hey i need an opinoin here what u think of a grandmothe who favors her own grandson n favor of a family who let he move in under goodness of our heart and lets him have his xmas gift early and not anyone else.don even buy food or us wants eat walfers and not any real food.do u call that playing favorites or what it happend to me.

I would personally call that playing favorites. I mean, if the family let all the children open gifts early like during Christmas eve at the same time, that would seem more fair. But, if it's just the one child being treated well like that, it's not fair to the other kids. Hope this opinion helps you out. :)

u are my her oh yeah we let her move in she gave up her home n her 70s let her live here her grandson my cousin got the family garage s his bedroom.

and she lets him have his present early and its a ps2 and that not fair i told my family they dont care my adad moked me oh .

she was going mak us wallfers for dinner but during breakfast she had all sudden go somewhere i had go money searching buy myself some 2 dollor 89 cent hot dogs

from the store by my home to eat cause she couldnt stay make us breakfast.

she get this even gets her own snacks dont want me touching them cause their hers she my grandma n all but i cant stand her. starting not to anyway and i cant even tell my cousins something on my space

without her telling the hole family about it my sister mom aunt shegot it from person i told my space soppose be private why it called my space not our space.


and yes u r so wise

But it isn't right to play favorites. I think it happens a lot though, whether it's the oldest in the family or the youngest.

thanks i know i tried to do good n my post i got arthrties in my one hand i also type kind fast.

it shocked me she did that and we all got wait for ours mean im 31 only kid living at home other then him he lives n the garage.but


it feels wrong to me xmas only few days away they could of waited mabye it just me

Yeah.

Everybody needs to wait till Christmas to open presents.

she did it again gave my dad new chair for his pc excuse was to big fit under the tree lim losing respect for her each day i dont even talk to her anymore .i stil got wait forget her

I've seen the emotional toll that it takes on children when parents or grandparents play favorites. It's terrible. I've held my adult stepdaughter in my arms, when she's crying over the fact that her grandmother adores her sister, while ignores her. It happened thoughout her entire life.

I blame the parents when grandparents do it. If I had kids, and I saw that a grandparent was favoring one of my children, I wouldn't allow it. I know of one case where there were four children. The grandparents favored the older two kids. They would actually take them for the entire summer. They had a fantastic yard with a pool. They would go on day trips and basically spoil the older two, while snubbing the younger two. I blame the parents for allowing this to happen. The damage that it has caused, even today, is enormous.

yeah my cousin did it to al though this may be lil differnt he gave his gf gift early day before xmas eve im like we now omg her stocking was ful mine was freaking empty.my christmas stocking was empty now if that not reason to cry i do not know what is