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Mr. Television
06-08-2010, 06:57 PM
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20392290,00.html

Garry Coleman leaves bittersweet instructions for funeral
By Ken Lee

Tuesday June 08, 2010 05:45 PM EDT

So often surrounded by Hollywood users and hangers-on during his career, Gary Coleman made it clear he wanted to have nothing to do with them after he died.

His two-page will, filed Tuesday in a Provo, Utah, court, requests that his remains be cremated, then spells out who would be – and not be – welcome at his wake.

The actor wanted only "those who have no financial ties to me and who can look each other in the eyes and say they really cared personally for Gary Coleman," according to the will.

In addition, "I direct my personal representative to permit no members of the press to be present at my wake or funeral," the will states.

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The 1999 document appoints his former manager Dion Mial, 46, as executor of his estate, giving him broad powers to set funeral plans in motion, assess the value of the estate and decide how any money is to be paid out according to a trust, the details of which were not revealed.

The star of Diff'rent Strokes died relatively broke, with his main asset being his $315,000 Utah home.

"Before anyone gets paid, his medical and funeral bills have to be covered first," Mial's attorney Kent Alderman tells PEOPLE. "Whatever's left after that will be distributed according to his trust."

In the court documents accompanying the will, Mial expresses concern that Coleman's ex-wife Shannon Price, 24, "has been removing personal property from [Coleman's] home which has not been inventoried or accounted for."

Mial has lashed out against Coleman's ex, accusing her of trying to profit off Coleman's death by selling interviews and photos.

Price's spokeswoman, Shielia Erickson, declined to comment on the allegations, but said Price intends to contest the 1999 will. Price claims she has a 2007 will in which Coleman would leave her everything.

However, Alderman says the ex-couple's divorce effectively nullifies any other will.

It remains to be seen if Coleman's parents, Sue, 67, and Willie Coleman, 71, whom the actor stopped communicating with around 1995, will be invited to any funeral. They are not mentioned by name in the will. It was Mial who Coleman's parents once blamed for turning their son against them in the late '80s.

Marvo301
06-08-2010, 07:11 PM
Based on that Shannen won't be allowed at Gary's funeral.

Harmony233
06-08-2010, 07:17 PM
Based on that Shannen won't be allowed at Gary's funeral.

I really hope Shannon gets nothing.

Retro4Life
06-08-2010, 07:21 PM
I read the will that was linked on TMZ. Was it just me or was the whole notion of Gary writing that will at age 31, plus the contents, just a very, very sad thing?

What a life this guy led and how unhappy he pretty much always seemed. He never had a chance at a real childhood, then the world wouldn't let him be an adult. Absolutely tragic.

:rip: Gary

Marvo301
06-08-2010, 07:28 PM
You're right it is very sad that at age 31 Gary was considering end of life issues and writing his will. But considering how things are turning out thank goodness he did! And you are so right that Gary missed out on his childhood and that the world wouldn't let him be an adult. That was the true tragedy of Gary's life.

catlover79
06-09-2010, 02:09 AM
It is sad...but it also showed he was a realist. He knew, barring a miracle, that he would never totally have perfect health. :(

Marvo301
06-09-2010, 02:18 AM
I read somewhere that having reached the age of 42, Gary had lived nearly twice as long as doctors had predicted. So I assume Gary was aware from a young age that he was going to have a shorter than normal life span. That may explain why he was writing his will in his early thirties.

Larenz09
06-11-2010, 09:08 AM
You're right it is very sad that at age 31 Gary was considering end of life issues and writing his will. But considering how things are turning out thank goodness he did! And you are so right that Gary missed out on his childhood and that the world wouldn't let him be an adult. That was the true tragedy of Gary's life.



That is so true!

Seems that he was dogged just about all of his life. He never really had it easy. Robbed of both his childhood life and his adult life!! So sad.

I wish that I could turn back the hands of time to have him with us again! :( :(