View Full Version : My best friend was raped last night
Kay Scarpetta 07-11-2007, 05:13 PM Ugh guys... this is horrible. I was at the movies last night with a friend when one of my best friends called me, hysterical. This kid that we know and had hung out with a few times forced her into the backseat of her car and raped her, then threatened to kill her several times if she ever told the cops and if I said something, said he'd "get me" too. She called me because she didn't know what to do, she wanted to go to the cops but was petrified. I left the movies right away and we went to the hospital to get a rape kit done, and they provided her with antibiotics incase the scum had an STD, and the morning-after pill incase he could have gotten her pregnant.
We were at the hospital from midnight-5:30 this morning, then the police station from 5:30-10 this morning to make statements and have CSI process her car. Because she called me first as well as me knowing the kid, I was the first complaintent... they had to take all my info, my SSN, my statement, so if this goes to court I'm going to be subpoenaed. We were able to give ample descriptions, first names/aliases, the street he lived on. He wasn't in any of the mugshots we looked at, but I really hope the cops pick this guy up and he goes to jail. My heart breaks for Britt, she's like my sister to me. This whole thing is a nightmare.
Please pray for both of us... mostly for her, but for me too. I've never been wrapped up in an investigation like this before and frankly, it makes me nervous... but I'm going to step up and do whatever I need to do to help her.
Lex Luthor 07-11-2007, 05:21 PM What a horrible thing to have to deal with, I am glad she has such a reliable and carryign friend to be there with her through this.
How old was the guy who did this? I really hope they throw the book at him but it is never enough to pay for the damage he has caused.
Your friend Britt will need tons of support and sounds like she already has alot from you. I hope you and Britt find all the strength you need during the recovery process.
Chelsea 07-11-2007, 05:33 PM Karly, you and your friend are in my thoughts and prayers. Your friend is going to need a lot to get through this, but you're a great friend, and having you there for her will go a long way.
(And I echo the sentiments of Senior in regards to what happens to the scumbag who did this)
Mr. Television 07-11-2007, 05:37 PM You and your friend are in my thoughts and prayers Karly. I hope they catch the animal and he fries.
GoldenGirlsFan92 07-11-2007, 05:56 PM I'm sorry to hear this. I hope you & your friend, get better. I also hope they catch the creep who did this.
Already Gone 07-11-2007, 06:00 PM Karly, I'm sorry to hear what happened to your friend Britt. I will definitely keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. I'm with Senior on how the bastard should be dealt with.
Nighthawk76 07-11-2007, 06:01 PM I'm very sorry. :( What a terrible thing to have happened. :(
coffield3 07-11-2007, 06:02 PM WTF!! omg im so extremely sorry for what has happened to your friend!! this is serious this guy should be shot! Please please make sure this guy gets arrested etc!! this is sick again im so sorry.
I hope your friend is ok i know she will have people like you around her and family at this time.
Please let us know whats going on i feel sick to my stomach!! xxx
This is such a terrible thing to have happen, hope she'll be ok.:(
Janice 07-11-2007, 06:07 PM Karly, you and Britt will both be in my prayers. This is going to affect her for the rest of her life, and you too. She's going to need all the support in the world. The creep will get caught, I'm sure. Imagine if this was a total stranger who was never caught. My God, what a heartbreaking story. I'm so sorry you're all going through this.
:bighug:
-*Forever*- 07-11-2007, 06:37 PM That's TERRIBLE. Oh my God. I will definitely pray for you both, and I hope the dickface gets what he deserves. I'm so sorry that this happened. :bighug:
consentida 07-11-2007, 07:50 PM Wow, that is absolutley horrible. Its so sad that things like this happen. I will definitely keep you both in my thoughts. Be strong. :hug:
Hollow 07-11-2007, 07:56 PM i'm so glad you went to the police. rapists who make such threats to their victims don't realize that the police can protect those victims from anyone who is threatening them, and unfortunately, many of the victims don't realize it either.
i hope she can get some kind of help to get through this emotionally, and the guy ends up in jail for a long time. that's so disgusting and sad.
Ireneparalegal 07-11-2007, 07:56 PM Thank God you both did the right thing. Scum like that need to know they can't go around raping girls and threatening them. I pray she will recover from this nightmare. The emotional toll I am sure will be one that will take a very long time for her to recover from, if at all. Thank God she survived. Too many bastards rape and kill their victims. I am sorry she had to suffer such a traumatic "experience". I am also thankful she had you for a friend to run to. I am sure you will do your best to help her through this. I pray for her recovery and I also hope that scumbag gets caught and gets thrown in prison for a long time. GOD BE WITH HER.
phoebe7165 07-11-2007, 08:05 PM I can't imagine a more traumatizing experience for a woman to have to go through. I'm sorry about what happened to your friend. It's so nice that she has a great friend like you to help her try to get through it. My thoughts & prayers are with you both.
snl 70s show fan 07-11-2007, 08:23 PM i will say prayers for you and your friend karly im so very sorry that she had to go thru such a horrorable experence like that and as for the scumbug who did this im with seinor on what should be done with him my prayers and thoughts are with you both
PZelda 07-11-2007, 08:37 PM Karly, that is just awful that you and Britt are going through this. Nobody deserves to go through such a traumatic experience. :( I'll be sending positive vibes your way - I want you guys to kick some serious ass, and to see this scumbag get sent to jail. This guy is a major nutbag. :mad:
I like Senior's idea of what should be done with that piece of ****. Teehee.
coffield3 07-11-2007, 08:37 PM Please let us know any updates on your dear friend!!
*Pleasant Tomorrow* 07-11-2007, 08:58 PM Ugh, that is absolutely terrible. I'm so sorry your friend had to go through that. You're a wonderful person for helping her like that, and I hope for the best for both of you and that you'll get through this okay. :bighug:
Kay Scarpetta 07-11-2007, 09:25 PM Thank you guys so much. I feel bad worrying about myself when she's going through all this, but no one's ever threatened to kill me before. I'm worried.
Thing is, she has no family. Her father lives in Boston, her mom in South Carolina, she lives with her older brother near me, who's an alcoholic... we met in NA, so she's struggling with addiction as well... she came up here from BTown to try and straighten out... I don't want her falling off the deep end. They don't have health insurance, so I'm trying to see if she can get MassHealth or something. I want her to see my psychiatrist. This whole thing is such a mess, I love her so much.
Thank you guys again for the support and prayers.
dawsongirl 07-11-2007, 09:40 PM ********s like this need to have their balls cut off and shoved right down their throat!! THEN put into the electric chair for a nice mild jolt of electricity. Nothing leathal. THEN put into a cell with some scum named Bubba, who's 6' 7", 300lbs, and who hasn't had sex in 10 years to be his play toy!!
I was going to say something similar. Chop off his dick, roast it, and make him eat it. And then torture him until he very slowly bleeds to death.
People like this guy don't deserve to live.
Way to go Karly...you are much braver than I. Though I don't know why I should be cowardly...I'd want the ass to fry too.
coffield3 07-11-2007, 09:47 PM I was going to say something similar. Chop off his dick, roast it, and make him eat it. And then torture him until he very slowly bleeds to death.
People like this guy don't deserve to live.
Way to go Karly...you are much braver than I. Though I don't know why I should be cowardly...I'd want the ass to fry too.
I agree think of hostel 2
Mikado 07-11-2007, 10:37 PM Sorry to hear of this, but, you made the right decision going to the Police....the next time he might be even more violent and someone could wind up dead....I hope he goes to prison a long time.
freshprinceofLA 07-12-2007, 01:28 AM my goodness!! that's really sad and terrible!!! some people are just sick thesedays I hope they catch teh sick idiot!!! I PRAY FOR THE SAFETY OF YOU AND YOUR FRIEND:wave: stay safe!
Max Whittaker 07-12-2007, 03:10 AM This is horrible!
I hope you realize how special a friend you are to her. She called you. And you were there. There is nothing more important in life's hard times than a friend you can truly count on. Don't underestimate it.
Karen* 07-12-2007, 03:37 AM My heart sunk when I saw the title of this thread. :( It's such a scary thing and it could happen to anyone, but no one deserves to get raped. I hope the bastard gets thrown in jail. >.< My prayers go out to your friend and you ... hang in there. :bighug: :heart:
Corolla 07-12-2007, 08:19 AM ********s like this need to have their balls cut off and shoved right down their throat!! THEN put into the electric chair for a nice mild jolt of electricity. Nothing leathal. THEN put into a cell with some scum named Bubba, who's 6' 7", 300lbs, and who hasn't had sex in 10 years to be his play toy!!
Exactly.
@OP: I can't even imagine what you and your friend have went through because of that. I'll definitely pray that the guy goes to prison and nothing happened to your friend.
Mr. Cranky 07-12-2007, 10:31 AM ********s like this need to have their balls cut off and shoved right down their throat!! THEN put into the electric chair for a nice mild jolt of electricity. Nothing leathal. THEN put into a cell with some scum named Bubba, who's 6' 7", 300lbs, and who hasn't had sex in 10 years to be his play toy!!
Not quite as harsh as I prefer but it's a start. :D Karly sorry you and your friend are in this hell.
ABlairican Pie 07-12-2007, 12:31 PM Hi, Karly, sorry I hadn't posted sooner, so wrapped up in my rock and roll festivities these past couple days, I just found out about this now. This is so sad that you and your family and friends have had to endure all this insanity for so long all year or so. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend, this is so terrible, just unthinkable. And I am so sorry that I've been late in responding to this, I want you to know that I am thinking of you all the time and wanting the best for you in everything. I don't want to seem in any way insensitive to whatever you're going through. It is so hard to think of your friend being so violated and threatened with cruelty. For a young person, this messes up their lives no end. We have all had these experiences, even myself when I was younger, when we were abused and molested, or worse, that affects our lives we are not even aware of. I pray that God would intervene in her trauma, bring peace and help her back on the way to wholeness. I also hope and pray that the subhuman slime who did this will taste justice and have their punishment meted out a thousand times over what they did to her. I hope that she would find counselling and support in this situation. I don't know what to say, this is such a messed-up deal that I hope you understand what I'm trying to say here.
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I am Roboto 07-12-2007, 01:08 PM Not quite as harsh as I prefer but it's a start. :D Karly sorry you and your friend are in this hell.
I think many instances of rape should constitute a capital crime, but I'm old-fashioned that way.
I wish the best for your friend and yourself.
Kay Scarpetta 07-12-2007, 04:14 PM Thanks again guys... I JUST woke up, 4 in the afternoon. I think the other night killed me with no sleep. I'm still trying to just process this whole thing. It's a nightmare.
Corolla 07-12-2007, 06:43 PM Thanks again guys... I JUST woke up, 4 in the afternoon. I think the other night killed me with no sleep. I'm still trying to just process this whole thing. It's a nightmare.
I can't imagine what you and your friend are going through. :(
Dr. John Becker 07-12-2007, 07:23 PM I'm really sorry your friend has to go through such a terrible thing. My thoughts and prayers are with you both, and I hope the guy who did this gets 20 years in a prison cell.
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