hey im confused about this episode it said fred and his friends have a party to cheer up aunt esther i watched it and Aunt esther was never at the party it was not even about her anyone know what the deal was.

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Fred, his friends, and family had just returned from attending a funeral for one of their friends or cousin can't remember which. Aunt Esther wasn't at the party because of the drinking they would be doing, remember she's very religious and doesn't drink. That's why she wasn't at the party.

i know that the title of the show didnt make sense that all but was funny episode

"The old grey dudes they aint what they use to be"...and Lamont did the little dance at the end because they were out before Fast Fanny showed up with the girls..........That was a classic. They were doing their dances and stuff....

Yes I understand what you're talking about. Sometimes on other sitcoms (seinfeld) I've noticed titles and episode descriptions that didn't match at all the actual episode. This is one of those.