View Full Version : A Thread Dedicated To Brad (Little Mel)


Theda Bara
10-28-2008, 01:25 AM
I decided to create a thread to one, if not, the nicest person, I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.
Brad, you do not realize how much you make a person smile. Especially, when that same person is feeling down.
You are truly a remarkable and a special human being. And, as I mentioned, many of times. I feel blessed to call you a friend.


And, I know I am not the only member of this board, that thinks Brad is, an amazing and an awesome, person=)

Schmoopie
10-28-2008, 01:46 AM
That's very nice! I'm sure he'll appreciate it! Brad, if you're reading this, I just wanted to say that I really enjoy reading your posts!

Andrea

MusicJunkie
10-28-2008, 01:57 AM
Brad's a great guy with a heart of gold who gets along with everyone

Brian Damage
10-28-2008, 02:01 AM
Brad is super great guy and deserves to be appreciated! :cheers:

LuLu Rogers
10-28-2008, 02:12 AM
Brad's the nicest guy I've ever had the pleasure to know. I'm so thankful that he's become a part of my life, I'm very lucky to have such a wonderful friend! I can only hope I'm half as good a friend to him as he is to me. I've been pretty down lately and talking to him tonight has really lifted my spirits. I love you Brad! :bighug:

Dr. John Becker
10-28-2008, 09:22 AM
Brad rocks! I always enjoy reading his posts. :wave:

Hollow
10-28-2008, 01:22 PM
brad is one of the nicest people i've come to know. i'm glad he's back with us.

Doodyville10019
10-28-2008, 01:59 PM
Hey Brad - you are one pretty awesome dude. He's one of the guys who keeps SO rockin' the way it does! Way to go - keep it up!!

TripperFan
10-28-2008, 03:52 PM
I'm sure glad he's back!

I remember when we first started talking by PMs and it made me a bit nervous. I wasn't used to being complimented and praised and I wondered what he was "up to"!!! Until I realized that this was just a super nice guy who isn't afraid to open up to people and is genuine.

Brad - the girl that finally lands you as a hubby is going to be one of the luckiest girls in the world!

YOU ROCK buddy! :wave:

Theda Bara
10-28-2008, 04:04 PM
I'm sure glad he's back!

I remember when we first started talking by PMs and it made me a bit nervous. I wasn't used to being complimented and praised and I wondered what he was "up to"!!! Until I realized that this was just a super nice guy who isn't afraid to open up to people and is genuine.

Brad - the girl that finally lands you as a hubby is going to be one of the luckiest girls in the world!

YOU ROCK buddy! :wave:
I can see why Brad complimented you, Cathie. You are one of the prettiest women I have ever seen and one the nicest, too :hug:

TripperFan
10-28-2008, 04:07 PM
I can see why Brad complimented you, Cathie. You are one of the prettiest women I have ever seen and one the nicest, too :hug:


Aww - you're too sweet! You ain't so bad yourself sista! ;)



Funny - I always pictured you and I hanging out if this were a school or something instead of a forum. We'd be trading clothes for sure! lol

BarneyFife
10-28-2008, 04:09 PM
I really don't know Brad, but he seems like a nice person and i love to read his post.

Theda Bara
10-28-2008, 04:10 PM
Aww - you're too sweet! You ain't so bad yourself sista! ;)



Funny - I always pictured you and I hanging out if this were a school or something instead of a forum. We'd be trading clothes for sure! lol
Yes, and we would be the hottest and best dressed girls at school :snob:;)

LuLu Rogers
10-28-2008, 04:49 PM
Yes, and we would be the hottest and best dressed girls at school :snob:;)

I'll second that ;)

AB
10-28-2008, 06:45 PM
Here's To A Really Nice Guy! :cheers:

InspectorExstead
10-28-2008, 07:48 PM
brad, i always enjoy reading your posts! =)

Brad Russ
10-28-2008, 07:49 PM
Wow, I don't even know what to say!!! This was so unexpected, and I am not use to being complimented this way. I saw the title for this thread last night, and I emailed Tara apologizing for not being able to read it just then. It's embarrassing to admit, but as soon as I saw the title I started to cry. lol! I'm kind of a softy at times. :lol: I have my composure now so hopefully I won't make a fool of myself too badly. Haha! And if I do, oh well. It won't be the first or last time. Anyway, Tripperfan mentioned something that I really want to address. She mentioned my motives when I first started chatting with her. I think the reason people sometimes wonder that about me upon first meeting me is because they don't realize where I've been. When I first came to S.O. back in 2002, I had literally been housebound for nine years. I had agoraphobia, and for 10 years I was literally locked away in my room with no friends. I hadn't hugged my mom or told her I loved her in 10 years, and I had very little socialization during those years. When I initially joined S.O. I was pretty shy, and not too well known for my first couple years. Then I came upon the Chit Chat board, and slowly but surely my life began to change. I started to socialize, and grow relationships little by little, and before you knew it, I was no longer some shut in who was afraid of people, I was a shut in who started to realize that not all people were bad like I had previously thought. The reason I am so passionate in my words sometimes, isn't for ulterior motives, it's because I'm so grateful in the part S.O. has had in changing my life for the better. The way I feel, life is way too short to not tell people how you really feel, and I'm just making up for lost time. :D I honestly do love everyone here, but there are a small handful who had the biggest part in changing my life. They know who they are. :) I know much of what I've just said may sound corny, but it's the truth, and it's something I needed to say. THIS WEBSITE CHANGED MY LIFE, AND MORE IMPORTANTELY, ALL OF YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE!!! You guys' are truly the best things going online today, and I thank you ALL for your kind words. :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

:bighug:

P.S. In my opinion, most everyone here deserves a thread dedicated to them!!! You guys are awesome!!! ;)

Brad Russ
10-28-2008, 08:06 PM
Brad is super great guy and deserves to be appreciated! :cheers:

Well it takes one to know one!! ;) I've enjoyed getting to know you better in these last couple years, and I'm honoured to call you a friend!!! :cheers:

Brad Russ
10-28-2008, 08:13 PM
Brad's a great guy with a heart of gold who gets along with everyone

Thanks MusicJunkie!! You're a cool dude yourself!! :cool: Even though we've known of each other for awhile, we've never really gotten to know each other all that well, and so I'm looking forward to getting to know you better in the future!! :)

Family Ties Forever!
10-28-2008, 08:38 PM
Brad was a good person. He was a good friend. He was one of the first people I remember seeing around the boards. I remember when he used to post on the Family Ties board. Sadly, I don't hear from him anymore. :(

Brad Russ
10-28-2008, 08:55 PM
Brad was a good person. He was a good friend. He was one of the first people I remember seeing around the boards. I remember when he used to post on the Family Ties board. Sadly, I don't hear from him anymore. :(

You hear from me Jen, it's only been a little over a week since we last spoke. :confused: Unfortunately I haven't been in very good contact with many of you guys lately. Until last night, I hadn't spoken to hardly anyone much, simply because I'm dealing with some issues that Iv'e refused to talk about here, and have been working alot more. That's part of the reason I was so touched by this thread, I was amazed that despite my lack of personal presence, people would be so kind. I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings, but I still consider you a good friend. The same way I consider everyone who I haven't been in great touch with friends. :)

Family Ties Forever!
10-28-2008, 09:12 PM
That is not true Brad. The last time I heard from you was on October 7th. So actually it's been three weeks not one, but I don't want to argue with anyone here. I give up.

Brad Russ
10-28-2008, 09:20 PM
Brad's the nicest guy I've ever had the pleasure to know. I'm so thankful that he's become a part of my life, I'm very lucky to have such a wonderful friend! I can only hope I'm half as good a friend to him as he is to me. I've been pretty down lately and talking to him tonight has really lifted my spirits. I love you Brad!

I'm so glad I was able to make you feel better, and I want you to know that I truly meant every word I said. You have always been there for me as a friend, and don't ever forget that!!! We all feel like we're not as good of friends with people as we should be at times, that's just what makes us human. Despite all the beautiful words spoken of me in this thread, I'm sadly at times the worst friend imagineable, but fortunately I have great people in my life who are able to forgive me for those shortcomings, and so do you, so please don't beat yourself up about it. :)

I'm sure glad he's back!

I remember when we first started talking by PMs and it made me a bit nervous. I wasn't used to being complimented and praised and I wondered what he was "up to"!!! Until I realized that this was just a super nice guy who isn't afraid to open up to people and is genuine.

Brad - the girl that finally lands you as a hubby is going to be one of the luckiest girls in the world!

YOU ROCK buddy!!

Oh geez!!! :lol: I'm so sorry I left that initial impression on you Cathie!! :blush: Just so you know, even though in my own words you are a "certified hottie", lol! I want you to know that I've always viewed you as a strictly platonic friend!! :lol: An Amazing platonic friend!!! :D

brad is one of the nicest people i've come to know. i'm glad he's back with us!

Thank you Sarah, that means so much. Like I said in my email to you, you've always been one of my favorite people here even though we never really got to know each other too well. I'm looking forward to getting to know you even better in the future!! :hug:

Once again, to everybody who contributed to this thread, thank you from the bottom of my :heart: You have truly made my month!! And a very special thank you goes out to Tara for having the thoughtfulness to start this thread. I Love You So Much, and you will always be one of my three Angels!! :angel: ;)

70s show watcher
10-29-2008, 12:36 AM
brad is one of the all time nicest guys here or anywhere

Mr. Television
10-29-2008, 01:11 AM
Brad is one of the nicest members on SO and it's so great that he's back. This place wasn't the same without you Brad and you definately deserve to be appreciated. :)

OH Nuts!
10-29-2008, 05:36 AM
That's very nice! I'm sure he'll appreciate it! Brad, if you're reading this, I just wanted to say that I really enjoy reading your posts!

Andrea

I enjoy Brad's posts too! Here's to you Brad!!:wave:

Brad Russ
10-29-2008, 09:24 AM
Thank you 70s show watcher, Sonny, and OH Nuts! for your very kind words. It really does mean alot to me. I enjoy reading all of your posts as well!! Hope you all have a great day! :wave:

phoebe7165
10-29-2008, 11:08 AM
A little late, I know, but I just wanted to add that I'm sooo glad you're able to get your life back, Brad. I'm also glad that the great people of SO had a hand in it, too!!

I don't know you very well, but from what I've been reading, you're a very sweet guy and I enjoy reading your posts, too!!;)

Nighthawk76
10-29-2008, 05:45 PM
I don't know Brad well, but from what I do know about him he seems to be a really cool guy. Like me, has gone through some dark periods in his life, but has made it through into the light. Brad is an inspiration to never give up.

catlover79
10-29-2008, 06:40 PM
I don't know Brad that well myself, but he is always positive and nice to everyone. He has true character and heart!! :D

Brad Russ
10-29-2008, 09:25 PM
Thank you phoebe, Mike, and catlover79! :) And Mike, I just want you to know that your comment about me being an inspiration, means alot to me, and even brought a few tears to my eyes, as did catlover79's comments about me having character and heart!! Those are the greatest compliments a person could give me!! :) I can say with all of my heart that the same can definitely be said for the two of you!! :heart: :hug:

Janice
10-30-2008, 10:19 PM
I adore Brad, and I'm so happy that he returned and is doing well. He's one of my best friends ever. I hope to get to chat with him on the phone soon. He has such a sweet and gentle soul and a wonderful heart. I hope he doesn't mind that I'm posting this, but two weeks ago, he offered to send me his new laptop because it's easier to use if you're not feeling well. I didn't take him up on his generous offer, but the fact that he offered touched me deeply.

Brad Russ
10-30-2008, 11:31 PM
I adore Brad, and I'm so happy that he returned and is doing well. He's one of my best friends ever. I hope to get to chat with him on the phone soon. He has such a sweet and gentle soul and a wonderful heart. I hope he doesn't mind that I'm posting this, but two weeks ago, he offered to send me his new laptop because it's easier to use if you're not feeling well. I didn't take him up on his generous offer, but the fact that he offered touched me deeply.

Thanks Janice!! :D It's amazing how God will sometimes allow us to recieve a message like this when we absolutely need it the most. and believe me, I really needed to hear this!!! I've been feeling like such a jerk lately in regards to how bad of a friend I can sometimes be. I give people advice about how they shouldn't feel bad, but I can't seem to be able to take my own advice at times. :( It just means so much to me that you know that even when we sometimes don't chat for awhile, that it doesn't take away from how I feel about you, or how you feel about me. You are the most amazing friend a person COULD EVER have, and I thank you for staying such a good friend with me over the years. My heart would be broken if I ever lost that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Love You!!! :heart: I've got so much more to say to you, so I'm gonna send you a pm now!! :wave:

catlover79
10-31-2008, 02:23 PM
Thank you phoebe, Mike, and catlover79! :) And Mike, I just want you to know that your comment about me being an inspiration, means alot to me, and even brought a few tears to my eyes, as did catlover79's comments about me having character and heart!! Those are the greatest compliments a person could give me!! :) I can say with all of my heart that the same can definitely be said for the two of you!! :heart: :hug:
:bighug: By the way - call me Monika.

Nighthawk76
10-31-2008, 02:27 PM
Thanks Janice!! :D It's amazing how God will sometimes allow us to recieve a message like this when we absolutely need it the most. and believe me, I really needed to hear this!!! I've been feeling like such a jerk lately in regards to how bad of a friend I can sometimes be. I give people advice about how they shouldn't feel bad, but I can't seem to be able to take my own advice at times. :( It just means so much to me that you know that even when we sometimes don't chat for awhile, that it doesn't take away from how I feel about you, or how you feel about me. You are the most amazing friend a person COULD EVER have, and I thank you for staying such a good friend with me over the years. My heart would be broken if I ever lost that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Love You!!! :heart: I've got so much more to say to you, so I'm gonna send you a pm now!! :wave:

I'm sometimes not the greatest friend in the world either, Brad. When I'm going through a bad period, I tend to shut people out.

TripperFan
10-31-2008, 02:43 PM
I'm sometimes not the greatest friend in the world either, Brad. When I'm going through a bad period, I tend to shut people out.


I know I do - I'll only let a very few close friends in as I don't want to be a bummer to everyone. I know friends are there for the good and bad times, but you don't want it to be a "social event". You'll get thru it tho - and come out stronger than ever in the end. Thankfully, that's the way God works. Took me a while to figure that out. ;)

Theda Bara
10-31-2008, 06:14 PM
I know I do - I'll only let a very few close friends in as I don't want to be a bummer to everyone. I know friends are there for the good and bad times, but you don't want it to be a "social event". You'll get thru it tho - and come out stronger than ever in the end. Thankfully, that's the way God works. Took me a while to figure that out. ;)
I am just the opposite; when I am upset about it, the whole world knows. Something I need to definitely work on. Because, I know, I bore people with my crap...