View Full Version : Rest Stops/Rest Areas
jasonbigley 05-17-2008, 02:22 AM The case on the Blind River Rest Stop was very tragic. How tragic it was for that guy to lose his wife like that. I hope that the DIRTBAG who did this gets caught and they fry his a** in prison. That robber should have got off his a** and got a job instead of terrorizing innocent people. Anyways, I have traveled a few times and been to some rest areas. Some were creepy. On our way home from summer vacation, we stopped at a rest area aorund 2:30AM. Our family acquaintance(sp?) went in to use the bathroom. I didnt want her to go inside the rest area alone so I went in with her (not into the same bathrooms). It was leery when we were in the rest area because we were the only 2 people in there. Does anybody else have rest stop/rest area stories to share?
justins5256 05-17-2008, 10:06 AM While not scary per say, some rest stops around where I used to live were known to be meeting places for men to have sex with other men. I used to hear stories and read in the paper about occasional police vice sting operations to deter this type of activity. For what it's worth, I have nothing against homosexuality. But, I would read these stories and often wonder why there is a motivation to do his sort of thing in public. Couldn't they just as easily get a cheap motel room somewhere.
DALLASTEXAN!! 05-18-2008, 03:31 AM well either my parents were cheapskates or they were old fashioned because they use to stop off at rest stops and sleep with no problem. If I were at a rest stop I would drive through if there were no other people. In fact anytime I'm in a place without others I am always extra aware of my surrounding because there is no one else there to get your back. I would never sleep at one especially after seeing unsolved mysteries segments where people were murdered at such locations. that's what hotels(with extra security) are for. you have to plan ahead and hope that stuff like that doesn't happen. I just watched an episode this evening of a trucker who got murdered at a pay phone at a rest stop. I remember a couple getting killed by a stranger that walked up to their R.V.
JRA2000TL 05-19-2008, 09:56 PM I just plain don't stop at those places after dusk. These days, there are multiple exits along interstates that offer a large variety of gas stations, restaurants, etc. They are usually all well lit and seem to be alot safer. Unless you're driving across Montana like Dexter Stefonic, there are too many other options of safer places to stop...and if you are driving across desolate country, plan ahead, have plenty of gas, and schedule places to stop. I've seen way too many horror flicks with a plot of someone being broken down in the desert and dealing with all kinds of scary people.
Allierain 05-26-2008, 07:13 PM The case on the Blind River Rest Stop was very tragic. How tragic it was for that guy to lose his wife like that. I hope that the DIRTBAG who did this gets caught and they fry his a** in prison. That robber should have got off his a** and got a job instead of terrorizing innocent people. Anyways, I have traveled a few times and been to some rest areas. Some were creepy. On our way home from summer vacation, we stopped at a rest area aorund 2:30AM. Our family acquaintance(sp?) went in to use the bathroom. I didnt want her to go inside the rest area alone so I went in with her (not into the same bathrooms). It was leery when we were in the rest area because we were the only 2 people in there. Does anybody else have rest stop/rest area stories to share?
I do, but nothing negative. I remember as a child in the 80s when my parents and I would drive across country. We would stop at rest areas here and there. When we did, they were usually teaming with people, coffee stands, snack machines, and people were out eating at park benches and walking their dogs. It seemed very pleasant to me.
Now as an adult, I don't stop at rest areas when I travel. Two weeks ago I drove from Little Rock to Memphis with a friend of mine, and we stopped at one of the large gas stations/McDonalds along the way. When I drive out west with family, we do the same thing. I am not sure why, but I think it's an unspoken agreement that the big gas stations are safer....?
Well, I don't know about safer really, but I think we all feel more comfortable stopping at them instead of rest areas. Plus we can get a bite to eat and fill up the tank if we need to.
Now that I think about it, I am not sure why, but we just don't stop at rest areas anymore.
Anyone else doing the same thing?
Allierain 05-26-2008, 07:17 PM Yeah, what JRA2000TL said. :D
cocytus 12-20-2010, 11:12 AM I just plain don't stop at those places after dusk. These days, there are multiple exits along interstates that offer a large variety of gas stations, restaurants, etc. They are usually all well lit and seem to be alot safer. Unless you're driving across Montana like Dexter Stefonic, there are too many other options of safer places to stop...and if you are driving across desolate country, plan ahead, have plenty of gas, and schedule places to stop. I've seen way too many horror flicks with a plot of someone being broken down in the desert and dealing with all kinds of scary people.
I agree. There are too many other options (even in remote areas) to stop besides rest stops. In my case, though it's usually because most of the rest stops I encounter have poorly maintained facilities and I hate dirty bathrooms.
There was a case here in Indiana about a half hour south of my city, where a van was discovered in the parking lot of a rest area. The van belonged to a man that had been missing for six weeks and had been reported as such to the police.The van contained the body of the man and it was determined that he had expired around the time he had gone missing and that it was due to natural causes.
My point? The van had been sitting in the lot of a rest area for SIX WEEKS before anybody thought to run the plates or even check to see if there was anything wrong. That was ridiculous.
It also a sign that even LE rarely checks (or stops) at rest stops anymore. At least in my area, that is.
TheCars1986 12-20-2010, 03:48 PM Unsolved Mysteries is the sole reason why I would never stop at a rest stop at night. It's a prime spot for a crime to be committed (the isolation, no law enforcement around, etc.) and I'd rather just wait until there was a sign for a gas station instead of take my chances at a rest stop. During the day is another story, and I could see myself stopping at one with vending machines for a quick hunger fix.
SageSlowdive 12-20-2010, 08:43 PM I STILL don't stop at rest stops. Even during the day --- as one poster said above, there are plenty of gas stations, stores, well lit places around to stop.
Clockworkhigh 12-28-2010, 11:39 PM I'll stop at one if I have to. Nature calls you know? But you have to remember, this stuff is all in our imagination. The few times that a person has been killed hitchiking or at a rest stop will be reported while the million times people do it and DON'T die nobody will hear about it. Maybe it's a product of our society and the paranoia we face. But yeah, if you CAN'T fall asleep at a rest stop, then don't do it. Go to a gas station.
When I was a kid we drove to Florida (from Canada) and instead of packing up at a hotel we often stayed at a truck stop. Needless to say there was a restaurant and a gas station and a large parking lot surrounded by trucks. I slept fine, but my sister NEVER slept and was always angry at my parents for stopping since she just as well assumed we'd be slaughtered.
I think when the Blind River murders happened in 1991 it might have opened the eyes of Canadians. You see, we always pride ourselves that stuff like this only happens in the States, so when it happens in Canada it'll send a shiver down your spine.
cocytus 12-29-2010, 12:00 AM I'll stop at one if I have to. Nature calls you know? But you have to remember, this stuff is all in our imagination. The few times that a person has been killed hitchiking or at a rest stop will be reported while the million times people do it and DON'T die nobody will hear about it. Maybe it's a product of our society and the paranoia we face. But yeah, if you CAN'T fall asleep at a rest stop, then don't do it. Go to a gas station.
When I was a kid we drove to Florida (from Canada) and instead of packing up at a hotel we often stayed at a truck stop. Needless to say there was a restaurant and a gas station and a large parking lot surrounded by trucks. I slept fine, but my sister NEVER slept and was always angry at my parents for stopping since she just as well assumed we'd be slaughtered.
I think when the Blind River murders happened in 1991 it might have opened the eyes of Canadians. You see, we always pride ourselves that stuff like this only happens in the States, so when it happens in Canada it'll send a shiver down your spine.
Even if nothing ever happens to most people that stop at rest stops I still consider a bad idea for the following groups to use them at night or when the are empty during the day:
1) Women traveling alone or only w/ small children.
2) The elderly
3) Inexperienced travelers
4) People w/ medical issues or disabilities
5) People that are displaying obvious signs of wealth (nice cars,jewelry,etc)
Rest stops are rarely patrolled in most areas and are often isolated. If you are attacked by someone (which would usually be a robbery) you would be unlikely to receive assistance for an extended period of time. And even if you did receive assistance, your attacker could be many miles away long before descriptions of the assailant and the vehicle they fled in, could be sent out to other agencies.
Honestly, it is much more sensible to stop for a restroom break or relax during a long drive at a truck stop or at a motel. They are both usually busy, well-lit and have higher quality facilities than the majority of rest stops. If you're financially strained and can't afford a motel, perhaps you should reconsider traveling unless you truly need to.
Clockworkhigh 12-29-2010, 12:15 AM Even if nothing ever happens to most people that stop at rest stops I still consider a bad idea for the following groups to use them at night or when the are empty during the day:
1) Women traveling alone or only w/ small children.
2) The elderly
3) Inexperienced travelers
4) People w/ medical issues or disabilities
5) People that are displaying obvious signs of wealth (nice cars,jewelry,etc)
Rest stops are rarely patrolled in most areas and are often isolated. If you are attacked by someone (which would usually be a robbery) you would be unlikely to receive assistance for an extended period of time. And even if you did receive assistance, your attacker could be many miles away long before descriptions of the assailant and the vehicle they fled in, could be sent out to other agencies.
Honestly, it is much more sensible to stop for a restroom break or relax during a long drive at a truck stop or at a motel. They are both usually busy, well-lit and have higher quality facilities than the majority of rest stops. If you're financially strained and can't afford a motel, perhaps you reconsider traveling unless you truly need to.
I can agree with that. I'd have been nervous if my mother and my sister and I had stopped at one. With my dad, not so much. I agree it is a very vulnerable place but I am just saying the odds are remote that even a robbery would occur.
dks64 12-29-2010, 01:54 AM I recently moved from FL to CA and on the way, my Dad (who had flown in to help me move) stopped by a rest stop in the late evening (can't remember what state, probably Texas). I was so nervous because of Unsolved Mysteries and other stories I heard. Heck, I stopped in Arizona during the day and was on guard. I was ready for a fight! Haha.
leafygreens 12-30-2010, 06:51 PM I too steer clear of rest areas in the evenings. Don't forget about John Allen Mohammad and Lee Malvo, who were apprehended at a rest stop. As well as the truck driver who was murdered at a payphone for pocket change.
Robberies and shootings can also happen at a well-lit gas station. But at a rest area you have the extra disadvantage of being in a rural area where someone may not see you and be able to help.
SageSlowdive 12-31-2010, 03:41 AM There is Walmarts and late night restaurants & gas stations everywhere now. Simply stop there is you need to use the bathroom. I would go 5 miles out of my way to avoid a rest stop.
MissFit29 01-01-2011, 06:58 PM Whenever I'm travelling back to my hometown, I always stop at the rest stops - most of them in my state are in good shape, and some are even an outpost for the state patrol. I always see custodians around too. But there's one off the freeway that I'll never stop at again after a woman pulled in at the same time as my sister and I, and she took her lit cigarette with her into the bathroom. She also informed me that she thought I had followed her off the freeway. I was thinking I should have let my bladder burst on that one.
DALLASTEXAN!! 05-15-2011, 01:05 PM Yeah there is no way I will stop at a rest stop now if at all possible. I think i had to once in california to let my daughter go to the restroom and my wife really influenced my decision. i actually was not thinking about it when it happened either. about a year later or less I saw the BRK segment and it resurfaced my rest stop phobia. when I was a kid my family would stop at them all the time to sleep or rest. rather than staying in a hotel. I was always terrified. I do remember looking at the maps of texas and wanting to travel lol.
on another note its good to see that they have linked some evidence to that west guy. while he may never be charged i'd say its pretty safe to assume he was the killer. too bad no one is around to prove it. he seemed like an opportunistic criminal who knew his surroundings(he lived close by). and seemed determined to kill everyone that night to evade capture. certainly he knew what he was doing, which fits the profile of west. this crime seems like it would have been more daunting for a transcient killer to take on, but it i guess that was possible too. the resemblence and circumstancial evidence is striking.
UMFaninMD 05-15-2011, 06:12 PM The last time I stopped at a rest stop it was on a bus trip. We were going home to Maryland after visiting NYC. The bus driver pulled into one and it was nothing like the rest stops of years ago. This was in New Jersey and they're called service centers. They had a sit-down restaurant, a food court, ATM's and well-lit bathrooms. This was at night and the place was packed so I felt pretty safe. But many rest stops don't have these features and I would definitely steer clear of those!
MegtheEgg86 05-15-2011, 11:17 PM The last time I stopped at a rest stop it was on a bus trip. We were going home to Maryland after visiting NYC. The bus driver pulled into one and it was nothing like the rest stops of years ago. This was in New Jersey and they're called service centers. They had a sit-down restaurant, a food court, ATM's and well-lit bathrooms. This was at night and the place was packed so I felt pretty safe. But many rest stops don't have these features and I would definitely steer clear of those!
I recently traveled through the Atlantic seaboard--to include MD and NJ--for the first time about two months ago and was amazed by the service centers in DE and NJ. We don't have anything like those in Tennessee, or even throughout the southeast in general. They are far more secure than those unmanned, dimly lit things I'm used to. I was very impressed.
RadiantEmma11 05-16-2011, 05:42 AM Whenever I'm travelling back to my hometown, I always stop at the rest stops - most of them in my state are in good shape, and some are even an outpost for the state patrol. I always see custodians around too. But there's one off the freeway that I'll never stop at again after a woman pulled in at the same time as my sister and I, and she took her lit cigarette with her into the bathroom. She also informed me that she thought I had followed her off the freeway. I was thinking I should have let my bladder burst on that one.
what state ru in if you dont mind me asking?
UMFaninMD 05-16-2011, 07:27 PM I recently traveled through the Atlantic seaboard--to include MD and NJ--for the first time about two months ago and was amazed by the service centers in DE and NJ. We don't have anything like those in Tennessee, or even throughout the southeast in general. They are far more secure than those unmanned, dimly lit things I'm used to. I was very impressed.
It's interesting that some regions have full-service centers and some don't. The one in NJ was the first one I've been too; we have the Chesapeake Center about 5-10 miles away from my home and I've never been to that one!
WishfulDreamer 05-17-2011, 03:02 PM On road trips in recent years I used to wonder why the majority of the rest stops I came across were closed; probably because they were abandoned and poorly lit, too isolated to be safe. I've yet to come across any full-service centers, but would love to; that's the only way I would stop at one! For now, I just like to stop at small border towns like Barstow to meet my needs. UM has taught me not to take chances on abandoned rest stops!
Hambone2421 05-17-2011, 03:40 PM I grew up in Houston and when I was a kid, my family would go Florida alot and we would always drive there. My parents would stop at rest areas for us to use the restroom and stretch our legs. Nowadays, there's not a chance in hell I would stop at a rest stop, even in the middle of the day. Its far safer (IMO) to just stop at a fast food restaurant or one of those huge Exxon/McDonalds to use the restroom. More people around and security. Its just not worth it for me.
However, a friend of mine recently took his family to Disney World and drove from Houston to Orlando, stopping at rest areas on the way, even in the middle of the night as they drove straight there! I thought he was crazy to do something like that.
Hambone2421 05-17-2011, 03:43 PM It's interesting that some regions have full-service centers and some don't. The one in NJ was the first one I've been too; we have the Chesapeake Center about 5-10 miles away from my home and I've never been to that one!
The state welcome centers at the state lines are also pretty nice as well. The ones in Texas, Louisiana, Alabama, Mississippi and Florida are all very well maintained and have security.
MissFit29 05-17-2011, 07:18 PM I love the one in Mississippi on 55. They have really nice people there and give you free pop!
If I'm with my husband, I stop at rest stops. Otherwise, I only stop in the daytime if other people are around.
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