, 12:15 AM
Than you guys should stay here on SOL and post!! It's nice here!

Dude111
04-04-2015, 12:19 AM
Ya Bonnie your right about that!!


ITS JUST SO SAD PPL LIKE THAT ARE ABLE TO BE MODERATORS!!!!

Dont moderators have a CODE OF ETHICS they need to follow??

HOW CAN THEY JUST IGNORE WHAT THEY DO????? -- Just for calling someone BUDDY?? (I thought Poncho was my friend (he used to be very nice to me))


SEEMS LIKE A CONSPIRACY THAT NO ONE WANTS ME THERE AND THEY ARE JUST USING ANY EXCUSE TO GET RID OF ME.......

I dunno................ :(

OH Nuts!
04-04-2015, 09:51 AM
Ya Bonnie your right about that!!


ITS JUST SO SAD PPL LIKE THAT ARE ABLE TO BE MODERATORS!!!!

Dont moderators have a CODE OF ETHICS they need to follow??

HOW CAN THEY JUST IGNORE WHAT THEY DO????? -- Just for calling someone BUDDY?? (I thought Poncho was my friend (he used to be very nice to me))


SEEMS LIKE A CONSPIRACY THAT NO ONE WANTS ME THERE AND THEY ARE JUST USING ANY EXCUSE TO GET RID OF ME.......

I dunno................ :(

Dude111 so sorry you had that experience. That site sounds really f'd up. Like a good friend of mine says "go where it's warm" and that site sounds like Antartica. I'm with Bonnie, SO is the place to be. Overwhelmingly nice posters and fantastic Mods. You will never find Admins as decent and kind as Janice and TJ anyplace else.

Sign me, ONe Happy SO Poster, been here a little over a decade, and 99.9% of my posts are here, with occasional ones on FB and LinkedIn.

MrCleveland
04-04-2015, 10:02 AM
I've been to sites like that too...the trolls who are doing that seem that they're invincible because they have a mod to protect them. I had fights with people on other sites despite some being behind my back...

But even when people here on SOL give you crap...Janice will tell them to stop!

OH Nuts!
04-04-2015, 01:24 PM
I've been to sites like that too...the trolls who are doing that seem that they're invincible because they have a mod to protect them. I had fights with people on other sites despite some being behind my back...

But even when people here on SOL give you crap...Janice will tell them to stop!

Yeah, Janice is amazing!

Dude111
04-05-2015, 01:27 AM
I love Janice,she is a nice Girl :)


I dont think she would treat ppl like that here!!! (Or let other staff members treat members badly)


I love this site alot!!

TVFactFan
04-05-2015, 05:49 PM
IM FBJ everyone

:wave:

TVFactFan
04-05-2015, 05:54 PM
The only issue i have on this site is with the administrator TJ

I hate the way he runs this place and I wish he would fix it


:lol: :lol: :lol:

MrCleveland
04-05-2015, 09:31 PM
Yeah, Janice is amazing!

I'll admit I've played the jerk card here, but once I know that Janice has a good way to calm these people...I feel better.

The only other sites that I feel comfortable about without getting much ridicule is...bcdb.com (Big Cartoon DataBase...since NO politics nor religion is spoken) and an acmeacres site.

Others...you can have!

mets82
04-06-2015, 02:37 PM
Dude, I'd leave that site. Its not worth it. I mean if your going to get hassled and upset then you should leave. I mean going on sites like SO or even the site you mentioned should be to enjoy yourself and not make you sad. And I'll add kudos for Janice. She does a great job!!

TVFactFan
04-06-2015, 03:32 PM
Dude, I'd leave that site. Its not worth it. I mean if your going to get hassled and upset then you should leave. I mean going on sites like SO or even the site you mentioned should be to enjoy yourself and not make you sad. And I'll add kudos for Janice. She does a great job!!


It's hard for him to leave because the site is very addicting which is why he felt the need to come here and express his frustration about being suspended

Bonniegirl
04-06-2015, 03:49 PM
It's hard for him to leave because the site is very addicting which is why he felt the need to come here and express his frustration about being suspended



What site is this that you are all talking about? I don't want to join because it doesn't seem like a nice place from what you are all posting, but I'm curious! :confused:

TVFactFan
04-06-2015, 03:51 PM
What site is this that you are all talking about? I don't want to join because it doesn't seem like a nice place from what you are all posting, but I'm curious! :confused:


http://www.city-data.com/forum/

tiredmike59
04-06-2015, 04:19 PM
There are a lot of real estate people on that site.
They are always recommending places for people to move to.
I had to laugh once when someone was asking about an area near me and somebody told them that they would really enjoy it and I know for a fact that place has been flooded 4 times since 1993. When it rains heavy you can't even get to it because the roads are under water.

TVFactFan
04-06-2015, 04:22 PM
There are a lot of real estate people on that site.
They are always recommending places for people to move to.
I had to laugh once when someone was asking about an area near me and somebody told them that they would really enjoy it and I know for a fact that place has been flooded 4 times since 1993. When it rains heavy you can't even get to it because the roads are under water.


The site also gives away prizes like $500 to 10 posters who are the most engaging. So far the site has given out $94,000 in prizes

I have yet to win a $500 check but I am stilling trying lol

Janice
04-06-2015, 04:35 PM
There are a lot of real estate people on that site.
They are always recommending places for people to move to. Very true. About ten years ago, we were considering relocating. As soon as I posted that, I had real estate agents PMng me like crazy. Some of the posters can be pretty ruthless there too. I know someone who was harassed something fierce, to the point that he called his work to get him fired. Some of the veteran posters are vicious and not very welcoming to newbies. That site gives me the creeps.

tiredmike59
04-06-2015, 04:37 PM
The site also gives away prizes like $500 to 10 posters who are the most engaging. So far the site has given out $94,000 in prizes

I have yet to win a $500 check but I am stilling trying lol

I saw that on there but I wasn't sure what they mean by " Most engaging. "

tiredmike59
04-06-2015, 04:40 PM
Very true. About ten years ago, we were considering relocating. As soon as I posted that, I had real estate agents PMng me like crazy. Some of the posters can be pretty ruthless there too. I know someone who was harassed something fierce, to the point that he called his work to get him fired. Some of the veteran posters are vicious and not very welcoming to newbies. That site gives me the creeps.

Thanks for confirming my suspicions. I wondered why someone would recommend a flood zone to somebody looking to relocate.

TVFactFan
04-06-2015, 04:48 PM
I saw that on there but I wasn't sure what they mean by " Most engaging. "

I believe it means whatever topic you start getting a lot of attention.

Bonniegirl
04-06-2015, 05:03 PM
The site also gives away prizes like $500 to 10 posters who are the most engaging. So far the site has given out $94,000 in prizes

I have yet to win a $500 check but I am stilling trying lol


That sounds fishy!!!! Where would they get the money to do that? :confused: I'm wondering if anyone really does win? Sounds like a ploy just to get people to post. But than they are mean and ban other people! Sounds weird! :eek:

TVFactFan
04-06-2015, 05:12 PM
That sounds fishy!!!! Where would they get the money to do that? :confused: I'm wondering if anyone really does win? Sounds like a ploy just to get people to post. But than they are mean and ban other people! Sounds weird! :eek:


I think they said it comes from advertising.

The people who won they post $500 next to their username to let you know who the winners are. The current contest is from April 1st to May 30th

and then the administrators decide by June 14th who the winners are. Just goes to show how big the site is because you would think after giving away $94,000, it would be no one left to win a prize but apparently it still is

Bonniegirl
04-06-2015, 07:16 PM
Janice should give out cash prizes here!!!! Just kidding!!! LOL!!!

Coffeecup
04-06-2015, 09:15 PM
I try to be as polite as I can. I don't swear, or criticize and I try to have fun.

Dude111
04-07-2015, 10:26 AM
It's hard for him to leave because the site is very addicting which is why he felt the need to come here and express his frustration about being suspendedThank you my friend!

I just cant understand how the "senior moderators" (CO-ADMINS) can just ignore this.. WHAT DID I DO????????

Nothing...... I left Poncho a PM asking him what was wrong and he blocks me 10 days..... THE CO-ADMINS CAN SEE THIS AND THEY SAY NOTHING??

Is this a conspiracy by the staff to get rid of me??


I dunno....... I have alot of things bothering me lately..... I dont know if I wanna go back,WHO IS GONNA GO OFF ON ME NEXT?? :(

TVFactFan
04-07-2015, 01:51 PM
Thank you my friend!

I just cant understand how the "senior moderators" (CO-ADMINS) can just ignore this.. WHAT DID I DO????????

Nothing...... I left Poncho a PM asking him what was wrong and he blocks me 10 days..... THE CO-ADMINS CAN SEE THIS AND THEY SAY NOTHING??

Is this a conspiracy by the staff to get rid of me??


I dunno....... I have alot of things bothering me lately..... I dont know if I wanna go back,WHO IS GONNA GO OFF ON ME NEXT?? :(


What I started doing is staying off the boards that seemed to always get me in trouble

Relationships Board........85% of my infractions came from posting on that board which is why I don 't post on it like i used to

Dude111
04-07-2015, 07:08 PM
Yea I understand!!!!!

THERE IS NO ENFORCEMENT THERE!!!!! (The mods can treat you AS THEY WISH and not face any consequence!!)

TVFactFan
04-07-2015, 07:13 PM
Yea I understand!!!!!

THERE IS NO ENFORCEMENT THERE!!!!! (The mods can treat you AS THEY WISH and not face any consequence!!)

I think once you win $500 you are exempt from infractions. lol

I report a certain $500 every day and the ugly b*tch is never infracted

tiredmike59
04-07-2015, 08:43 PM
I think once you win $500 you are exempt from infractions. lol

I report a certain $500 every day and the ugly b*tch is never infracted

Try to make friends with the " ugly b*tch " maybe she'll let you borrow some money.

TVFactFan
04-07-2015, 08:48 PM
Try to make friends with the " ugly b*tch " maybe she'll let you borrow some money.


Nope, she is too hideous:lol: :lol:

Fleet
04-07-2015, 11:49 PM
Janice should give out cash prizes here!!!! Just kidding!!! LOL!!!
Or give out chocolate! :happyface

Coffeecup
04-08-2015, 04:28 PM
I took a glanced at my state and the posts were a little bland for me. I like this site for it is mostly TV talk.

Dude111
04-09-2015, 01:12 PM
I report a certain $500 every day and the ugly b*tch is never infractedIt would be interesting TVFactFan. Could ya (or would ya) please post a thread about me asking if anyone knows where I am?? (On the general discussion message base) and see what ppl say?? (Would be interesting if Poncho Jumps in)

I think the reality is: PEOPLE ARE BECOMING QUITE MEAN AND UNCARING as they see thier world crumbling around them... They are forced to face the reality that things are getting worse everyday :(

Furienna
04-10-2015, 10:13 AM
I've had problems with certain sites as well. And it seems like you either have to take their crap or leave. :(

Dude111
04-11-2015, 09:21 AM
Why bother having A COMPLAINT DEPTARTMEMT if they arent going to do anything??

The have this thread setup here

www.city-data.com/forum/showthread.php?t=188837


WHY BOTHER?????? THEY DO NOT DO ANYTHING!!!!!!!! (They dont seem to care what ppl do to people)


Its sad :(


The other day I looked @ my profile as a guest and it said "NOT A MEMBER" and now it says my title again "An Awesome Dude" -- I dont know what they are doing there!!


I think creating a new acct might be the best option! (Then poncho,etc wont know its me)

TVFactFan
04-11-2015, 05:00 PM
Why bother having A COMPLAINT DEPTARTMEMT if they arent going to do anything??

The have this thread setup here

www.city-data.com/forum/showthread.php?t=188837


WHY BOTHER?????? THEY DO NOT DO ANYTHING!!!!!!!! (They dont seem to care what ppl do to people)


Its sad :(


The other day I looked @ my profile as a guest and it said "NOT A MEMBER" and now it says my title again "An Awesome Dude" -- I dont know what they are doing there!!


I think creating a new acct might be the best option! (Then poncho,etc wont know its me)


If you see "An Awesome Dude" under your screen name that means your suspension has been LIFTED and you can post again:wave:

Dude111
04-12-2015, 10:06 AM
Yes My account seems to have been reset........ (Yak PMed me and said he would look into it)

Im afraid to post there however Tvfactfan!!! -- With Poncho on the loose!!

Bonniegirl
04-12-2015, 11:14 AM
Yes My account seems to have been reset........ (Yak PMed me and said he would look into it)

Im afraid to post there however Tvfactfan!!! -- With Poncho on the loose!!


Heres what you should tell this Poncho character !!!! :D



https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQf8NsfmwEVXJJ4i763P8WpHimPCoR2jp0dZuUBjS9Mck21uk8J

TVFactFan
04-12-2015, 12:16 PM
Just post on the boards that poncho doesn't moderate lol

Dude111
04-13-2015, 03:26 PM
Ya I guess i could do that but isnt he a global mod??

Anyway....I posted a message on the canadian base a few mins ago...


YAK told me something VERY INTERESTING and it all makes sense now!!

He said Poncho is EX- MILITARY!!!! -- Most of them are mean and have attitudes......... (Especially when they arent happy)


I wanna thank you for yuor kindness the last week about this TVFACTFAN... I think I read on city-data a few weeks ago you had a bad date or something,that made me feel bad........

Your a good friend :) -- I hope you dont have anymore like that!!!