View Full Version : To the males over 21, Don't try Online Dating, Big Waste of Time
TVFactFan 11-17-2007, 05:30 PM I sent this girl a message on a dating site and she replied back and we exchange a couple of emails and then I said she could email me at my personal email address and she says..........................
WAIT, I THINK YOU ARE MOVING TO FAST??????
HUH???-lol No more Online Dating for me in 2008.I have had it. That was the dumbest thing I ever heard from a woman on a dating site.
Why the hell would I want to continue to THROUGH a DATING SITE when we could talk OFFLINE and then eventually talk on the phone?
Ireneparalegal 11-17-2007, 05:32 PM I sent this girl a message on a dating site and she replied back and we exchange a couple of emails and then I said she could email me at my personal email address and she says..........................
WAIT, I THINK YOU ARE MOVING TO FAST??????
HUH???-lol No more Online Dating for me in 2008.I have had it. That was the dumbest thing I ever heard from a woman on a dating site.
Why the hell would I want to continue to THROUGH a DATING SITE when we could talk OFFLINE and then eventually talk on the phone?
How much does this cost monthly for you Solomon?;)
TVFactFan 11-17-2007, 05:37 PM How much does this cost monthly for you Solomon?;)
$15, but that money can go toward something else, especially when a stupid a$$ girl thinks I'm moving to fast because I gave her my email AFTER 3 messages on the site. It's not like the email was in my initial reply to her
TVFactFan 11-17-2007, 05:39 PM How much does this cost monthly for you Solomon?;)
And also, guys in the street give out their number all day long and I can't give out a EMAIL ADDRESS over a dating site??? Damm, it wasn't like I said call me at--LOL
Ireneparalegal 11-17-2007, 05:46 PM $15, but that money can go toward something else, especially when a stupid a$$ girl thinks I'm moving to fast because I gave her my email AFTER 3 messages on the site. It's not like the email was in my initial reply to her
Exactly. That money can go towards your chapstick. ;)
Why waste your time on those sites Solomon, you are better off on a blind date.
TVFactFan 11-17-2007, 06:19 PM Exactly. That money can go towards your chapstick. ;)
Why waste your time on those sites Solomon, you are better off on a blind date.
You are right, I mean who has time to go back and forth with messages on a dating site when the attraction is mutual???-lol Once you establish the attraction is mutual it's time to chat OFFLINE
Janice Johnson 11-17-2007, 10:36 PM Exactly. That money can go towards your chapstick. ;)
:lol:
Ireneparalegal 11-17-2007, 10:38 PM You are right, I mean who has time to go back and forth with messages on a dating site when the attraction is mutual???-lol Once you establish the attraction is mutual it's time to chat OFFLINE
You need to venture out more.
Get away from that NBA pass, put on some chapstick and EXPLORE!;)
PZelda 11-17-2007, 10:46 PM $15, but that money can go toward something else, especially when a stupid a$$ girl thinks I'm moving to fast because I gave her my email AFTER 3 messages on the site. It's not like the email was in my initial reply to her
You're PAYING to use an online dating site? :rofl: Save your money for chapstick and go to a free site like okcupid.com. :lol: Just sayin'.
TVFactFan 11-17-2007, 10:54 PM You're PAYING to use an online dating site? :rofl: Save your money for chapstick and go to a free site like okcupid.com. :lol: Just sayin'.
That's what I'm doing now, exploring free dating sites and have come across 3 of them. I will never ever pay another dime for a online dating site
SBTB Geek 11-17-2007, 11:58 PM "chapstick," WTH... am I missing something?
TVFactFan 11-18-2007, 12:01 AM "chapstick," WTH... am I missing something?
I was complaining about the cost of chapstick earlier in the week
PZelda 11-18-2007, 12:08 AM "chapstick," WTH... am I missing something?
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=213388 that'll answer any questions. :lol:
snl 70s show fan 11-18-2007, 12:12 AM i agree with everyone here solomon the 15 dollars you wasted on that site could be put to much better use. and for the record it dosent sound to me like you were moving too fast.
SBTB Geek 11-18-2007, 12:25 AM You know what?, Now that I think of it, I can't even remember the last time I bought some chapstick. It never gets too windy here.
TVFactFan 11-18-2007, 12:30 AM i agree with everyone here solomon the 15 dollars you wasted on that site could be put to much better use. and for the record it dosent sound to me like you were moving too fast.
Exactly, Never Thought GIVING some my email was moving to fast-lol I told her she had mental issues and she deleted her dating profile about a hour ago-lol
PZelda 11-18-2007, 03:35 PM You know what?, Now that I think of it, I can't even remember the last time I bought some chapstick. It never gets too windy here.
You don't use any lip balm when you go to bed? :eek:
Solomon, try www.plentyoffish.com its free. Too fast because you gave her your personal email :rolleyes: I understand your frustrations. From my experience its not really good to "drag" out the online and phone chatting because what happens alot of times I believe there is a point where you begin to construct an image of what the other person is like (they do the same with you), that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with reality. When the image doesn't match the truth, it can do more harm than good. I don't know if that makes sense but I have experienced it.
TVFactFan 11-19-2007, 07:02 PM Solomon, try www.plentyoffish.com its free. Too fast because you gave her your personal email :rolleyes: I understand your frustrations. From my experience its not really good to "drag" out the online and phone chatting because what happens alot of times I believe there is a point where you begin to construct an image of what the other person is like (they do the same with you), that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with reality. When the image doesn't match the truth, it can do more harm than good. I don't know if that makes sense but I have experienced it.
I been trying plentyoffish but no success yet
TVFactFan 11-21-2007, 06:59 PM WOW, I just signed up for that site, on the sole purpose of making new friends, and I have been, literally bombarded with responses..:lol:
That's why paying for a dating site is pointless because women alays get tons of replies
Ireneparalegal 11-21-2007, 08:41 PM WOW, I just signed up for that site, on the sole purpose of making new friends, and I have been, literally bombarded with responses..:lol:
No shocker there my dear...YOU IS ONE HOT MAMA!!! ;) :D
TVFactFan 11-23-2007, 01:46 PM Ha, one of the benefits of being a female, I guess!!!
Maybe that's why I don't like Dating,
JUST SAFE ADULT FUN-lol That defintely benefits Me-lol
Ireneparalegal 11-23-2007, 09:42 PM I been on that site for what, less than 5 days, and already, I have this moron in love with me!!!!..HELLO!..I smell, future, stalker
FATAL ATTRACTION...:eek2:
TVFactFan 11-23-2007, 10:49 PM FATAL ATTRACTION...:eek2:
He probably told Tara"When I lay in bed and think of you at Night, my body is on FIRE!!!
LOL-LOL-LOL
Ireneparalegal 11-23-2007, 10:55 PM He probably told Tara"When I lay in bed and think of you at Night, my body is on FIRE!!!
LOL-LOL-LOL
:lol: Is that what happens on those sites? :eek:
TVFactFan 11-23-2007, 11:06 PM :lol: Is that what happens on those sites? :eek:
Well Some girl just gave me her number to call her from that site-lol She is OK LOOKING, not really someone I would normally go for. So I will see if she has a personality when I call
Ireneparalegal 11-23-2007, 11:09 PM Well Some girl just gave me her number to call her from that site-lol She is OK LOOKING, not really someone I would normally go for. So I will see if she has a personality when I call
Don't blow it!!! Be nice and if she isn't all that...just let it go.
TVFactFan 11-23-2007, 11:12 PM Don't blow it!!! Be nice and if she isn't all that...just let it go.
You mean she better not BLOW IT, she is actively trying to WIN my Interest-lol Remember I have her number, she doesn't have mine which means I'm in control of this
Ireneparalegal 11-23-2007, 11:14 PM You mean she better not BLOW IT, she is actively trying to WIN my Interest-lol Remember I have her number, she doesn't have mine which means I'm in control of this
I am just saying, "Watch your P's and Q's and don't be rude or mean." :lol:
TVFactFan 11-23-2007, 11:18 PM I am just saying, "Watch your P's and Q's and don't be rude or mean." :lol:
I have just HUNG on a girl in the past if I saw the convo going no where within 10 min. But usually I would just come up with a fake reason to get off the phone
Ireneparalegal 11-23-2007, 11:20 PM I have just HUNG on a girl in the past if I saw the convo going no where within 10 min. But usually I would just come up with a fake reason to get off the phone
What lie do you tell them?
TVFactFan 11-23-2007, 11:22 PM What lie do you tell them?
I'm about to go fry some fish
take the trash out
eat my LATE DINNER
take a shower and get more comfortable
go to the store since I ran out of juice
Ireneparalegal 11-23-2007, 11:23 PM I'm about to go fry some fish
take the trash out
eat my LATE DINNER
take a shower and get more comfortable
go to the store since I ran out of juice
OMG :brent You are funny!!!!!!!
Do you fry fish? I always thought you put the fish sticks in the oven?
Max Whittaker 11-24-2007, 08:30 AM Remember I have her number, she doesn't have mine which means I'm in control of this
Dude. You know better than that.
As men, we are never, ever in control. Only the illusion of control. And that can disappear in an instant.
Irene, girl, just thank the Lord, everynight, that you have a good man in your life...
I just became a member of this site, to make NEW friends, NOT, to find the love of my life; but, there are some, scary people on that board; and a lot of them are married, too; which, makes them even more pathetic; but, do not get me wrong. I know a lot of people, whom, have found "GOOD" people on dating sites and ended up having long, term relationships, even marriage; but, PlentyofLosers, makes my skin crawl. It's EVEN worse than the creepers on MySpace.:rolleyes:
At this point I just go there for the forums.
TVFactFan 11-24-2007, 03:35 PM Ha, safe, adult fun, eh?..hmmmmmmm;)
One of my 5 greatest pleasures in Life-lol
1. Sports
2, Cable/Internet
3. TV comedy
4.Telephone
5. Safe Adult Fun
LOL
Ireneparalegal 11-24-2007, 04:15 PM Irene, girl, just thank the Lord, everynight, that you have a good man in your life...
I just became a member of this site, to make NEW friends, NOT, to find the love of my life; but, there are some, scary people on that board; and a lot of them are married, too; which, makes them even more pathetic; but, do not get me wrong. I know a lot of people, whom, have found "GOOD" people on dating sites and ended up having long, term relationships, even marriage; but, PlentyofLosers, makes my skin crawl. It's EVEN worse than the creepers on MySpace.:rolleyes:
You have to go through a lot of losers to find that winner. :D God, I used to think there was something wrong with me. I would get all sorts of weirdos, fatal attractions, etc., mind you this was either while I was married or single (after my divorce). I went grocery shopping to this particular store and just happened to smile at one of the employees and from that point on, he would bug the hell out of me. He'd follow me around, he'd walk me out to my car, and this one time he gave me a poem he had written for me. Oy Vey.:crazy: :eek: I had to finally tell the manager abt him to get him to leave me alone. It just seemed like I had "admirers" everywhere and somewhere. I thought being platinum blonde was the problem. Well, even after I dyed my hair back to its natural color, it still didn't stop the weirdos. Crazy ass guys. :lol:
Ireneparalegal 11-24-2007, 04:42 PM But, how in the hell, do you fall in love with someone, just through their damn photograph!!!..oy vey, is right. My goal for 2008 is to find my future husband, PLEASE, for the love of God, please pray to the Lord, everynight, that I find him. I am so tired of this :lol:
Honey, you are asking me abt falling in love from a photograph? :lol: You have to ask the dumb-ass guys who do that!! :lol:
GOD IS LOOKING OUT FOR YOU...I will pray for that! Don't be in a hurry though, have fun searching. ;) TO ALL THOSE WEIRDOS, LAY OFF MY LADY TARA!!!!!!:mad:
podstew 11-30-2007, 05:53 PM lol, I wouldn't try, I've heard to many horror stories
TVFactFan 11-30-2007, 07:27 PM Please, do get me wrong. I have heard from a lot of people, whom, have met someone, very special on line; so, I am not againest anyone, meeting someone from the internet, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that; it is hard to meet people, face to face, and like most people, going to bars, is not their cup of tea, and, you are also going to meet as many jerks. I just had a bad experience on POF.
I decided to leave for a different reason, too many UNATTRACTIVE WOMEN-lol
isiahthomas 02-09-2008, 01:14 PM Solomon you're a loser. You go online to look for women to date instead of meeting them on the street like most people do. Why would you wanna date somebody online who you've never seen before? Most people on dating websites probably be posting fake pictures pretending to be somebody else. People who try to date online are losers anyway because they're scared to meet somebody on the street face to face. Solomon you probably only date fat ugly women don't you? I notice that when you post topics about women, you hate on attractive women like Beyonce and Queen Latifah. I've read your topic before about Queen Latifah and you dissed her talking about she's fat and she's not cute. Queen Latifah is a big woman but she's attractive. I'd rather have her as my woman than Monique.
TVFactFan 02-09-2008, 01:24 PM Solomon you're a loser. You go online to look for women to date instead of meeting them on the street like most people do. Why would you wanna date somebody online who you've never seen before? Most people on dating websites probably be posting fake pictures pretending to be somebody else. People who try to date online are losers anyway because they're scared to meet somebody on the street face to face. Solomon you probably only date fat ugly women don't you? I notice that when you post topics about women, you hate on attractive women like Beyonce and Queen Latifah. I've read your topic before about Queen Latifah and you dissed her talking about she's fat and she's not cute. Queen Latifah is a big woman but she's attractive. I'd rather have her as my woman than Monique.
I agree wth everthing you are saying which is why I don't pay for dating sites anymore
isiahthomas 02-09-2008, 01:31 PM You pay for online dating? Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Why would you even try online dating in the first place? Are you that bored? You really do need to get out more and meet women but you're probably scared because you would rather be on the computer all day and watch tv all day. Did you get a lot of girls when you were in high school? Probably not. Are you scared to approach women? If you are, don't be ashamed about that. I don't like approaching women either especially attractive women because a lot of them are stuck up and got attitudes.
GARFIELDKOOL 02-09-2008, 01:52 PM You pay for online dating? Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Why would you even try online dating in the first place? Are you that bored? You really do need to get out more and meet women but you're probably scared because you would rather be on the computer all day and watch tv all day. Did you get a lot of girls when you were in high school? Probably not. Are you scared to approach women? If you are, don't be ashamed about that. I don't like approaching women either especially attractive women because a lot of them are stuck up and got attitudes.
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
isiahthomas 02-09-2008, 01:55 PM LOL@GarfieldKool. Solomon knows i'm telling the truth about him. He's a born loser. His parents probably smacked the doctor when he was born because they knew he was gonna be a loser when he was a baby LOL.
Max Whittaker 02-09-2008, 04:35 PM LOL@GarfieldKool. Solomon knows i'm telling the truth about him. He's a born loser. His parents probably smacked the doctor when he was born because they knew he was gonna be a loser when he was a baby LOL.
Hostile much?
*ClassicPinUp* 02-09-2008, 06:55 PM Hostile much?
Yeah, really.
isiah with how critical and judgemental you are of other's looks and life... one would think that you are perfect in both areas and I'm sorry but after reading some of your posts and topics... I believe you are the last person that should be calling anyone a "loser."
Solomon can meet women any way he pleases and he's entitled to think Beyonce, Queen Latifah etc. are unattractive. Almost every guy I know also feel those are two unattractive women. Everyone has different tastes and just because you don't agree doesn't make them "losers" or mean they only date "fat, ugly women."
Isn't it time to start acting your age? :rolleyes:
TVFactFan 02-09-2008, 07:04 PM Yeah, really.
isiah with how critical and judgemental you are of other's looks and life... one would think that you are perfect in both areas and I'm sorry but after reading some of your posts and topics... I believe you are the last person that should be calling anyone a "loser."
Solomon can meet women any way he pleases and he's entitled to think Beyonce, Queen Latifah etc. are unattractive. Almost every guy I know also feel those are two unattractive women. Everyone has different tastes and just because you don't agree doesn't make them "losers" or mean they only date "fat, ugly women."
Isn't it time to start acting your age? :rolleyes:
Yeah it's hard to believe he is 30-lol More like 17
*ClassicPinUp* 02-09-2008, 07:06 PM Yeah it's hard to believe he is 30-lol More like 17
I'm thinking it's a typo :lol:
TVFactFan 02-09-2008, 07:10 PM I'm thinking it's a typo :lol:
With all the online dating going on today he was crticizing me like I'm doing something unusual-lol
We won't hear from him again until he makes it back to the Library since he has no internet at home-lol
*ClassicPinUp* 02-09-2008, 07:16 PM With all the online dating going on today he was crticizing me like I'm doing something unusual-lol
I know. I know of two couples who met online, married and are now happy families with children etc.
We won't hear from him again until he makes it back to the Library since he has no internet at home-lol
So, did you want to go and destroy any and all library computers in his area? ;) :lol:
Max Whittaker 02-09-2008, 07:18 PM I've tried online dating. Guess I'm a loser.... :crying:
Ireneparalegal 02-09-2008, 07:18 PM Just like any other kind of dating (blind dates, internet dating, meeting people at bars, etc) you have to be careful. Nothing wrong with it as long as you have your head on straight and can pick out who is for real and who is just pulling your leg. Also, be careful of the criminal elements.
Isaiah is always like that. I am not defending his actions, but if you have read many of his threads and posts, he has made it clear he has issues, mentally and other sorts. Take it with a grain of salt.
TVFactFan 02-09-2008, 07:29 PM I know. I know of two couples who met online, married and are now happy families with children etc.
So, did you want to go and destroy any and all library computers in his area? ;) :lol:
No because I enjoy Laughing at him-lol
*ClassicPinUp* 02-09-2008, 07:31 PM No because I enjoy Laughing at him-lol
Okay, I gotcha lol.
TVFactFan 02-09-2008, 07:31 PM Just like any other kind of dating (blind dates, internet dating, meeting people at bars, etc) you have to be careful. Nothing wrong with it as long as you have your head on straight and can pick out who is for real and who is just pulling your leg. Also, be careful of the criminal elements.
Isaiah is always like that. I am not defending his actions, but if you have read many of his threads and posts, he has made it clear he has issues, mentally and other sorts. Take it with a grain of salt.
Getting mad at what Isiah says is like getting mad at a infant making a mess in their pampers
LOL-LOL
Ireneparalegal 02-09-2008, 07:37 PM Getting mad at what Isiah says is like getting mad at a infant making a mess in their pampers
LOL-LOL
:lol:
You got a way with words sometimes Solomon. :lol:
TVFactFan 02-09-2008, 07:40 PM :lol:
You got a way with words sometimes Solomon. :lol:
LOL, it's the truth
Ireneparalegal 02-09-2008, 07:42 PM LOL, it's the truth
Damn! You sound like my boyfriend. That is what he tells me when I tell him that. :lol:
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