I know of nobody that currently has a crush on me unfortunately. Of course you never know, but nobody has really indicated that they have romantic feelings for me. As far as whether or not I have a crush goes, yes, I do currently have one. This woman's older than me (of course) and is absolutely beautiful. I started off being just friends with her, but in the past several months, my feelings for her have gone from just friends, to romantic. Unfortunately this woman lives in another State which obviously makes things difficult, but I plan on taking a trip to see her just as soon as I get the money. Anyway, what about you all. Do you have a crush on anyone, or know of anyone who has one on you??

Any guy I have ever had a crush on has rejected me, so I've given up on crushes and hoping that someone out there loves me.

Any guy I have ever had a crush on has rejected me, so I've given up on crushes and hoping that someone out there loves me.

Well just so you know, I'd go out with you in a split second if you lived near me, even having never seen a picture of you. And I mean it when I say that. You're a good person, and that's what matters most.

Thank you, Brad. :) That makes me feel a little better.

Thank you, Brad. :) That makes me feel a little better.

I'm glad!! :)

I'm not sure if anyone has a crush on me right now or not. I'm guessing probably not. I'm not the sort of guy women seem to have crushes on. As far as me having a crush on someone else, I've gone through so much over the last year, that right now I'm in a position where I really don't have a lot of love to go around.

I highly doubt anybody has a crush on me right now.

I kinda strike-out when it comes to having a crush. I have a crush on a girl...and that's it.

I'd like to have someone that I can call my own, but since I'm living at home and It's always "Hey, you're doing nothing!...Do something!" way, if I ever leave home, I'm just going to be a wild stallion.

Also...getting a girl for myself is like Cleveland winning a Championship.:(

right now i'm liking someone i work with. i really don't know why but i do. with every job i've had i've always had a male coworker admit to having a crush on me, so who knows if the pattern will continue. i don't know if i'd want a relationship though.

Why wouldn't you want a new relationship? Heck, if this guy at work that you kind of like shows some interest in you, why not date and see what happens. It's a whole new decade for you!

No and no. I don't want to be with anyone anyway. **** it.

I can honestly say I do not think anyone has ever had a crush on me. I have had a few crushes, but I never act on them. I'm not brave enough. :( I wish I wasn't such a wuss!

2 girls have crushes on me, one was an ex who I am absolutely NOT interested in anymore, long long story, crazy relationship...and the other girl is not trustworthy and is shady...and just acts a little immature

I do have a crush on 2 girls

As for anyone having a crush on me, I do not know for sure. I am interested in a friend of mine, so I guess that can be considered one.

I highly doubt anybody has a crush on me right now.

I'm crushin' on you, Mic. ;)
I'm j/k.. but you are very sweet, and handsome too.. I'm sure there is someone out there who has a crush on you right now. :D

As for me... well, being in love and having a crush on someone are two different things in my mind... so, as far as crushes go, I don't know, there were probably 3 or 4 guys at school who had crushes on me over the past semester, but unfortunately, I didn't feel the same way about them. :rolleyes:
And well, I've always got a crush on someone.. cause it's really fun. ;)
But being in love is a different story.

I'm crushin' on you, Mic. ;)
I'm j/k.. but you are very sweet, and handsome too.. I'm sure there is someone out there who has a crush on you right now. :D

As for me... well, being in love and having a crush on someone are two different things in my mind... so, as far as crushes go, I don't know, there were probably 3 or 4 guys at school who had crushes on me over the past semester, but unfortunately, I didn't feel the same way about them. :rolleyes:
And well, I've always got a crush on someone.. cause it's really fun. ;)
But being in love is a different story.

You're a heartbreaker, huh Mattie? :lol: ;)

Yeah right. I don't think anyone has had a crush on me since the 90s. And I ****ed that up. Anyway, I'm the type that someone would get to know and then run for the hills. So what does it matter?

/pessimism

Yeah right. I don't think anyone has had a crush on me since the 90s. And I ****ed that up. Anyway, I'm the type that someone would get to know and then run for the hills. So what does it matter?

/pessimism


Cathy, Cathy, Cathy

Cathy, Cathy, Cathy
:) :angdev:

I'm just completely frustrated with love these days. Why can't I ever be with I guy that I am attracted to, that is sweet, loving and that has mutual feelings for me? why does it always have to be so complicated? the guys that I always fall for either don't have any interest in me whatsoever, or only get with me because they just want some no-strings-attached sex, or I just epically fail on the first date. I have so many guys that out of no where just don't answer my calls, don't call me anymore, and just completely cut me off- out of freaking no where!!! it's like I said one thing that turned them off. Guys are so unpredictable. I kind of have separation anxiety for some reason when it comes to relationship and friendships. I always have this fear that everybody's just going to leave or abandon me because it's happen so many times before. I'M SO ****ING TIRED OF THIS ****!!! I apologize for my rant, but this is really what's stressing me out now.

I'm just completely frustrated with love these days. Why can't I ever be with I guy that I am attracted to, that is sweet, loving and that has mutual feelings for me? why does it always have to be so complicated? the guys that I always fall for either don't have any interest in me whatsoever, or only get with me because they just want some no-strings-attached sex, or I just epically fail on the first date. I have so many guys that out of no where just don't answer my calls, don't call me anymore, and just completely cut me off- out of freaking no where!!! it's like I said one thing that turned them off. Guys are so unpredictable. I kind of have separation anxiety for some reason when it comes to relationship and friendships. I always have this fear that everybody's just going to leave or abandon me because it's happen so many times before. I'M SO ****ING TIRED OF THIS ****!!! I apologize for my rant, but this is really what's stressing me out now.

:clap :yourock: I FEEL your pain, Ramona!:( :hug:

I'm crushin' on you, Mic. ;)
I'm j/k.. but you are very sweet, and handsome too.. I'm sure there is someone out there who has a crush on you right now. :D

As for me... well, being in love and having a crush on someone are two different things in my mind... so, as far as crushes go, I don't know, there were probably 3 or 4 guys at school who had crushes on me over the past semester, but unfortunately, I didn't feel the same way about them. :rolleyes:
And well, I've always got a crush on someone.. cause it's really fun. ;)
But being in love is a different story.



You're too kind :)

I'm just completely frustrated with love these days. Why can't I ever be with I guy that I am attracted to, that is sweet, loving and that has mutual feelings for me? why does it always have to be so complicated? the guys that I always fall for either don't have any interest in me whatsoever, or only get with me because they just want some no-strings-attached sex, or I just epically fail on the first date. I have so many guys that out of no where just don't answer my calls, don't call me anymore, and just completely cut me off- out of freaking no where!!! it's like I said one thing that turned them off. Guys are so unpredictable. I kind of have separation anxiety for some reason when it comes to relationship and friendships. I always have this fear that everybody's just going to leave or abandon me because it's happen so many times before. I'M SO ****ING TIRED OF THIS ****!!! I apologize for my rant, but this is really what's stressing me out now.



I can relate because I've been there. Only thing I can tell you is no matter what goes down with relationships is to always be yourself. I can tell you from personal experience, people wont always accept you when you are yourself, but dont change and you will attract those who dig you for who you are.

:clap :yourock: I FEEL your pain, Ramona!:( :hug:


Thanks Mattie. It sucks, doesn't it? we'll find us some nice guys out there somebody, k? :) :bighug:

I wonder if anyone had a crush on someone from SO?...I could name one that I like.

Thanks Mattie. It sucks, doesn't it? we'll find us some nice guys out there somebody, k? :) :bighug:


It sure does.:rolleyes: I hope so!... and if you happen to find a really awesome guy, can you find out if he has a brother? :lol: and I'll do the same for you, Girlfriend! :bighug:

I kind of have separation anxiety for some reason when it comes to relationship and friendships. I always have this fear that everybody's just going to leave or abandon me because it's happen so many times before.

I have that same fear for the same reason. I'm so scared of being alone and broke with no one to turn to and no one that cares. My life is such a mess.

I have that same fear for the same reason. I'm so scared of being alone and broke with no one to turn to and no one that cares. My life is such a mess.


Here's a great big hug for you, Cathy. :bighug:

Here's a great big hug for you, Cathy. :bighug:
Thank you. :bighug:

I have that same fear for the same reason. I'm so scared of being alone and broke with no one to turn to and no one that cares. My life is such a mess.

Aw :bighug: I feel the same way too. Like I said before, I cannot fathom the thought of my parents dying. By that point, I would hope I would be better equipped to deal with it. :eek: I would have nobody.

Getting back on subject, crushes. Hahahaha....HAHAHA....I have for someone else, but I don't know if they have for me. I really could care less though because I would probably wind up disappointed.

Aw :bighug: I feel the same way too. Like I said before, I cannot fathom the thought of my parents dying. By that point, I would hope I would be better equipped to deal with it. :eek: I would have nobody.

Getting back on subject, crushes. Hahahaha....HAHAHA....I have for someone else, but I don't know if they have for me. I really could care less though because I would probably wind up disappointed.
Big hug for you too. It's nice when people know how you feel. :bighug:

I have to re-work my post from earlier a little bit.

I'm starting to talk to a girl I met through a college course we had about 2 years ago, September 2007, was when we first met. We both stuck it out and stayed in the same class throughout that whole fall semester and had a lot of fun together. She had a boyfriend at the time I remember. I don't know if they were serious, or not, but I remember her talking to him on the phone a few times, when we were driving to hang out with each other, with another friend of ours, who was a female as well. Well she's single now, and after that semester, we never exchanged phone numbers or something. We usually set up a spot for all 3 of us to hang out, through the other girl since she had both of our phone numbers. I really wanted this girl's number, but I figured we would hang out through Christmas break early 2008, before that Spring Semester started. Never happened. I didn't talk to her or couldn't get ahold of her, to get her number at all in '08 and I just got back in touch with her like last week, and we started talking this week. Like I said, she's single now and we have a lot in common, and back then during that class, I also had a physical attraction towards her. She's an older woman. I'm 20; going on 21 in a month and a half from now, and she's 23/24 I believe, or 25 at the most I think. We like the same music, we both write and we just had a really good vibe. I have to say she's also the only girl I really "fell in love with." I've had girlfriends in the past, all of em I've loved as gfs at the time, but never really had that fall in love mentality with any of them, if you know what I mean. And remember everybody, you don't have to be in a relationship as far as love interest goes, to fall in love with somebody. If it happens, it happens. It's crazy but an unbelievable feeling, and it happened for me 2 years ago. Of course now, time has passed but I'm starting to like her a little bit again. Obviously we would have to hang out a bunch of times, get reaquainted, and just talk and hang out, before anything develops much further, but I like that I was able to get back in touch with her. I just wanted to share that real fast.

Yeah right. I don't think anyone has had a crush on me since the 90s. And I ****ed that up. Anyway, I'm the type that someone would get to know and then run for the hills. So what does it matter?

/pessimism

I don't know about that Cathy. I've seen your picture, and you are one beautiful woman!!! Hell, if you lived closer, I may even be crushing on you myself. In any case, I'm almost positive that you've got a bunch of guys crushing on you, and have no doubt that you'll find someone soon!!! That's no b.s. either, that's the truth!! :)

I've had crushes on plenty of girls. I've learned not to expect anything from them, though.

I've also known some girls who had crushes on me. Some of them I was interested in, and others I wasn't.

I've had crushes on plenty of girls. I've learned not to expect anything from them, though.

I've also known some girls who had crushes on me. Some of them I was interested in, and others I wasn't.

I've actually had some good luck with my crushes, and with the feelings being mutual. One woman I was crushing on for two years before she finally fell for me, and when she did, she fell hard. I've also had my disappointments though, so I can relate with you there. In a perfect world we could be with whoever we wanted, unfortunately this ain't no perfect world though.

I don't know about that Cathy. I've seen your picture, and you are one beautiful woman!!! Hell, if you lived closer, I may even be crushing on you myself. In any case, I'm almost positive that you've got a bunch of guys crushing on you, and have no doubt that you'll find someone soon!!! That's no b.s. either, that's the truth!! :)

I totally agree with you, Brad. I wish Cathy could see herself as the rest of us do. She would see that she is one amazing young lady. Not only is she gorgeous, but she has a great personality and wonderful sense of humor.

It sure does.:rolleyes: I hope so!... and if you happen to find a really awesome guy, can you find out if he has a brother? :lol: and I'll do the same for you, Girlfriend! :bighug:

Okay, deals!! lol. Do you have a facebook Mattie?

I have to re-work my post from earlier a little bit.

I'm starting to talk to a girl I met through a college course we had about 2 years ago, September 2007, was when we first met. We both stuck it out and stayed in the same class throughout that whole fall semester and had a lot of fun together. She had a boyfriend at the time I remember. I don't know if they were serious, or not, but I remember her talking to him on the phone a few times, when we were driving to hang out with each other, with another friend of ours, who was a female as well. Well she's single now, and after that semester, we never exchanged phone numbers or something. We usually set up a spot for all 3 of us to hang out, through the other girl since she had both of our phone numbers. I really wanted this girl's number, but I figured we would hang out through Christmas break early 2008, before that Spring Semester started. Never happened. I didn't talk to her or couldn't get ahold of her, to get her number at all in '08 and I just got back in touch with her like last week, and we started talking this week. Like I said, she's single now and we have a lot in common, and back then during that class, I also had a physical attraction towards her. She's an older woman. I'm 20; going on 21 in a month and a half from now, and she's 23/24 I believe, or 25 at the most I think. We like the same music, we both write and we just had a really good vibe. I have to say she's also the only girl I really "fell in love with." I've had girlfriends in the past, all of em I've loved as gfs at the time, but never really had that fall in love mentality with any of them, if you know what I mean. And remember everybody, you don't have to be in a relationship as far as love interest goes, to fall in love with somebody. If it happens, it happens. It's crazy but an unbelievable feeling, and it happened for me 2 years ago. Of course now, time has passed but I'm starting to like her a little bit again. Obviously we would have to hang out a bunch of times, get reaquainted, and just talk and hang out, before anything develops much further, but I like that I was able to get back in touch with her. I just wanted to share that real fast.

Are you planning on hanging out w/ her anytime soon?

Okay, deals!! lol. Do you have a facebook Mattie?

Nah, just myspace... but when I get a Facebook, I'd love to add ya!:wave:

when you get a facebook, add ramona, then add me........

Are you planning on hanging out w/ her anytime soon?

Yeah, but we gotta talk more. I want to get reacquainted and just talk to her a bunch more times first.

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Yeah, but we gotta talk more. I want to get reacquainted and just talk to her a bunch more times first.

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Just asking? lol. Because I was interested in your story.

Nah, just myspace... but when I get a Facebook, I'd love to add ya!:wave:


Otay!

when you get a facebook, add ramona, then add me........

I already have dibs on being Mattie's first Facebook friend. I've been trying to get her to join for a month, and she said I'd be her first. :p ;)

Damn Mattie, you're popular. I told you that people were missing you when you were gone. You said nobody would even notice, but I knew otherwise. Anyway, I hope you stay around forever!! Things weren't, and wouldn't be the same without you!!! :heart: :hug:

I had a huge crush on my wife before we got together. Years ago when I was living in Washington(near Seattle), a friend of mine was sharing a house with another guy and two girls who were all coworkers of his. I would spend as much time there as I could(mostly because the apartment I was living in at the time was so freakin' small). One of the girls living there I thought was amazing- she's half Japanese, which made her seem exotic. And she had a really quirky personality, and she liked a lot of the same thing as me. But for whatever reason I thought I was out of her league so I never asked her out- this went on for almost a year.
Then when it was close to Christmas time I was planning on going down to spend the holidays with my parents(Vancouver WA, just across the river from Portland , OR), I get a phone call from her asking if she could share a ride down with me because she was going to visit her brother and his family who lived in Oregon. So naturally I said yes.
At first I was very nervous when we started the drive down, this was the first time I had really been alone with her...but, soon we were talking about all the things we had in common. And we agreed to go see a movie during the vacation. Which we did, and well the rest is history. I even told her about the crush I had had on her, and was always thinking of asking her out. She said she would have said yes, and knew I had a crush on her, because my friend had figured out that I did and had told her about it.

Just asking? lol. Because I was interested in your story.

lol- sorry...thanks...yeah ill update you on it if you want

hows your relationship situation going? single, boyfriend???? I gots to know :lol:- lol

I already have dibs on being Mattie's first Facebook friend. I've been trying to get her to join for a month, and she said I'd be her first. :p ;)

Damn Mattie, you're popular. I told you that people were missing you when you were gone. You said nobody would even notice, but I knew otherwise. Anyway, I hope you stay around forever!! Things weren't, and wouldn't be the same without you!!! :heart: :hug:

Nah I'm going to be her first friend, you're going down Brad!!!! :lol: Im just kidding lol.

and yeah she is. baby sis :lol:

I already have dibs on being Mattie's first Facebook friend. I've been trying to get her to join for a month, and she said I'd be her first. :p ;)

Damn Mattie, you're popular. I told you that people were missing you when you were gone. You said nobody would even notice, but I knew otherwise. Anyway, I hope you stay around forever!! Things weren't, and wouldn't be the same without you!!! :heart: :hug:

I hope that Mattie never leaves. :) Her posts always put a smile on my face. :)

I had a huge crush on my wife before we got together. Years ago when I was living in Washington(near Seattle), a friend of mine was sharing a house with another guy and two girls who were all coworkers of his. I would spend as much time there as I could(mostly because the apartment I was living in at the time was so freakin' small). One of the girls living there I thought was amazing- she's half Japanese, which made her seem exotic. And she had a really quirky personality, and she liked a lot of the same thing as me. But for whatever reason I thought I was out of her league so I never asked her out- this went on for almost a year.
Then when it was close to Christmas time I was planning on going down to spend the holidays with my parents(Vancouver WA, just across the river from Portland , OR), I get a phone call from her asking if she could share a ride down with me because she was going to visit her brother and his family who lived in Oregon. So naturally I said yes.
At first I was very nervous when we started the drive down, this was the first time I had really been alone with her...but, soon we were talking about all the things we had in common. And we agreed to go see a movie during the vacation. Which we did, and well the rest is history. I even told her about the crush I had had on her, and was always thinking of asking her out. She said she would have said yes, and knew I had a crush on her, because my friend had figured out that I did and had told her about it.
That's a nice story. :)

lol- sorry...thanks...yeah ill update you on it if you want

hows your relationship situation going? single, boyfriend???? I gots to know :lol:- lol

Yes updates please :D c'mon best friend you know you have to. And as far as relationships go... livin that playa lifestyle ;) Just kidding. Just dating around but becoming really frustrated w/ love in general.

livin that playa lifestyle ;)

:rofl: Niyyyyyyyce!!:lol:

:rofl: Niyyyyyyyce!!:lol:

I promote female players!! You should give it a try sometime Mattie! :lol:

That's a nice story. :)

:)

I promote female players!! You should give it a try sometime Mattie! :lol:

I think I might have to update my lifestyle here!! :lol:

I'm just completely frustrated with love these days. Why can't I ever be with I guy that I am attracted to, that is sweet, loving and that has mutual feelings for me? why does it always have to be so complicated? the guys that I always fall for either don't have any interest in me whatsoever, or only get with me because they just want some no-strings-attached sex, or I just epically fail on the first date. I have so many guys that out of no where just don't answer my calls, don't call me anymore, and just completely cut me off- out of freaking no where!!! it's like I said one thing that turned them off. Guys are so unpredictable. I kind of have separation anxiety for some reason when it comes to relationship and friendships. I always have this fear that everybody's just going to leave or abandon me because it's happen so many times before. I'M SO ****ING TIRED OF THIS ****!!! I apologize for my rant, but this is really what's stressing me out now.


At times, I feel the same way about women. Unpredictable, playing hard to get, or they like to harshly reject someone that is interested in them.

At times, I feel the same way about women. Unpredictable, playing hard to get, or they like to harshly reject someone that is interested in them.


I guess it might be an "all sexes" thing.