View Full Version : Why did this Girl take it out on me that a guy tried to have sex with her????


TVFactFan
10-01-2007, 11:14 AM
I met a girl online friday and we been chatting back and forth so she had a date with a guy this past weekend and like a IDIOT went to his house and sent me a email like this when I woke up this morning

"I just want to say if you are looking for sex or abnything sexual i'm not the one. I went on a date with a guy this weekend and he was trying to have sec with me. Si let me know now if you are all about sex"


HUH??_lol First of all I don't want to hear about a date he JUST went on when I just met her on Friday and why take out the frustration on me when she put herself in a situation so a guy can make the movex on her?


SHOULD I CONTINUE TALKING TO HER??

Holly
10-01-2007, 11:31 AM
I met a girl online friday and we been chatting back and forth so she had a date with a guy this past weekend and like a IDIOT went to his house and sent me a email like this when I woke up this morning

"I just want to say if you are looking for sex or abnything sexual i'm not the one. I went on a date with a guy this weekend and he was trying to have sec with me. Si let me know now if you are all about sex"


HUH??_lol First of all I don't want to hear about a date he JUST went on when I just met her on Friday and why take out the frustration on me when she put herself in a situation so a guy can make the movex on her?


SHOULD I CONTINUE TALKING TO HER??


I wouldn't talk to her anymore sound's like a player I mean if if you guys just met on Friday online, then she met another guy over the weekend in my opionion i don't think she know's what she want's , yanno? Just keep your head up, and if she is not the right girl for you , there's more out there....
If she's all about S Then forget her, you want a girl who cares about you , and likes to hang out , and thing's that you both like to do.. .. good luck.

TVFactFan
10-01-2007, 11:34 AM
I wouldn't talk to her anymore sound's like a player I mean if if you guys just met on Friday online, then she met another guy over the weekend in my opionion i don't think she know's what she want's , yanno? Just keep your head up, and if she is not the right girl for you , there's more out there....
If she's all about S Then forget her, you want a girl who cares about you , and likes to hang out , and thing's that you both like to do.. .. good luck.


I said that she wanted to know was I all about SEX because of the Guy she met on Saturday who was trying to push up on her.

Already Gone
10-01-2007, 11:40 AM
I wouldn't continue talking to her anymore if that's how she's going to act towards you.

Holly
10-01-2007, 12:09 PM
I said that she wanted to know was I all about SEX because of the Guy she met on Saturday who was trying to push up on her.


ok, Sorry i read it wrong.

Brieannas21
10-01-2007, 12:24 PM
I thought that you said that you don't take people you met online serious. So why take her serious? I say continue to talk to her since you won't take her serious (as you say) and just go out on a few dates and have fun.

catlover79
10-01-2007, 01:31 PM
I say drop her like a hot potato and run!!

Madame X
10-01-2007, 01:42 PM
Warning, Will Robinson!

NOVARick
10-01-2007, 04:58 PM
Here's how I'd respond: No, I'm not out looking for sex and I can't see how anything I've stated to you could make you think that I am. What I am looking for is a nice person who shares my values, someone I can have fun hanging out with and see if things click for us. I also am looking for someone who is stable and has a good idea of what she wants, not someone who is reeling in all the fish in the pond so she can have her choice of what she wants (eenie, meanie, minie, moe), then throw all the rest back. In short, I don't want to be played because it always happens that when people get played, the only one who winds up with a guarantee of not getting the short end of the stick and not getting hurt is the player. That's not fair. So rather than take the risk of being hurt, I think we should call it a day and move on.

I met a girl online friday and we been chatting back and forth so she had a date with a guy this past weekend and like a IDIOT went to his house and sent me a email like this when I woke up this morning

"I just want to say if you are looking for sex or abnything sexual i'm not the one. I went on a date with a guy this weekend and he was trying to have sec with me. Si let me know now if you are all about sex"


HUH??_lol First of all I don't want to hear about a date he JUST went on when I just met her on Friday and why take out the frustration on me when she put herself in a situation so a guy can make the movex on her?


SHOULD I CONTINUE TALKING TO HER??

TVFactFan
10-01-2007, 07:40 PM
Well I decided to move on, I just didn't appreciate how she came off to me, especially when she was responding to me saying

"DID YOU HAVE A NICE WEEKEND?

Ireneparalegal
10-01-2007, 07:41 PM
"I just want to say if you are looking for sex or abnything sexual i'm not the one. I went on a date with a guy this weekend and he was trying to have sec with me. Si let me know now if you are all about sex" SHOULD I CONTINUE TALKING TO HER??

She isn't worth your time, you could do better.

TVFactFan
10-01-2007, 07:44 PM
Is that ^^^^ her words EXACTLY? I mean, I am asking abt the spelling errors and so forth. Because if she wrote you that email, she has bigger problems than men and sex. She needs HOOKED ON PHONICS. :eek: :crazy: Do you really want a girl who can't write?



No I forgot to edit my post-lol

Ireneparalegal
10-01-2007, 07:45 PM
Ok, let me edit mine then.

Courtnee
10-01-2007, 09:31 PM
I really don't see how she was rude or whatever. She just wants to know if youre in it because you want to be in a relationship or just in her pants.

TVFactFan
10-01-2007, 10:16 PM
I really don't see how she was rude or whatever. She just wants to know if youre in it because you want to be in a relationship or just in her pants.


But she has no control of that becauase someone can always lie. So she just has to learn how to just relax nd just say-"I:M NOT ITO THAT" if approached for sex. nOt send me a crazy email asking am I into sex?-lol I can just easily lie and say-"NO WAY"-lol

OH Nuts!
10-02-2007, 01:37 AM
She isn't worth your time, you could do better.

I'd listen to Irene-she's a smart cookie with a great take on things.

ThomasE
10-06-2007, 10:35 AM
Solomon, you already know what you need to do. No brainer here.

TVFactFan
10-06-2007, 01:30 PM
Solomon, you already know what you need to do. No brainer here.


I live by a new Philisophy now when it comes to Dating


"DON'T CHASE EM, JUST REPLACE EM"



LOL