View Full Version : Have You Had These Type Of Friends In Your Life?


jasonbigley
09-14-2012, 12:55 AM
Backstabbers- Friends who are nice to your face, then talk about you behind your back.

Users- They suck all the energy from you and just take and take with nothing in return for you.

Love You When Your Up, Hate You When Your Down- They worship you if your popular or rich etc., but when you lose your popularity or money or if you became disfigured in a car accident (figure of speech), they would drop you in an instant.

Heart Of Gold- A friend who will like you no matter what you look like or how much money you have. Someone that will have your back.

I have had friends from all these catagories. Alot of people will say to me, "were friends, right? I say to them we are just acquantences because a friend IMO would bail me out of jail (I hope this never happens lol), would not care if I called them at 3am if I had a problem and would invite me to do things with them. These people that usually say this to me would not (and have not) do/done the 3 things I listed.

tiredmike59
09-14-2012, 02:29 AM
I didn't really have any backstabbers for friends,they would have been the first ones I got rid of. Had a few users (moochers) though. One guy would always bum smokes off me even though he had his pack stashed somewhere.When he wasn't looking I would clean my ear with the filter part of the cigarette and give him that one when he mooched for one. I had a few friends that always made me nervous too. We would be walking across a parking lot late at night and I would suddenly notice he wasn't with me because he was breaking into a van or truck. Then there were the ones that would help me with some of the fights I got into and I didn't even have to ask.

Penny Lane
09-14-2012, 10:27 AM
I think that most of us have had "friends" in at least one of those categories. In my experiences most of the negative ones were in my teenage years when people are still immature. Although I have had friends/relatives who are still back stabbing insincere jerks! I just avoid them!:)

MickeyMac
09-15-2012, 02:30 PM
All of the above.

Tubehead
09-24-2012, 05:18 PM
i usedto have best from since kartagarned he talk tome all the way throught high shcool hes was really nice. i meet him once when i was in the mal at game stop he worked theirhe told me he was getting married. i hadn't found him im trying to find him on face book . i don't really have man y friends in high shcool or middle shcool ihad one friendi talk to him in high shcool at high shcool he listen to chrisitna music too we liked some of the same bands i talked to him on face book

gidgetgrape
09-24-2012, 06:43 PM
I think the problem with friendship is that most of us are too eager to have "best" friends and pick people that aren't as geniune as we thought they were at first.

MikeLutton
09-24-2012, 08:16 PM
i have many times or did you all have friends who say they are there for you then disappear for good never be heard from again rip you off people can not be trusted these days

Schmoopie
09-25-2012, 02:59 AM
I had a friend that I met through a job who completely turned on me through the years. I really wish I had broken ties with her long before we 'split' but at the time I wasn't a big online person so I really didn't have anyone else. She once invited me to a party or something and then literally called me and told me that I was no longer invited. I forget why, but my husband still gets ticked off about that. I had completely forgotten about that until today. But this woman and her husband were pretty bad to us. They would tell us that pretty much everything we did was stupid and pointless and even criticize our weight. This from two lowlifes who sponged off of the woman's parents (who were pretty well-off), and the husband hardly ever wanted to work. He was always coming up with these great 'ideas' on how he was going to start his own company and now that I think about it, all the ideas were based on how he was going to do as little work as possible. Yep, I wasted a lot of years being friends with them but I like to think that I'm at least a little bit smarter now!

Tubehead
09-27-2012, 05:41 PM
i don't wont the drama so i don't have any friends go the single life :)