Brian Damage
12-05-2009, 02:40 PM
Ten, nine, eight, seven ...
This New Year's Eve, Dick Clark will again be on TV, counting down the seconds to midnight. But in his slurred speech, the result of a 2004 stroke, some of us can't help but hear the countdowns in our own lives—to the end of our careers, to the difficulties of old age, to the decisions we must make about closing chapters that defined us.
Dick Clark: Still Rockin'
Dick Clark has been hosting TV shows for more than 50 years, and some people wonder if it's time for him to retire.
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Dick Clark posing with Ryan Seacrest.
Mr. Clark turned 80 this past Monday, and a lot of people consider him a hero for remaining on the job. They see him as a role model for resiliency, and a vital steward of New Year's Eve, a holiday designed to look back as well as forward. They ask: Why surrender Dec. 31 to the young?
Others argue that Mr. Clark has become an inappropriate symbol for what should be a happy celebration, because he reminds viewers of sadder things: the ravages of illness and the hazards of aging. He had his time, they say. He ought to let go of the baton and allow a younger generation to run with it alone.
We heard similar drumbeats around 80-year-old Bobby Bowden, the legendary Florida State football coach. In the wake of the team's lackluster record this year and calls for his resignation, he announced his retirement on Tuesday. Meanwhile, Oprah Winfrey has confirmed that she will end her talk show in 2011, after she completes 25 seasons. "This show has been my life," she said, "and I love it enough to know when it's time to say goodbye."
These public figures remind us of the hard decisions that often accompany letting go. It is an inexact process. It can be a mistake to leave a job too early, and it can be easy to stay too long.
"A lot of people retire because they have enough money. I call them 'the bored affluent,' " says John Sondereker, who retired in 2003, at age 60, as an executive vice president at Wells Fargo Financial. "Golf will never replace a good career."
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Dick Clark, on 'American Bandstand' in 1970: He's still in the spotlight.
But staying too long in a job can be worse. I've heard from readers over the years offering sharp advice about clinging to a fading career. Here's how one summed it up: "When the horse dies, dismount."
When people can't bring themselves to retire, it is often because they look for evidence that confirms their urge to hold on, says Richard Staelin, a professor at Duke University's Fuqua School of Business, who studies "confirmation bias." Those who hang on too long tend to ignore things that would tell them it's time to leave, he says.
Since his stroke, Mr. Clark's show has continued to be television's top-rated New Year's Eve program. It's not as if he's a football coach whose team has stopped winning, says Larry Klein, the show's longtime producer. "We don't have losing seasons. We win every single year."
Also, feedback from viewers has been far more positive than negative, says Mr. Klein. "They say Dick shows strength and courage. He created the show. He's an American institution. He deserves to decide on his own when and if he'll leave." (Mr. Clark, who launched his New Year's Eve show in 1972, declined to comment for this column.)
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This New Year's Eve, Dick Clark will again be on TV, counting down the seconds to midnight. But in his slurred speech, the result of a 2004 stroke, some of us can't help but hear the countdowns in our own lives—to the end of our careers, to the difficulties of old age, to the decisions we must make about closing chapters that defined us.
Dick Clark: Still Rockin'
Dick Clark has been hosting TV shows for more than 50 years, and some people wonder if it's time for him to retire.
View Slideshow
Associated Press / ABC
Dick Clark posing with Ryan Seacrest.
Mr. Clark turned 80 this past Monday, and a lot of people consider him a hero for remaining on the job. They see him as a role model for resiliency, and a vital steward of New Year's Eve, a holiday designed to look back as well as forward. They ask: Why surrender Dec. 31 to the young?
Others argue that Mr. Clark has become an inappropriate symbol for what should be a happy celebration, because he reminds viewers of sadder things: the ravages of illness and the hazards of aging. He had his time, they say. He ought to let go of the baton and allow a younger generation to run with it alone.
We heard similar drumbeats around 80-year-old Bobby Bowden, the legendary Florida State football coach. In the wake of the team's lackluster record this year and calls for his resignation, he announced his retirement on Tuesday. Meanwhile, Oprah Winfrey has confirmed that she will end her talk show in 2011, after she completes 25 seasons. "This show has been my life," she said, "and I love it enough to know when it's time to say goodbye."
These public figures remind us of the hard decisions that often accompany letting go. It is an inexact process. It can be a mistake to leave a job too early, and it can be easy to stay too long.
"A lot of people retire because they have enough money. I call them 'the bored affluent,' " says John Sondereker, who retired in 2003, at age 60, as an executive vice president at Wells Fargo Financial. "Golf will never replace a good career."
Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images
Dick Clark, on 'American Bandstand' in 1970: He's still in the spotlight.
But staying too long in a job can be worse. I've heard from readers over the years offering sharp advice about clinging to a fading career. Here's how one summed it up: "When the horse dies, dismount."
When people can't bring themselves to retire, it is often because they look for evidence that confirms their urge to hold on, says Richard Staelin, a professor at Duke University's Fuqua School of Business, who studies "confirmation bias." Those who hang on too long tend to ignore things that would tell them it's time to leave, he says.
Since his stroke, Mr. Clark's show has continued to be television's top-rated New Year's Eve program. It's not as if he's a football coach whose team has stopped winning, says Larry Klein, the show's longtime producer. "We don't have losing seasons. We win every single year."
Also, feedback from viewers has been far more positive than negative, says Mr. Klein. "They say Dick shows strength and courage. He created the show. He's an American institution. He deserves to decide on his own when and if he'll leave." (Mr. Clark, who launched his New Year's Eve show in 1972, declined to comment for this column.)
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