30 LOL

I met this girl on a dating site and told her I will call around 9pm or 10pm and when I call I hear the voicemail. So the one girl I called was new and average looking and won't be called again. The other one I chatted with 3 days ago and told I would call around 10pm, same thing....voicemail


Both are 30 or over and pretending to be out and about. LOL I headed to the toilet

maybe they are just playin' hard to get - how are you at chasing them?

maybe they are just playin' hard to get - how are you at chasing them?


The chasing is over and their numbers are deleted. LOL I don't play that immature sh*T. Answering the phone on a sat night should not matter when u in your 30's

TOTALLY!! They most likely have really been there, but wanted you to think they were popular and 'busy" out on a Saturday night!!! :D

I remember being young and single and sometimes I had nothing to do on the weekends , but I didn't want guys to think I was sitting around waiting for them to call, tried to look busy and dated up to arouse their interest more!!! :D

Didn't arouse me at all, turned me off actually LOL. So they will be replaced

Didn't arouse me at all, turned me off actually LOL. So they will be replaced
I don't blame you. If you told them you would call, they should have been expecting the call from you. It's clear that they are just playing games.

I don't blame you. If you told them you would call, they should have been expecting the call from you. It's clear that they are just playing games.


And both responded with OK

And both responded with OK
Very lame. They should have had enough courtesy to actually talk to you instead of sending some stupid text message. When I was thirty, cell phones were not popular yet. It was 2002, but anyway, if I happened to be home on a Saturday and if my phone rang, I would answer it. These sound like very clueless and rude girls. Don't sweat it. You'll find someone else, I'm sure.

Very lame. They should have had enough courtesy to actually talk to you instead of sending some stupid text message. When I was thirty, cell phones were not popular yet. It was 2002, but anyway, if I happened to be home on a Saturday and if my phone rang, I would answer it. These sound like very clueless and rude girls. Don't sweat it. You'll find someone else, I'm sure.


That's why in 2004 I decided to never call a girl on a fri or sat night because they will always make it look like they are out doing something. I only call on sun to thursday

I see what you going through TVFactFan. That's why I don't talk to women because of the games they play. I love women but a lot of them got issues and that's why so many of them are single. Yet they complain that there's no good men when a lot of them refuse to date good men especially black women. Black women wonder why black men are with white women because white women don't act immature and act mean towards black men like black women do. I wish I could get a white woman even though I prefer a black woman. I gave a Hispanic woman my phone number last week because I told her my birthday was coming up and she wanted to know what my plans were. So I gave her my phone number and I told her to celebrate with me and she said ok. She never called. But then when I saw her last week, she asked me what did I do for my birthday LOL. I shouldn't have spoke to her.



I don't even go on dating websites and I don't approach women at all because they're attitudes are so nasty. There's so many women that are single and they say there's no good men but there's lots of good men. The reason why women aren't chasing good men is because some of them don't have a lot of money and a nice car. Most women only want men that got a lot of money and a nice car. They wonder why men call them golddiggers LOL. When I want some intimacy from a woman, i'll pay a club stripper that I've known for several years. I was intimate with her last Thursday and it was good. I've even gone to the hotel with her twice to spend the night and i'm gonna take her to the hotel again when I get a full time job. It's sad that some men have to pay prostitutes for sex but it's like that because men that are single are afraid of approaching women because of women's attitude.

[QUOTE=isiahthomas]I see what you going through TVFactFan. That's why I don't talk to women because of the games they play. I love women but a lot of them got issues and that's why so many of them are single. Yet they complain that there's no good men when a lot of them refuse to date good men especially black women. Black women wonder why black men are with white women because white women don't act immature and act mean towards black men like black women do. I wish I could get a white woman even though I prefer a black woman. I gave a Hispanic woman my phone number last week because I told her my birthday was coming up and she wanted to know what my plans were. So I gave her my phone number and I told her to celebrate with me and she said ok. She never called. But then when I saw her last week, she asked me what did I do for my birthday LOL. I shouldn't have spoke to her.



I don't even go on dating websites and I don't approach women at all because they're attitudes are so nasty. There's so many women that are single and they say there's no good men but there's lots of good men. The reason why women aren't chasing good men is because some of them don't have a lot of money and a nice car. Most women only want men that got a lot of money and a nice car. They wonder why men call them golddiggers LOL. When I want some intimacy from a woman, i'll pay a club stripper that I've known for several years. I was intimate with her last Thursday and it was good. I've even gone to the hotel with her twice to spend the night and i'm gonna take her to the hotel again when I get a full time job. It's sad that some men have to pay prostitutes for sex but it's like that because men that are single are afraid of approaching women because of women's attitude.[/QUOTE


And that's why I didn't call her dumb a$$ back LOL. ALready moved on someone else. And if I did call who's to say we could not suggest meeting up? We didn't necessarily have to chat on the phone but she never answered the phone to find out. And what ended up happening is I met someone else BETTER LOOKING last night LOL

I deleted my original post because maybe I am not the one to give good advice on this topic because of my age. I was married in my 20's , than divorced and remarried again for years now . So I haven't really dated in years! It was before the internet matchups and meeting people on line and all that! So I was giving my opinion on when I dated as a teenager in the 70's before I got with my first husband. I'm old school, so I am not really the one to give advice to younger more modern dating!

I deleted my original post because maybe I am not the one to give good advice on this topic because of my age. I was married in my 20's , than divorced and remarried again for years now . So I haven't really dated in years! It was before the internet matchups and meeting people on line and all that! So I was giving my opinion on when I dated as a teenager in the 70's before I got with my first husband. I'm old school, so I am not really the one to give advice to younger more modern dating!


I will be making all my calls tonight and tomorrow because I already not to call any girl until Sunday night LOL

Friday and Saturday is OFF limits LOL

I just got a email from a cute white woman on Craigslist that wanted to hook up with me for sex but she told me she wanted $150 and I said I can't give her that. When I read her ad, she didn't mention anything about money. Her ad said she just wanted sex because she was lonely. She'll never hear from me again. I asked her how come she wants money and she said she's homeless and she's staying at a motel. So I guess she needs the money to pay for her motel room but she isn't getting it from me. She posted a picture of her in her ad and I really like the way she looks. But that's ok. I got a couple of women I can hook up with when I wanna be intimate and I don't have to pay them a lot of money. It trips me out how so many women are only into men who got a lot of money and a nice car. That's why I've been single for so long because I hate approaching women because of their attitude. I saw a white woman yesterday that I wanted to approach and she was kinda thick. I should've approached her and I'm sure if she was to reject me, she would've did it in a nice way instead of being mean like black women are.

I just got a email from a cute white woman on Craigslist that wanted to hook up with me for sex but she told me she wanted $150 and I said I can't give her that. When I read her ad, she didn't mention anything about money. Her ad said she just wanted sex because she was lonely. She'll never hear from me again. I asked her how come she wants money and she said she's homeless and she's staying at a motel. So I guess she needs the money to pay for her motel room but she isn't getting it from me. She posted a picture of her in her ad and I really like the way she looks. But that's ok. I got a couple of women I can hook up with when I wanna be intimate and I don't have to pay them a lot of money. It trips me out how so many women are only into men who got a lot of money and a nice car. That's why I've been single for so long because I hate approaching women because of their attitude. I saw a white woman yesterday that I wanted to approach and she was kinda thick. I should've approached her and I'm sure if she was to reject me, she would've did it in a nice way instead of being mean like black women are.



you going to jail lol

What makes you think i'm going to jail? You think she was a cop pretending to be a regular woman wanting sex? Well i saw her last night because she changed her mind and she reduced the price to $60. I massaged and kissed her feet and we did a lot of kissing. I asked her if she would go on a date with me next weekend to the movies and to get something to eat and she said yes. She's cute and i wanna continue to see her. I hope to eventually be her boyfriend because i like the conversation we had and she seems to be a nice woman. She told me the reason she's staying at the motel is because her ex-boyfriend beat her up and she packed her stuff and left him. She's 5 years older than me and she told me she has 3 sons and a daughter. Her kids don't live with her. I think i need a white woman which is what she is because too many black women are evil. The thing i love about white women is most of them are nice and even when they reject men, they do it in a nice way and they aren't mean like black women.


So i'm gonna see what happens between us on our date next week and hopefully the date will go well and we'll continue to see each other. I asked her has she been looking for a job. She said she's trying to get some money first which means she's gonna be intimate with men to pay for her motel room so she'll have a place to live while she looks for a job. She told me she was thinking about moving to Sterling, Virginia which is very far from where i live and i told her don't do that because if she did that, i wouldn't be able to see her anymore. I'm gonna try to talk her into moving in my area so she'll be close to where i live. I wish i had my own place because if i did, i'd let her live with me.

Well i saw her last night because she changed her mind and she reduced the price to $60.

Send her to my place next... ;)

Glad you guys had fun.

Well i hope she eventually becomes my girlfriend so i won't have to pay her to be intimate. I'm gonna take her on a date next weekend. I talked to her today and i told her i wanted to show her around the area in Alexandria, Virginia because i don't think she's ever been there. I told her it's a nice area. She told me she's from Seattle and she used to live nearby Virginia Beach. She's in Springfield, Virginia now and she told me she hasn't been in the area that long and she doesn't know much about it. When i asked her yesterday how to get to her motel, she told me the street and the address but when i asked her to tell me what she was nearby, she couldn't tell me. I only know a little bit about Springfield because i don't be in that area often. If she does become my girlfriend, i'll have to thank myself for checking out ads from women on Craigslist because i would've never met her. I haven't met a lot of women on there because i've responded to several ads and i don't get that many responses because i don't have a picture of me. Sometimes it's weird how a man can meet a woman online that ends up being your girlfriend and you say how come i can't approach a woman on the street to get her to be my girlfriend.

^ Good luck and stay careful.

I have tried looking on Craigslist myself, but didn't really get anywhere. I also heard many negative experience others have had dealing w/ that site.

I've also been in past relationships where it started out for pay, but then we eventually went further.

^ Good luck and stay careful.

I have tried looking on Craigslist myself, but didn't really get anywhere. I also heard many negative experience others have had dealing w/ that site.

I've also been in past relationships where it started out for pay, but then we eventually went further.


I met several Hotties off craigslist

I met several Hotties off craigslist

I'm glad you had success w/ it.

I've since found sites that cater towards my specific interests, so it's all good.

I'm glad you had success w/ it.

I've since found sites that cater towards my specific interests, so it's all good.


It seems like I have more success when I don't post my pic and when she responds she gets the pic that way

Versus

me posting an ad with my pic showing

Well I changed my mind about the woman I met being my girlfriend because it seems she doesn't wanna get a job and she would rather be a prostitute. I don't want a woman who isn't trying to get a job. It's really a shame that she's 43 years old and doesn't have a job. Being a prostitute is dangerous because women that are doing that have to be careful about the men that they meet because some men are crazy and they be beating up women and sometimes killing them. She told me that she's staying at a motel because she left her ex-boyfriend who was beating on her. She has 4 kids that are adults and I don't understand why she hasn't asked them if she can live with one of them until she can get a job and get her own place. Maybe her relationship with her kids isn't that good.