I don't recall ever hearing any mention of Lilith or his son on Frasier. When Frasier was on Cheers he married Lilith and had a son. Once he was on Frasier it seemed as though they both disappeared. Wouldn't he have visited his son or had his son come visit him? I don't recall anything being said as to what happened to them. I may have missed it being said on the show or just don't remember (it has been a while since I've watched this).

I don't recall ever hearing any mention of Lilith or his son on Frasier. When Frasier was on Cheers he married Lilith and had a son. Once he was on Frasier it seemed as though they both disappeared. Wouldn't he have visited his son or had his son come visit him? I don't recall anything being said as to what happened to them. I may have missed it being said on the show or just don't remember (it has been a while since I've watched this).
Did you actually watch "Frasier"? Because Lillith and Freddy were mentioned and featured quite a bit.

If you watch enough episodes of Frasier, you'll see Lilith and Freddy appear . Lilith was Jewish, and there was an episode about Freddy's bar mitzvah . On one episode, Freddy was in a spelling bee, and he got disqualified because Frasier mouthed the letters Freddy was using to spell his word, and the judges thought that was a cheating situation . There was one episode where Lilith asked Frasier to father a second child . On one episode, Frasier had to cancel a date with a woman because Lilith wanted to have a serious discussion with
him . She wanted to tell him she was getting married again . I think there was one episode where Niles had an affair with Lilith, and that was mentioned on a subsequent episode . Freddy had a crush on Daphne .

When Frasier first came on, its producers announced that this version of Frasier was only nominally based on the character from Cheers, and the situations that happened to Frasier on Cheers might not necessarily be referenced on Frasier . As Frasier went on, the connection between Frasier from Cheers and Frasier from Frasier became stronger .

I guess you probably haven't seen the show in awhile. Or at all. lol Freddy was even on enough that they were able to develop his character a little...He went from cute little kid to an active, interested grade schooler, to disinterested, video game obsessed pre-teen, to scary, goth teenager. Even when he didn't make an appearance, the characters talked enough about what he was doing that it helped develop his character. True of Lilith too-- she was on the show and talked about enough times that they wanted to make her a regular in the cast but Bebe Neuwirth turned them down.

One of my favorite episodes is "The Apparent Trap" where Frederick tries to get his parents back together just so that he can get a mini bike! The boy, Trevor Einhorn who was Frederick was on several episodes, although they used a different boy in the earlier seasons, I think only once. They really played up Fredrick's infatuation with Daphne and the hilarious way that Niles gets so jealous!

The boy on the left; Luke Tarsitano (left) played Frederick in 1995 and Trevor Einhorn (right) took over from 1996 to 2003.
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