The NERVE of some people! A friend of mine from high school, whom I haven't talked to in about a year, had the nerve to send me a text message today and ask me if I wanted to come over and have sex with him since he and his girlfriend are fighting. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF GIRL DOES HE THINK I AM?! :angryfire How dare he think it was ok to ask me something like that, let alone think I would actually say yes! :mad: He said he thought I was sexy. What the **** ever! I told him to **** OFF! :livid:

Is this what all guys think of me? Is this why I'm still single?

THE NERVE OF THAT GUY!!!! Who the HELL does he think he is????
I would NEVER ask a girl that!!!

Wow, that's just what every girl wants to hear. :rolleyes:

Re: "Is that why you're still single?" Being single at 22 is not a crime. That's probably too young for most people to get married (and stay married).

The guy is a jerk.

You did the right thing.

You might consider sending him another text to tell him not to text you any more. After that, if he starts harassing you with text messages (he's a jerk, he might do that), then go right to the police. They'll pay him a visit.

You can either save the texts from him in your cell phone or if you don't want to keep them in there, just forward them to your email so you can print them out if you need to. But keep some kind of a record.

The NERVE of some people! A friend of mine from high school, whom I haven't talked to in about a year, had the nerve to send me a text message today and ask me if I wanted to come over and have sex with him since he and his girlfriend are fighting. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF GIRL DOES HE THINK I AM?! :angryfire How dare he think it was ok to ask me something like that, let alone think I would actually say yes! :mad: He said he thought I was sexy. What the **** ever! I told him to **** OFF! :livid:

Is this what all guys think of me? Is this why I'm still single?


What you should have done is totally lead him on and said "Yeah honey I'll come over and take care of you good". Then once you got there, you should have totally played the seductress role and got him excited. Then reach down his pants at his crotch, and then you should have gave him a real hard punch in the balls and got out of there.

You gotta admit he deserved it.

The NERVE of some people! A friend of mine from high school, whom I haven't talked to in about a year, had the nerve to send me a text message today and ask me if I wanted to come over and have sex with him since he and his girlfriend are fighting. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF GIRL DOES HE THINK I AM?! :angryfire How dare he think it was ok to ask me something like that, let alone think I would actually say yes! :mad: He said he thought I was sexy. What the **** ever! I told him to **** OFF! :livid:

Is this what all guys think of me? Is this why I'm still single?

This isn't right!

If you were his Facebook Friend...remove him right away and if he says "Why the **** am I off your Facebook Friends"? Tell him this....

"You NEVER ask a woman to have sex with you"!

Being a 27-year-old Virgin who's only relationship was with a s**t who was 'married'...you deserve more respect than that! It's your body and if it's wrong to make it a sex object (which it is) tell him NO!

What you should have done is totally lead him on and said "Yeah honey I'll come over and take care of you good". Then once you got there, you should have totally played the seductress role and got him excited. Then reach down his pants at his crotch, and then you should have gave him a real hard punch in the balls and got out of there.

You gotta admit he deserved it.

We're not trying to get HER into trouble, just him. Besides, after he recovers, what then? No telling what he might try to do to her.

I'm not interested in anyone getting hurt here, I just want to make sure that Lulu is protected from this guy.

This person doesn't sound like the type of guy you would have wanted as a "friend" to begin with.

He's a worthless pig who I would recommend cutting off all contact with. Delete all possible modes of contact with him; change your phone number and email if necessary. He sounds kind of creepy. Even if he was "just kidding" it doesn't excuse his disgusting overture.

I'm sorry you were disrespected in this way. And your anger is justified.

I get that rather often from one of my former classmates, and this guy is married and has 2 kids!! I just roll my eyes and shake my head, and I think whatever!!

You also should've told him "Honey, you aren't man enough for me. I would wear your sorry a$$ out!!";)

What you should have done is totally lead him on and said "Yeah honey I'll come over and take care of you good". Then once you got there, you should have totally played the seductress role and got him excited. Then reach down his pants at his crotch, and then you should have gave him a real hard punch in the balls and got out of there.

You gotta admit he deserved it.

That would get her in trouble with the law and I don't think
any of us would want that for Lauren.

The NERVE of some people! A friend of mine from high school, whom I haven't talked to in about a year, had the nerve to send me a text message today and ask me if I wanted to come over and have sex with him since he and his girlfriend are fighting. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF GIRL DOES HE THINK I AM?! :angryfire How dare he think it was ok to ask me something like that, let alone think I would actually say yes! :mad: He said he thought I was sexy. What the **** ever! I told him to **** OFF! :livid:

Is this what all guys think of me? Is this why I'm still single?


He seems like creep. You did the right thing in standing up for yourself....But, are you sure it was HIM who sent you the text message? it could have been one of his horny male friends who was using his phone and wanted to get raunchy. You should call him and ask if that was HIM who sent you the sex text message. Lots of guys allow their friends to use their phone numbers. Since you hadn't spoken to him in a year, it could be that his friend scrolled down the "Contacts" list and saw your nme and decided to give you a raunchy sex message....

I'm glad over the way you handled it. Karma will come along and bite him in the a$$, don't you worry.

The NERVE of some people! A friend of mine from high school, whom I haven't talked to in about a year, had the nerve to send me a text message today and ask me if I wanted to come over and have sex with him since he and his girlfriend are fighting. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF GIRL DOES HE THINK I AM?! :angryfire How dare he think it was ok to ask me something like that, let alone think I would actually say yes! :mad: He said he thought I was sexy. What the **** ever! I told him to **** OFF! :livid:

Is this what all guys think of me? Is this why I'm still single?

You did the right thing. Don't let this one creep throw you; there are a lot of good guys out there!

I'm almost 31 and still single. It's guys like this that make me glad I am!! Sorry you had to go through that, Lu. :bighug:

I'm almost 31 and still single. It's guys like this that make me glad I am!! Sorry you had to go through that, Lu. :bighug:

I hope you are able to eventually find a man, Monika

I'm sorry that happened to you. No, it's not your fault, in any way; and you did the right thing. The guy is a loser. Feel sorry for his girlfriend. She's probably in the dark that she has a cheat for a partner. The only thing she'll get from him is a broken heart and an STD.

if he's your friend on facebook, friend his girlfriend and forward the text to her.