I know there's some men who are virgins and i want them to know that sex isn't a big deal and it's something that shouldn't be rushed. Men that are virgins shouldn't feel like they need to chase women so they can experience what sex feels like. Sex is good especially when you're doing it with the right person but a lot of women are as*holes and i know a lot of men don't like it when women reject them. Men need to let women approach them sometimes and if women never approach you, don't get upset. There's other things that are more important than sex like having a job, having a car and a place to live because if you don't have these things, there's no point in living. Besides women won't deal with men that don't have money. So men that are virgins need to get a job and a car first before pursuing women because you need money and a car to get them anyway LOL. Sometimes i wish i would've never approached women because of the way they behave especially black women. I know there aren't a lot of black men on here and most of the white men on here probably can't relate to what i'm saying. If i was still a virgin, it wouldn't bother me. I love women whether they're black, white, hispanic but i refuse to approach them anymore because of their ******** behavior.

I appreciate your advice. I'm 48 and I'm still waiting for the right lady to share my life with. And I believe the best gift I can offer her is to share physical intimacy with her that I've never shared with any other woman.

Sometimes i wish i would've never approached women because of the way they behave especially black women. I know there aren't a lot of black men on here and most of the white men on here probably can't relate to what i'm saying. If i was still a virgin, it wouldn't bother me. I love women whether they're black, white, hispanic but i refuse to approach them anymore because of their ******** behavior.

It's good that you refuse to approach women anymore, good for them that is. With your attitude it's a wonder you can even get a girl to go on a date with you through a McDonalds' drive-thru muchless getting one in the sack. :rolleyes:

Your ignorant comments about me make me laugh hahahahahahahahaha. You think i care if women don't wanna be bothered with me? I could care less. I'm the type of guy that doesn't kiss women's asses like most men do. Women love getting attention from men and when some men don't give it to them, they don't like it. F*ck these stuck up b*tches. I've gotten cute women before in my hometown Cleveland. I even had a few cute women that approached me in Cleveland. I don't like the women in Virginia and Maryland even though i've seen lots of cute women here. Too many bougie, materialistic, attitude women here. There's a black guy that works at my 2nd job and he told me that he's from here and he said the women are terrible.

Marvo301, you're 48 and a virgin? Wow. I admire you for having the courage to say that because some men that are virgins are afraid to say that because they're afraid of getting laughed at by ignorant men. Men that are virgins shouldn't be afraid of saying they're a virgin because they're afraid of being laughed at and dissed. I used to hate it when i was in high school and ignorant black men would laugh at me because they thought i was a virgin because they didn't see me with a girlfriend. I love women but i don't need to chase after them and have their stuck up asses reject me. So i can do without a woman because i've done lots of things by myself like going to the movies, going to a restaurant, going to the mall, going to the grocery store. So not having a girlfriend doesn't bother me. I've been without one for awhile. I can go without sex for a long time even though i think about it sometimes. If i die without a woman, that's fine with me LOL.

You think i care if women don't wanna be bothered with me? I could care less. I'm the type of guy that doesn't kiss women's asses like most men do. Women love getting attention from men and when some men don't give it to them, they don't like it. F*ck these stuck up b*tches.
You sound bitter.

Your ignorant comments about me make me laugh hahahahahahahahaha. You think i care if women don't wanna be bothered with me? I could care less. I'm the type of guy that doesn't kiss women's asses like most men do. Women love getting attention from men and when some men don't give it to them, they don't like it. F*ck these stuck up b*tches. I've gotten cute women before in my hometown Cleveland. I even had a few cute women that approached me in Cleveland. I don't like the women in Virginia and Maryland even though i've seen lots of cute women here. Too many bougie, materialistic, attitude women here. There's a black guy that works at my 2nd job and he told me that he's from here and he said the women are terrible.

Men who don't spend excessively and pay women constant attention and devotion do NOT get to have sex with most women who are gorgeous and attractive. You will probably have average to less than average looking women, but the most beautiful, sexy and drop-dead gorgeous women will always gravitate towards whatever men will spend the most money and treat them as if they were goddesses. And those that wont? Oh well, . . .there are so many men that DO, guys who won't don't even matter to them.

Cleverfun3000, you speak the truth. I agree with you. Steffy, i'm not bitter. I'm not afraid of being alone like most men. Most men are afraid of being alone and that's why so many of them do crazy stuff to get hot women. Cleverfun3000, you should go to Youtube and watch footage of this black guy named Jerry Lavigne saying don't chase women. Go there and type in don't chase women and the footage will come up. He says some funny stuff about women. He said he knows that women are gonna look at what he said and say you think all women are materialistic and he said yes hahahahahaha. He said women will suck you dry and move on to the next sucker who has a lot of money. He said women don't give a f*ck LOL. He said when men's d*cks get hard, that's why they chase women LOL. He said you should go several weeks without talking to women because they will have your mind distracted when men should be focusing on what's important like getting a job and paying your bills on time. He said when men see women coming towards them, they need to go the other way LOL.

Cleverfun3000, have you seen Diary Of A Tired Black Man movie? That's a good movie. Several black men in the movie had some funny stuff to say about black women.

Thanks for agreeing with me, IsiahThomas, but I want to stress that this is NOT a black or white issue. I have vast experience with many, many types of women and the overwhelming majority insist that you give them a huge amount of your free time and a LARGE amount of your money and attention. That fact trandsends color. So no, I am not going to be looking at how tired some black guy is....because I don't care. What I do care about is making sure that I don't allow a woman's wants and needs to distract or detour me from focusing on the things I need and the levels I must achieve in my life.

Another classic thread. lol

Another classic thread. lol

LOL, why do I equate dating advice from isiahthompson with diet and exercise advice from the morbidly obese?

Also, and I know that this will piss some people off, there is something "odd" about people who have reached a certain age who are still virgins. Either there's a good reason (just left the priesthood/convent) or for some tragic reason you have not found anyone with whom you can connect on an emotional and spiritual level, or you have and for some reason they rejected you. Sad.

Shotzette, you need to understand that some guys that are virgins are afraid to approach women because of the way they behave. Virgin guys are nervous or shy about approaching women because maybe they're afraid of rejection. Most guys are afraid of being rejected by women. Guys are easier to approach than women because guys don't expect a lot in a relationship. Women expect too much from men in a relationship and that's why some guys don't approach women. Most guys that approach women i guess don't care about getting rejected because they know rejection is something that happens when you're talking to women because they can't expect every woman they talk to to be with them. It would suck though to go through life and never have sex because sex is good and i wish men that are virgins that love women could experience it.

there is something "odd" about people who have reached a certain age who are still virgins. Either there's a good reason (just left the priesthood/convent) or for some tragic reason you have not found anyone with whom you can connect on an emotional and spiritual level, or you have and for some reason they rejected you. Sad.
I agree with you completely. A middle aged virgin is not normal.

It would suck though to go through life and never have sex because sex is good and i wish men that are virgins that love women could experience it.

I read something in the paper today saying that an active sex life makes you look younger. :cool:

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/sex-younger-expert-article-1.1391109

I read something in the paper today saying that an active sex life makes you look younger. :cool:

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/sex-younger-expert-article-1.1391109
That's because it's healthy, natural and enjoyable. :)

I know there's some men who are virgins and i want them to know that sex isn't a big deal and it's something that shouldn't be rushed. Men that are virgins shouldn't feel like they need to chase women so they can experience what sex feels like. Sex is good especially when you're doing it with the right person but a lot of women are as*holes and i know a lot of men don't like it when women reject them. Men need to let women approach them sometimes and if women never approach you, don't get upset. There's other things that are more important than sex like having a job, having a car and a place to live because if you don't have these things, there's no point in living. Besides women won't deal with men that don't have money. So men that are virgins need to get a job and a car first before pursuing women because you need money and a car to get them anyway LOL. Sometimes i wish i would've never approached women because of the way they behave especially black women. I know there aren't a lot of black men on here and most of the white men on here probably can't relate to what i'm saying. If i was still a virgin, it wouldn't bother me. I love women whether they're black, white, hispanic but i refuse to approach them anymore because of their ******** behavior.




What the hell are you talking about?:lol: :lol:

What the hell are you talking about?:lol: :lol:
It's the thread of the day. :lol:

It's the thread of the day. :lol:


He made have been HIGH!!!!:lol: :lol: :lol:

Solomon, do you have a girlfriend? I'm sure you don't have one LOL. I can picture you approaching women and them rejecting you. I bet you probably approach just the ugly and fat ones because the cute ones don't want you LOL.

Solomon, do you have a girlfriend? I'm sure you don't have one LOL. I can picture you approaching women and them rejecting you. I bet you probably approach just the ugly and fat ones because the cute ones don't want you LOL.



The Library must close late tonight or is the librarian sleep and don't know you have exceeded your limit?????:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Are you gonna answer my question about do you have a girlfriend? I already know the answer. So you don't have to respond. No cute woman is gonna be with you especially when you're on the internet all day everyday and you watch football and basketball and do nothing else hahahahahahahahahaha.

What is said here about women rejecting men quite often is completely and totally true. A man that approaches a woman is more likely to be rejected than not. Why? Several reasons. A woman makes up her mind within 3 - 5 minutes about whether or not she is interested in a man she just met as far as to whether or not she will allow him to pursue her. After her mind is made up, it's a backwards up-hill battle to get her to change her mind about her first impression (whether or not she's right or wrong is never the issue.) Secondly, women look at the entire man as it relates to his lifestyle, clothes, jobs. past girlfriends, generosity, personality and 25 other issues that all must align up with what she considers to be the kind of man she wants to be with. You have to have the kind of appearance that would make her girlfriends jealous when they see you with her, or it's adios amigo. . .

What is said here about women rejecting men quite often is completely and totally true. A man that approaches a woman is more likely to be rejected than not. Why? Several reasons. A woman makes up her mind within 3 - 5 minutes about whether or not she is interested in a man she just met as far as to whether or not she will allow him to pursue her. After her mind is made up, it's a backwards up-hill battle to get her to change her mind about her first impression (whether or not she's right or wrong is never the issue.) Secondly, women look at the entire man as it relates to his lifestyle, clothes, jobs. past girlfriends, generosity, personality and 25 other issues that all must align up with what she considers to be the kind of man she wants to be with. You have to have the kind of appearance that would make her girlfriends jealous when they see you with her, or it's adios amigo. . .

Glad to know you're such an expert. :rolleyes:

What is said here about women rejecting men quite often is completely and totally true. A man that approaches a woman is more likely to be rejected than not. Why? Several reasons. A woman makes up her mind within 3 - 5 minutes about whether or not she is interested in a man she just met as far as to whether or not she will allow him to pursue her. After her mind is made up, it's a backwards up-hill battle to get her to change her mind about her first impression (whether or not she's right or wrong is never the issue.) Secondly, women look at the entire man as it relates to his lifestyle, clothes, jobs. past girlfriends, generosity, personality and 25 other issues that all must align up with what she considers to be the kind of man she wants to be with. You have to have the kind of appearance that would make her girlfriends jealous when they see you with her, or it's adios amigo. . .

I'm going out on a limb here and assuming that 80%+ of the guys on this board are single--not by choice! This thread is the blind leading the blind. Don't go to other guys for advice, ask your female friends. If you do not have any female friends, that may be part of the problem.

LOL, why do I equate dating advice from isiahthompson with diet and exercise advice from the morbidly obese?

Also, and I know that this will piss some people off, there is something "odd" about people who have reached a certain age who are still virgins. Either there's a good reason (just left the priesthood/convent) or for some tragic reason you have not found anyone with whom you can connect on an emotional and spiritual level, or you have and for some reason they rejected you. Sad.
I don't think there is anything odd about me just because I've never had sex.I made a decision ang time ago that I was going to wait until I got married . All these years later I'm still not married so I'm still waiting. (and I've never had an STD!!!)

Men peak sexually at age 19.
Thank you Dr. Ruth.

I don't think there is anything odd about me just because I've never had sex.I made a decision ang time ago that I was going to wait until I got married . All these years later I'm still not married so I'm still waiting. (and I've never had an STD!!!)
I've been sexually active since the age of 17 and I have never had an STD either. :)

Thank you Dr. Ruth.

Yeah, where's the link proving this? :confused:

Yeah, where's the link proving this? :confused:
I don't need any link. I paid attention in sex ed. class during high school.

I don't think there is anything odd about me just because I've never had sex.I made a decision ang time ago that I was going to wait until I got married . All these years later I'm still not married so I'm still waiting. (and I've never had an STD!!!)


I understand (but do not agree) with someone waiting until they get married to have sex. Are you actively dating someone at this time? If not, what are you doing to meet potential partners? Match.com, christianmingle.com, jdate, eharmony--there are a lot of options out there that weren't around a decade ago.

BTW, I totally did NOT wait until I got married (just hit the 20 year anniversary mark this spring! :D ) and I've never had an STD either. If that is what is *really* keeping you from exploring that side of life--not the marriage issue--there are ways of protecting one's self. Are you generally germaphobic and is this an extension of that issue?

I understand (but do not agree) with someone waiting until they get married to have sex. Are you actively dating someone at this time? If not, what are you doing to meet potential partners? Match.com, christianmingle.com, jdate, eharmony--there are a lot of options out there that weren't around a decade ago.

BTW, I totally did NOT wait until I got married (just hit the 20 year anniversary mark this spring! :D ) and I've never had an STD either. If that is what is *really* keeping you from exploring that side of life--not the marriage issue--there are ways of protecting one's self. Are you generally germaphobic and is this an extension of that issue?
48 is pretty old to be a virgin. So what's the point of waiting any longer? If this person ever does have sex, he'll need Viagra by that point anyway. It's too late. He already missed his chance to experience the euphoria of sexual intercourse.

I read something in the paper today saying that an active sex life makes you look younger. :cool:

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/sex-younger-expert-article-1.1391109

I have to disagree, I have a active sex life and it does not make me look younger

Sex (or lack of) is a personal choice for everyone. Not everyone has the same beliefs, interests, medical issues... and I don't think anyone should be put down or made to feel inadequate for not having sex yet for whatever reason.

I don't get the "waiting until marriage" thing, but I understand that a lot of people believe in that. I personally want experienced sexual partners and my interests are not shared by many people (openly anyway though that seems to be changing).

From what I've been told, finding potential life partners does seem to get harder as you reach 50+ years.

48 is pretty old to be a virgin. So what's the point of waiting any longer? If this person ever does have sex, he'll need Viagra by that point anyway. It's too late. He already missed his chance to experience the euphoria of sexual intercourse.

One is never too old for sex. People may need viagra earlier since erectile dysfunction can happen to anyone.

Hugh Hefner still as an active sex life (w/ viagra) at 87, so I don't see anything wrong with needing to take it if you must.

I have to disagree, I have a active sex life and it does not make me look younger

Yeah, it hasn't stopped me from getting gray hair.

Yeah, it hasn't stopped me from getting gray hair.

Yup, I have gray hair too

Are you gonna answer my question about do you have a girlfriend? I already know the answer. So you don't have to respond. No cute woman is gonna be with you especially when you're on the internet all day everyday and you watch football and basketball and do nothing else hahahahahahahahahaha.

As opposed to you, of course. :rolleyes:

There used to be saying that went something like, those who do, do...those who don't, talk about it. ;)

LOL@Shotzette and Steffy dissing Marvo301 hahahahahahahahahahaha. Marvo301, i don't mean to laugh at you but 48 years old is a very long time to go without sex and i don't understand why you didn't have it when you were younger. I couldn't have gone without sex that long LOL. I don't have sex often but it would be impossible for me to be old and to never have sex. Are you afraid of approaching women? Are you afraid of rejection? If that's the case, then you have to deal with rejection because every woman you approach isn't gonna be your girlfriend. That's just the way it is. Men don't like rejection but they deal with it. Sometimes you'll get a woman when you least expect it because i've had a few women that approached me and i wasn't expecting that. I've been lucky that i've been intimate with some cute women and i thank my looks for that because if i was ugly, i would've never gotten a cute woman LOL.

I agree with your post as far as there being nothing wrong with being a virgin. I was a virgin until age 25, and frankly, I often regret giving up my virginity to someone who I wasn't married to. For personal reasons, I'd take it back if I could. I respect all those who choose, and succeed in waiting. I think it takes character.

Shotzette, what's wrong with men not having female friends? Men have a hard time approaching women trying to get them to be their girlfriends. So what makes you think women will be men's friends if men tried to get them to be their friend? LOL. Plus I don't think most men can be friends with women especially cute women because guys wanna have sex LOL. Guys love sex more than women and guys think about sex more than women.

Shotzette, what's wrong with men not having female friends? Men have a hard time approaching women trying to get them to be their girlfriends. So what makes you think women will be men's friends if men tried to get them to be their friend? LOL. Plus I don't think most men can be friends with women especially cute women because guys wanna have sex LOL. Guys love sex more than women and guys think about sex more than women.
Stop making lame excuses for not getting any.

I have plenty of male friends. Males being friends with females is NORMAL. What's not normal is a guy who has NO female friends. That is a socially awkward WIERDO.

At least there aren't any judgmental people in this thread...

Gotta love a good joke thread xD

At least there aren't any judgmental people in this thread...
You took the words right out of my mouth.

I agree with your post as far as there being nothing wrong with being a virgin. I was a virgin until age 25, and frankly, I often regret giving up my virginity to someone who I wasn't married to. For personal reasons, I'd take it back if I could. I respect all those who choose, and succeed in waiting. I think it takes character.

I think it takes courage to share both what you shared and what Marvo301 shared. And yes, I believe men and women should be virgins until they're married. I know some people find that idea to be ludicrous and that's okay if you don't agree. For me though, I view sex as a particularly special thing because it is the consumation of marriage. And when a man and woman unite in holy matrimony, it's a reflection of the relationship God has with us. Just read Song of Solomon to see this more. God has the same love and desire for all of us as the passion a man has for sexual intimacy with his wife. And it's that kind of love that drove God to send Jesus to die on the cross and rise again to give us salvation through putting our trust and faith in Him.
And it's because I trust Him as Savior and seek to obey His Word in The Bible that I believe sex should be reserved only for marriage. There are different Bible verses that address this, and one favorite for me is 1 Corinthians 6:9-20 says it quite well. This passage tells us that for those in Christ, our bodies are a temple for The Lord. And we ourselves belong to The Lord- we are not our own; we were bought with a price. Therefore, we must honor God with our bodies.
As Genesis 2:24 lays out for us (which Jesus quotes in Matthew 19)- God gives us the pattern we should follow. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two shall become one flesh." Thus, we have the union in marriage first and then sexual intimacy.
Other passages to look at that talk about sexual relations include Exodus 22, Leviticus 18, Leviticus 20, and Deuteronomy 22 (which particularly speaks to marriage violations regarding virginity.)
And of course, Exodus 20:14 and Deuteronomy 5:18 both tell us plainly as part of The Ten Commandments that we shall not commit adultery.
And the entire chapter of 1 Corinthians 7 is very helpful in discussing marriage and being single and giving commands for both positions in life. Hebrews 13:4 is also quite clear that the marriage bed should be kept pure for God will judge the adulterous and the sexually immoral. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 also tell us that it's God's will that we should be sanctified and avoid sexual immorality and that we should all learn to control our bodies in a way that is honorable. And of course, Ephesians 5 gives us a beautiful picture of the way the relationship between a husband and wife should be and how it should mirror the relationship Christ has with His church.
Anyway, no matter what someone chooses to do on this and what place they are at in regards to sexuality, God still loves them and God does forgive sexual immorality too- He died and rose to pay for all sins once for all.

Shotzette, what's wrong with men not having female friends? Men have a hard time approaching women trying to get them to be their girlfriends. So what makes you think women will be men's friends if men tried to get them to be their friend? LOL. Plus I don't think most men can be friends with women especially cute women because guys wanna have sex LOL. Guys love sex more than women and guys think about sex more than women.

My mind is reeling from the ignorance of the above post. Yes, let's lump everyone into a category based upon gender--good idea! :rolleyes:

Men should approach women as friends first. That is called a "relationship". If you just want sex, go back to paying for it with a hooker, rent porn, or hit a strip club. Just don't confuse your venues.

As to guys wanting sex more than women; that depends on the individuals. I like to have sex, but I have zero interest in being intimate with anyone I find unattractive. By "unattractive" I do not mean "model gorgeous". True unattractiveness comes from within--but is also highlighted by lack of grooming/hygiene.

You obviously do not like women in general because you always bad-mouth them in your post. I think if you want to know why you strike out so much, you need to look in the mirror. Anger= ugly.

I know there's some men who are virgins and i want them to know that sex isn't a big deal and it's something that shouldn't be rushed. Men that are virgins shouldn't feel like they need to chase women so they can experience what sex feels like. Sex is good especially when you're doing it with the right person but a lot of women are as*holes and i know a lot of men don't like it when women reject them. Men need to let women approach them sometimes and if women never approach you, don't get upset. There's other things that are more important than sex like having a job, having a car and a place to live because if you don't have these things, there's no point in living. Besides women won't deal with men that don't have money. So men that are virgins need to get a job and a car first before pursuing women because you need money and a car to get them anyway LOL. Sometimes i wish i would've never approached women because of the way they behave especially black women. I know there aren't a lot of black men on here and most of the white men on here probably can't relate to what i'm saying. If i was still a virgin, it wouldn't bother me. I love women whether they're black, white, hispanic but i refuse to approach them anymore because of their ******** behavior.


Well some of the things you say are not true, you put ALL women into one category by saying they won't deal with a man with no money no car, etc... not all women are that superficial.

You think that applies to every single woman on the planet?

I've known quiet a few men with no jobs, no money, no car, etc who still have girlfriends, who date and who have sex.

If I were a guy and girls only wanted me b/c of my career, or money I'd tell her to go to hell anyway lol

Your ignorant comments about me make me laugh hahahahahahahahaha. You think i care if women don't wanna be bothered with me? I could care less. I'm the type of guy that doesn't kiss women's asses like most men do. Women love getting attention from men and when some men don't give it to them, they don't like it. F*ck these stuck up b*tches. I've gotten cute women before in my hometown Cleveland. I even had a few cute women that approached me in Cleveland. I don't like the women in Virginia and Maryland even though i've seen lots of cute women here. Too many bougie, materialistic, attitude women here. There's a black guy that works at my 2nd job and he told me that he's from here and he said the women are terrible.

You've been approached? I've been sexually propositioned a lot!

Sex is not overrated, sex is different for everyone. And only the people involved will know how they feel about it.

I think all these expectation over what's creepy, what's cute and all that is BS, Just like someone and be with them for who they are and enjoy life!

I'm not a virgin but wished I had waited longer. At the age of 16 I was pressured because my friends were having sex. The guy (who had been a friend)dumped me afterwards. From 16-25 I had a lot of sex but then something clicked in me and I decided to wait. Since then I have become religious and vow never to have sex until I marry, even if that never happens.

I should've called this topic men that are virgins should get upset if they never have sex hahahahahahahahahahaha. It would suck to go through life and never have sex because sex feels good and i love women. I've been lucky to have sex because women can be difficult to get with.

I should've called this topic men that are virgins should get upset if they never have sex hahahahahahahahahahaha. It would suck to go through life and never have sex because sex feels good and i love women. I've been lucky to have sex because women can be difficult to get with.


I really though don't see why it's looked at as such a huge deal, I mean the SEX part, realistically ANYONE can have sex at ANYTIME, just hire a prostitutes, even escorts will a lot of times.

I mean no one HAS to go through life without having a sexual experience.

NOW, if youre talking the emotional, true love part that comes with sex,that CAN be harder to attain, but just finding someone to have sex with, I don't see is any big deal really.

I should've called this topic men that are virgins should get upset if they never have sex hahahahahahahahahahaha. It would suck to go through life and never have sex because sex feels good and i love women. I've been lucky to have sex because women can be difficult to get with.

Well, when you say you "love women" I think what you are really saying is that you love "having sex with women". Those are two different things.

Here are some of the things you have said, regarding women.

"I've been lucky to have sex because women can be difficult to get with."

" I don't like the women in Virginia and Maryland even though i've seen lots of cute women here. Too many bougie, materialistic, attitude women here. There's a black guy that works at my 2nd job and he told me that he's from here and he said the women are terrible."

"...but a lot of women are as*holes and i know a lot of men don't like it when women reject them."

"Sometimes i wish i would've never approached women because of the way they behave especially black women."

"Guys love sex more than women and guys think about sex more than women."

"Women love getting attention from men and when some men don't give it to them, they don't like it. F*ck these stuck up b*tches."

Not sure what this reveals, but to me, it is NOT a love of women.
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I know i diss women a lot but i do love them. I just hate their attitudes and that's why i don't approach women often. I've dealt with prostitutes before and i don't like doing that because i don't like wasting money but i do it sometimes because it's hard for me to get a girlfriend. I see so many cute women that are white, black, hispanic that i wanna approach and ask for a date but i don't do it because i've had more bad experiences than good experiences with women because of their attitude.

Well, when you say you "love women" I think what you are really saying is that you love "having sex with women". Those are two different things.

Here are some of the things you have said, regarding women.

"I've been lucky to have sex because women can be difficult to get with."

" I don't like the women in Virginia and Maryland even though i've seen lots of cute women here. Too many bougie, materialistic, attitude women here. There's a black guy that works at my 2nd job and he told me that he's from here and he said the women are terrible."

"...but a lot of women are as*holes and i know a lot of men don't like it when women reject them."

"Sometimes i wish i would've never approached women because of the way they behave especially black women."

"Guys love sex more than women and guys think about sex more than women."

"Women love getting attention from men and when some men don't give it to them, they don't like it. F*ck these stuck up b*tches."

Not sure what this reveals, but to me, it is NOT a love of women.
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There are definitly a**-holes in both sexes. There's nothing wrong with pointing it out, it doesn't mean you hate the entire gender.

I'm bisexual so I've had bad experiences with both, I can point out generalities. now keep in mind this does NOT apply to EVERY member of the particular sex, I'm speaking in general terms.

The trouble with MOST women is:

They are too superficial, want all the attention, etc...


the trouble with MOST men are, they are only after a fast sex session, then after that they want nothing more to do with you.

Which is why I keep an eye out for guys and or girls who don't fit these typical rules.

What the hell are you talking about?:lol: :lol:
My very words, Sol!!

I agree with you completely. A middle aged virgin is not normal.
We'll have to agree to disagree on this point. There are some people in their 30s, 40s and older out there who are fine with staying celibate, people who are unable to have relations due to health problems, or who wait for religious or other personal reasons. I'd rather go for quality and not quantity.