When Frasier was dating both Faye and Cassandra, he had a terrible time choosing. Who would you have chosen and why?

Cassandra, she seemed more down to earth.

I would pick Faye. Faye was an absolute doll and she was pretty. I have always liked Amy Brenneman anyway, and she did a great job playing Faye. Cassandra was so rude and treated Daphne like crap. Daphne introduced herself and Cassandra blew her off, I'm surprised Martin liked her because of the way she treated Daphne. Even when Cassandra came to visit again later, she didn't even say Daphne's name right.
Now Faye was so nice to Daphne, asking her about her hair and everything. She cared. She was sweet.
I didn't care for Cassandra at all, but I can see why Frasier would have a hard time choosing.

Definitely Faye. She was more sweet to everyone, especially Daphne. I didn't like Cassandra that much.

I liked Cassandra better...

Yet what changed my mind to Faye was the way Faye was playful with Frasier when he found Daphne's engagement ring. Faye played like she thought the ring was for her.

Faye: Oh, Frasier, for me? I had no idea!
Frasier: Well, actually, uh...
Faye: [grabbing the ring] It's beautiful! It's so beautiful! Yes, Frasier, I do! I do!
[She gives him a big kiss. He gropes for words to explain. She looks
at him knowingly.]
Faye: Oh, calm down, you big dope. I know it's Daphne's ring. [She hits him playfully as Martin laughs.] And, uh, I can't tell you how flattered I am by those beads of sweat on your forehead.

She really had him going.

Cassandra was a huge flirt with almost everyone she met. She didn't seem to give other ladies the time of day like when she talked to Daphne.

Yes, my vote would definately go to Faye.

I remember Amy Brenneman best from Judging Amy and Private Pracitce. I will have to go back and look at the four episodes of Frasier (Season 6) that she played Faye.

Also, I can't really remember Cassandra. That was probably in the same season right? There are 263 episodes of Frasier so it's hard to remember them all, lol.

Jenny, Faye and Cassandra were both on the show in Season 6 (hence the ring mentioned above, which belonged to Daphne, since she was now engaged to Donny). "When a Man Loves Two Women" is the episode where Frasier must choose, and the storyline continues in "Shutout in Seattle," which ended the season.

As for my choice, I'm totally Team Faye. She just seemed like such a nice person compared to Cassandra. I think Cassandra reminds me a bit of Lilith (which can be said of several of his girlfriends), and the last thing he would need to do is repeat what happened w/ Lilith! It was always nice to see him with somebody who seemed to be different from Lilith.

Thanks for refreshing my memory. That makes sense now.

I'd pick Faye too. I honestly don't remember a whole lot about that triangle (Frasier/Cassandra/Faye), but I didn't really care for Cassandra that much. But in all honesty I'm glad that Frasier ended up where he did at the end of the series!