You find out they have a roomate who is of the opposite sex and straight? I met this girl 2 weeks ago but it's just something about her having a straight male roomate that makes me kind of hesistant to continue on. Normally if a date someone they live alone or with family so that roomate thing kind of throw me off. And it's a shame too because she is such a nice person but just has a unusual living situation.

Just because she has a male roomate who happens to be straight that doesn't mean she's romantically involved with him. If you like this girl well enough to ask her out then go for it.

Just because she has a male roomate who happens to be straight that doesn't mean she's romantically involved with him. If you like this girl well enough to ask her out then go for it.


Yeah I noticed I want perfection, not physically but the perfect fit for me. It just seems like it always that one thing that makes me go-"I'm not sure If I want to continue this" And I usually say that when I found out the things below

I don't like watching TV
I have a male roomate
I do smoke from time to time
I'm unemployed
I love having sex everyday


If I can not hear ONE of those things I will be a happy man. It's always ONE of those things.

Well, the smoking thing would make me dump a gal also (and it has), but, most guys would love a gal who wants sex everyday :lol:

It wouldn't make me uncomfortable, but that's just me.

It wouldn't make me uncomfortable, but that's just me.


I thought it would really make a female uncomfortable-lol

Personally, i wouldnt like it either Sol, but, welcome to the 21rst century! ^_^' (The World has gone insane)

it would'nt bother me

It would not bother me, either. I have a lot of straight, male buddies, but that does not mean that I am involved with them; and Solomon, I think you are the only male on the face of the earth, that would not want to date a girl, who, likes..sex everyday:lol: ;)



All men are not the same

It wouldn't make me uncomfortable because majority of my friends are men. So that might have something to do with it. And a lot of times when you have woman and men with an opposite sex roommate, they normally see each other as a brother or sister.

Solomon, I think you are the only male on the face of the earth, that would not want to date a girl, who, likes..sex everyday:lol: ;)
Well, add my guy to that list! We're both waiting until marriage so he wouldn't like a girl like that. When we get married though... well than he'll probably fall into that category :lol: ;)

I always thought that human beings didn't need sex everyday


ONLY ANIMALS-lol

There is two sides to this situation; yes, most men do not want to be in a relationship with a woman whom is promiscuous; but when you are in love and in a healthy, monogamous; then it is normal, to want to be intimate with your partner, even, everyday; is there something wrong with that? Sex is a beautiful thing, when the partners involved are in love...
I wasn't implying that there's anything wrong with it. I was just replying to the "think you are the only male on the face of the earth, that would not want to date a girl, who, likes..sex everyday" and agreeing with Solomon that not all men are the same. Each couple has their own ideas and beliefs. That is all I meant.

I wasn't implying that there's anything wrong with it. I was just replying to the "think you are the only male on the face of the earth, that would not want to date a girl, who, likes..sex everyday" and agreeing with Solomon that not all men are the same. Each couple has their own ideas and beliefs. That is all I meant.


She was just being sarcastic, she wasn't serious.

It'd bother me, I think.

She was just being sarcastic, she wasn't serious.
Oh I know... I wasn't trying to be "serious" with my reply either -sometimes it's tough to tell over the internet lol- I was just answering in general.

Something like that wouldn't bother me. I have a couple of guy friends that I love dearly and would be happy to live with, but that doesn't mean I want to become romantically involved with them. Living with a guy has a lot of advantages.

As for sex everyday, If you're in love and the sex is good then what the hell is wrong with doing it everyday? ;)

when you are in love with someone, it is very normal to WANT to be intimate with that person on a daily basis; hell, I know, I do:lol:
Girl, don't I know! lol, yes ok my guy and I waiting but there are times when...well, we just gotta get faaarrr away from each other :lol: Those feelings are only natural! I'd be more concerned if someone didn't have those feelings :crazy:

Hey, I hope I did not offend you.
Omg, not at all! We're good! :D I hope you weren't offended by anything I said either.

Hey, but I think it is wonderful that you and your man are willing to wait; a lot of people do not have the patience or the maturity...I admire your patience, and also happy for you, to have such a terrific guy that is tenacious enough to wait till marriage; now, that is rare, and both beautiful:)
Thank you! That was very sweet and kind of you to say. :)

o.k. you two - time to get a room of your own!! lol j/k


It shouldn't bother you Sol - really, I know if I had a male roommate it would probably be like a brother/sister thing. Most of my friends are males - always have been (unfortunately THAT sucked in high school). ;)

Women just don't always think like that - I think men tend to though and that's what freaks them out - they're looking at it from a male point of view. Believe me, if she doesn't feel that way and is dating guys, it ain't going anywhere with the roommate.

Geez - this sounds like an episode of Friends or something. ;)

There is two sides to this situation; yes, most men do not want to be in a relationship with a woman whom is promiscuous; but when you are in love and in a healthy, monogamous; then it is normal, to want to be intimate with your partner, even, everyday; is there something wrong with that? Sex is a beautiful thing, when the partners involved are in love...


I wouldn't want that to be her GUIDELINE for the relationship, I would just prefer it to happened when ever it happend. I would feeling like I have TWO full time shows if that was the Case-lol


As Uncle Phil said-"I"M NOT A MACHINE

As Uncle Phil said-"I"M NOT A MACHINE



:rofl: I just pictured you saying that!! LOL

:rofl: I just pictured you saying that!! LOL


There are NO BATTERIES in my BACK-lol

Male and female rooming together is not unusual at all. Most of my friends have roommates and many of them are straight and opposite in the gender area. It's an economic decision. And a lot of times girls move in with guy friends whom they feel safe around.

I think you shouldn't give up on the girl, just yet! It's bad enough I'm single. Try to give her half a chance and allow yourself to be happy, Dude.

Come and knock on our doorrrr...

You find out they have a roomate who is of the opposite sex and straight? I met this girl 2 weeks ago but it's just something about her having a straight male roomate that makes me kind of hesistant to continue on. Normally if a date someone they live alone or with family so that roomate thing kind of throw me off. And it's a shame too because she is such a nice person but just has a unusual living situation.
To each their own, but it would bother me too, Solomon. Even though it bothers you, you should think about dating her anyway. Perhaps you'll find that your feelings for her are worth dealing with living arrangements.

There's no right or wrong here. People have a right to their feelings. As nobody could even talk me into that situation not bothering me, vice versa the other way. If it doesn't bother someone, it simply doesn't. If we all felt and thought alike, we'd be robots. Same goes for sexual desires. Different individuals have their own beliefs and viewpoints. No right, no wrong. Just different opinions.

To each their own, but it would bother me too, Solomon. Even though it bothers you, you should think about dating her anyway. Perhaps you'll find that your feelings for her are worth dealing with living arrangements.

There's no right or wrong here. People have a right to their feelings. As nobody could even talk me into that situation not bothering me, vice versa the other way. If it doesn't bother someone, it simply doesn't. If we all felt and thought alike, we'd be robots. Same goes for sexual desires. Different individuals have their own beliefs and viewpoints. No right, no wrong. Just different opinions.


And i really don't want to hear you TALKING to him while I'm on the phone with you, that's really making it hard. I can accept the living arrnagement but not communicating with him when you talk to him ALL You want when I'm done talking to you. She maybe replaced, not sure yet

Come and knock on our doorrrr...


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