View Full Version : Missouri Mom Convicted in MySpace Bullying Case


Zoneboy
11-26-2008, 06:05 PM
Link (http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/11/26/AR2008112600629.html?hpid=topnews)


LOS ANGELES, Nov. 26 -- A Missouri woman who posed as a 16-year-old boy on MySpace, wooed and rejected a troubled teenage girl who later committed suicide was found guilty Wednesday of three misdemeanor charges, but no felonies, by a federal jury.

According to published reports, the jury rejected felony charges of accessing a computer without authorization for Lori Drew, the 49-year-old mother from O'Fallon, Mo., who allegedly posed as a 16-year-old boy to harass a former friend of her daughter's. The jury did, however, find Drew guilty of three lesser misdemeanor counts.

The jurors could not reach a verdict on a count of conspiracy.

The verdict in the nationally watched cyber-bullying case comes nearly two years after the death of 13-year-old Megan Meier, referred to in court documents as "M.T.M." Meier hanged herself with a belt in her bedroom closet within an hour of being dumped by "Josh Evans," the fictitious identity that Drew assumed on the popular networking Web site.

A federal grand jury indicted Drew on four counts in May, alleging that she and others, including her daughter Sarah, then 13, and an 18-year-old assistant, registered as a member of MySpace to contact Meier and reel her into what she believed was online romance with a new boy in town. Each count carried a maximum of five years in prison, but Wednesday's lesser misdemeanor charges probably mean no jail time for Drew.

Prosecutors had alleged that Drew and Drew's employee violated MySpace's "terms of service" that prohibit users from using fraudulent registration information, obtaining personal information about juvenile members or using the service to harass, abuse or harm others.


During the five-day trial, they portrayed Drew as the mastermind behind an intentional scheme to humiliate Meier, despite knowing the girl -- once her daughter's best friend -- suffered from depression. Drew wanted to know whether Meier was spreading rumors about her daughter, prosecutors argued, and bragged about the scheme to others.

Defense attorney H. Dean Steward argued that prosecutors tried to mislead jurors into thinking the case was about murder and reminded them that it is a computer case. Specifically, he said, the question before jurors was whether Drew violated the terms-of-service agreement of MySpace -- something, he said, "nobody reads."

Wednesday's verdict underscores the difficulties of the case. Some legal experts and civil liberties groups argued that the prosecution's case would mean that millions of people who violate the terms of service at the Web sites they visit could become criminally liable. Experts also said that if violating terms of service is a crime, then the Web sites that write the agreements essentially could function as lawmakers or prosecutors.

Meier had struggled with depression since third grade, was bullied in school and had self-esteem problems, her parents Ron and Tina Meier said in a television interview a year ago. In 2006, they allowed her to open up a MySpace account under their supervision and said the messages from "Josh" were the first affectionate ones their daughter had ever received.

"He thought she was really pretty," Tina Meier said.

Four weeks into the exchanges, "Josh" broke off the relationship with Meier, her father said, sending a message that "the world would be a better place without" her. Within an hour after receiving it, Meier took her own life.

Meier's father said he logged online days later to contact "Josh," but the profile was deleted. A neighbor later told them that "Josh" was created by a mother down the street, a woman who had attended their daughter's funeral.

The resulting public outrage led state and federal prosecutors in Missouri to examine the case, but after a meeting in March 2007, "it was decided that the case should be declined for federal prosecution," according to an internal memo from the FBI's St. Louis office.

Federal prosecutors in the Los Angeles area, where MySpace's servers are, picked up the case, calling it the first of its kind in the nation.

robyrob
11-26-2008, 06:20 PM
this is good news, but it could be better - they need to make clear laws that would help prevent and convict crimes like these.

catlover79
11-26-2008, 07:08 PM
Good!!

OH Nuts!
11-26-2008, 07:36 PM
What goes around comes around.... Lori's definitely a pariah now!!

And I hope she gets some serious jail time

sunshinefizzy
11-26-2008, 07:38 PM
Even though I strongly feel the suicide was all Megan, I do say great to her sentence. This will haunt her for the rest of her life and I hope she not only knows, but feels it

InspectorExstead
11-26-2008, 07:40 PM
that is very good to hear & it didn't take too long from the start of the trial to reach a verdict either.

Janice
11-26-2008, 11:03 PM
A just verdict. Too bad it carries no jail time. People have to expect that actions have consequences, and often serious ones. Just can't screw with the mind of a troubled teen, and expect to get away with it.

Mr. Television
11-26-2008, 11:05 PM
Good news but I was hoping she'd rot in jail.

Lee
11-27-2008, 02:29 AM
What goes around comes around.... Lori's definitely a pariah now!!

And I hope she gets some serious jail time

According to the article, she probably will not

JAlanRuss72
11-27-2008, 11:32 AM
A just verdict. Too bad it carries no jail time. People have to expect that actions have consequences, and often serious ones. Just can't screw with the mind of a troubled teen, and expect to get away with it.

agreed. Sounds like she REALLY needed to get a life- what adult has time to do all that. I guess no job, no bills . . .

ABlairican Pie
11-27-2008, 02:03 PM
Too bad she's not getting jail time. It would be nice to have something more than a slap on the wrist, but I hope she carries this around for the rest of her life:


"Wow, my stupidity and suspicious behavior led to the death of young girl with emotional problems. I COULD HAVE gotten a life, I COULD HAVE gotten a life, I COULD HAVE gotten a life......."

InspectorExstead
11-27-2008, 03:35 PM
agreed. Sounds like she REALLY needed to get a life- what adult has time to do all that. I guess no job, no bills . . .

that's what i want to know. she had nothing else to do, but resort to middle school tactics?

Hollow
11-27-2008, 05:09 PM
agreed. Sounds like she REALLY needed to get a life- what adult has time to do all that. I guess no job, no bills . . .
oh, she had a job. her coupon business has gotten fantastic reviews since megan's story went public!

http://www.yelp.com/biz/drew-advantage-o-fallon

anyway, at least the fat bitch (ashley grills) who sent that final "the world would be better without you" message to megan has blamed herself and shown remorse in interviews. lori still needs to get her head out of her ass.

Doodyville10019
11-28-2008, 01:55 AM
Even though I strongly feel the suicide was all Megan, I do say great to her sentence. This will haunt her for the rest of her life and I hope she not only knows, but feels it

Sorry, Sunshine, but your statement saying that the suicide was "all Megan" I respectfully disagree. First of all, Megan was suffering from depression, which can be (and is) a very debilitating disease. I know this firsthand. We'll never know if she was getting proper care and treatment for it, but even with the best of care, sometimes depression can cloud a person's judgment to an extreme. Secondly, being a teenager, being dumped by a guy who says "the world would be better off without you" usually does have devestating consequences no matter the condition of the girl. I've been through that firsthand, too.

I was hoping the mom would get some serious jail time for what she did but I guess all she's getting is a slap on the wrists. What I'd like to know is why she did it in the first place - to get even for a failed frienship with her daughter, or for a perceived slight, or maybe because she is a closed minded person who thought to exploit Megan because of her condition. Sadly, we'll never know that, either.

sunshinefizzy
11-28-2008, 08:45 AM
Sorry, Sunshine, but your statement saying that the suicide was "all Megan" I respectfully disagree. First of all, Megan was suffering from depression, which can be (and is) a very debilitating disease. I know this firsthand. We'll never know if she was getting proper care and treatment for it, but even with the best of care, sometimes depression can cloud a person's judgment to an extreme. Secondly, being a teenager, being dumped by a guy who says "the world would be better off without you" usually does have devestating consequences no matter the condition of the girl. I've been through that firsthand, too.

I was hoping the mom would get some serious jail time for what she did but I guess all she's getting is a slap on the wrists. What I'd like to know is why she did it in the first place - to get even for a failed frienship with her daughter, or for a perceived slight, or maybe because she is a closed minded person who thought to exploit Megan because of her condition. Sadly, we'll never know that, either.

And I respect your opinion. I mean, some of the stuff she wrote, ouch. I read somewhere that she was on all these different pills not only for her depression but for ADD as well. Some of that stuff can actually make depression worse. Still, it's very dissapointing that she couldn't rise above it. Nobody makes you do anything, you do it for yourself.

ABlairican Pie
11-28-2008, 10:44 AM
And I respect your opinion. I mean, some of the stuff she wrote, ouch. I read somewhere that she was on all these different pills not only for her depression but for ADD as well. Some of that stuff can actually make depression worse. Still, it's very dissapointing that she couldn't rise above it. Nobody makes you do anything, you do it for yourself.
So it IS the girl's fault for killing herself? :confused:

robyrob
11-28-2008, 01:08 PM
And I respect your opinion. I mean, some of the stuff she wrote, ouch. I read somewhere that she was on all these different pills not only for her depression but for ADD as well. Some of that stuff can actually make depression worse. Still, it's very dissapointing that she couldn't rise above it. Nobody makes you do anything, you do it for yourself.
what makes it worse though - and totally unconscionable in many people's opinion - is that this woman and her accomplices were FULLY AWARE of this poor girl's depression, took advantage of it, and forged a premeditated plan to hurt this girl as much as possible.

they may not have intended to kill the girl, but they certainly planned to do as much harm to her as they possibly could.

sunshinefizzy
11-28-2008, 04:40 PM
what makes it worse though - and totally unconscionable in many people's opinion - is that this woman and her accomplices were FULLY AWARE of this poor girl's depression, took advantage of it, and forged a premeditated plan to hurt this girl as much as possible.

they may not have intended to kill the girl, but they certainly planned to do as much harm to her as they possibly could.

That's what I've been saying it all along. You just said it better, thank you!!! It's disturbing that there are cruel people in the world out there like her. Yet, you just have to pray to God that what goes around comes all the way back around to them. It did for her.

Doodyville10019
11-28-2008, 08:17 PM
That's what I've been saying it all along. You just said it better, thank you!!! It's disturbing that there are cruel people in the world out there like her. Yet, you just have to pray to God that what goes around comes all the way back around to them. It did for her.

I agree. Totally. I hope this mom gets what's rightfully coming to her - either in this OR the next life.